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At Home in Trinity #3
The Midwife's Dilemma
Midwife Martha Cade has decided. When he returns in February, she is going to marry Mayor Thomas Dillon. That is the only decision in life in which she feels confident these days. Everything else around her feels like it's changing too fast, from her daughter's obvious affection for the town's young doctor to Martha realizing she's ready to pass on her role as midwife to someone younger. Even her beloved town of Trinity is changing.
The 1830s Pennsylvania town, having mushroomed in size and population, is becoming an important agricultural and economic center for the region, and soon a canal will connect it even more to the outside world.
It is a season that will set the course for the rest of her life. Martha will need every ounce of confidence, courage, and faith she possesses to overcome the obstacles that will make her life far more challenging and difficult than she can dare to imagine.
The 1830s Pennsylvania town, having mushroomed in size and population, is becoming an important agricultural and economic center for the region, and soon a canal will connect it even more to the outside world.
It is a season that will set the course for the rest of her life. Martha will need every ounce of confidence, courage, and faith she possesses to overcome the obstacles that will make her life far more challenging and difficult than she can dare to imagine.
320 pages, Paperback
First published March 29, 2016
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Delia Parr
28 books129 followersDelia is the author of fifteen historical novels who now devotes herself to writing inspirational historical romance. The mother of three grown children, she is a full-time high school teacher in southern New Jersey who spends her summers writing on Anna Maria Island in Florida.
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February 6, 2017
I found this book on the Mardel clearance shelf the week before Christmas, even though I knew I could easily get it at the church library...and am so glad I did. I loved Martha so much that I just kept reading all day on Sunday, and completed this entire series in less than twenty hours from beginning to end!
Each story builds one on another in a delightful way, and I loved the way this one focused on Martha's children and their futures. Martha herself is a bit more cantankerous, stressing over the many obstacles she faces as she hopes to pave the way for her retirement and is continually faced by impossible obstacles to the true love she hopes to marry. The suspense builds until the very last moment as to whether or not her dreams will evade her forever, and what her dreams really are.
Suitable for all ages, teen and adult.
Each story builds one on another in a delightful way, and I loved the way this one focused on Martha's children and their futures. Martha herself is a bit more cantankerous, stressing over the many obstacles she faces as she hopes to pave the way for her retirement and is continually faced by impossible obstacles to the true love she hopes to marry. The suspense builds until the very last moment as to whether or not her dreams will evade her forever, and what her dreams really are.
Suitable for all ages, teen and adult.
April 4, 2016
What a wonderful book! I love the way Delia Parr continues the story of midwife Martha and the residents of Trinity, making readers feel as if they're revisiting friends with each new book in the series. Not only is her writing lyrical, bringing the town to life, but her characters are so true-to-life that I for one want the series to continue and continue and continue.
Although this is the third in the series, it can be read as a stand-alone, but why would you want to do that when there are two other great books telling Martha's story? I'd recommend reading them in order: The Midwife's Tale, The Midwife's Choice and then The Midwife's Dilemma. I hope you'll agree with me that each one surpasses the previous one -- which is saying a lot, since The Midwife's Tale was superb.
Great job, Delia Parr!
Although this is the third in the series, it can be read as a stand-alone, but why would you want to do that when there are two other great books telling Martha's story? I'd recommend reading them in order: The Midwife's Tale, The Midwife's Choice and then The Midwife's Dilemma. I hope you'll agree with me that each one surpasses the previous one -- which is saying a lot, since The Midwife's Tale was superb.
Great job, Delia Parr!
May 31, 2016
Martha is a midwife in a small town called Trinity. She's being pulled into so many directions. Her daughter is getting older and has no interest in taking over her midwifery practice, so Martha must find someone who can take over for her. Because Martha wants to marry Thomas. He's proposed, but Martha doesn't feel comfortable leaving her mothers without anyone to take her place. A woman hating horse, a wild little boy, an unexpected romance, and new friends are just a few of the things Martha encounters as she tries to transition through the changes.
I hadn't previously read anything by this author. So it was nice to get a chance to try out one of her books. Even though this is book 3 I felt like it worked well as a stand-alone. There were a few things that hinted there might be more to the story, but it didn't detract from the current book. It just made me want to go back and read the first two. The characters were fun and distinguishable. The plot was character driven, but the author did a great job of creating a little drama that helped tell the story. The messages of faith, patience, and love were woven expertly throughout the story, giving it depth and richness. The author did a great job of dealing with the emotions of the characters and making them authentic and relevant. Overall, I really enjoyed this story and can't wait to read more by this author.
I received this book free of charge from Bethany House in exchange for my honest review.
I hadn't previously read anything by this author. So it was nice to get a chance to try out one of her books. Even though this is book 3 I felt like it worked well as a stand-alone. There were a few things that hinted there might be more to the story, but it didn't detract from the current book. It just made me want to go back and read the first two. The characters were fun and distinguishable. The plot was character driven, but the author did a great job of creating a little drama that helped tell the story. The messages of faith, patience, and love were woven expertly throughout the story, giving it depth and richness. The author did a great job of dealing with the emotions of the characters and making them authentic and relevant. Overall, I really enjoyed this story and can't wait to read more by this author.
I received this book free of charge from Bethany House in exchange for my honest review.
January 12, 2022
I was reluctant to begin this final stage of midwife Martha's life; I new it would be over all too soon. The ending wrapped up nicely the many old and new friends of Trinity. I will admit to being vexed a few times by Martha and her stubborn ways in this read; but I've enjoyed the series immensely! I was even touched at Birds departure in the end. I will miss the comfort that has encompassed every book.
May 2, 2016
The bittersweet moment has come. At least, that is how I always feel when I reach the final book in a beloved series. Naturally it holds both sweetness and a touch of sorrow, good-to-see-you-agains and final goodbyes. Delia Parr’s “At Home in Trinity” series, published by Bethany House and comprised of “The Midwife’s Tale”, “The Midwife’s Choice”, and now, finally, “The Midwife’s Dilemma”, is just such a series. It draws you in, envelops you with the love and warmth of the tiny town of Trinity, and is very difficult to say farewell to.
“The Midwife’s Dilemma” is overflowing with recurring characters, a few new acquaintances, and plenty of continuing stories that carry over from the previous two novels. For example, Martha’s decision to marry Thomas Dillon (in the last book) is put to the test as her search for a replacement midwife drags on, Fern and Ivy arrive home with two unexpected and mysterious guests, and Aunt Hilda holds an unsettling secret. Additionally, there are at least two unexpected twists involving Martha’s friends and children that come as huge surprises, and may send complacent readers into shock!
Overall, “The Midwife’s Dilemma” is the perfect conclusion to an endearing Historical Fiction series. If you have enjoyed the earlier books from this sweet trilogy, you must not miss the final installment. Although reaching the end will undoubtedly prove bittersweet, there is a solution... Simply read the entire trilogy over again, at least once a year! After all, the series is called “At Home in Trinity” for a reason.
"Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc."
“The Midwife’s Dilemma” is overflowing with recurring characters, a few new acquaintances, and plenty of continuing stories that carry over from the previous two novels. For example, Martha’s decision to marry Thomas Dillon (in the last book) is put to the test as her search for a replacement midwife drags on, Fern and Ivy arrive home with two unexpected and mysterious guests, and Aunt Hilda holds an unsettling secret. Additionally, there are at least two unexpected twists involving Martha’s friends and children that come as huge surprises, and may send complacent readers into shock!
Overall, “The Midwife’s Dilemma” is the perfect conclusion to an endearing Historical Fiction series. If you have enjoyed the earlier books from this sweet trilogy, you must not miss the final installment. Although reaching the end will undoubtedly prove bittersweet, there is a solution... Simply read the entire trilogy over again, at least once a year! After all, the series is called “At Home in Trinity” for a reason.
"Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc."
September 15, 2018
I read the entire trilogy and enjoyed it very much, even though the main character was not a sweet, fun personality. Kind of an impatient grump! I enjoyed the details about midwifery and healing in the first two books, but this one contained very little of those elements. But the continuation of the love story was compelling so I finished it, and loved the ending!
February 14, 2018
Sadly, not my favorite of the trilogy.
Martha was too controlling, but for that matter, so was Thomas. Love clearly wasn't enough. There were too many conditions, and little enough compromise.
The ending was brief and not as satisfying as I'd have hoped, but was in keeping with the way the other plots were written.
3.5
Martha was too controlling, but for that matter, so was Thomas. Love clearly wasn't enough. There were too many conditions, and little enough compromise.
The ending was brief and not as satisfying as I'd have hoped, but was in keeping with the way the other plots were written.
3.5
March 5, 2020
I loved the first book in this series so much I just had to find out what happened to these characters. The second wasn't as good, and I already had this third one, so I thought I would finish. Towards the end of the third book, I knew what the outcome was going to be, and it was drug out for chapters! Very disappointing end to a good triology.
August 25, 2025
Martha and her fiancée were both stubborn, confident, courageous and faithful Christians. They haggled all through the story about getting married. They had too many good qualities in common. Stubborn isn’t a good one and it created the difficulties. Much of the book was a bit tedious but Martha was such a talented midwife and so caring, you couldn’t help but love her and her family.
April 7, 2016
Last Book Of The At Home In Trinity Trilogy
The Midwife And A Wonderful Cast Of Character
STORY LINE:
Martha Cade is the midwife for Trinity; the last in her family to take up the midwife skills. She is capable, strong, independent, and has great faith in God. She has her daughter Victoria back in Trinity, her son Oliver is doing well up North, her long ago love at her side Thomas Dillon, her duties as midwife, and wonderful friends.
But there is trouble in paradise. Thomas is making demands she can not abide, Victoria is sneaking around with her adversary Dr. McMillan, and the town acquires two new mysterious residents, Jane Trew and her simple daughter, who return with Fern and Ivy from their mission up North.
Come along with Martha, Thomas, Victoria, and all their friends in this last journey in Trinity.
CHARACTERS, PLOTTING AND DEVELOPMENT:
Ms. Parr character development was on par with the story-line. Martha’s character is strong and independence with deep faith, but she is also very firm in her own personal standards. I found myself at times wanting to shake her as she put off Thomas again and again. But she finds her way through prayer and her belief in God’s plan for her. Ms. Parr painted a picture with words of the struggle we go through with decisions and situations then through prayer and God’s guidance we reach the correct conclusions.
Thomas was another strong character, independent, and firm in his faith. He could be almost unbending at times in his demands that Martha give up her God-given talent for marriage. Through his faith, prayer, and God’s guidance, he will grow throughout the story.
The secondary characters in the book were wonderful and added so much depth to the book. There is quite a cast of characters; some are misfits, some with secrets and pain, but all are good people with caring in their hearts. Ms. Parr’s portrayal of the small town of Trinity was refreshing as she shows a caring community based on faith and caring for each other. Of course, all the cast is here from the previous book.
This is a faith-based book, but Ms. Parr does not preach or push Christian beliefs on the reader, rather she skillfully introduces those beliefs into the story-line through the characters. Ms. Parr presents us as we are, with all our faults and failures, but with God’s guiding hand and forgiveness in our life.
RECOMMENDATION:
This was a good finish to the series as it resolves all the issues introduced in the series and ends the series on a high note. Author Delia Parr created a clean, solid, well written book that is suitable for anyone. Thank you Ms. Parr for this series.
I received this book from Netgalley and the publisher in return for an honest book review.
Book reviews of any novel are dependent on the book review author’s opinion; all book reviews on line under my name are my opinion.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Delia is the author of 17 historical novels. A retired high school teacher, she now claims the Florida Gulf Coast as home. When she isn’t writing, she’s volunteering or traveling to visit her seven grandchildren.
The Midwife And A Wonderful Cast Of Character
STORY LINE:
Martha Cade is the midwife for Trinity; the last in her family to take up the midwife skills. She is capable, strong, independent, and has great faith in God. She has her daughter Victoria back in Trinity, her son Oliver is doing well up North, her long ago love at her side Thomas Dillon, her duties as midwife, and wonderful friends.
But there is trouble in paradise. Thomas is making demands she can not abide, Victoria is sneaking around with her adversary Dr. McMillan, and the town acquires two new mysterious residents, Jane Trew and her simple daughter, who return with Fern and Ivy from their mission up North.
Come along with Martha, Thomas, Victoria, and all their friends in this last journey in Trinity.
CHARACTERS, PLOTTING AND DEVELOPMENT:
Ms. Parr character development was on par with the story-line. Martha’s character is strong and independence with deep faith, but she is also very firm in her own personal standards. I found myself at times wanting to shake her as she put off Thomas again and again. But she finds her way through prayer and her belief in God’s plan for her. Ms. Parr painted a picture with words of the struggle we go through with decisions and situations then through prayer and God’s guidance we reach the correct conclusions.
Thomas was another strong character, independent, and firm in his faith. He could be almost unbending at times in his demands that Martha give up her God-given talent for marriage. Through his faith, prayer, and God’s guidance, he will grow throughout the story.
The secondary characters in the book were wonderful and added so much depth to the book. There is quite a cast of characters; some are misfits, some with secrets and pain, but all are good people with caring in their hearts. Ms. Parr’s portrayal of the small town of Trinity was refreshing as she shows a caring community based on faith and caring for each other. Of course, all the cast is here from the previous book.
This is a faith-based book, but Ms. Parr does not preach or push Christian beliefs on the reader, rather she skillfully introduces those beliefs into the story-line through the characters. Ms. Parr presents us as we are, with all our faults and failures, but with God’s guiding hand and forgiveness in our life.
RECOMMENDATION:
This was a good finish to the series as it resolves all the issues introduced in the series and ends the series on a high note. Author Delia Parr created a clean, solid, well written book that is suitable for anyone. Thank you Ms. Parr for this series.
I received this book from Netgalley and the publisher in return for an honest book review.
Book reviews of any novel are dependent on the book review author’s opinion; all book reviews on line under my name are my opinion.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Delia is the author of 17 historical novels. A retired high school teacher, she now claims the Florida Gulf Coast as home. When she isn’t writing, she’s volunteering or traveling to visit her seven grandchildren.
March 6, 2022
Conclusion: this is not a good book to read before its prequels. I'm blaming almost every annoyance I had with this book on that fact, although I'm not confident that I would have entirely enjoyed the book had I read the series in order.
Setting: Began June 1831, and though the general location was not stated (aside from the town of Trinity), I presumed it was somewhere in New York, since New York City and Albany were destinations of some of the characters. Upon checking the first book's blurb, I found the correct state to be Pennsylvania. So not too far off. The setting gave off a very New England vibe, and even when I forgot that the date had been provided me, I felt sure that the story was set before the Civil War, proving that the setting was developed well. Nothing was definitively dated for me, but it was a quiet, subtle way of setting the time period.
Characters: Martha was often annoying, to put it bluntly. Her little quirks, like unable to set the bird free? Again, I might have more sympathy had I been shown its origins. She was in pain so much, and I just couldn't garner enough sympathy for her poor little back pains and constant hunger and exhaustion. I get that it was hard (and that the point was to show that she needed to hand the reigns over to someone else), but she seemed to me a character with no determination or joy in doing her "duty." I don't normally mind an older character in a romance, but her age grated on me. She also acted differently toward different people--one moment she was a crabby older lady toward Will, then she was a normal bland lady toward Jane and the other women.
Thomas was fine, and his ultimatum I thought was a nice insight into male nature. I liked Samuel a lot, and Fancy too, although he was mildly creepy. I wish Cassie had been developed more. Jane's character arc was kind of rushed. The sisters Fern and Ivy had next to no personality.
Plot: Very serene, which shouldn't have bothered me like it did, but I was rather bored with much of the book. There were several aspects that were obviously continued from the previous books, and got wrapped up. I didn't wholly appreciate the romantic conclusion; I think Thomas assumed too much guilt, and that Martha was rather rude to assume that Thomas wouldn't be able to overcome his faults, when he promised that he would. The climax did make me cringe.
Faith Content: A fairly strong faith thread, although I didn't agree entirely with their conclusions on the nature of God (at least, applied to their specific situation). Martha did pray quite a bit, but sometimes I felt not sincerely. A historic-era belief of God wasn't apparent, although it wasn't necessarily modern. And we did have the sermonette coming from the non-religious-but-believer-in-God character. Surely inspiring, though probably not entirely realistic.
Setting: Began June 1831, and though the general location was not stated (aside from the town of Trinity), I presumed it was somewhere in New York, since New York City and Albany were destinations of some of the characters. Upon checking the first book's blurb, I found the correct state to be Pennsylvania. So not too far off. The setting gave off a very New England vibe, and even when I forgot that the date had been provided me, I felt sure that the story was set before the Civil War, proving that the setting was developed well. Nothing was definitively dated for me, but it was a quiet, subtle way of setting the time period.
Characters: Martha was often annoying, to put it bluntly. Her little quirks, like unable to set the bird free? Again, I might have more sympathy had I been shown its origins. She was in pain so much, and I just couldn't garner enough sympathy for her poor little back pains and constant hunger and exhaustion. I get that it was hard (and that the point was to show that she needed to hand the reigns over to someone else), but she seemed to me a character with no determination or joy in doing her "duty." I don't normally mind an older character in a romance, but her age grated on me. She also acted differently toward different people--one moment she was a crabby older lady toward Will, then she was a normal bland lady toward Jane and the other women.
Thomas was fine, and his ultimatum I thought was a nice insight into male nature. I liked Samuel a lot, and Fancy too, although he was mildly creepy. I wish Cassie had been developed more. Jane's character arc was kind of rushed. The sisters Fern and Ivy had next to no personality.
Plot: Very serene, which shouldn't have bothered me like it did, but I was rather bored with much of the book. There were several aspects that were obviously continued from the previous books, and got wrapped up. I didn't wholly appreciate the romantic conclusion; I think Thomas assumed too much guilt, and that Martha was rather rude to assume that Thomas wouldn't be able to overcome his faults, when he promised that he would. The climax did make me cringe.
Faith Content: A fairly strong faith thread, although I didn't agree entirely with their conclusions on the nature of God (at least, applied to their specific situation). Martha did pray quite a bit, but sometimes I felt not sincerely. A historic-era belief of God wasn't apparent, although it wasn't necessarily modern. And we did have the sermonette coming from the non-religious-but-believer-in-God character. Surely inspiring, though probably not entirely realistic.
April 19, 2016
The Midwife’s Dilemma by Delia Parr is the third book in the At Home in Trinity series. Martha Cade lives in Trinity, Pennsylvania in 1831. She has been alone the last few months since Fern and Ivy Lynn left town to take care of personal business. Thomas Dillon (who wishes to marry Martha) went as their escort. Martha’s daughter, Victoria has been helping Aunt Hilda (not really a relative). Martha suffered a terrible loss when her horse, Grace died recently. Martha used Grace to get to her midwife appointments and birthing (she was also who she talked to). Martha now has to rely on other people for transportation. Thomas, Fern, and Ivy finally return home and they bring Jane Trew and her daughter, Cassie with them (new project). Jane is hiding a secret, but no one wishes to pry. Thomas now wishes for a decision from Martha. Will she or won’t she marry him? It is not an easy decision, because Martha knows she would not be able to continue her practice. Martha needed to find someone to replace her if she decides to marry Thomas. Martha also has to deal with her daughter, Victoria’s new romance. Victoria has been seeing Dr. Benjamin McMillan (without her mother’s knowledge). Now they wish to get married (and want Martha’s permission). So many decisions for Martha. Will she make the right ones? Join us in The Midwife’s Dilemma to see what is happening in Trinity and if Martha makes the right choices.
The Midwife’s Dilemma was not as good as the first book in the series. This book was mostly Martha trying to decide whether or not to get married (I am not kidding). Martha goes back and forth on her decision, lamenting the loss of her horse (and not willing to accept anyone’s help on getting a new one), and upset that her daughter wants to marry her enemy (Dr. McMillan). I, personally, did not understand what Thomas saw in Martha (I kept hoping the guy would land someone more decisive and appealing). The Midwife’s Dilemma is nicely written and easy to read. The Christian theme is very prevalent throughout the book. I just felt that this book was an add-on (that was not needed). Martha has really been trying to make up her mind this whole time (through the whole series). The Midwife’s Dilemma is really not a stand-alone book. You need to read the previous books in order to understand everything that is going on in this book. I give The Midwife’s Dilemma 3 out of 5 stars.
I received a complimentary copy of The Midwife’s Dilemma from NetGalley in exchange for an honest evaluation of the novel.
The Midwife’s Dilemma was not as good as the first book in the series. This book was mostly Martha trying to decide whether or not to get married (I am not kidding). Martha goes back and forth on her decision, lamenting the loss of her horse (and not willing to accept anyone’s help on getting a new one), and upset that her daughter wants to marry her enemy (Dr. McMillan). I, personally, did not understand what Thomas saw in Martha (I kept hoping the guy would land someone more decisive and appealing). The Midwife’s Dilemma is nicely written and easy to read. The Christian theme is very prevalent throughout the book. I just felt that this book was an add-on (that was not needed). Martha has really been trying to make up her mind this whole time (through the whole series). The Midwife’s Dilemma is really not a stand-alone book. You need to read the previous books in order to understand everything that is going on in this book. I give The Midwife’s Dilemma 3 out of 5 stars.
I received a complimentary copy of The Midwife’s Dilemma from NetGalley in exchange for an honest evaluation of the novel.
January 30, 2017
I struggled with this book. The first aspect was the rewrite- taking this story from two books and changing it into a trilogy. Not much changed in the beginning. However, one key storyline was completely reworked. Initially it was bittersweet. I spent much of this story wondering if it was still going to play out the way it originally did. It did not and keeping these couple of characters around seemed to serve almost no purpose, other than to maybe accentuate the feel of community and close knit family Martha had built. Maybe it wouldn't have bothered me if I didn't know what I was missing.
The story itself felt like one being strung along. The things I had loved about the first two books ( the spiritual journey) and Martha's character (her strength and shortcomings, her ability to be wrong and change ) fell short for me. Martha (and Thomas) seemed to be overcomplicating things. Why exactly did she NEED to have a midwife replace her? There was a doctor there now and her daughter was publishing their specialty knowledge. She was complaining that she didn't want to be a midwife anymore and that she was losing more and more work to the doctor... so her need for a replacement just didn't make any sense to me.
Additionally, while I agreed with Martha that Thomas was pressuring her too much and damaged trust by changing his mind, I thought she was wrong to continue delaying and hiding their relationship. She set a pretty bad example for her daughter there and probably added to Thomas' doubt and insecurities. And I understand that she didn't want to start their relationship off with such a challenge, but that's life. And that's marriage. You weather the storms together. You compromise. You sacrifice. Your spouse should be second only to God, not fall somewhere behind your career, your kids, and your family legacy. She wasn't willing to commit unless everything else fell perfectly into place and she got everything she wanted. That's not commitment.
Jane's story was not a surprise. And felt way too easy. And I had no idea why Martha never shared the information with Thomas.
I did like the way Martha and Jane prayed together and leaned on God. But that was the only spiritual aspect that really touched me. For the most part, this book was all too realistic; an accurate portrayal of how misguided we can be keeping ourselves bone weary with busyness, accomplishing little of actual value and often missing the blessings that God has given us: relationships.
The story itself felt like one being strung along. The things I had loved about the first two books ( the spiritual journey) and Martha's character (her strength and shortcomings, her ability to be wrong and change ) fell short for me. Martha (and Thomas) seemed to be overcomplicating things. Why exactly did she NEED to have a midwife replace her? There was a doctor there now and her daughter was publishing their specialty knowledge. She was complaining that she didn't want to be a midwife anymore and that she was losing more and more work to the doctor... so her need for a replacement just didn't make any sense to me.
Additionally, while I agreed with Martha that Thomas was pressuring her too much and damaged trust by changing his mind, I thought she was wrong to continue delaying and hiding their relationship. She set a pretty bad example for her daughter there and probably added to Thomas' doubt and insecurities. And I understand that she didn't want to start their relationship off with such a challenge, but that's life. And that's marriage. You weather the storms together. You compromise. You sacrifice. Your spouse should be second only to God, not fall somewhere behind your career, your kids, and your family legacy. She wasn't willing to commit unless everything else fell perfectly into place and she got everything she wanted. That's not commitment.
Jane's story was not a surprise. And felt way too easy. And I had no idea why Martha never shared the information with Thomas.
I did like the way Martha and Jane prayed together and leaned on God. But that was the only spiritual aspect that really touched me. For the most part, this book was all too realistic; an accurate portrayal of how misguided we can be keeping ourselves bone weary with busyness, accomplishing little of actual value and often missing the blessings that God has given us: relationships.
May 19, 2016
Author bio: Delia Parr is a pen name for the historical fiction author Mary Lechleidner. Raised in Pennsuken Township, New Jersey, Parr graduated from Rutgers University. She is now a high school teacher who has won many prestigious awards for her historical fiction. She now devotes herself to writing inspirational historical romance.
My thoughts: The Midwife’s Dilemma is the third in the “At Home in Trinity” series. This is my first time reading Delia Parr, so obviously I did not read the two previous novels set in Trinity, which did put me at a slight disadvantage.
The story starts in June of 1831 with the main character of Martha Cade, a seasoned midwife. She is approximately 40 years old, but I couldn’t help but picture her as older. This would be appropriate to the time period. Martha is nearing the end of her career. Physically, mentally and even spiritually she feels like the time has come to slow down the arduous pace of taking care of the women and children of Trinity, but she will not leave the profession until she finds the right woman to take over her practice. In the beginning, she has lost her beloved horse, the bird she has been healing is close to the point where she will have to release him to nature, her relationship with her daughter is distant, she barely sees her grown son who lives hundreds of miles away and her best friends and her beau have been gone on a trip for months longer than planned and a new doctor in town has taken away some of her patients. Martha seems alone, lonely and lost in the first part of this book.
Throughout the rest of the novel, bit by bit and piece by piece, Martha’s life comes together on all sides. The town of Trinity grows in color and character. Her friends and beau return. New friends come into her life. A mysterious gift shows up at her back door. Big changes happen in her daughter and son’s lives. Everything around Martha is blooming. Her big dilemma surrounds her beau – but I don’t want to ruin the ending!
The first 1/3 of the book I kept thinking I really should have read the first two of the series first – but as the characters and the town worked their way into my heart, I realize d that this book is also excellent as a stand alone (This doesn’t mean, however, that I won’t be reading her the first two in the series, because I plan to!)
If you like inspirational Christian historical fiction, definitely pick up this book. I look forward to reading much more by Delia
My thoughts: The Midwife’s Dilemma is the third in the “At Home in Trinity” series. This is my first time reading Delia Parr, so obviously I did not read the two previous novels set in Trinity, which did put me at a slight disadvantage.
The story starts in June of 1831 with the main character of Martha Cade, a seasoned midwife. She is approximately 40 years old, but I couldn’t help but picture her as older. This would be appropriate to the time period. Martha is nearing the end of her career. Physically, mentally and even spiritually she feels like the time has come to slow down the arduous pace of taking care of the women and children of Trinity, but she will not leave the profession until she finds the right woman to take over her practice. In the beginning, she has lost her beloved horse, the bird she has been healing is close to the point where she will have to release him to nature, her relationship with her daughter is distant, she barely sees her grown son who lives hundreds of miles away and her best friends and her beau have been gone on a trip for months longer than planned and a new doctor in town has taken away some of her patients. Martha seems alone, lonely and lost in the first part of this book.
Throughout the rest of the novel, bit by bit and piece by piece, Martha’s life comes together on all sides. The town of Trinity grows in color and character. Her friends and beau return. New friends come into her life. A mysterious gift shows up at her back door. Big changes happen in her daughter and son’s lives. Everything around Martha is blooming. Her big dilemma surrounds her beau – but I don’t want to ruin the ending!
The first 1/3 of the book I kept thinking I really should have read the first two of the series first – but as the characters and the town worked their way into my heart, I realize d that this book is also excellent as a stand alone (This doesn’t mean, however, that I won’t be reading her the first two in the series, because I plan to!)
If you like inspirational Christian historical fiction, definitely pick up this book. I look forward to reading much more by Delia
May 18, 2016
The Midwife’s Dilemma is the third book in the At Home in Trinity series. I have read the first two books, but don’t feel that you need to in order to enjoy this book. That being said, I would suggest you read them because you really get to know all the characters and their struggles throughout the whole series. The At Home in Trinity series follows Martha Cade who is the Midwife in Trinity and its surrounding areas.
For as long as she can remember, Martha has been at the towns’ beck and call. Leaving at a moments notice is often what helps her save someone’s life, and that of their newborn child. But it doesn’t come with out stress and exhaustion seeping in. Being on call constantly leaves Martha missing meals, and being woken up at all hours of the night, no matter how little sleep she got the night before. Thankfully she is surrounded with friends and family that love her, and now understand why she does what she does.
The town is changing, and with doctors taking over much of what the midwives are used to doing, Martha finds her life changing too. Wanting to train someone to take over as midwife is her only chance at finding happiness, and getting a little sleep. In this story Martha continues the search for her replacement, the only thing standing in the way of her and Thomas’ happy ending. Being a mother and midwife is what she is used to, and she is more than ready to take on the role of wife. Now if only she can work out all the details. Can Martha’s dreams come true? Or is she destined to be left alone for the rest of her life?
I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys Historical Fiction. The characters are very likable. They are also plenty unique and that is one of the things that keeps you guessing what’s going to happen next. I enjoyed visiting the town of Trinity, and know you will as well. I received a copy of this book from Bethany House Publishers in exchange for my honest opinion. All opinions expressed are my own.
For as long as she can remember, Martha has been at the towns’ beck and call. Leaving at a moments notice is often what helps her save someone’s life, and that of their newborn child. But it doesn’t come with out stress and exhaustion seeping in. Being on call constantly leaves Martha missing meals, and being woken up at all hours of the night, no matter how little sleep she got the night before. Thankfully she is surrounded with friends and family that love her, and now understand why she does what she does.
The town is changing, and with doctors taking over much of what the midwives are used to doing, Martha finds her life changing too. Wanting to train someone to take over as midwife is her only chance at finding happiness, and getting a little sleep. In this story Martha continues the search for her replacement, the only thing standing in the way of her and Thomas’ happy ending. Being a mother and midwife is what she is used to, and she is more than ready to take on the role of wife. Now if only she can work out all the details. Can Martha’s dreams come true? Or is she destined to be left alone for the rest of her life?
I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys Historical Fiction. The characters are very likable. They are also plenty unique and that is one of the things that keeps you guessing what’s going to happen next. I enjoyed visiting the town of Trinity, and know you will as well. I received a copy of this book from Bethany House Publishers in exchange for my honest opinion. All opinions expressed are my own.
October 14, 2017
My Thoughts:
This is the third in the At Home at Trinity series. When I requested it, I was assured that it could stand alone. It can. But. I feel like there is back story that would enhance this storyline and reveal nuances of character that I am missing. If you want to read the series, I suggest starting with the first book, because this book does mention some of what happened earlier in the other books.
When I read this book, I felt like I'd gone visiting. Nothing really exciting or dramatic happens outwardly. The dilemma, in fact there is more than one, occurs within the thoughts and emotions of midwife Martha Cade. The paragraphs of description above accurately explain what the book is all about. The turmoil is real, but it is primarily within. Some books are dramatic, or suspenseful, or romantic, this one was more an abiding, a resting, something like going to visit old friends and catch up on their lives. I enjoyed getting to know these characters, but I didn't feel compelled to read the next chapter. As a result, it took me longer to read the book. Because the pace was slow, it was easy for my thoughts to be interrupted. This is no doubt in part due to not having read the first two books. I think perhaps issues were being resolved that had significance that I didn't realize.
So, while this isn't a book that compelled me to read it, it was a nice place to go visit in my imagination. I do think, as one review stated, if you like Jan Karon's Mitford series of books, you will most likely enjoy this series as well.
Thank you Bethany House for this free copy.
*Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
This is the third in the At Home at Trinity series. When I requested it, I was assured that it could stand alone. It can. But. I feel like there is back story that would enhance this storyline and reveal nuances of character that I am missing. If you want to read the series, I suggest starting with the first book, because this book does mention some of what happened earlier in the other books.
When I read this book, I felt like I'd gone visiting. Nothing really exciting or dramatic happens outwardly. The dilemma, in fact there is more than one, occurs within the thoughts and emotions of midwife Martha Cade. The paragraphs of description above accurately explain what the book is all about. The turmoil is real, but it is primarily within. Some books are dramatic, or suspenseful, or romantic, this one was more an abiding, a resting, something like going to visit old friends and catch up on their lives. I enjoyed getting to know these characters, but I didn't feel compelled to read the next chapter. As a result, it took me longer to read the book. Because the pace was slow, it was easy for my thoughts to be interrupted. This is no doubt in part due to not having read the first two books. I think perhaps issues were being resolved that had significance that I didn't realize.
So, while this isn't a book that compelled me to read it, it was a nice place to go visit in my imagination. I do think, as one review stated, if you like Jan Karon's Mitford series of books, you will most likely enjoy this series as well.
Thank you Bethany House for this free copy.
*Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
June 24, 2016
Setting: 1830’s Pennsylvania
The third book in the At Home in Trinity Series.
Widow Martha Cade realizes that only life in Trinity is changing too fast but also in her personal life. She finds herself struggling with her daughter’s desire to marry the new doctor in town, Dr. Benjamin McMillan, especially since she and the doctor don’t see eye to eye. She has also been asked by Widower Thomas Dillon to marry him, but up until recently was unsure that was what she wanted to do. However once he returns from his trip she would give consent to marry him with conditions.
Martha had to find someone to take over her job as midwife before she could marry Thomas because she knew the demands of her job would not be to his liking and the demands on her body were taking their toll. Martha is having difficulty dealing with the fact she is getting older as are her children and she needs to let them go and try their own wings. She is finding there are blessings and sorrows in letting them grow up.
Although this book is not fast-paced, it is a book that deals with the inner turmoil of life. As Martha reflects on things she cannot change and trying to cope with them, I also find myself doing much the same thing. It also shows even though Martha’s faith in her belief in God is strong, there are times when she has doubt but works through her doubt and regains her balance and faith.
This is truly a book about transitions in life, faith and friendships. It is well worth reading.
I would like to read more about the transitions taking place in Trinity in the future and life for Martha without being a midwife.
Disclosure: I was given a copy of this eBook by the publisher, Bethany House, through NetGalley blogger program for review. I was not required to write a favorable review nor was I compensated for my review. The opinions in this review are my own.
The third book in the At Home in Trinity Series.
Widow Martha Cade realizes that only life in Trinity is changing too fast but also in her personal life. She finds herself struggling with her daughter’s desire to marry the new doctor in town, Dr. Benjamin McMillan, especially since she and the doctor don’t see eye to eye. She has also been asked by Widower Thomas Dillon to marry him, but up until recently was unsure that was what she wanted to do. However once he returns from his trip she would give consent to marry him with conditions.
Martha had to find someone to take over her job as midwife before she could marry Thomas because she knew the demands of her job would not be to his liking and the demands on her body were taking their toll. Martha is having difficulty dealing with the fact she is getting older as are her children and she needs to let them go and try their own wings. She is finding there are blessings and sorrows in letting them grow up.
Although this book is not fast-paced, it is a book that deals with the inner turmoil of life. As Martha reflects on things she cannot change and trying to cope with them, I also find myself doing much the same thing. It also shows even though Martha’s faith in her belief in God is strong, there are times when she has doubt but works through her doubt and regains her balance and faith.
This is truly a book about transitions in life, faith and friendships. It is well worth reading.
I would like to read more about the transitions taking place in Trinity in the future and life for Martha without being a midwife.
Disclosure: I was given a copy of this eBook by the publisher, Bethany House, through NetGalley blogger program for review. I was not required to write a favorable review nor was I compensated for my review. The opinions in this review are my own.
April 12, 2016
The Midwife’s Dilemma is a wonderful story! The third novel in the At Home in Trinity series, Delia Parr concludes the trilogy with a heartfelt and dramatic tale.
I love Martha Cade and her dedication to her family and friends and to her calling as a midwife. As this series concludes, Martha is faced with a myriad of personal and professional changes as she enters a new season in her life. Brimming with emotion and encouragement, I delighted in the culmination of Martha’s journey.
I have thoroughly enjoyed this series and will miss visiting the beloved town of Trinity and its residents. The Midwife’s Dilemma and its series predecessors are recommended reads for those who enjoy inspirational historical fiction.
I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an unbiased review. All thoughts expressed are my own.
I love Martha Cade and her dedication to her family and friends and to her calling as a midwife. As this series concludes, Martha is faced with a myriad of personal and professional changes as she enters a new season in her life. Brimming with emotion and encouragement, I delighted in the culmination of Martha’s journey.
I have thoroughly enjoyed this series and will miss visiting the beloved town of Trinity and its residents. The Midwife’s Dilemma and its series predecessors are recommended reads for those who enjoy inspirational historical fiction.
I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an unbiased review. All thoughts expressed are my own.
April 14, 2016
Heartwarming characters that love and care about each other have made this series so enjoyable to read.
I love Martha and Thomas. Their relationship has had some ups and downs along the way, but the love they have for each other is pure and sweet.
This three-part series gets better with each book.
Although this is the third and final book in the series, it can easily be read as a stand-alone. There’s plenty of background information on the secondary characters so that the reader can quickly figure out what role they’ve played in the series.
I recommend reading the series because Trinity is a delightful town filled with delightful characters.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher for my honest opinion which I have given.
I love Martha and Thomas. Their relationship has had some ups and downs along the way, but the love they have for each other is pure and sweet.
This three-part series gets better with each book.
Although this is the third and final book in the series, it can easily be read as a stand-alone. There’s plenty of background information on the secondary characters so that the reader can quickly figure out what role they’ve played in the series.
I recommend reading the series because Trinity is a delightful town filled with delightful characters.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher for my honest opinion which I have given.
June 9, 2017
Enjoyed the series. Really love the characters. Especially LOVE the confectionary and all the yummy descriptions of the desserts :-) The conflict with trying to control her daughter got ridiculous though. I didn't have much patience with her romance issues either. He agreed to everything she wanted and they loved each other. I didn't see what her hang up was. Again, very controlling woman. But the other characters saved the book for me and made it bearable. I may have rolled my eyes a few times at her, : )
May 17, 2016
This is the third book in the At Home in Trinity series. It was a good read. Midwife Martha Cade has to decide if she is going to quit being a midwife and marry Mayor Thomas Dillon. Make sure to read the first two in the series to understand everything that is going on. Martha is looking all over for another woman to take over her midwife duties so she can enjoy a life with Thomas. I received this book from Bethany for a fair and honest opinion.
April 13, 2019
I enjoyed revisiting Martha and her friends and family in Trinity. The widowed midwife is still struggling with the choice to marry the local major. I got so frustrated with her back and forth decisions to marry, but she was trying to do the right thing. Her story continues with her daughter as well as her son reentering the story.
Don’t miss this one a wonderful historical tale of days gone by.
Don’t miss this one a wonderful historical tale of days gone by.
September 13, 2018
Read the entire series. I enjoyed every one of them so much! The characters were all so likable and very easy to identify with. Just writing this review makes me want to start the series again! Thank you Delia for such and enjoyable experience through these characters and this story. I was genuinely sad when I was finished reading the last book.
February 1, 2022
The only unfortunate thing about this book was that I didn't realize it was the last book in a trilogy until half way through, which is why I gave it a four because I haven't read the others, but I did read another several years ago.
October 4, 2017
The last in the trilogy about Widow Cade as she practices her calling of midwifery in a rapidly changing and growing small town from a century ago as her life changes.
August 3, 2019
Very heartwarming story about the struggle of a midwife making the choice to let go of her calling and to accept the hand of the man she loves.
April 20, 2020
Midwife Martha Cade has finally decided that when Mayor Thomas Dillion returns in February, she will marry him. With everything else in her life spinning out of control, Martha feels this is the only thing she has control over. Her daughter, Victoria, is besotted with the town's younger doctor. Martha feels that she is ready to settle down and pass on her role as a midwife to someone younger.
The Pennsylvania town has grown in size and population. It has become an important hub for agricultural and economic needs. There are plans of canal allowing the town to be connected with the outside world. With everything changing, Martha will need to decide how she will spend the rest of her life.
I have read the first book of the series but, didn't realize this was the third book. Unfortunately, while each book can be read as standalone, I felt like I was missing portions of the story because I didn't read the second novel. I felt like the novel dragged and most of the time, Martha was spent debating her marriage proposal or about her horse. I also had a hard time understanding why Martha couldn't get married and continue being a midwife. I understand that she will eventually need to retire but, the constant pushing by Thomas to get his way seemed like drummed drama for an otherwise boring book. I didn't also understand why there was a need for her to be a midwife and if she didn't want to do it, why not say she is no longer a midwife? Perhaps, I am looking at her struggle through a modern lens. I also didn't understand why Martha was stubborn and did things that she didn't like other people doing. I liked the first novel in the series but, this one was quite disappointing.
The Pennsylvania town has grown in size and population. It has become an important hub for agricultural and economic needs. There are plans of canal allowing the town to be connected with the outside world. With everything changing, Martha will need to decide how she will spend the rest of her life.
I have read the first book of the series but, didn't realize this was the third book. Unfortunately, while each book can be read as standalone, I felt like I was missing portions of the story because I didn't read the second novel. I felt like the novel dragged and most of the time, Martha was spent debating her marriage proposal or about her horse. I also had a hard time understanding why Martha couldn't get married and continue being a midwife. I understand that she will eventually need to retire but, the constant pushing by Thomas to get his way seemed like drummed drama for an otherwise boring book. I didn't also understand why there was a need for her to be a midwife and if she didn't want to do it, why not say she is no longer a midwife? Perhaps, I am looking at her struggle through a modern lens. I also didn't understand why Martha was stubborn and did things that she didn't like other people doing. I liked the first novel in the series but, this one was quite disappointing.
August 30, 2019
Will hold a special place in your heart . . .
At Home In Trinity Series
Conclusion to a three part series involving Martha, a Midwife in Trinity Pennsylvania 1831. Christian Historical. This is one of those series for your shelf that you'll always look at fondly, as it's a companion for the time you're reading it, and lodges in your heart in the same way as Jan Karon's Mitford series. Martha is a very stubborn woman and you're bound to get frustrated with her. She's surrounded by lovely characters, and everything is changing in Trinity. Things that she was always sure of are tipping and turning, and she's not sure of her place anymore - she doesn't know what she wants to do with herself when she grows up. This is one lady who doesn't move fast or make a hasty decision. Everything is done in it's own time. Sometimes it's frustrating to read about her - you want to tell her to just do it!. But that's not her way, and in the end it's all in God's time as well.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher and NetGalley book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
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At Home In Trinity Series
Conclusion to a three part series involving Martha, a Midwife in Trinity Pennsylvania 1831. Christian Historical. This is one of those series for your shelf that you'll always look at fondly, as it's a companion for the time you're reading it, and lodges in your heart in the same way as Jan Karon's Mitford series. Martha is a very stubborn woman and you're bound to get frustrated with her. She's surrounded by lovely characters, and everything is changing in Trinity. Things that she was always sure of are tipping and turning, and she's not sure of her place anymore - she doesn't know what she wants to do with herself when she grows up. This is one lady who doesn't move fast or make a hasty decision. Everything is done in it's own time. Sometimes it's frustrating to read about her - you want to tell her to just do it!. But that's not her way, and in the end it's all in God's time as well.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher and NetGalley book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
#TheMidwifesDilemma #NetGalley #DeliaParr #BooksYouCanFeelGoodAbout #5Stars #ChristianHistoricalFiction
November 4, 2022
The first two books in this series were ok, but this last one really dragged. I agree that D Parr’s writing style is overly descriptive about unimportant details leaving her characterization weak. In this book the “dilemma” is whether Martha should marry the man she is in love with or not. So this mature Christian woman starts thinking like a neurotic teenager and dwells only on the negative of this decision, chapter after chapter, after chapter. Where is your faith Martha? Your sense of adventure? Your willingness to follow God’s path? She doesn’t share her proposal with anyone, rarely prays about it and only sees the drawbacks. Not a very good example of what to do with “dilemmas” in our own lives. Thomas who even by todays standards is quite a catch, grows tired of her negativity. He gives her an ultimatum. Not that I can blame him, maybe he was as weary as I was at her whining and excuses for not following through. It was a chore to get through this book.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
April 11, 2024
Delia Parr wraps up this series leaving no lose ends. I thoroughly enjoyed all of the characters and getting to know them better as the series progressed. Of course the star was midwife and widow Martha Cade, who shone throughout this trilogy, giving insight into her profession and its importance and effect on the town of Trinity. As a Christian author, I especially thought her use of prayer to express faith, hope, forgiveness, and blessings in her daily life, profound and well written. Historical fiction is my favorite genre, and I found myself feeling that I would enjoy living in the town of Trinity in the 1830's.
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