Pregs Govender does a remarkable thing with Love and Courage: A Story of Insubordination; she both comforts the reader, while inciting activism and insubordination. Instead of viewing her past as an activist, the difficulties in her life, and the plight of oppressed persons across the planet with a lens that is steeped in bitterness and anger, Pregs shifts the narrative gracefully to one of compassion and strength. The book tells a greater story about the first years of South Africa's democracy, through the actions of one thoughtful and brave Member of Parliament, feminist activist, mother and writer. Pregs opens up to the reader with this piece of work and the result is a comraderie and compassion that is almost tangible, which extends from the book and Pregs herself. I feel prouder than ever to be an 'insubordinate woman' after reading this book.