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Rules for Dating a Married Man: How to Be a Good Mistress ~ An Essential Guide for Having an Affair With a Married Man

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If you want to be the perfect mistress and avoid the common pitfalls of an affair with a married man, then this book is for you! Read on your PC, Mac, smart phone, tablet, or Kindle device. Women who are involved in an affair with a married man often have to walk a balanced tightrope between satisfying their own needs as well as those of the man with whom they're involved. For most women, these affairs usually turn out to be nerve-wracking experiences meandering among emotions such as excitement, thrill, and the fears of rejection and abandonment. This is primarily because these women often don't understand what her partner truly wants from her, emotionally, physically, or even psychologically. The biggest problem in such an arrangement is that one person often holds more psychological power than the other — and it's usually the married one. This particular imbalance doesn't typically exist - to such a tangible degree - in conventional relationships where both parties involved have equal amounts to lose or gain. It is this imbalance which often leaves one or both parties confused about their roles and the dynamics in the affair. The purpose of this book is to help you figure out exactly what your man wants (and needs) from you, and to help you to meanwhile enjoy your life while maintaining your own sense of integrity and self-esteem. So, for all of you ladies who enjoy walking the spicier road of life, this book will not only help you fulfill your desire of becoming the perfect mate to your married companion, but it will also help you avoid the pitfalls that usually accompany such relationships. While this book may be targeted primarily toward women in heterosexual relationships, the lessons within it are equally applicable to men as well, irrespective of your sexual orientation. Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Learn...Remembering Why Men Have AffairsWorking On YourselfBeing Around HimDiscretion – The Ultimate WatchwordTaking Care of YourselfMuch, much more!Download your copy today!

20 pages, Kindle Edition

First published May 4, 2015

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10 reviews1 follower
June 25, 2018
Seems like it was written in the 1920s

Keep yourself fit and in good shape. Always look your best for your married man! What on earth is this author thinking? Have his favourite food and drinks stocked in your fridge for when he visits. I learnt nothing but felt very much the weaker sex when I had finished reading.
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41 reviews
June 6, 2019
Interesting

There are a lot of very good things brought to light in this book. I understand a few things, much better, and even if I don't want to believe some of it would apply to my relationship, it probably is accurate and now I know what to do and not do!! THANK YOU FOR THE INSIGHT. I really needed it right now!!!
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June 23, 2019
Rules reviewed

Reviewing the rules for choosing to have an affair with a married man, even though they were already known from a long ago experience. Although circumstances are a bit different.
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May 20, 2025
very informative

He gives lots of good points to consider both in the shared experience with a married man and especially Taking care of yourself in a situation that is less than ideal
2 reviews
May 5, 2020
Good read

Has very good advice and alot of factual information when it comes to being the other woman...... Always remember don't lose you...
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November 26, 2020
Very Good Book

This book was very well written. Lots of good advice, tell you what & what not to do. Worth the download, I enjoyed this book.
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22 reviews4 followers
February 24, 2017
The ONLY reason I gave the book such a low rating was because it was way too short. I'm not "the other woman" but I thought I'd give this book a chance since I love psychology and knowing what's going on in the minds of others.

Turns out that it gave me an insight into what my spouse could be looking for or missing out on.... so not just a "know how to...." book.
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36 reviews17 followers
March 19, 2019
A handy little guidbook for those of us who may find our selfes playing the part of the "Other Women".

A will not comment on the morailty of such an arrangement I will only say that they do happen and it pays to be prepared.
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