"Sticking with the status quo can make it hard to learn and improve at anything. The way in which people get better at things, at anything, is to take soem risks and constantly change the level of expectation. When faced with a decision, the brain computes the probabilities of potential outcomes by gathering information from both the current environment and our past experiences about each choice, and then weighing each alternative with a subjective value based on our needs, wants, beliefs, and goals. By taking all these variables into account, we can make sensible choices that will help us further our goals. To be a good decision-maker, cut to the core of a problem and break down complex situations into the most basic things. Focus on the things you should be focused on while you make those decisions. Adults can learn from opening themselves up to unbridled possibility such as tenns who have the kind of motivation to allow them to try, no matter what obstacles they face. Teens risk, learn, and grow, and believe that they can do anything. By better understanding the interaction of your innate predispostiion to risk-taking and the way you navigate your environment, you hold the power to take charge and make risk work to your best advantage. Partake in deliberate practice in which you practice at the edge of your performance ability. This means you are going to continually fail, but get right back up and try again. Deliberate practice is the model for getting really good at something, workig to the point where you can eventually gain expertise. Working right around the edge really helps you learn and progress. Practice also makes your brian work more efficiently. Before you decide to take a risk in a particular arena, it pays to practice, to learn, to gain all that vital experience, so that your intuition and unconscious processing systems are workig for you, rather than against you. it is important to appreciate the subtle power of affect and feeling on our decisions. It has the power to influence our decisions in ways we are not always aware of. Affect can also help us better assess risk in some situations. Over time, we learn from our past emotional experiences so we can call up some affect, or the essence of emotion, to inform our decisions without elevating the heart rate. This makes the decision-making process much more efficient, both physiologically and cognitively. Once you fail or get negative feedback as you are trying to reach a goal, you are more likely to persist with your goal when you perceive that you have control and can avoid future setbacks or negative feedback. When you have control, and you know what you have to do, that negative feedback can drive you to persist more and to work harder to achieve your goal. There will always be risk in any decision. There will always be factors that are unknown and outside our control. The best we can do is risk enough over time, and gain the requisite knowledge, so we understand just what those factors are and whether we are personally willing to deal with the potential consequences. We can make risk work for us, but doing so requires knowledge, focus, and awareness.
Lessons:
1. Reset Your Defintion of Risk
Risk-taking is part of normal decision-making. Successful risk-taking is simply about being willing to explore alternatives. When you do that, you learn from your experiences. You learn to adapt your behavior so you know how to weigh the risks against the consequences. And, over time, by taking some risks--in the context of a logn-term goal--you learn how to make better decisions. Risk-taking is also necessary because it serves as an integral part of the brain's learning system. It is there to push on boundaries and help us learn and adapt. Sticking with the status quo does us no favors. Risk taking offers us potential to make the right changes to successfully go after the things we want most and need in life.
2. Know What You Can't Change
Knowing what you can't change--who you are and how you innately respond to risk--leads to better, smarter choices when you consider a risky decision. It can help you learn when to let go and when to press on. It can also help put risk in proper context, so you can leverage it to achieve your long-term goals.
3. Know What You Can Change
Consider the environmental factors that we encounter and what we can alter as needed. Functional risk-taking is about reasoned risks and an adjusted temporal horizon. A successful risk-taker is taking risks that help him move toward a long-term goal. Successful risk-takers are planners by nature. They visualize success and focus on the big picture. They understand that any big move is only a series of smaller steps. They take their time, prepare, and take only the risks that help them reach their larger, long-term goals. If it is something you decide to pursue, practice deliberately. Learn how to adapt your mind and body to the situation at hand. Practice enough so that you can build thekind of intutition you can count on. Practice so that you can develop decision-making heuretics and habits that will help you learn, grow, and ultimately, choose wisely. When faced with a risk, take a step back and, as objectively as possible, consider how your social connections may be driving your focus. Utilize cognitive strategies to engage the slow-thinking system to balance out the faster one when you are overwhelmed by stress or emotion. This will lead to better decisions all around. When faced with failure, recover by regulating your emotional response to it, place errors in the proper context, and learn what you can from those mistakes to better reach your ultimate goal.
4. Take the Leap
Risk-taking is about challenging yourself a bit so you can accrue wisdom and help your brain become a better, more efficient prediction machine. It is about keeping your brain sharp and being prepared to deal with whatever life throws at you. It is about recognizing the importance of context, running collected data through both your fast and slow systems, and coming up with the best decision with the information at hand. By knowing yourself and what you want most from life, as well as knowing how your environment can influence you as you try to reach those goals, you have the power to take charge of risk and follow it to more success."