She “I can’t get this man to open up and talk to me!” He “All I constantly hear from her is about the things I do wrong!” Sound familiar? Cornelius Lindsey, founding pastor of Atlanta’s Gathering Oasis, has penned a bold word on the communication gap between men and women. In Decoding the Silent Man’s Language, he draws from his conversations with married, engaged, and dating couples and delivers a roadmap to restoration and reconciliation. The male mystique is unveiled for women. For men, he uncovers what and who has hit their “mute” button. This is no soapbox rant. Readers will get a candid interpretation of relationship woes that also includes a transparent look at Lindsey’s personal experiences from childhood to adulthood that have shaped the man of God he is today.
Cornelius Lindsey is an exceptional man of God. When I first became a Christian, I followed him and his wife closely. Both of them have helped with my conviction to seek God. Although I am far from walking into the covenant of marriage,it opened my eyes to the silence of all men in my life and why they do the things they do. Now instead of blaming them for their silence I look deeper and pray for them to overcome. The book truly help me decide the Silent Mans language.