همسر مناسب شما: همسرتان را از تیپ شخصیتی مناسب خود انتخاب کنید

by Paul D. Tieger, مهدی قراچه‌داغی (Translator)

Discover how the secrets of Personality Type can enliven your love life! Learn the real reason why your strong quiet type has trouble expressing his feelings. Or why your social butterfly is always flirting...or why the neatnik in your life just can't leave that dirty sock where it is...or why the hopeless romantic really is blinded by the stars in his eyes. Whether you're evaluating a new relationship or looking to strengthen the one you have, this savvy guide will provide fresh insight into the mysteries of love. Barbara Barron-Tieger and Paul Tieger explain that it's not gender but personality type - your natural tendency to be outgoing or quiet, methodical or whimsical--that rules the way men and women relate. Drawing on twenty years of experience as well as groundbreaking new research, they explain everything you need to know about Personality Type, and offer an individualized approach to improving your love life. Once you've discovered which personality type describes you and your partner (or potential partner) best, you'll recognize your own behavior patterns, understand more about your partner's strengths and quirks, and learn

Genres: Psychology, Nonfiction, Self Help, Relationships, Marriage, Reference

496 pages, Unknown Binding

First published January 14, 2000

About the author

Through his ground-breaking book Do What You Are, Paul Tieger changed how career counseling is conducted around the world. The author of five books on Personality type and the preeminent expert in this field, Paul has helped over one million people find career satisfaction and success. On any given day, Do What You Are is the most or second most popular career book on Amazon.com.

from http://www.personalitytype.com/blog/

Reviews

[Ahmad hosseini · Rating 5 out of 5]

عنوان: همسر مناسب شما
نویسندگان: باربارا و پاول تیگر
مترجم: مهدی قراچه داغی
496 صفحه
ناشر: نقش و نگار،1390
شابک: 978-964-7002-52-3
عنوان اصلی: Just Your Type,Create the relationship you've always wanted using the secretes of personality type
موضوع: انتخاب همسر

کاربردی، ساده
کتاب فوق العاده کاربردی و مناسبی جهت آشنایی با تیپ های شخصیتی است. همچنین راهنمایی های کامل و مناسبی نیز درباره ی نحوه تعامل انواع تیپ های شخصیتی در کتاب وجود دارد. وجود جداول در کتاب در نمایش خلاصه اطلاعات و درک بهتر آنها کمک فراوانی می کند.
تاریخچه
برای تاریخچه این روش شخصیت شناسی از مقدمه کتاب که توسط دکتر علیرضا شیری نگاشته شده است استفاده می کنم.
" به سراغ رگ و ریشه تست رفتم و متوجه شدم که در زمره ابزارهای بسیار جالب ارزیابی شخصیت است که مستند به افراد بزرگی چون پروفسور کارل یونگ و دکتر دیوید کیرسی و خانم ها مایرز و بریگز می باشد ... تاریخچه تست بر می گردد به نظریه ای قدرتمند که یونگ در حوالی سال 1920 ارائه کرده است به نام تیپ های شخصیتی (Personality Types) که اکنون در مجموعه 20 جلدی آثار این دانشمند موجود می باشد."

کتاب دارای دو بخش اصلی می باشد.
بخش یک- راز موثر واقع شدن عشق
در این بخش مقدمات مرتبط با تیپ های شخصیتی بیان شده است.
"تیپ شخصیتی نظامی برای درک رفتارهای انسانی است. 16 تیپ شخصیتی متفاوت وجود دارد که جملگی به یک اندازه ارزشمندند و هر کدام نقاط قوت و ضعف خود را دارند. "
هر تیپ شخصیتی با چهار حرف معرفی می گردد گه عبارتند از:
برون گرا (E) ----- درون گرا (I)
حسی (S) ----- شمی (N)
فکری (T) ----- احساسی (F)
داوری کننده (J) ----- ملاحظه کننده (P)
به عنوان مثال: ENTP, ISFJ, INTP , ...
با مطالعه بخش اول کتاب می توانید تیپ شخصیتی خود را تشخیص دهید. تیپ شخصیتی من با مطالعه این بخش INTJ تشخیص داده شد که این به این معنی است که من درون گرا (I) هستم، تصمیمات خود را با توجه به شم و حس ششم خود اتخاذ می کنم (N)، منطقی هستم (T)، سازمان یافته هستم و به سرعت تصمیم می گیرم (J).

بخش دوم- چگونه به ریک زندگی خود عشق بورزیم.
این بخش به صورت دو به دو به بررسی تیپ های شخصیتی می پردازد. این بررسی شامل منابع شادی و نارضایتی این زوج ها را معرفی می کند و نحوه برخورد زوج ها را با یکدیگر را با استفاده از ذکر نکات رفتاری تشریح می کند.

چند نکته مهم درباره تیپ های شخصیتی:
1. هرکس با یک تیپ شخصیتی نافذ متولد می شود و این تیپ شخصیتی تا آخر عمر دست نخورده باقی می ماند.
2. همه ی گونه ها به یک اندازه ارزشمند هستند.
3. هرکس منحصر به فرد است.
4. در هر جامعه ای بعضی از گونه های شخصیتی تعدد بیشتری دارند.

لینک آزمون رایگان شخصیت شناسی به روش مایرز- بریگز (MBTI):
http://talentyab.com/assessment/mbti.php

[Jessie · Rating 5 out of 5]

Again, I am very intersted in personality traits. If you can pinpoint your spouses and your own personality type (out of 16 different combinations) then you can read about your marriage relationship. It is crazy how much of it is true. They offer up suggestions for both partners in how to make that particular combination better as a whole. It is great! I also highly recommend this one to anyone who is married.

[Leslie Jem · Rating 4 out of 5]

Very helpful; I found out that I am an INFJ.

[Reza]

Personality is very interesting for people. But in general, personality and typology methods using different tests such as DISC test or MBTI test can give good information about us. But sometimes this test fails. In "esanj site", which is of course an Iranian site in Persian, has provided good ideas to increase the power of this test.

تست MBTI ای سنج

https://esanj.ir/myers-briggs-type-in...

[Andrea Wenger · Rating 5 out of 5]

Every romance author should read this book. It's a fantastic resource for understanding what attracts different types to one another, how they come into conflict, and how they can help each other grow and develop over the course of a novel.

[Paul · Rating 5 out of 5]

Top 5 Greatest books EVER!

[Gina Lynette · Rating 5 out of 5]

Incredibly insightful. If you love Myers-Briggs, this will be right up your alley.

[Ordibehesht · Rating 5 out of 5]

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[Elahe · Rating 3 out of 5]

نگرفتم خیلی...

[Heather · Rating 3 out of 5]

More like 3/5 stars. A lot of review information, but the cross section on personality combinations was very interesting.

[Pamela · Rating 3 out of 5]

Some folks just don't sync. This book won't help much, as it recommends becoming more (faking?) of what you are not.

[Shahab Nasri · Rating 5 out of 5]

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[Nga · Rating 1 out of 5]

I will start off by stating that I am a true hopeless romantic. Now with that being said, I believe each individual is different and unique in their own way. You can group us by categories (men, women, children, teens, etc) or by features (blonde, brunette, etc) , but to group types of people based off of our personality types and relationship skills is very hard to do if impossible.

I read this book because I dated a man who believed this book would help him bridge the gap and help him form a better relationship with me. However, I found that I could fit into many of the categories they suggested. Also when I did my self assessment, he and I ended up with different personality types for me. It is suppose to help you realize your weaknesses and strengths when it comes to relationships. It also helps predict future problems that could possibly cause strife in your relationship. Needless to say, I found this book quite useless and wouldn't recommend this to anyone. My poor ex boyfriend wanted so badly to be able to form a better relationship, but unfortunately no one can predict how your life is going to be. I can say "hey you worry about money and she likes to shop. I predict financial difficulties later on so you will both need to be weary when it comes to your own personal and combined finances" Should I get a crystal ball and set up shop at the fair? No.

If you want help, I suggest therapy. It is better to talk to a professional who can help you sort through your problems and work out your problems instead of you trying to do it all on your own with a silly book. Or if you can't afford therapy, good friends can also help do the trick. This book didn't help him and it didn't help me. Hopefully it did someone else because it is quite a popular book.

[CrystalIsReading on StoryGraph · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book, like all the books by the Baron-Tiegers, is a great book. I did not read every single page, because I'm not every single couple combination possible, which is what this book spells out. there is a chart after the introductions and explanations of type and type interaction that breaks couples' combinations down by page. Find you and your partner's type combination and flip to that page. It was almost uncanny how accurate and insightful the comments were, and the authors not only describe what already is, but also give excellent advice for how to maximize the differences and similarities of your pairing. This book was so insightful even my anti-personality-type husband was wowed by it! an excellent tool for anyone who would like to make their relationship run even smoother--and who wouldn't?

[Heather · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book is about the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types. It helps you understand yourself, and if you can figure out people in your life, it helps you understand them, too. I love learning about personality types and find this book interesting.

[Kristina · Rating 3 out of 5]

It was okay. It was informative and I do see the merit in using type to improve your relationships. I'm not too keen on using type to find love relationships. I think in the real world it would end up disastrous for the most part.

[Mohammad Linux · Rating 5 out of 5]

هرچند هنوز ازدواج نکردم، اما الان هم کمک کرد بتونم هم‌اتاقیم رو بهتر درک کنم و بهتر به او احترام بگذارم
به همراه کتاب شغل مناسب شما، تونستم رفتارهایی از دوستانم رو که ناخوشآیند می‌دونستم رو درک کنم و از اون‌ها استفاده کنم

[Courtney Willis · Rating 5 out of 5]

love this stuff so much. myers-briggs based description of intimate relationship & much of it is dead on!

[Fatemeh Majd · Rating 1 out of 5]

not for singles.