This is a collection of essays of the writer, Nabaneeta Dev Sen, all published at different times. Together they hold a very sensible mirror to contemporary Bengali, or rather Indian society. The themes of the essays or rather musings, are varied, ranging from topics like the words and the sounds that had left indelible marks in her childhood and young age, to playful observations about what does a kitchen say about a household, to deeply personal topics like travel, love and life.
There is an unflinching, subtle feminist tone in all the essays. The prose is rich, laden with just the right amount of emotions, entertaining and enlightening the reader. She notes that there are hardly any female humorist or satirist in Bengali literature, even stalwarts like AshaPurna Devi and Leela Majumdar, are sometimes dismissed as 'Just feminine things'. She notes that the famous poet, Shakti Chattopadhyay had once said 'what does a woman has to do with poetry'. She remarks that even pillars of Bengali literature, like Sarat Chandra and Bankim Chandra had written or said dismissing comments about women in literature or their place in society.
In a very nice, hilarious segment author notes that, it is women who identify the most with kitchen, it is women who used to spend or spend most of the time in kitchen, but ironically kitchens used to be the most shabby, poorly designed and maintained structure in a Bengali household. But when, art of the kitchen - aka cooking - is marketed, male chefs wearing dapper uniforms appear in print or in TV. When there is a monetization of cooking or advertisement of cooking, men are preferred but when daily, monotonous, regular kitchen work are concerned, women take the forefront.
This is a very nice reflection of thoughts of the author and the circumstances that had given rise to these thoughts. I should pick some more books by Nabaneeta Dev Sen later, I guess.