Oh boy, this book is from the late 1990s and when I read that it is apparently the first study of it's kind, I had a bad feeling about this. Also because the title suggested a big age difference. And that the author was arguing about what homosexuality means in historical contexts was another bad sign.
Early on, he mentioned the chinese examples. And naturally he doesn't tell the readers that the story of Emperor Ai and Dong Xian actually ended tragically and is a cautionary tale. In fact, the examples of the Great Book of Han that he mentions, sometimes could be considered the same respectively something derogatory as the two were said to have nothing except their looks to get ahead.
And if the Korean homosexual tradition is so similar to the chinese one, as the author claims, I question its homoerotic nature and assume that it discorages sexual attraction to adult men. Plus, it seems to me that the author is much more cautious when it comes to Japanese sources, unlike with Chinese and Korean. With the Japanese sources he states that certain things are to vague to be certain, but not prior to this.
I quickly had many gripes with this book early on, but I could give the author the benefit of doubt so far when he claims that e.g. in China being penetrated was not considered derogatory/feminization to the bottom. You see, that is definitely wrong, being the bottom was highly stigmatized. On the other hand, he openly calls this "monastic homosexuality" pederasty and gets to the conclusion that this is substitution for women based on the evidence. But he never points out the lack of consentual adult relationships so far. So, I assumed he might be arguing in good faith and simply has faulty sources.
Sadly, he does something that I found to be all too common. You see he talks about a story called The Treasury of Loyal Retainers, which is connected to the 47 ronin. It is a fictionalized account of the story and this author, and others, think this deep-seated loyalty and bond between lord and vassal is somehow homosexual. Earlier in the book, the author stated such stuff is too vague but then he does this crap. And the book was quickly back to the old problems, which I came across before: He assumes that there must have been a "myriad of tales about male-male love involving no scandal, murderous vendetta, or collosal misjudgement" and so became no stuff of historical chronicles, but would this explain the lack of positive stories? And even though he states that next to zero is known about popular view of nanshoku, he thinks records by literate strata represents the norm. But why?
And another old problem: He mixes homosexual desire with homosexual behavior. These cross-dressers/feminized boys and fucking of boys in environments lacking women would be expected with some people at least. And maybe some of the examples he listed before includes adult men/teenage boys on both sides, but it is suspicious that he never goes to the topic of gay sex between adult men or teenage boys.
Furthermore, what is it with this author that he never points out the lack of interest in adult men? He stated that men made passes at boys quite openly, not that I consider him reliable, but never at men. Why doesn't he point that out?
Naturally, he quotes the author of "The Great Mirror of Male Love" and his complaining about expensive boy prostitutes who visit female brothels. And that point I was very tempted to skip this chapter and go to the next, because this was becoming really painful.
When it comes to the decline of these male brothels the author first suspects that other forms of male prostitution might have been available, but based on his later numbers it is clear that his suggestion that they declined due to higher availability of women makes much more sense. And therefore I really question how he defines "desire"... in fact, he never mentioned the word sexual orientation.
And I don't think that it is coincidence that on these presented printings it is often difficult to tell apart the male and female prostitutes. In fact, something like the nakedness on the cover occurred only once. I would not be surprised to learn that those prostitutes would have been praised to be indistinguishable from women.
After a while the author was starting to become as confusing as all the other ones. Example: If homosexuality was so tolerated and accepted in Tokugawa Japan, why is it listed as a sin in hell anyway, why did the hell king punish the water sprite (a kappa apparently) to cause homosexuality by possessing young men? And what he writes about kabuki history only strengthens that the hypothesis that this is substitution for lack of women.
Also, he no longer calls it pederasty after a while, even with an example like this: "Hidetarö, a delicate boy of twelve or thirteen, enters to offer him tobacco. A delighted Danjirö compliments him on his beauty...Embracing the boy, he rocks him back and forth suggestively, ...Danjirö laughs, bows to the audience, and facetiously pronounces his own conduct "shameful.""
And keep in mind, this might not be 12-13 years, but 11-12 years, as this probably gives the age according to older japanese age counting. Also, so far there have been constant praises about the beauty of boys, never men, and primarily of women and only rarely girls. This is very, very telling if you ask me.
Ignoring the fact that the following example that the author gave could simply be someone who believes women to be dangerous rather than an actual homosexual, when the author writes "There is even some evidence for a popular stereotype linking nanshoku to effiminacy" I was only "Some evidence?" you mean all these cross-dressers and effeminate boys didn't give it away? Because he is clearly referring to the wakashu here. So saying there is "some evidence" is really stretching it here. And what he writes here about what he himself states to be a popular stereotype about nanshoku enthuciasts points to anything but what he defined as tolerance as that one included acceptance. At least he didn't claim that it was approved of, but I wondered whether that will come as well. And it is really odd how little reference to anything but anal sex there is. Well, at least they used lubricant.
Also, that on the only 2 pages with kissing adult men, two are referred to as gangsters and the other two have one with tattoos makes me wonder whether depiction of kisses between men was something vulgar and not proper, something he doesn't seem to consider.
Also, this book is sometimes hard to read and I don't mean in regards to writing style or word choice, but the topic istelf. The book makes it clear that 15 years is the right age, several terms definitely mean child and one source says that the right age of the homosexual sex partner for a male starts at seven, another states it starts at 11, and ends at 22. This is sometimes worse than reading about the cases from imperial China, at least no source there advocated fucking 7 year olds. And keep in mind, the author here himself states that the age counting is different, so 7 years back then means 6 years today, maybe even 5 years!
And what was also noticable is that the tales by Saikaku (the author of The Great Mirror of Male Love) are a primary source for him and that is so annoying as this is just that one book!!!!! So why does he rely on that tract so often? And btw. the term pederasty hadn't occurred so far as well.
And there are some exceptions here of teenagers being as "old" as 17 or 19 (so maybe 16-18 years of age), or performing in a masculine way and even a male role actor being a prostitute, but the majority are younger and feminized or female role actors. And the prostitutes come from destitute families and I wonder where the actors come from. After the Tempo reforms they were referred in official documents with the suffix -hiki, ususually applied to animals, suggesting something rather negative.
The end of the "chapter" on egalitarian relationships is so typical for this book. First the author acts as if these things were common, for some reason, and tolerated and all, but his last statements about how rare they were and beyond most men's imagination and so focus on boys, completely belies this assertion.
He wrote himself that "Similarly, most Japanese of the Tokugawa period probably viewed sexual desire (iro ) as a force that might become focused upon either women or men." What men? He barely mentioned any. And he stated earlier himself that popular attitudes are unknown, he simply assumes that what literati claim or do is true for the wider society. And only when he gets to the criticism of these practices does he use the term pederasty again.
The author states that Saikaku claims that "people easily accepted" the homosexual relationship of two young samurai, but this claim of tolerance is contradicted by Saikaku writing in the Nanshoku Ōkagami (The Great Mirror of Male Love) that so many of these relationships had to be kept secret and points it out when they are tolerated. Leupp himself stated examples to the contrary and how nanshoku wasn't considered exemplary behavior. What he writes here about the arguments against Nanshoku (nature, social and financial effects etc.) doesn't sound like such a tolerant society, even what he writes in the chapter on social tolerance doesn't sound that good either. It might be better to ask more why such brothels were tolerated officially after all instead of claiming Japan was so tolerant. It doesn't sound much different from Europe actually. And one of the critics of nanshoku confirmed what I suspected earlier: The kabuki actors come from the lowest families as well, not just the prostitutes, and I doubt that this is coincidence.
And fine, he states that the law doesn't say anything about unnaturalness of nanshoku... but why? Could it be that even very bad things were considered natural? And btw. with the intense association of nanshoku and violence in the Tokugawa era (and apparently before), especially among the samurai (including rape and parents not letting their boys out), the author can sugarcoat this as much as he wants, this sounds really really bad. And when he once more claims that there was no stigma attached to homosexual passivity, I don't believe him. There are too many contradictions in his argumentations, too many cases where he seems to ignore his own sources and too much double standard. In short, this is in my experience a very typical study of non-western "homosexual" behavior.
And it is really strange when the author once again mentions his astoundment when men who are the insertee role among the kabuki actors enjoy the inserter role when they have sex with women. Considered that most actors came from destitute families, most of them would be straight just by pure chance, so naturally they would prefer to fuck women instead of being fucked by men. Is this author really so dumb? Well, kind of, you will see what is going on here.
And when Confucian and Buddhist authors say something negative about women, he doesn't believe it, but when literati write something pro his own stance, he does belief it. Due to things like this, I can't believe this guy, absolutely not. He is just unreliable by this point.
His hypothesis on the lack of male on male blowjobs is basically: It has to be there to keep some seperation between the sexes and keep something exclusively heterosexual. But considered how much he got wrong before and how contradictory he is, I don't think there is much to it. After all, if it was basically about submission and dominance we should find it at least performed by male prostitutes.
Of course he ends this book with the claim that he is right about the social constructionist thesis. And he does that by claiming that Japan became homophobic because of adopting western ideas. Apparently he ignores all the examples from before that he himself had shown that were against nanshoku for various reasons, in fact these "New" reasons from the west sound pretty similar to the old Japanese ones.
So in the end, this book is basically unreliable, it might have good information, but the author omitted so much, contradicted himself so often and sometimes straight up lied, that there is no way I would ever recommend this book to anyone.