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Why I Do That: On the Habits I Hide, the Stories I Tell, and the Person Underneath
You reread the message after sending it. You rehearsed the conversation in the shower. You said you were fine, convincingly, and were quietly disappointed when it worked.
For two books, the Why We Do That series has watched other the friend who over-apologises, the colleague who performs busy, the strong one nobody checks on. This is the book where the lens turns around.
Why I Do That follows twelve ordinary behaviours all the way the conversations rehearsed for people who never hear them, the compliment that is never allowed to finish, the day off that must be earned, the plan with backups for its backups, and the comfort we keep handing the very person who caused the hurt. Underneath them it finds one private rule, written young and still on duty.
Every behaviour made sense once. This book goes looking for when.
Told with warmth, dry humour, research held lightly, and one small experiment at the end of each chapter. A mirror, held kindly.
The third and final book in the Why We Do That series. Reads perfectly on its own.
For two books, the Why We Do That series has watched other the friend who over-apologises, the colleague who performs busy, the strong one nobody checks on. This is the book where the lens turns around.
Why I Do That follows twelve ordinary behaviours all the way the conversations rehearsed for people who never hear them, the compliment that is never allowed to finish, the day off that must be earned, the plan with backups for its backups, and the comfort we keep handing the very person who caused the hurt. Underneath them it finds one private rule, written young and still on duty.
Every behaviour made sense once. This book goes looking for when.
Told with warmth, dry humour, research held lightly, and one small experiment at the end of each chapter. A mirror, held kindly.
The third and final book in the Why We Do That series. Reads perfectly on its own.
100 pages, Hardcover
Published September 25, 2026
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