Como creamos valor para nosotros y para los demas mientras simultaneamente participamos en la actual economia de libre mercado? Como producimos resultados mientras a la vez desarrollamos relaciones en que nos cuidamos los unos a los otros durante el proceso? Hoy, en vez de involucrarnos alegremente en amplias redes de personas, estamos cada vez mas estresados en nuestras relaciones de trabajo. Con la tecnologia en red, desconectarnos se hace cada vez mas dificil. Debemos aprender habilidades que nos permitan construir confianza, coordinar nuestros compromisos de manera mas efectiva, escucharnos y construir redes de compromisos con el objetivo de generar valor para nosotros, para nuestras familias, para las organizaciones en las cuales participamos, para nuestras comunidades, y para el mundo entero. Los ensayos de esta coleccion ofrecen un marco para desarrollar estas habilidades en el lugar de trabajo o en cualquier contexto donde una persona debe coordinarse con otras para hacer que algo suceda. Los ensayos describen como realizar compromisos efectivos que nos permitan producir algo de valor. Son versiones editadas de obras escritas por Fernando Flores en las organizaciones que el dirigio. Describiendo el marco de las redes de compromisos y conversaciones para la accion desarrollado por Flores -un marco que ha sido citado en mas de tres mil libros-, el autor pinta una imagen viva del lenguaje como accion, demostrando que cuando las personas participan en conversaciones, existe la posibilidad de realizar o no realizar compromisos. Cuando se realizan compromisos, suceden cosas. Estos ensayos describen los elementos basicos para instaurar una cultura del compromisos en nuestras relaciones de trabajo, permitiendonos concentrarnos en el valor que estamos creando juntos en vez del permanente estres de vivir calculando intercambios basados en intereses individuales."
There are some gems in this, particularly the transition graphs used for formal representation of "conversations for action". Translated: look at the verbs.
I thought this was excellent and very different from other books u may have read about Communication or listenning. The chapter at the end on Listening was particularly impressive and talks about the need not to focus on the facts about what one is saying but to try to arrive together at a state where u are comfortable talking openly. The focus on commitment based conversations is very apt in an age when we are becoming less and less committed to things in general. Raised some very interesting points.
I knew of Flores's work but had never read him directly before. Unsurprisingly for a person who emphasizes communication, these essays are clear and well written, breaking down conversations and coordination into clear steps and sequences of request, promise, statement of completion, statement of acceptance. That structure can help to analyze breakdowns in communication by identifying which steps were skipped over or missed.
The last essay on listening particularly spoke to me as he describes listening as an opportunity to create a shared space of common concern with the speaker. Such a space can create new possibilities for speaker and listener, and is a great description for what I try to do as a coach.
This book offers a clear framework to communicate better
This books split conversation in different parts that can be handle and analyzed separately. Also offering hints about how to manage moods and responses along the conversation.
imho it doesn’t introduce any new concepts or groundbreaking ideas, but it serves as a great reminder of communication features that we often take for granted or overlook. I found its topics highly useful for work/client relationships, and at times, even applicable to interpersonal relationships.
Leitura bem técnico. Tive que me concentrar bastante para ler e entender os conceitos. Há muita informação em cada parágrafo. Gostei das técnicas. Vou tentar aplica-las
Flores’ “Conversations for Action” presents a powerful framework for understanding how to coordinate and realize futures in the modern context. The chapter discussing moods was well worth it.