When Sarah was born with Down's Syndrome her parents, Andy and Allie Merriman, felt their world was shattered. Yet this is the triumphant story of a family's responses to Sarah, their growing love, and their learned ability to cope with other people's dismay, pity, and bafflement.
This was a fascinating and inspiring account of parents welcoming a child with Down's Syndrome into their lives. The book's biggest strength comes from the startlingly honest views of the author (and wife) about their feelings after Sarah was born and how their emotions have developed since then. Their positivity and drive shines through their story but I was struck by their frankness when talking about the confusion and apprehension they feel about the future. There are no solutions to resolving these emotions but the support that Sarah receives and the progress that she has made by the age of 5 is extremely encouraging.
I read this book when it initially came out (around 14 years ago) and just re-read it a few days ago as it is now available on Kindle.
I clearly remember reading the book the first time and being acutely aware of how honest an account this book was. Having just re-read it, I am still struck by the emotional honesty.
The book is beautifully written in terms of prose and love/respect for Sarah. I highly recommended this book.
This book really opened my eyes to other peoples needs, disabilities and Down's Syndrome. I did find it a little hard going at times, but I'm definatly very glad I read it! This book also shows that all humans, with enough stimulation and care can blossom and achieve their (personal) potential. I think everyone should be made to read this book, so they too can gain an understanding of Down's Syndrome and help lay to rest all the years of prejudice against people with it.