Pride Month Book Review #5 - Autobiography Edition. I wanted to do a celebrity bio for Pride Month and this one has been on my shelf for awhile now. I remember picking this up in a used book store for a buck or two and although never really being a big Tab Hunter fan, I couldn’t say no to that cover- and I’m not even usually partial to blondes. Not to mention, this helps me complete my life goal of reading all the bios written by Grease 2 cast members.
As far as reading this for Pride Month, I have mixed emotions. On one hand, Mr. Hunter does discuss some of the hardships of being gay in 50’s. In fact, he tells a story that is difficult to believe in 2020 but once, before he was working as an actor, he was arrested at a party at a friend’s home just because there were too many homosexuals gathered in one place. This arrest record would come back to haunt him several times after he achieved stardom, including Warner Brothers Studios having to pay a hefty sum to keep it out of the tabloids, even though he did nothing more than go to a party in a private home. Stories such as these serve as painful reminders to us of how far we have come in our struggles.
On the other hand, Mr. Hunter seems to still have some issues with his homosexuality and definitely with the sexuality of others. He ends the book by saying that he has completely accepted himself for who he is, and still identifies himself as a God loving Catholic, but I wonder if this upbringing has scared him slightly more than he realizes. He says of his religion that it taught him denial and that is how he dealt with this sexual encounters, “I could always later deny, at least in my own mind, what I had done.” (227). Early in the book he calls a gay man he doesn’t care for a “faggot,” when he is upset one of his rich female friends is holding court he says, “with the usual hangers on and fawning fags,” and when audience members laugh too loudly watching his play with co-star Tallulah Bankhead camping it up, he chides them as “screaming queens.” He even says of his at the time boyfriend Neal, “I appreciated Neal never flaunted that he was gay and never pushed any agenda…” (275). Now I am not claiming Tab is ashamed to be gay, because clearly he feels comfortable enough to discuss it in his book, but you know- get over yourself a little Mary!
Overall the book is an interesting and fun read, that I ended up finishing in just a few days. I did not know much about Tab Hunter and I have only seen Polyester and Grease 2 out of all the movies he has made in his career. Yet this Hollywood bio has everything I want- stories about Natalie Wood, Debbie Reynolds, and Divine and John Waters. Sadly, all the stories in this book are told with a slight detachment between the author and his subjects. He reveals very little of his emotional state as his narration moves from movie to movie and lover to lover. The one thing his book is lacking is more information about his relationship with Anthony Perkins. I am fascinated about Tab’s long on again/off again affair with sexy, tall, and lanky Anthony Perkins and would have loved a book just about their love story. Tony is present throughout this book and Tab does discuss him with affection and emotion but only to the point of making me want to know more!