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Born for Life: A Midwife's Story
A nurse aide position in the local maternity annexe at the age of sixteen gave Julie a love for being with women during labour and birth and caring for mothers and their babies.
Life could not have been happier until the tragic death of her own baby in the first hour of life, led to depression, loneliness and despair.
This true story tells of Julie’s struggle to triumph over adversity and follows her journey to fulfill her dream and become the midwife she was born to be.
Life could not have been happier until the tragic death of her own baby in the first hour of life, led to depression, loneliness and despair.
This true story tells of Julie’s struggle to triumph over adversity and follows her journey to fulfill her dream and become the midwife she was born to be.
- GenresMemoirNonfictionMedical
283 pages, Hardcover
First published February 18, 2015
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Julie Watson
2 books70 followersJulie grew up in a small, rural town in New Zealand. After leaving school, she worked at the local maternity annexe as a nurse aide, which gave her a love for caring for mothers and babies. Life could not have been happier, until the death of her second baby at birth led to depression, loneliness and despair.
Julie’s first book Born for Life: A Midwife's Story follows her journey to overcome challenges and become the midwife that she was born to be. Julie hopes that her story will inspire others to follow their dreams and not give up hope.
Midwifery remains Julie’s passion. Julie loves travelling and has worked as a midwife in many countries – including Zambia, Africa where she worked at Kalene Mission Hospital.
Julie’s second book Born for Life: Midwife in Africa describes her experiences living and working in Africa. She shares her incredible journey to make a difference in the lives of African women and their babies at the most cherished time in their lives.
Julie lives in Palmerston North, New Zealand with her husband, Barry.
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Julie’s first book Born for Life: A Midwife's Story follows her journey to overcome challenges and become the midwife that she was born to be. Julie hopes that her story will inspire others to follow their dreams and not give up hope.
Midwifery remains Julie’s passion. Julie loves travelling and has worked as a midwife in many countries – including Zambia, Africa where she worked at Kalene Mission Hospital.
Julie’s second book Born for Life: Midwife in Africa describes her experiences living and working in Africa. She shares her incredible journey to make a difference in the lives of African women and their babies at the most cherished time in their lives.
Julie lives in Palmerston North, New Zealand with her husband, Barry.
https://www.amazon.com/Julie-Watson/e...
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October 7, 2015
Julie Watson wasn’t a great lover of school, so at sixteen years of age she began work in the local hospital in her home town of Pahiatua, New Zealand in the maternity annexe. She was very nervous and uncertain when starting her career, but soon she loved working with the pregnant mothers, and the amazing, awe-inspiring phenomenon of helping bring a new life into the world.
It was the 1970s when a still young Julie married her boyfriend Barry, and after a week-long honeymoon, they returned home to begin their married life. While both working at their respective jobs, they renovated their first home; then Julie fell pregnant. They were ecstatic as they both wanted a lot of children. Their first child, a son was a healthy and lively two year old when she fell pregnant again – but this pregnancy was to end in tragedy. The following years were full of loneliness and depression for Julie; but slowly her struggles made way for hope and determination.
Julie became a midwife in her thirties; her life was happy again. Barry was by her side, supporting her in all she wanted to do and her children were growing to adulthood. Julie felt the connection and knew she was finally doing what she had been meant to do all along…
Born for Life by New Zealand author Julie Watson is a heart-warming, emotional and tender memoir which is beautifully written. She writes of her own personal life and struggles, her marriage and her children. She tells us about some of her cases, describing the miracles, the wonder, the achievements. This book is not just about Julie’s life as a mid-wife; it’s about her life. I have no hesitation in highly recommending Born for Life.
With thanks to the author for my copy to read and review.
It was the 1970s when a still young Julie married her boyfriend Barry, and after a week-long honeymoon, they returned home to begin their married life. While both working at their respective jobs, they renovated their first home; then Julie fell pregnant. They were ecstatic as they both wanted a lot of children. Their first child, a son was a healthy and lively two year old when she fell pregnant again – but this pregnancy was to end in tragedy. The following years were full of loneliness and depression for Julie; but slowly her struggles made way for hope and determination.
Julie became a midwife in her thirties; her life was happy again. Barry was by her side, supporting her in all she wanted to do and her children were growing to adulthood. Julie felt the connection and knew she was finally doing what she had been meant to do all along…
Born for Life by New Zealand author Julie Watson is a heart-warming, emotional and tender memoir which is beautifully written. She writes of her own personal life and struggles, her marriage and her children. She tells us about some of her cases, describing the miracles, the wonder, the achievements. This book is not just about Julie’s life as a mid-wife; it’s about her life. I have no hesitation in highly recommending Born for Life.
With thanks to the author for my copy to read and review.
September 3, 2016
Wow, what a journey! This is such a tale of growth and maturation - from the incredible woman at the center of the story to the medical world she works within. I shook my head at the beginning, as I tried to imagine having a baby in the early 1970's. Between the differences in education, tradition, implementation, and culture, the experience of giving birth (and the practice of assisting with a birth) were nearly unrecognizable from the experience of a common-day family. Ms. Watson's personal story was honest and impactful. I cried tears of both joy and anguish with her as she shared her life experiences, including her heartfelt account of the dark and difficult years following the tragic loss of her second child. Strength and determination bloom from the hard times Ms. Watson endures, allowing her to persevere through extensive schooling so that she might better the lives of so many fellow mothers and their children. As a woman and a mother, I thank her for her passion and commitment to offering helpful and competent care for so many families, and as a reader I thank Ms. Watson for sharing her interesting and thought-provoking story.
June 14, 2018
The author draws the reader in from the outset in this compelling and sensitively written memoir. Beginning with her experiences as a nurse aide in rural New Zealand in the 1970's, she charts her journey to become a fully qualified midwife.
I was fascinated by the differences in birthing procedures and the changing attitudes towards pregnancy, unmarried mothers, home births...
Although she experienced the loss of her second child at birth, the authors love of children and her passion for her career shine throughout.
Highly Recommended.
I was fascinated by the differences in birthing procedures and the changing attitudes towards pregnancy, unmarried mothers, home births...
Although she experienced the loss of her second child at birth, the authors love of children and her passion for her career shine throughout.
Highly Recommended.
January 2, 2018
A beautiful, life affirming start to the new year. I read this book in one sitting. At the age of 16, Julie started working on a maternity ward, taking on more responsibility than a teen would today. Married young, like many in that generation, she eagerly awaited the birth of her son, who was born on the ward she worked on. The tragedy of her second child's death shaped the rest of her life as she struggled in her grief, alone and despondent. It was after the birth of her third child that she made a decision to become a registered nurse, and eventually, a midwife.
This woman has a strength many of us will never have, enduring tragedy, long work and study hours and serious illness. Julie was born to be a midwife, assisting women through their journey to motherhood. A memoir well worth reading.
This woman has a strength many of us will never have, enduring tragedy, long work and study hours and serious illness. Julie was born to be a midwife, assisting women through their journey to motherhood. A memoir well worth reading.
February 2, 2018
This book is the autobiographical account of a woman who was involved in childbirth much of her life. It took me a while to figure out where it was taking place, which I knew wasn't the USA, but wasn't sure where until it was stated eventually that it was New Zealand. That explained some of the terminology which was unfamiliar, but nonetheless, I could relate to this book on many levels. First of all, as the mother of six children, I've been through the birth process personally enough times to understand much of what was recounted for numerous birth experiences. I suppose one I had that wasn't mentioned was a posterior presentation. I was also surprised that women in labor whose membranes had ruptured were allowed in a bath, something that was a major no-no here in the USA. Other than that, most was familiar, other than names of different medications.
You really got to know the author through her experiences, some of which were heartrending, which of course life can be at times, especially with something as intense and life-changing as childbirth. She started out at the tender age of 16 as a nurse's aide, then eventually later in life went to nursing school and certified as a midwife, which she'd dreamed of doing her entire life. I could relate to that as well, having returned to college when I was 35 to pursue a physics degree and my childhood dream, then eventually starting my career at 41 years old working for NASA.
This book also made me realize that a person doesn't have to be famous to present an interesting story. I thoroughly enjoyed it throughout, eventually feeling as if I knew the author as a friend. I have thought of writing up some of my experiences, but wondered if anyone would care since I'm not famous. This story, however, demonstrated the value of stories of ordinary people who have done something remarkable. Anyone who feels as if they're too old to pursue their dreams needs to read books like this, which will remind them not to give up. However, be warned, this one has a whole bunch of somewhat graphic descriptions of the birth process, which may not be everyone's cup of tea for entertainment. Nonetheless, I enjoyed it tremendously.
You really got to know the author through her experiences, some of which were heartrending, which of course life can be at times, especially with something as intense and life-changing as childbirth. She started out at the tender age of 16 as a nurse's aide, then eventually later in life went to nursing school and certified as a midwife, which she'd dreamed of doing her entire life. I could relate to that as well, having returned to college when I was 35 to pursue a physics degree and my childhood dream, then eventually starting my career at 41 years old working for NASA.
This book also made me realize that a person doesn't have to be famous to present an interesting story. I thoroughly enjoyed it throughout, eventually feeling as if I knew the author as a friend. I have thought of writing up some of my experiences, but wondered if anyone would care since I'm not famous. This story, however, demonstrated the value of stories of ordinary people who have done something remarkable. Anyone who feels as if they're too old to pursue their dreams needs to read books like this, which will remind them not to give up. However, be warned, this one has a whole bunch of somewhat graphic descriptions of the birth process, which may not be everyone's cup of tea for entertainment. Nonetheless, I enjoyed it tremendously.
October 16, 2017
I was interested to read Julie's book as I have been researching my family history for many years now and endeavouring to put meat on the bones of my ancestors. My next step and an integral part of current day family history is the encouragement to record our own life story for the coming generations.
I admit that I was not sure how I would react to reading Julie's story as I also lost a baby soon after birth. The experience remains raw even after almost 40 years and I feel it always will. Many aspects of her story caused me to question how I handled outside pressures and influences during a time when I was quite numb with grief. Isn't hindsight a wonderful thing.
Perhaps not for everyone but I think the writing of such an emotional experience would be quite cathartic. I don't know yet if I will ever come to the point where I can do the same.
I certainly learned a lot that I never knew about midwifery and was constantly amazed at the changes that have occurred during the 1970s and 80s. Even now that I am a grandmother I am amazed at how different my daughter's birthing and child-rearing experiences are to my own.
I applaud Julie's courage in telling her story.
I admit that I was not sure how I would react to reading Julie's story as I also lost a baby soon after birth. The experience remains raw even after almost 40 years and I feel it always will. Many aspects of her story caused me to question how I handled outside pressures and influences during a time when I was quite numb with grief. Isn't hindsight a wonderful thing.
Perhaps not for everyone but I think the writing of such an emotional experience would be quite cathartic. I don't know yet if I will ever come to the point where I can do the same.
I certainly learned a lot that I never knew about midwifery and was constantly amazed at the changes that have occurred during the 1970s and 80s. Even now that I am a grandmother I am amazed at how different my daughter's birthing and child-rearing experiences are to my own.
I applaud Julie's courage in telling her story.
January 8, 2017
I read this book in one day as I couldn't put it down. A gentle read, beautifully observed and written is sharply highlighted by several tragedies that would have stopped many of us. The author's journey through pain and loss leads to a new resolve and a life changing plunge into the challenging profession of midwifery. My sadness over several chapters was definitely lifted as I read of the amazing life Julie Watson created for herself. This book deserves a quiet day, cups of tea and time for reflection.
June 18, 2016
Great story
I am an RN who worked over 20 yrs in OB and I loved working with our midwives. I have since retired to care for my aging mother. It was exciting to learn about one woman's journey to become one and it brought back many memories.
I am an RN who worked over 20 yrs in OB and I loved working with our midwives. I have since retired to care for my aging mother. It was exciting to learn about one woman's journey to become one and it brought back many memories.
December 15, 2017
Giving birth, many will consider, is just a part of life’s easy routine. Of course, in some ways it is nevertheless, it is doubtful the majority of mother’s would agree. This detailed memoir clearly shows there is much to be taken into account, and experienced, even with the most ‘straight forward’ of deliveries. The author, Julie Watson, has shared much from her own midwifery experience and knowledge which some may appreciate however, others may wish they did not know about it all, well not until it was absolutely necessary.
Despite all the interesting and informative details in this book, it is principally a memoir that records the author’s own experiences and challenges, both personal and professional. The read commences with her earlier years as a teenager setting out on her career path. Her nervous concerns regarding her ability to fulfil the duties required are affectively conveyed.
Personal and professional aspects are intermixed well and the characters encountered are drawn sufficiently for the reader to comprehend and visualise the individual participants. The professional details are interesting and informative, especially for the uninitiated. Occasionally, for some, these may prove too graphic though really interesting. Indeed there are parts that may be described as comprising ‘gore’ though, surprisingly perhaps, these are not too off putting. The inclusion of all this informative detail will help readers understand why the book has gained a few awards.
As already mentioned, besides the professional aspects, this is also, and overall, a personal memoir. The author’s own tale is full of changes and challenges both for herself and her family. There is love, disappointment, sorrow and turmoil. It would be unfair to potential readers to say too much more except this is a memoir that shows how such issues and circumstances not only impact the individual but also upon those in close proximity.
The author’s determined nature comes through especially when it comes to gaining her qualifications. Thankfully her husband, parents and in-laws were more than willing to help, particularly when children came into the picture.
As stated, the author has included a lot of informative detail. Some readers may however feel this sometimes drills down to an unnecessary level and is occasionally slightly repetitive. Though these do not interfere with the tale per se they may prove irritating for a few. Presumably the desire to ensure scenes and scenarios are effectively imparted motivated this anomaly.
This is an honest, heartfelt, authentic memoir. Besides the personal aspects which memoir readers will find interesting, it would probably also be of interest to expectant mothers and those considering a family. Though, as already suggested, some may prefer not to know or hear about the gruesome details until it is absolute necessary (pre-natal classes will cover the important aspects). Those contemplating a midwifery career may also find it a useful, illuminating read.
Despite all the interesting and informative details in this book, it is principally a memoir that records the author’s own experiences and challenges, both personal and professional. The read commences with her earlier years as a teenager setting out on her career path. Her nervous concerns regarding her ability to fulfil the duties required are affectively conveyed.
Personal and professional aspects are intermixed well and the characters encountered are drawn sufficiently for the reader to comprehend and visualise the individual participants. The professional details are interesting and informative, especially for the uninitiated. Occasionally, for some, these may prove too graphic though really interesting. Indeed there are parts that may be described as comprising ‘gore’ though, surprisingly perhaps, these are not too off putting. The inclusion of all this informative detail will help readers understand why the book has gained a few awards.
As already mentioned, besides the professional aspects, this is also, and overall, a personal memoir. The author’s own tale is full of changes and challenges both for herself and her family. There is love, disappointment, sorrow and turmoil. It would be unfair to potential readers to say too much more except this is a memoir that shows how such issues and circumstances not only impact the individual but also upon those in close proximity.
The author’s determined nature comes through especially when it comes to gaining her qualifications. Thankfully her husband, parents and in-laws were more than willing to help, particularly when children came into the picture.
As stated, the author has included a lot of informative detail. Some readers may however feel this sometimes drills down to an unnecessary level and is occasionally slightly repetitive. Though these do not interfere with the tale per se they may prove irritating for a few. Presumably the desire to ensure scenes and scenarios are effectively imparted motivated this anomaly.
This is an honest, heartfelt, authentic memoir. Besides the personal aspects which memoir readers will find interesting, it would probably also be of interest to expectant mothers and those considering a family. Though, as already suggested, some may prefer not to know or hear about the gruesome details until it is absolute necessary (pre-natal classes will cover the important aspects). Those contemplating a midwifery career may also find it a useful, illuminating read.
October 2, 2018
It was really interesting and I learned a lot about maternity wards in New Zealand back then and midwives’ work.
The author’s experiences were intriguing and they were depicted very well by her. It’s her memoir, but I felt as if I was reading a novel. Since it basically focuses on her work and doesn’t mention much about other things, I could be easily into her stories even though there are many technical terms and unfamiliar words (at least to me who hasn’t deliver a baby.) If she wrote more about her private life, family, etc., I would be overwhelmed with too much information.
I envy her who has a great, understanding husband. She made her dreams come true because of her hard work, but I think she couldn’t grab the opportunities to make an effort if her husband were not him. They are a great couple. I hope she is still doing well at work and having a good relationship with him now.
The author’s experiences were intriguing and they were depicted very well by her. It’s her memoir, but I felt as if I was reading a novel. Since it basically focuses on her work and doesn’t mention much about other things, I could be easily into her stories even though there are many technical terms and unfamiliar words (at least to me who hasn’t deliver a baby.) If she wrote more about her private life, family, etc., I would be overwhelmed with too much information.
I envy her who has a great, understanding husband. She made her dreams come true because of her hard work, but I think she couldn’t grab the opportunities to make an effort if her husband were not him. They are a great couple. I hope she is still doing well at work and having a good relationship with him now.
October 10, 2017
This is an engaging and interesting true life story. It begins in the early 1970s in a small town in New Zealand. Author Julie Watson is drawn to the nursing profession and begins as a 16-year old in a local maternity ward. She loves the challenges, but it is only as a mature student that she has the opportunity to train as a midwife, after the tragic loss of her daughter Shelley. It is this loss, which powered her to help other mothers, with her ending up running a busy clinic. Everything that Watson tackles, she gives her heart and soul to. That said, she has been blessed by having a rock of a husband, who has supported her every step of the way.
March 22, 2017
Oh, the magic in a memoir, where you can travel along and peek over the shoulder of another and see the beauty and the pain in a life as it unfolds. This story was about more than a journey of learning a vocation and those wonderful moments shared with others as you experience a brand new life enter the world. I was there when my second nephew was born and it was so incredible, but this book is about much more than that. It's about traversing a life path. It's about love, sorrow, forgiveness, endurance and perseverance to follow one's dream. And Julie found truths along the way... She pursued her heart's calling through to its desire and discovered her place in this world. It has been said that it is truly more blessed to give than to receive. I believe the author has lived that truth. A beautiful account that is well written, honest and transparent. I so appreciated its sincerity and authenticity.
September 23, 2017
I loved this. I loved the Call the Midwife series so I was particullary interested in this story. This is Julie's story of working maternity in New Zealand in the early 70's and how the changing times affected her and her career. She also addresses her own trauma, having lost her second child. All in all, a fast moving, enjoyable read. I would highly recommend this.
August 24, 2015
A wonderful memoir, I enjoyed it so much!
I received a free copy from the author in return for an honest review. The book didn't take any 'getting into', it had a great start and was just up my street! I was soon hooked on this book! It was brilliant! It starts as she's helping deliver her first baby as a nurse aide. This mother will be staying in hospital for the next week or so; the book starts in the early 70s, new mothers don't even stay in hospital now-how times have changed! It begins with a great, brief, concise first chapter which instantly grabs you. She shows such enthusiasm for the job. The book is very well presented with a lovely decorative font for the chapter titles. Julie had already decided from an early age that that's what she'd like to do-she wanted to be a nurse. A chuckle here when she's talking about her wanting to be various jobs (besides a nurse) and then doing acrobatics in her bedroom! After leaving school her first job was in a shoe shop. She later got the job as a nurse aide-I wondered is this similar to an auxiliary nurse? (UK) My mum was one of these on the maternity ward for a while and did jobs similar to those described by Julie Watson. I love medical memoirs and I've read a couple of the Midwife variety before: Jennifer Worth's 'Call The Midwife' and Peggy Vincent's 'Midwife: A Calling'-both wonderful. The ones I just mentioned are set in different periods of time to Julie Watson's book. Call The Midwife is the early 50s and this one is a few years after Peggy Vincent's (early 60s) so there's something different again as it's early 70s for this one. Some of the procedures mentioned in the book are no longer done-it was interesting reading about them-and cringing at the thought! This book has a great, friendly, homely, easy style to it and provides cosy reading-but she would also find out the much harder side of maternity too. Nappies-I had even forgotten it used to be a business of Terry towelling, nappy buckets and pins! I loved reading this and couldn't put it down. I liked the small and friendly town situation (in New Zealand) with only two Doctors in the area and where everyone seems to know everyone. It was from another angle as Julie first started as a nurse aide doing all the weighing, helping with feeding, changing nappies etc before training to become a midwife. I was transfixed at the birth scene-it was so well written I almost felt like I was watching it on TV! She was just sixteen when she started this job. It makes compelling reading learning about the highs and lows and sometimes unexpected events. We move through dating, marriage, different attitudes then to pregnancy eg having a child out of wedlock, adoption etc. Julie's memoir is informative, beautiful, painful and emotional, a real rollercoaster of a read. Many issues are explored here. This was completely different to what I was expecting; it wasn't just about her job, it was also about the author's life and her family, relationships, children, ups and downs, so much more than a nurse/midwife memoir, it's a real glimpse into all of her life, not just her job. I really enjoyed the part where she was telling of some of her most memorable cases. I have no hesitation in giving this book five stars, I've enjoyed it so much.
I received a free copy from the author in return for an honest review. The book didn't take any 'getting into', it had a great start and was just up my street! I was soon hooked on this book! It was brilliant! It starts as she's helping deliver her first baby as a nurse aide. This mother will be staying in hospital for the next week or so; the book starts in the early 70s, new mothers don't even stay in hospital now-how times have changed! It begins with a great, brief, concise first chapter which instantly grabs you. She shows such enthusiasm for the job. The book is very well presented with a lovely decorative font for the chapter titles. Julie had already decided from an early age that that's what she'd like to do-she wanted to be a nurse. A chuckle here when she's talking about her wanting to be various jobs (besides a nurse) and then doing acrobatics in her bedroom! After leaving school her first job was in a shoe shop. She later got the job as a nurse aide-I wondered is this similar to an auxiliary nurse? (UK) My mum was one of these on the maternity ward for a while and did jobs similar to those described by Julie Watson. I love medical memoirs and I've read a couple of the Midwife variety before: Jennifer Worth's 'Call The Midwife' and Peggy Vincent's 'Midwife: A Calling'-both wonderful. The ones I just mentioned are set in different periods of time to Julie Watson's book. Call The Midwife is the early 50s and this one is a few years after Peggy Vincent's (early 60s) so there's something different again as it's early 70s for this one. Some of the procedures mentioned in the book are no longer done-it was interesting reading about them-and cringing at the thought! This book has a great, friendly, homely, easy style to it and provides cosy reading-but she would also find out the much harder side of maternity too. Nappies-I had even forgotten it used to be a business of Terry towelling, nappy buckets and pins! I loved reading this and couldn't put it down. I liked the small and friendly town situation (in New Zealand) with only two Doctors in the area and where everyone seems to know everyone. It was from another angle as Julie first started as a nurse aide doing all the weighing, helping with feeding, changing nappies etc before training to become a midwife. I was transfixed at the birth scene-it was so well written I almost felt like I was watching it on TV! She was just sixteen when she started this job. It makes compelling reading learning about the highs and lows and sometimes unexpected events. We move through dating, marriage, different attitudes then to pregnancy eg having a child out of wedlock, adoption etc. Julie's memoir is informative, beautiful, painful and emotional, a real rollercoaster of a read. Many issues are explored here. This was completely different to what I was expecting; it wasn't just about her job, it was also about the author's life and her family, relationships, children, ups and downs, so much more than a nurse/midwife memoir, it's a real glimpse into all of her life, not just her job. I really enjoyed the part where she was telling of some of her most memorable cases. I have no hesitation in giving this book five stars, I've enjoyed it so much.
September 13, 2018
An beautiful innocent account of a heart breaking and exhilarating tale.
March 18, 2019
An ok book for the genre. I have read many and this wasn’t one of the best, but it was good, but not great
February 13, 2016
Book Review
Reviewed by Jack Magnus for Readers' Favorite
Born for Life: A Midwife’s Story is a non-fiction memoir written by Julie Watson. The author knew by the time she was ten years old that she wanted to be a nurse. There were other career options that she had considered and dismissed as she was growing up, but that one dream remained alive. When she was seventeen, she had the opportunity to become a nurse’s aide at Pahiatua Hospital. While it was not quite the same as training for and becoming a nurse, it was close enough and the pay was sufficiently attractive for her to give up her current job and go to work at the hospital. She was nervous when she entered the hospital building, had her uniform fitting, and spoke with the matron, Mrs. Brunton, but her enthusiasm won out over any fears, especially when Mrs. Brunton told her that she was being assigned to the maternity ward. That first assignment led to her lifelong dedication to helping women as a midwife.
Julie Watson’s non-fiction memoir, Born for Life: A Midwife’s Story, is well-written and compelling reading. It left me with a profound respect for midwives and the level of care they give and commitment they have for the women in their charge. I enjoyed seeing how she was able to get on-the-job training as a nurse’s aide, and empathized with her initial qualms as she learned how to care for and prep women who were ready to give birth. Watson also tells her own story in this heartwarming memoir, including her life with her husband, Barry, the births of her own children, and the steps she took to become first a registered nurse and then a midwife. Along the way, I learned a lot about New Zealand as it was in the later part of the twentieth century, and I appreciated the natural beauty and coastal experiences she shares with her reader. Born for Life: A Midwife’s Story is highly recommended.
Reviewed by Jack Magnus for Readers' Favorite
Born for Life: A Midwife’s Story is a non-fiction memoir written by Julie Watson. The author knew by the time she was ten years old that she wanted to be a nurse. There were other career options that she had considered and dismissed as she was growing up, but that one dream remained alive. When she was seventeen, she had the opportunity to become a nurse’s aide at Pahiatua Hospital. While it was not quite the same as training for and becoming a nurse, it was close enough and the pay was sufficiently attractive for her to give up her current job and go to work at the hospital. She was nervous when she entered the hospital building, had her uniform fitting, and spoke with the matron, Mrs. Brunton, but her enthusiasm won out over any fears, especially when Mrs. Brunton told her that she was being assigned to the maternity ward. That first assignment led to her lifelong dedication to helping women as a midwife.
Julie Watson’s non-fiction memoir, Born for Life: A Midwife’s Story, is well-written and compelling reading. It left me with a profound respect for midwives and the level of care they give and commitment they have for the women in their charge. I enjoyed seeing how she was able to get on-the-job training as a nurse’s aide, and empathized with her initial qualms as she learned how to care for and prep women who were ready to give birth. Watson also tells her own story in this heartwarming memoir, including her life with her husband, Barry, the births of her own children, and the steps she took to become first a registered nurse and then a midwife. Along the way, I learned a lot about New Zealand as it was in the later part of the twentieth century, and I appreciated the natural beauty and coastal experiences she shares with her reader. Born for Life: A Midwife’s Story is highly recommended.
February 13, 2017
A beautiful true story, Julie tells of her life-long journey towards becoming a midwife in New Zealand. A heartfelt and honest story of her determination through many life challenges, heartbreaks and sheer hard work. With the love and support of her husband and family, Julie is determined to make a difference for women giving birth. The memory of the daughter she lost drives her, and many women will empathise with the emotions that Julie openly shares. Julie turns this sadness into a life of supporting other women and in return becomes a vital and loving partner in what is always such a special time - the birth of a baby. If you're a fan of the 'Call the Midwife' TV series, you will also love this book.
December 30, 2016
At the age of ten the seed was sown. Julie wanted to be a nurse. This is the story of that journey.
Julie leaves school at the earliest opportunity and acquires her dream job as a nurse aide in a maternity unit. Julie has a steady boyfriend and a great job and for some that would be enough and it was – for a while. During that time the reader gains access to a maternity ward in the 1970s in New Zealand and I was struck by the similarities to the UK in that era of maternity care.
Julie met Barry while she was still at school and they got married in 1971 when Julie was seventeen. That time period is an end of an age of innocence, the wedding, honeymoon and setting up home together – all so reminiscent of life in the seventies. Julie’s future looks set to be a straightforward girl meets boy and they live happily ever after but that’s not how real life usually works.
Julie writes about her time in the maternity unit in all its gore and glory, including a condition called Pre-eclampsia which was going to devastate her life in the years to come. The reader is taken through a dark tunnel of loss and despair that no parent should have to endure. After changes in location, occupation, further health scares and now with three children, Julie makes a decision that will mean further upheaval in the lives of this small family as she embarks on a course that will lead to a complete career change, defying a life threatening illness on the way, to become the person she was born to be.
A well written, absorbing read. I was immersed in this memoir.
Julie leaves school at the earliest opportunity and acquires her dream job as a nurse aide in a maternity unit. Julie has a steady boyfriend and a great job and for some that would be enough and it was – for a while. During that time the reader gains access to a maternity ward in the 1970s in New Zealand and I was struck by the similarities to the UK in that era of maternity care.
Julie met Barry while she was still at school and they got married in 1971 when Julie was seventeen. That time period is an end of an age of innocence, the wedding, honeymoon and setting up home together – all so reminiscent of life in the seventies. Julie’s future looks set to be a straightforward girl meets boy and they live happily ever after but that’s not how real life usually works.
Julie writes about her time in the maternity unit in all its gore and glory, including a condition called Pre-eclampsia which was going to devastate her life in the years to come. The reader is taken through a dark tunnel of loss and despair that no parent should have to endure. After changes in location, occupation, further health scares and now with three children, Julie makes a decision that will mean further upheaval in the lives of this small family as she embarks on a course that will lead to a complete career change, defying a life threatening illness on the way, to become the person she was born to be.
A well written, absorbing read. I was immersed in this memoir.
September 9, 2015
Julie Watson has written the most fascinating memoir I’ve ever read. She is so descriptive, open, and honest about her journey to becoming a Midwife. When she was only 16-years-old she went to work at the maternity ward in the small hospital of her home town Pahiatua, New Zealand. It was the early 1970’s and practices have really changed since then! She describes her first experience in helping with a birth, surprise twins (which was more common before the use of ultrasound scans. I think I had five scans when I was pregnant with my twins), difficult births, and tragic stories. My heart went out to the young, unwed mother who never even got to see her baby. Julie doesn’t hold back on her personal experiences. She shares the most intimate details of her own pregnancies and births, her own heartaches and joy. She experiences loss and depression, marital difficulties, and eventually find Gods. But, this story isn’t so much about finding God as it is following the life He had planned for her, the life she was born to live. Julie Watson is Born For Life, to be the guide and guardian of women during pregnancy, birth, and when the baby is a newborn.
I liked this book so much that I recommended it to my book club and will be giving my mom a copy for Christmas. I have already encouraged friends to read it. Available in Kindle and paperback editions.
I liked this book so much that I recommended it to my book club and will be giving my mom a copy for Christmas. I have already encouraged friends to read it. Available in Kindle and paperback editions.
April 16, 2017
4.5 Goodreads stars: What a fascinating memoir! This is really an autobiography of one woman's passion and ambition to become a fully-fledged midwife following a personal tragedy. From the age of 16, Julie Watson worked in midwifery, but it was years later that she decided to study for the qualifications. By then, things had changed a lot and were much more mother centred than when she started her career. I don't normally read this kind of memoir, and it is much more detailed than I normally have the patience for, but it really was very absorbing. A very interesting book about a subject many of us have experienced, but know little more about once we have taken our babies home. Ms Watson pays tribute to her family and rightly so. She was blessed to have such a wonderful, understanding husband and children!
December 10, 2016
An emotional and rich memoir that describes the author's journey in midwifery and life. At the tender age of 16 she begins her career as a nurse's aide in New Zealand, later deciding to become a qualified midwife. As a mother who experienced a traumatic birth I found it fascinating to read about some of the early birthing practices of the 1969 and the 1970's. How times have changed! This book is not only about the author's work, it is also an in depth look at her personal life, the challenges she faced on many levels, and how she overcame them. I found it an emotional read, and could not help but find myself very drawn to the author. I highly recommend this book!
January 8, 2018
Fascinating story.
A memoir from a midwife, who also suffered her own loss of a child. It's a story filled with emotion, up and downs, and the light of life. This story was an experience well worth the sharing. I felt it was beautifully written, and filled with great emotions. I like this story and it was real.
A memoir from a midwife, who also suffered her own loss of a child. It's a story filled with emotion, up and downs, and the light of life. This story was an experience well worth the sharing. I felt it was beautifully written, and filled with great emotions. I like this story and it was real.
March 20, 2016
This is a most interesting memoir. It follows a a young girl from 16 years old as a nurses aide thru her personal and professional life as she become a wife, mother. nurse and midwife. Has many beautiful heart touchins stories.
November 24, 2016
This story is a wonderful biography of a young woman who learns how to be a nurse's aide in the maternity ward. The story goes into great details and is very visual. The life of this young woman is one that has its ups and downs. If you enjoy biographies this is a book you will enjoy.
August 3, 2015
This book has a lot of wonderful detail about how maternity care was done starting in the early 70s.
This was a very fascinating read, very hard to put down.
This was a very fascinating read, very hard to put down.
November 27, 2017
A must read for a mother
This story of happiness, hardship and the struggle of following your dream was truly inspirational. To hear of the sad loss of a baby was heartbreaking.
This story of happiness, hardship and the struggle of following your dream was truly inspirational. To hear of the sad loss of a baby was heartbreaking.
August 7, 2019
I really enjoyed this memoir. I admire Julie's determination to become a midwife and the struggles she overcame to achieve her goal. It's devastating to lose a child and I admired her bravery and honesty in writing about the impact on her life and on her marriage. She's very open about it. ( My own mother lost a son in very similar circumstances and it was only years later that she spoke about the effect it had on her)
Julie found strength in her faith and the memory of her daughter to pursue her dreams. What a remarkable lady.
Julie found strength in her faith and the memory of her daughter to pursue her dreams. What a remarkable lady.
April 23, 2023
A Life well Spent
I found the book repetitious & slow at first. However as it went on it became more interesting & exciting. I thought that the struggles she went through with the death of her baby, depression, & tension in her marriage, would be an encouragement to other women experiencing that same challenges. She overcame disappointments & strove to accomplish her dreams. Yet at the same time never forget the needs of her husband & family. She acknowledged that Jesus, her Savior had given her the wisdom, strength and guidance she needed to accomplish all she did. A life well spent!
I found the book repetitious & slow at first. However as it went on it became more interesting & exciting. I thought that the struggles she went through with the death of her baby, depression, & tension in her marriage, would be an encouragement to other women experiencing that same challenges. She overcame disappointments & strove to accomplish her dreams. Yet at the same time never forget the needs of her husband & family. She acknowledged that Jesus, her Savior had given her the wisdom, strength and guidance she needed to accomplish all she did. A life well spent!
December 22, 2019
Good book
This would be especially interesting to someone like my sister-in-law who works in the neonatal unit at the hospital. Or anyone interested in obstetrics. I was a little overwhelmed at the detail.
This would be especially interesting to someone like my sister-in-law who works in the neonatal unit at the hospital. Or anyone interested in obstetrics. I was a little overwhelmed at the detail.
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