The day I read the blurb of Bullet Nani, I knew I had to read it and I knew I’d fly through the pages! I was deeply moved by the resilience, power, strength, and determination of every protagonist in this book who refused to bow down to society. Bullet Nani is literally one of the most beautifully written books I’ve ever read because it captures the spirit of our GRANNIES. Yes, our grey-haired, full-of-love, heart-on-their-sleeves humans who are such an integral part of our lives. But do we really know what they’ve endured, fought against, and triumphed over to become who they are today?
Bullet Nani is about some of the most extraordinary grannies from every corner of this country, irrespective of their race, background, or religion, who turned out to be absolute trailblazers. Jasreen travels across the country to interview these incredible women as they share their achievements, the remarkable lives they’ve lived, and how it’s always possible to rise from the ashes if you’re willing to! Each granny shares her childhood memories, the struggles she fought through during a time when women weren’t expected to be at the forefront, and how she not only survived but went on to achieve extraordinary things. 💪❤️
There are stories of 12 grannies, and I was thoroughly hooked to every single chapter because each one left me with goosebumps and so much joy. Reading about how they challenged a deeply patriarchal society and some became the first in their families to shine brighter was incredibly inspiring. Some became doctors, police officers, war-zone medics, while others became winemakers, nuclear scientists, models, and even YouTubers!!!
MIND YOU, think about the era they came from.
At the end of every chapter, each Nani shares a piece of advice for the younger generation. The prose is incredibly simple and easy to read and it captures the authenticity and essence of every story so beautifully that I could literally feel the emotions, as if I were sitting across from each Nani while she shared her childhood memories with me. 🥹❤️
Each family has time for a grandmother to tell a story that we all have heard many times but none have actually listened to. Bullet Nani is precisely the opposite of such a story. It raises a seemingly straightforward question of what would happen if we stopped treating these grandmothers as characters of our own lives and started looking at them as protagonists of their own destinies?
Jasreen Mayal Khanna's book consists of twelve stories which cannot be considered in the context of classic inspirational literature. In none of them success is presented as some sort of destination, and none of these stories present adversity as some problem to be solved. Each chapter introduces us to a life full of contradictions, a woman who has decided to be a trauma surgeon choosing war over comfort, an entrepreneur who rebuilds not only a company but also his legacy, a scientist, an IPS officer, an entrepreneur, women who negotiate family, ambition, public opinion and ageing without being limited by the identities they created. They are not famous but they are all worth the fame!
Thankfully, this book does not simplify the lives of its protagonists and the best editorial decisions of the book is found at the end of each chapter. Far from being ornamental conclusions, these few paragraphs acquire the weight of whole decades spent in travelling through life. Age in this book is not just the measure of years passed but a specific perspective on the sense of accomplishment.
These women inevitably reminded me of my own grandmother whose quiet strength formed our family in ways I understood long after her death as I grew older. Reading Bullet Nani helped me understand that there are countless other women like them, whose achievements remain unnamed in books but travel down generations nevertheless. It is only in retrospect that one starts to understand how much of our independence was passed to us rather than just created.