Annie Downs writes of her search to find beauty even during challenging times, to collect the moments that allow her to experience serenity and joy ... and to hopefully help her readers do the same. She shares many of her personal challenges and how they have shaped her. And at the end of most chapters, she gives a specific challenge to "look for lovely". Some of the challenges include getting up early to watch the sunrise, visit a place in your town that speaks to your soul, pause and take a break/rest, listen to new worship music, reach beyond your circle of friends and get to know someone who is different than you.
Here are some of my favorite parts.
When going through a particularly difficult time, she felt alone, abandoned and misunderstood. But she survived. She writes: "...my capacity to see beauty has increased in a much bigger measure than the pain I felt. My ability to feel the depths of something good was strengthened by my choice to feel the depths of pain. I don't exactly know how it works. I just know the more I hang on and feel, the more I am able to feel; and each time more balm gets rubbed into the wounds of my soul. It's sacred, right? Feeling God right here, in the middle, is just as my friend described. Purely sacred." (pg. 75)
"It's about feeling the pain, letting the sufferings be a part of your life, embracing the Romans 5:3 moments so you can process through the Romans 5:4 days so you live a Romans 5:5 hope-filled life. If you aren't experiencing pain, you aren't experiencing beauty. Darkness makes us appreciate the beauty of the light. if you aren't allowing yourself to feel the hurt, sadness, loneliness and disappointment this fallen world has to offer, you probably aren't feeling the fullness of the joy and beauty the redeemed moments have to offer." (pg. 76)
"...athletes don't walk away....They may pause, they may rest, but they don't give up. I thought athletes were stronger than everyone else, but I'm beginning to think they just get grace better than I do. Grace to grow, grace to make mistakes and recover, grace to try again." (pg. 92)
I love how she talks about how the blue and yellow paint in Monet's house made the other color look better. "I can't forget how those colors, while truly beautiful on their own, were actually far more stunning together. Though super different, the way these colors cooperated impacted me." (pag. 129-130) Then she talks about her friend Nichole and how they are very different but they complement one another and they are better together..."She adds value to my life, and next to me she makes me a more beautiful Annie." (page 131) Then she encourages us to make friends who are different, friends from diverse backgrounds, friends who see the world differently. I know that doing this has added immensely to the "loveliness" of my life!
"When in a blink, God stamped a statement onto my heart. TRUST THE PATH....He meant the questions in my heart, the things I wonder about, the worries that I am going to miss Him. I don't have to know here things are going; I don't have to know the destination; I just have to trust the path." (pg. 164-165)
"It makes perfect sense to me, grace and perseverance. I have learned that to be all grace is to be lazy but to be all perseverance is to be judgmental. A good balance of grace and perseverance pushes us forward without destroying our spirit when we don't meet a goal, and it continually brings us back to our goals, our dreams, and desires in order to remember why we began, how far we have come to get here, and where we ultimately want to go. It gives us permission to not be perfect but to strive toward excellence." (pg. 167)
"And as I'm collecting these moments that matter, I'm actually just seeing more of Him. Because in the end that's what this is all about. When you find Jesus, you have found lovely. He is everything we need." (p. 172)
"I am one who would rather hide my brokenness, hide hte lamp that is less than sufficient. But just like with my house, I feel God pushing me a bit to embrace my broken places and appreciate my weaknesses as much as I appreciate my strengths." (page 176)
"I'm a different Annie than I used to be. I had to be broken to be rebuilt, but breakdowns seem to often come before breakthroughs, right? My cape of shame has long been trashed, and my days of constant self-hate have passed. What God has done in my heart and my life (and body, to be honest) in the last two years is nothing short of a miracle. I used to be a quitter; now I cross more finish lines than I ever have before. I didn't know what it felt like for my character to be stretched and grown, but I do now. I thought I understood hope, but the kind of hope that has become mine in recent months is a treasure I don't want to release. I have surrounded myself with people who are for me, for my health, and for my sanity, and it has made for a tribe I am deeply gratefukl for and indebted to. I am growing and changing, and I like me more than I ever have." And I am very unfinished. (I bet you are, too.) But I am very loved. (I know you are, too.) (pages 180-181)