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With No Regrets
Readers who love stories of women finding their truths will enjoy Ford’s spot-on portrayal of midlife change, friendship, and romance. –BookLife by Publishers Weekly
Finley isn’t exactly sure when her life began to feel unfamiliar. She suspects the transformation started long before she caught her husband and fellow garden club member doing the white-trash-two-step on her new Bernhardt sofa. Now free from the shackles of a loveless marriage, and with her children off to college, she’s finally able to go searching for the missing pieces of her heart. Finley’s best friend, Cathyanne, is already working hard to ensure that Finley finds true love this time around. But when Finley is unwittingly tossed into the arms of two men—their sexy trainer and her neighbor, a popular country star—Cathyanne fears finding the right guy will be more complicated than she ever could have imagined.
For Finley, building a new life feels as impossible as flying a paper airplane to the moon. But maybe, just maybe, with the right help, she will find her whole heart—even if it’s in the very last place she thinks to look.
Finley isn’t exactly sure when her life began to feel unfamiliar. She suspects the transformation started long before she caught her husband and fellow garden club member doing the white-trash-two-step on her new Bernhardt sofa. Now free from the shackles of a loveless marriage, and with her children off to college, she’s finally able to go searching for the missing pieces of her heart. Finley’s best friend, Cathyanne, is already working hard to ensure that Finley finds true love this time around. But when Finley is unwittingly tossed into the arms of two men—their sexy trainer and her neighbor, a popular country star—Cathyanne fears finding the right guy will be more complicated than she ever could have imagined.
For Finley, building a new life feels as impossible as flying a paper airplane to the moon. But maybe, just maybe, with the right help, she will find her whole heart—even if it’s in the very last place she thinks to look.
340 pages, Paperback
First published May 26, 2015
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Julie N. Ford
7 books187 followersA graduate from San Diego State University with a BA in Political Science, Julie also earned a Master of Social Work from the University of Alabama, which has only made her better able to recognize the unhealthy, codependent relationship she has with writing. Professionally, she has worked as a Lamaze Certified Childbirth Instructor, small Business Owner/Manager, and Licensed Clinical Social Worker. She is the author of six women’s fiction novels, including Count Down to Love, a 2011 Whitney Award finalist. When she’s not writing or seeing clients, Julie entertains delusions of being a master gardener and/or beekeeper. She has lived all over the United States, including Texas, Alabama, Florida, Tennessee, and Southern Utah. In December (2020), Julie relocated with her husband and Scottish Fold cat to the enchanted State of Oregon. She loves to chat with readers.
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June 12, 2015
I've been looking forward to reading this book. I've read other books by Julie Ford and enjoyed them so I was hopeful for this one. I'm coming in with mixed ideas about this book. It's sort of a like/dislike relationship I have going on with this book right now.
First, I did enjoy reading a book with a slightly older main character than I usually see in many books. Finley is a woman with grown children and a lot of life experiences behind her. Recently divorced, Finley is trying to work through the emotions and conflict surrounding her new found place in life.
I liked the basic story line and I enjoyed Finley's growth through the book. Her struggles seemed real and even though I couldn't relate personally to many things she was going through, I felt the emotional tug. I loved the journey personally that Finley is on that is apart from her romantic entanglements. It was a self-awareness that shifts as she realizes that there are other people out there, struggling, and that she make a difference. Not just generally, but personally. That was the best bit of the book for me.
This book, for me personally, was a bit crass in many parts. There is swearing and many instances of crass kind of talk. There is a lot of sexual innuendo and references to affairs. I guess I just wasn't expecting that. I will be hesitant to pick up more book by Julie Ford because now I am confused as to how she writes. None of her other books have been this way. So, there is the like/dislike. I liked the story and the personal growth for Finley but I could have done without some of the swearing and sexual references.
First, I did enjoy reading a book with a slightly older main character than I usually see in many books. Finley is a woman with grown children and a lot of life experiences behind her. Recently divorced, Finley is trying to work through the emotions and conflict surrounding her new found place in life.
I liked the basic story line and I enjoyed Finley's growth through the book. Her struggles seemed real and even though I couldn't relate personally to many things she was going through, I felt the emotional tug. I loved the journey personally that Finley is on that is apart from her romantic entanglements. It was a self-awareness that shifts as she realizes that there are other people out there, struggling, and that she make a difference. Not just generally, but personally. That was the best bit of the book for me.
This book, for me personally, was a bit crass in many parts. There is swearing and many instances of crass kind of talk. There is a lot of sexual innuendo and references to affairs. I guess I just wasn't expecting that. I will be hesitant to pick up more book by Julie Ford because now I am confused as to how she writes. None of her other books have been this way. So, there is the like/dislike. I liked the story and the personal growth for Finley but I could have done without some of the swearing and sexual references.
June 5, 2015
As with a lot of women's fiction, I was expecting some emotion, but not as much as I felt. A lot of the emotion and realizations came with the situation with Finnie's best friend. The story starts out with Finley (aka Finnie) trying to air her dirty laundry--the reason why she's in a divorce support group. She came across as awkward and distracted, but my first impressions were far from right. She has been coasting along in life and in her marriage and is finally ready to make a change and take a stand.
Finley is a woman who is on a journey of self-discovery. I loved watching her find herself and taking time to figure her life out. She's got a bit of sass and is very rooted to her past and to what's socially appropriate. She's got a few different possible love interest, which made for some entertainment.
Bachelor #1--Roy. Roy is Finnie's ex-husband and she wonders if she's been too hasty, since her feelings are unresolved, even though he cheated on her many times. I love the way things resolved with him and that whole situation.
Bachelor #2--Josh. Josh is Finnie's personal trainer at the gym. He's cute, buff, nice...and about 10 years younger than her. They're a good balance together, since they're so opposite and he really is a sweet guy.
Bachelor #3--Quinton. Quinton is Finnie's next door neighbor and is also a music star who has turbulent past. He's a little mysterious and is very creative, especially with his words.
The journey to live with no regrets is a tough one for Finnie to make and I really did enjoy the ups and downs, especially the life realizations. Having no regrets seems almost impossible to do, but sometimes thinking outside of the box helps. I couldn't help but reevaluate my own life and my priorities.
Content: moderate innuendo, kissing (including heavy making out), talk of affairs; mild religious elements (it's the South); mild language.
*I received a copy in exchange for an honest review*
Finley is a woman who is on a journey of self-discovery. I loved watching her find herself and taking time to figure her life out. She's got a bit of sass and is very rooted to her past and to what's socially appropriate. She's got a few different possible love interest, which made for some entertainment.
Bachelor #1--Roy. Roy is Finnie's ex-husband and she wonders if she's been too hasty, since her feelings are unresolved, even though he cheated on her many times. I love the way things resolved with him and that whole situation.
Bachelor #2--Josh. Josh is Finnie's personal trainer at the gym. He's cute, buff, nice...and about 10 years younger than her. They're a good balance together, since they're so opposite and he really is a sweet guy.
Bachelor #3--Quinton. Quinton is Finnie's next door neighbor and is also a music star who has turbulent past. He's a little mysterious and is very creative, especially with his words.
The journey to live with no regrets is a tough one for Finnie to make and I really did enjoy the ups and downs, especially the life realizations. Having no regrets seems almost impossible to do, but sometimes thinking outside of the box helps. I couldn't help but reevaluate my own life and my priorities.
Content: moderate innuendo, kissing (including heavy making out), talk of affairs; mild religious elements (it's the South); mild language.
*I received a copy in exchange for an honest review*
April 25, 2015
I read this book in manuscript format. Blew me away. The imagery is beautiful, the romance very well done and realistic. This is a clean romance but isn't just a romance, and anyone who enjoys women's fiction will enjoy this book. It's really about a woman's journey. Love this story!
August 12, 2015
In an over saturated genre it was a pleasure and a delight to come across this novel.
For some reason (probably the sheer number published each month) as soon as a book is labelled a "romance" I expect a certain level of mediocrity, predictability and banality (unfair of me I know), so when reading this and finding passages that actually were worth quoting they were so well written, I was incredibly pleased.
Finley ("Finnie") is a wealthy Southern woman who has just divorced her husband of 20 years. With her two children at college she is on a journey of self-discovery to find out what her life should become now. Heard it all before? Well in some ways. But what marks this novel out as a cut above is the use of Finnie's Divorce Support Group as a way of reflecting her back to us. We may know her innermost thoughts and good intentions but the group view her in a different way. They see a spoiled, trivial women whining about "not feeling connected" with her handsome rich husband whilst they have suffered abuse, gambling and drug addictions, and major traumas. Whilst Finnie is agonizing over what the world will think of her for dating her younger personal trainer, these people are worried about the financial implications of being single as they lose apartments and jobs. Julie Ford manages to strike a nice balance between Finnie and her group so while we are rooting for her and enthralled by her relationships we get to see another side to how the divorce story can go.
One of the most laudable efforts of this novel was the host of complex and rich characters, all with their own faults and foibles, but all of whom have something to teach us about life. Towards the end of the book I did feel the tiniest bit like I had maybe learned enough and was ready to race straight for the end but I was on this journey with Finnie and willing to learn all that she did.
Humorous, wise and ultimately uplifting, this complex and multi-layered novel will keep readers entranced as Finnie makes her choice between the delectable Josh, her ex-husband Roy and her enigmatic neighbor Quinton.
For some reason (probably the sheer number published each month) as soon as a book is labelled a "romance" I expect a certain level of mediocrity, predictability and banality (unfair of me I know), so when reading this and finding passages that actually were worth quoting they were so well written, I was incredibly pleased.
Finley ("Finnie") is a wealthy Southern woman who has just divorced her husband of 20 years. With her two children at college she is on a journey of self-discovery to find out what her life should become now. Heard it all before? Well in some ways. But what marks this novel out as a cut above is the use of Finnie's Divorce Support Group as a way of reflecting her back to us. We may know her innermost thoughts and good intentions but the group view her in a different way. They see a spoiled, trivial women whining about "not feeling connected" with her handsome rich husband whilst they have suffered abuse, gambling and drug addictions, and major traumas. Whilst Finnie is agonizing over what the world will think of her for dating her younger personal trainer, these people are worried about the financial implications of being single as they lose apartments and jobs. Julie Ford manages to strike a nice balance between Finnie and her group so while we are rooting for her and enthralled by her relationships we get to see another side to how the divorce story can go.
One of the most laudable efforts of this novel was the host of complex and rich characters, all with their own faults and foibles, but all of whom have something to teach us about life. Towards the end of the book I did feel the tiniest bit like I had maybe learned enough and was ready to race straight for the end but I was on this journey with Finnie and willing to learn all that she did.
Humorous, wise and ultimately uplifting, this complex and multi-layered novel will keep readers entranced as Finnie makes her choice between the delectable Josh, her ex-husband Roy and her enigmatic neighbor Quinton.
May 28, 2015
This book captured me, and held me in is grasp till the very end. I felt the pain and the joy of the journey and friendships. Julie has a gift for transporting real life issues and situations into a colorful work of art on the pages of her books.
I gained some wonderful insight to some of my own life issues from the journey Finley was on, and think many readers probably will! Women need each other and this book shows how we can be there for each other even when we think we are the one in need. If we look to our hearts and reach outside of ourselves we can accomplish so much with and for each other. Julie floats hope for her readers! Another great book by this talented author!
I gained some wonderful insight to some of my own life issues from the journey Finley was on, and think many readers probably will! Women need each other and this book shows how we can be there for each other even when we think we are the one in need. If we look to our hearts and reach outside of ourselves we can accomplish so much with and for each other. Julie floats hope for her readers! Another great book by this talented author!
July 28, 2015
I was given a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Finley Harrison, forty years old and recently divorced from a cheating husband, decides to join a colorful divorce therapy group. Until her divorce, she had obediently followed the rules, even sinking herself deeply into an unfulfilling and loveless marriage. Searching for a clue to help her to restart her life adjoining her new situation, she surprised herself with her answer –relieved-, when she was asked about how she felt about walking on her husband with another woman.
After the first turbulent therapy session she promises her best friend Cathyanne she will never return to that therapy group. But life has a different plan for her, as Cathyanne has as well. Until that moment, Finley had always been Cathyanne’s rock. But she is the one needing help this time, and her best friend is ready to hold her a hand. She has a plan.
Quinton is Finley’s neighbor and a respected songwriter. They became very good friends some years ago when Finley helped him to find a focus in his life, far from his own demons. Josh is hers and Cathyanne’s trainer. And Roy is Finley’s handsome ex-husband. Besides her therapy group and her own need for a change, Finley suddenly finds herself surrounded by three men interested in her. Somehow, she sees something lovingly in every one of them, but not enough to throw herself into a new relationship. She needs to find something to do with her life as well. She wants her life to matter. And surprisingly, she finds in her therapy group a path she is meant to travel –the box that needing breaking. She knows there is something important out there waiting for her to be done, and she is eager to work on that.
No regrets for tomorrow. No regrets for today. Give a hand when you can… if there’s a hand that’s reaching your way…
With no Regrets is beautiful story about two friends and how they helped each others to go through the most excruciating moments of their lives that will have you laughing at one moment and in tears at the next. A wonderful journey!
I absolutely loved this book!
Finley Harrison, forty years old and recently divorced from a cheating husband, decides to join a colorful divorce therapy group. Until her divorce, she had obediently followed the rules, even sinking herself deeply into an unfulfilling and loveless marriage. Searching for a clue to help her to restart her life adjoining her new situation, she surprised herself with her answer –relieved-, when she was asked about how she felt about walking on her husband with another woman.
After the first turbulent therapy session she promises her best friend Cathyanne she will never return to that therapy group. But life has a different plan for her, as Cathyanne has as well. Until that moment, Finley had always been Cathyanne’s rock. But she is the one needing help this time, and her best friend is ready to hold her a hand. She has a plan.
Quinton is Finley’s neighbor and a respected songwriter. They became very good friends some years ago when Finley helped him to find a focus in his life, far from his own demons. Josh is hers and Cathyanne’s trainer. And Roy is Finley’s handsome ex-husband. Besides her therapy group and her own need for a change, Finley suddenly finds herself surrounded by three men interested in her. Somehow, she sees something lovingly in every one of them, but not enough to throw herself into a new relationship. She needs to find something to do with her life as well. She wants her life to matter. And surprisingly, she finds in her therapy group a path she is meant to travel –the box that needing breaking. She knows there is something important out there waiting for her to be done, and she is eager to work on that.
No regrets for tomorrow. No regrets for today. Give a hand when you can… if there’s a hand that’s reaching your way…
With no Regrets is beautiful story about two friends and how they helped each others to go through the most excruciating moments of their lives that will have you laughing at one moment and in tears at the next. A wonderful journey!
I absolutely loved this book!
June 16, 2015
With No Regrets proves once again that Julie N. Ford writes beautiful novels. Atmospheric and touching, With No Regrets was the kind of book that transports you straight to the south. Everything from the garden settings to the clothing, the music and the conversations they have make you feel like you've lived there before with the characters.
I thought Finley's journey toward healing following her divorce was very believable. It felt almost like a coming-of-age story for a forty year old woman who is trying to figure out who she is now that she's not trying to be Roy's wife or Royanne and Shep's mom, Cathyanne's friend, or even the perfect society lady that never does anything wrong.
My favorite part, of course, was the love story. There were three men interested in Finley, and I honestly didn't know who she'd end up with until about 3/4 of the way through the story--and it was perfect. This is a feel-good book that will remind you that life is fleeting and now is the time to choose to be the person you want to be.
Here's the back cover copy:
Finley isn’t exactly sure when her life began to feel unfamiliar. She suspects the transformation started long before she caught her husband and fellow garden club member doing the white-trash-two-step on her new Bernhardt sofa. Now free from the shackles of a loveless marriage, and with her children off to college, she’s finally able to go searching for the missing pieces of her heart.
Finley’s best friend, Cathyanne, is already working hard to ensure that Finley finds true love this time around. But when Finley is unwittingly tossed into the arms of two men—their sexy trainer and her neighbor, a popular country star—Cathyanne fears finding the right guy will be more complicated than she ever could have imagined.
For Finley, building a new life feels as impossible as flying a paper airplane to the moon. But maybe, just maybe, with the right help, she will find her whole heart—even if it’s in the very last place she thinks to look.
*I was provided a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
I thought Finley's journey toward healing following her divorce was very believable. It felt almost like a coming-of-age story for a forty year old woman who is trying to figure out who she is now that she's not trying to be Roy's wife or Royanne and Shep's mom, Cathyanne's friend, or even the perfect society lady that never does anything wrong.
My favorite part, of course, was the love story. There were three men interested in Finley, and I honestly didn't know who she'd end up with until about 3/4 of the way through the story--and it was perfect. This is a feel-good book that will remind you that life is fleeting and now is the time to choose to be the person you want to be.
Here's the back cover copy:
Finley isn’t exactly sure when her life began to feel unfamiliar. She suspects the transformation started long before she caught her husband and fellow garden club member doing the white-trash-two-step on her new Bernhardt sofa. Now free from the shackles of a loveless marriage, and with her children off to college, she’s finally able to go searching for the missing pieces of her heart.
Finley’s best friend, Cathyanne, is already working hard to ensure that Finley finds true love this time around. But when Finley is unwittingly tossed into the arms of two men—their sexy trainer and her neighbor, a popular country star—Cathyanne fears finding the right guy will be more complicated than she ever could have imagined.
For Finley, building a new life feels as impossible as flying a paper airplane to the moon. But maybe, just maybe, with the right help, she will find her whole heart—even if it’s in the very last place she thinks to look.
*I was provided a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
June 12, 2015
I have loved the books written by Julie Ford. You know that you will definitely read a good romance. This book also had a lot of humor and some very spicy characters. The women in this book are Southern, sassy, and don't take things lying down. They stand up for what they want and what they believe in. This can also cause problems along the way. Friendship is a big focus in the book.
Finley is the main character who is forty and now a divorced, single mom. Yes, I could totally relate to her thoughts and feelings with starting your life over again mid-life. It's a scary time for a woman in this position and Julie captured exactly how I felt right after my divorce. The characters are shown as humans with faults and stumbling along the path of life. The characters though are good Christian people who in the end find ways to lift each other up.
Finley is confused a lot because of the three men in her life: her cheating, ex husband Roy, her new, younger boyfriend Josh, and her really good friend, country singer Quinton. Now I was just way jealous of this character to have so many options in which to have man troubles. But, through it all and her interactions with them she learns many things about herself and grows from it all in the end.
This book will have you laughing at the funny characters, but the story will also bring you to tears in a few places. If you like stories like Steel Magnolias, you will love With No Regrets. This cast full of characters that will stay on my mind for a long time to come. I may even keep talking with a Southern accent for a while too. Bye Y'all!
There is moderate sexual innuendo, heavy kissing, some language and talk of marital affairs.
Finley is the main character who is forty and now a divorced, single mom. Yes, I could totally relate to her thoughts and feelings with starting your life over again mid-life. It's a scary time for a woman in this position and Julie captured exactly how I felt right after my divorce. The characters are shown as humans with faults and stumbling along the path of life. The characters though are good Christian people who in the end find ways to lift each other up.
Finley is confused a lot because of the three men in her life: her cheating, ex husband Roy, her new, younger boyfriend Josh, and her really good friend, country singer Quinton. Now I was just way jealous of this character to have so many options in which to have man troubles. But, through it all and her interactions with them she learns many things about herself and grows from it all in the end.
This book will have you laughing at the funny characters, but the story will also bring you to tears in a few places. If you like stories like Steel Magnolias, you will love With No Regrets. This cast full of characters that will stay on my mind for a long time to come. I may even keep talking with a Southern accent for a while too. Bye Y'all!
There is moderate sexual innuendo, heavy kissing, some language and talk of marital affairs.
July 22, 2015
There were positive and negative parts to this book. For me, the rating came down to just how much I disliked the main character of Finley. Instead of being pulled into her emotions, I found myself cheering against her because she annoyed me so much. One of the positives is that I actually had that strong of an emotion!
Finley is a 40 year old divorcee that is having a lot of emotional issues dealing with the ending of her marriage and her desire to find love again. Her husband had cheated on her multiple times with females she knew - including a friend and an employee of hers. The employee was a nightmare, yet she kept her on. Finley came off as a doormat. Ok... hard to imagine, but plausible.
She has two children off at college. I was angry with her for pretty much ignoring their existence until almost the end of the book. I can't believe she was as emotional as she was yet never once wanted to speak to her children, hug them, anything. It came off weird.
My real problem with Finley was how self focused she was. She spent the entire time in ME ME ME Land. She made every single thing about her.. including the passing of a character. I wanted to slap her so many times! Near the end she had a miracle breakthrough that basically brought everything to a nice and tidy conclusion. It was nice to see her experience that growth and for things to come around nicely for the other characters, but it kinda felt like "Ok.. time to bring this trainwreck to an end."
Finley is a 40 year old divorcee that is having a lot of emotional issues dealing with the ending of her marriage and her desire to find love again. Her husband had cheated on her multiple times with females she knew - including a friend and an employee of hers. The employee was a nightmare, yet she kept her on. Finley came off as a doormat. Ok... hard to imagine, but plausible.
She has two children off at college. I was angry with her for pretty much ignoring their existence until almost the end of the book. I can't believe she was as emotional as she was yet never once wanted to speak to her children, hug them, anything. It came off weird.
My real problem with Finley was how self focused she was. She spent the entire time in ME ME ME Land. She made every single thing about her.. including the passing of a character. I wanted to slap her so many times! Near the end she had a miracle breakthrough that basically brought everything to a nice and tidy conclusion. It was nice to see her experience that growth and for things to come around nicely for the other characters, but it kinda felt like "Ok.. time to bring this trainwreck to an end."
August 29, 2015
Disclosure: The e-book version of this novel was sent to me for an honest review. The opinions are entirely my own.
It is really hard for me to find a romance book to satisfy me. I do not hate the romance genre, I am just so tired of the same old clichés that I can't enjoy a book. But this book? Oh, this book was lovely and surprising and a great romance!
For starters, our protagonist is not your average lady. She is 40, rich, freshly divorced, with two grown-up kids and she just made a scene in front of her rich friends and neighbours, spilling everyone's secrets out in the wild. We do get a bunch of suitors, naturally, and while the reader might guess which one is "the true love", you can never be sure. The novel keeps you guessing all the time.
And there are more important themes... selflessness, dealing with loss, dealing with change, becoming your one true self and not acting how society wants you too and more! There is a quote that I absolutely loved: “Compromise brings change. And change makes us grow, which is good for not only the heart and the mind, but for the soul too.”
It is really hard for me to find a romance book to satisfy me. I do not hate the romance genre, I am just so tired of the same old clichés that I can't enjoy a book. But this book? Oh, this book was lovely and surprising and a great romance!
For starters, our protagonist is not your average lady. She is 40, rich, freshly divorced, with two grown-up kids and she just made a scene in front of her rich friends and neighbours, spilling everyone's secrets out in the wild. We do get a bunch of suitors, naturally, and while the reader might guess which one is "the true love", you can never be sure. The novel keeps you guessing all the time.
And there are more important themes... selflessness, dealing with loss, dealing with change, becoming your one true self and not acting how society wants you too and more! There is a quote that I absolutely loved: “Compromise brings change. And change makes us grow, which is good for not only the heart and the mind, but for the soul too.”
July 1, 2015
I was lucky enough to win a copy of With No Regrets through a Goodreads Giveaway. I began reading right away and realized that for me the book had highs and lows in terms of my interest. The beginning was tough to get into, yet in the middle I was captured by the characters and openly cried at the loss of a character. However, by the end I was back to kind of uninterested again and struggled through the final twenty-some pages. Overall, the writing was clever, witty, and well-done! I enjoyed the dialogue and the style very much but the storyline lost me at a few points. I am excited to pass on my giveaway copy to others and see what they think.
May 7, 2015
A refreshing and inspiring tale about taking second chances and starting over from scratch, no matter where you're at in life. Set against a vibrant, southern backdrop and filled with loveable, dynamic characters, "With No Regrets" focuses on finding hope by taking action and putting your heart and soul out on the line, even if it makes you vulnerable. My favorite element though would have to be the bond between Finley and her best friend, Nora, which provides some of the most delightful and heart-wrenching moments in this beautiful story.
January 29, 2016
I was hesitant at first but ended up liking this story. There was more content (innuendo, talk of sex, crude comment) than what I was expecting and it put me off a little bit. None of it was overly graphic but this book won't be a good fit for those expecting a squeaky clean read. Obviously based on the title this is a book about learning to live with no regrets and making choices that bring happiness. I liked the overall message of this book.
Content: mild language, crude comments, innuendo and talk of sex
Content: mild language, crude comments, innuendo and talk of sex
October 15, 2016
Julie did it again! I absolutely love her characters! She goes beyond the typical characters you've met over and over again in other stories and instead brings exciting, new, and addicting characters you want to read about all day long! The way she writes makes you feel like you are in the same room or even the same conversations as the characters. I love being apart of the southern lives she has created! Amazing story telling again Julie N Ford!
June 10, 2015
With No Regrets is a wonderful Southern romance / women's fiction story that will tug at the heartstrings and leave you with a smile!
Author Julie N. Ford weaves a delightful tale set in Nashville that follows forty year old new divorcee Finley (aka Finnie) Harrison's journey of self discovery.
After dropping her daughter Royanne off at Vanderbilt University for the summer session, Finley comes home and catches her husband Roy on the couch with fellow garden club member Macy Wallace. After twenty-one years of marriage, and a loveless marriage at that, Finley files for divorce and has to figure out how to restart her life.
When Finley commits a Southern faux pas at the monthly garden club luncheon, think of the Julia Roberts movie, Something To Talk About, Finley's mama thinks she should join a divorce therapy / support group because she's not handling the divorce very well. After attending her first meeting, Finley's not taken with the whole "Divorce Is Not An End But A New Beginning" philosophy, and is reluctant to return to the group. But best friend Cathyanne Morrow has other plans to help jump start Finley's life ... that is her love life to be exact! Cathyanne's plans are to get Finley hooked up with her reclusive country star and friendly neighbor Quinton Townes, but a monkey wrench is thrown into the plans when Finley has her eyes on the hunky gym trainer Josh, who is ten years younger than her, and oh lord add in ex-husband Roy to the list because of Finley's unresolved feelings for him ... and what you get is a middle aged Southern lady trying to figure out how to find her true self, find love and happiness, and to live life with no regrets!
With No Regrets is such a fun story to read! The author weaves a poignant story that mixes humor, drama, friendship, and Southern charm that easily draws the reader into Finley's story. I love to read Southern romantic / women's fiction stories, and this story thoroughly captivated me from the beginning. OMG, I snorted when I read about Finley's garden club incident, a la the Julia Robert's movie, Something To Talk About, which is one of my favorite movies, so this scene in the book got two thumbs up!
There is something special about a story that is able to captivate a reader and take them along the character's journey from beginning to end. With No Regrets does a wonderful job of engaging the reader while getting them to laugh, smile, have their heart strings pulled, and embark on a thrilling roller coaster ride where they will feel like they have experienced the full gamut of emotions. From the sassy sisterly friendship between Finley and Cathyanne; to Finley's romance dilemmas with Quinton, Josh, and Roy; to the crazy antics from the divorce group members; to the ups and downs of Finley's journey towards self-discovery; the reader is in for a special treat when they read this Southern charmer of a story!
Disclaimer: I received a copy of he book from the author / publisher in exchange for my honest review and participation in a virtual book tour event hosted by I Am A Reader Book Blasts and Blog Tours.
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Author Julie N. Ford weaves a delightful tale set in Nashville that follows forty year old new divorcee Finley (aka Finnie) Harrison's journey of self discovery.
After dropping her daughter Royanne off at Vanderbilt University for the summer session, Finley comes home and catches her husband Roy on the couch with fellow garden club member Macy Wallace. After twenty-one years of marriage, and a loveless marriage at that, Finley files for divorce and has to figure out how to restart her life.
When Finley commits a Southern faux pas at the monthly garden club luncheon, think of the Julia Roberts movie, Something To Talk About, Finley's mama thinks she should join a divorce therapy / support group because she's not handling the divorce very well. After attending her first meeting, Finley's not taken with the whole "Divorce Is Not An End But A New Beginning" philosophy, and is reluctant to return to the group. But best friend Cathyanne Morrow has other plans to help jump start Finley's life ... that is her love life to be exact! Cathyanne's plans are to get Finley hooked up with her reclusive country star and friendly neighbor Quinton Townes, but a monkey wrench is thrown into the plans when Finley has her eyes on the hunky gym trainer Josh, who is ten years younger than her, and oh lord add in ex-husband Roy to the list because of Finley's unresolved feelings for him ... and what you get is a middle aged Southern lady trying to figure out how to find her true self, find love and happiness, and to live life with no regrets!
With No Regrets is such a fun story to read! The author weaves a poignant story that mixes humor, drama, friendship, and Southern charm that easily draws the reader into Finley's story. I love to read Southern romantic / women's fiction stories, and this story thoroughly captivated me from the beginning. OMG, I snorted when I read about Finley's garden club incident, a la the Julia Robert's movie, Something To Talk About, which is one of my favorite movies, so this scene in the book got two thumbs up!
There is something special about a story that is able to captivate a reader and take them along the character's journey from beginning to end. With No Regrets does a wonderful job of engaging the reader while getting them to laugh, smile, have their heart strings pulled, and embark on a thrilling roller coaster ride where they will feel like they have experienced the full gamut of emotions. From the sassy sisterly friendship between Finley and Cathyanne; to Finley's romance dilemmas with Quinton, Josh, and Roy; to the crazy antics from the divorce group members; to the ups and downs of Finley's journey towards self-discovery; the reader is in for a special treat when they read this Southern charmer of a story!
Disclaimer: I received a copy of he book from the author / publisher in exchange for my honest review and participation in a virtual book tour event hosted by I Am A Reader Book Blasts and Blog Tours.
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August 17, 2015
I really liked the premise of this book. I really enjoyed watching Finley grow. I was rooting for Quinton the entire way. The beginning of the book grabbed me and had me laughing. I loved the movie “Something to Talk About”; it’s one of my favorites! With No Regrets is a lot like that. The book even refers to it. I love the cover, and the trailer(random, I know).
This clip happens in the book. I can see it unfold just like this one. This clip isn’t an official clip and is handmade so not the best one but it’s the one you need to watch….
I’m not a huge fan of third person books. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. I don’t think it worked this time, for me that is. I got lost somewhere in the middle. I got back on board later though!
The book is about Finley’s journey finding what she wants out of life and family and hope and love and getting over regrets and moving on. Finley was just living the motions out of life and not really feeling them. Sometimes, I think all of us at one point or another just do the motions in our lives. It’s realizing them and doing something about it that makes Finley’s life a happy one!
Finley is a 40 year old divorced mother of two grown children. She has kept herself in shape. She cares about her peach orchard. Quinton is her neighbor. He was a huge country singer that went on an alcohol binge for years and it was Finley who helped him recover. The two of them are also best friends. Cathyanne is Finley’s first best friend. Cathyanne cares so much about Finley that she interferes with her love life and gets three guys to admit they like her. Cathyanne doesn’t know what to do with that in her quest to find Finley some much deserved happiness. Finley makes a decision on one of them. She lets her hair down and enjoys her time with him. But is he really right for her? Finley doesn’t even know.
Finley isn’t really there for her friend Cathyanne. Finley is so caught up in the three guys she is confused about, that she doesn’t have time for her. Cathyanne does kind of make up excuses for Finley not coming to see her. Some chapters are in Cathyanne’s POV.
Then everything blows up in Finley’s face. All three guys in the same place at the same time and all asking her what is going on with the others! The temperature was boiling in that room!I loved being the proverbial fly on that wall!
Anyway, the ending put me on the edge of my seat, even though I still didn’t get a few things. I cried a little. Lessons are learned, families are affected and friendships are forged.
There is no sex in this book. Only some kissing and some throwing some clothes off before realizing that that’s not what you wanted to do. Oops! Some mild swearing.
So, if you like families, southern manners, charities, peaches, wall climbing, fast cars, overcoming alcohol addiction, slave quarters in old southern homes, the movie “Something to Talk About”, finding love, learning to let go of regrets and move forward then you might like this book.
This clip happens in the book. I can see it unfold just like this one. This clip isn’t an official clip and is handmade so not the best one but it’s the one you need to watch….
I’m not a huge fan of third person books. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. I don’t think it worked this time, for me that is. I got lost somewhere in the middle. I got back on board later though!
The book is about Finley’s journey finding what she wants out of life and family and hope and love and getting over regrets and moving on. Finley was just living the motions out of life and not really feeling them. Sometimes, I think all of us at one point or another just do the motions in our lives. It’s realizing them and doing something about it that makes Finley’s life a happy one!
Finley is a 40 year old divorced mother of two grown children. She has kept herself in shape. She cares about her peach orchard. Quinton is her neighbor. He was a huge country singer that went on an alcohol binge for years and it was Finley who helped him recover. The two of them are also best friends. Cathyanne is Finley’s first best friend. Cathyanne cares so much about Finley that she interferes with her love life and gets three guys to admit they like her. Cathyanne doesn’t know what to do with that in her quest to find Finley some much deserved happiness. Finley makes a decision on one of them. She lets her hair down and enjoys her time with him. But is he really right for her? Finley doesn’t even know.
Finley isn’t really there for her friend Cathyanne. Finley is so caught up in the three guys she is confused about, that she doesn’t have time for her. Cathyanne does kind of make up excuses for Finley not coming to see her. Some chapters are in Cathyanne’s POV.
Then everything blows up in Finley’s face. All three guys in the same place at the same time and all asking her what is going on with the others! The temperature was boiling in that room!I loved being the proverbial fly on that wall!
Anyway, the ending put me on the edge of my seat, even though I still didn’t get a few things. I cried a little. Lessons are learned, families are affected and friendships are forged.
There is no sex in this book. Only some kissing and some throwing some clothes off before realizing that that’s not what you wanted to do. Oops! Some mild swearing.
So, if you like families, southern manners, charities, peaches, wall climbing, fast cars, overcoming alcohol addiction, slave quarters in old southern homes, the movie “Something to Talk About”, finding love, learning to let go of regrets and move forward then you might like this book.
August 26, 2015
A beautifully written sweet story about friends and romance and taking the right paths because one knows they are the right the paths. I'll admit, I questioned if this would be a book I enjoyed. The book is a starting over story: after twenty years Finnie finds Roy with another woman and their marriage ends. So, what does Finnie do now? It's all in how the author puts it together; and Julie N. Ford does it with perfection! I was hooked on the first page--which never happens!
Finnie is as charming and witty as you would expect any good ol' southern girl to be! She is also a complete train wreck! I was compelled to find out what kind of situation she would wind up in next! She has the proverbial meddlesome mother who truly wants what's best for Finne and means to tell her just what that is. If it wasn't for her two best friends, she may not have made it through! Cathyanne is a steely rod of reason and chance, who pushes Finnie to get back out into the world and try things, take risks, and open her eyes to possibilities; oh and dating! Quinton, her other best friend, and country music star/next door neighbor, encourages Finnie to examine those possibilities (with caution,) and to open her heart.
Finnie finds outs she can't always lean on her best friends. She learns that dating is complicated There are good guys, good guys she is meant to be friends with, great guys, great guys that just aren't meant for her to be with, and there just might even be that perfect guy for her if she can learn to live her life with no regrets.
As I indicated above, the author is phenomenal! She paints very clear pictures of what she wants her audience to see. The characters are well rounded and completely believable and she does most of this through dialogue and supportive narrative without describing what clothes they wear (in detail) everyday or every meal they eat. They are many characters (major and minor) and they are interwoven supportively throughout the story without disruption or negative space. The plot is well defined and anchored yet flows without dragging.( I was hoping there would be a Finnie series!)
Precautions for those with sensitivities:
While this is a romance story, there are romantic moments, it is a clean read. It promotes waiting for sex until marriage by at least two characters--with the hint of three.
There is also however the mention of adultery and promiscuity. Yet, at least in one case, where the love in the marriage was deep and the parties involved wanted to save the marriage it spoke of forgiveness of adultery.
There is hand holding, kissing, light kissing, and several heavy kisses with bodies pressed tightly together and suggestively (one with the POSSIBLE mention of his obvious desire for it to go further.)
I do not recall a single swear word, but substitute words such as: heck, daggum, etc.
*Any oversight on these "warnings" are my sole responsibility. I am under no tutelage or guidance.
May 5, 2015
I don’t really know where to begin with regards to talking about this story. The idea came to me from two places. First, once when I was out of town visiting with family, I was musing aloud about what type of book I should write next. My sister suggested that I write a story about a forty-something woman who’s in love with her much younger trainer. As you might imagine, that scenario was playing out in real life for said sister—wink, wink. Which was a good thing because she was able to help me create Josh’s strong, yet sympathetic character. The second dates back eight years to when I was recovering from chemotherapy. Coincidentally, that was also about the same time I started writing. When I told friends and family that I was writing a book, they all assumed it was cancer related. Ugh! Why would I want to relive that? But as I started outlining for this story, I thought, what if I weaved everything I learned from my experience with cancer into a work of fiction? You know, the whole two birds, one stone thing.
And Voila! With No Regrets was born.
The idea for the therapy group, Divorce Is Not An End But A New Beginning, came next, and how I could subtly incorporate life’s lessons into the recovery steps. Of course, because the story takes place in Nashville, I had to put in a sexy, recluse singer/songwriter, Quinton Townes, and then, just to make things interesting, toss Finley’s ex back into the mix. And don’t forget about Finley’s best friend, Cathyanne. People always want to know which character the author most sees in his or her self. Although Finley is a master gardener, and I have delusions of being one as well, Cathyanne is definitely the character most akin to myself. A lot like me, she’s introverted (mostly because she doesn’t feel like she fits anywhere), fiercely loyal, and maybe just a wee bit selfish too. I developed a band of quirky therapy group members to balance things out. Surprisingly, many of my early readers have already identified one member in particular they would like to see starring in her own spin-off novel. I hadn’t planned on writing any sequels, but now I’m thinking, I just might.
For now, I hope you enjoy, With No Regrets, and that Finley’s journey is able to touch your life in some small but significant way. Truly, I poured every ounce of my heart and soul into this one. Happy reading!!
And Voila! With No Regrets was born.
The idea for the therapy group, Divorce Is Not An End But A New Beginning, came next, and how I could subtly incorporate life’s lessons into the recovery steps. Of course, because the story takes place in Nashville, I had to put in a sexy, recluse singer/songwriter, Quinton Townes, and then, just to make things interesting, toss Finley’s ex back into the mix. And don’t forget about Finley’s best friend, Cathyanne. People always want to know which character the author most sees in his or her self. Although Finley is a master gardener, and I have delusions of being one as well, Cathyanne is definitely the character most akin to myself. A lot like me, she’s introverted (mostly because she doesn’t feel like she fits anywhere), fiercely loyal, and maybe just a wee bit selfish too. I developed a band of quirky therapy group members to balance things out. Surprisingly, many of my early readers have already identified one member in particular they would like to see starring in her own spin-off novel. I hadn’t planned on writing any sequels, but now I’m thinking, I just might.
For now, I hope you enjoy, With No Regrets, and that Finley’s journey is able to touch your life in some small but significant way. Truly, I poured every ounce of my heart and soul into this one. Happy reading!!
June 8, 2015
I love the honesty of her neighber Quinton. He owns his addiction. He has no guilt but only looks forward as does Cathyanne. Cathyanne the catalyst into the life changes for Finley. I was so so sad about her. She was totes awesome. Finley really is lost. She doesn't truly know who she is or whats she wants and this is her journey. Her journey to letting go of the past-the anger, guilt, hurt and regrets. Her journey into not letting fear and societal ways control you. Her journey to being herself.
With the help of the preciously sweet josh and the crisscross awesome sauce neighbor Quinton we have her support and love to help her through. The divorce support group propels her to begin the journey and even has her look deeper into who she is.She isn't just a society diva. She is a person and with everyones encouragement and the pushing of her best friend she does see this. She allows the anger to come forth, she lets go of letting what others think rule her, she allows herself to truly begin to be free of all the chains and burdens.
Josh is the young trainor who helps her let go of her fear. Problem is she isn't in love with Josh. He is the kind, gentle patient loyal transition guy who turns friend in the end. He is the one who starts her journey into self and her rock.
Quinten is the smexy next door neighbor who for eight years has been there no matter what. He is who she turns to after Cathyanne. The one she wants to share everything with. He has his demons and has fought them. He helps her realize what it means to let go and just be yourself. To not think about what others think and just be. He is her soulmate and the one Cathyanne pushes her towards.
Cathyanne her totes awesome best friend who helps her see how precious life is and that you need to live it on your own terms.
Each character is a support system for Finley on her road to becoming whole after her divorce. On her journey to letting go and just living without guilt and regrets. On accepting love from your best friend.
You will laugh and cry in this artfully crafted and poignant journey of Finley as she finds her way to love, acceptance, forgiveness and hersel
With the help of the preciously sweet josh and the crisscross awesome sauce neighbor Quinton we have her support and love to help her through. The divorce support group propels her to begin the journey and even has her look deeper into who she is.She isn't just a society diva. She is a person and with everyones encouragement and the pushing of her best friend she does see this. She allows the anger to come forth, she lets go of letting what others think rule her, she allows herself to truly begin to be free of all the chains and burdens.
Josh is the young trainor who helps her let go of her fear. Problem is she isn't in love with Josh. He is the kind, gentle patient loyal transition guy who turns friend in the end. He is the one who starts her journey into self and her rock.
Quinten is the smexy next door neighbor who for eight years has been there no matter what. He is who she turns to after Cathyanne. The one she wants to share everything with. He has his demons and has fought them. He helps her realize what it means to let go and just be yourself. To not think about what others think and just be. He is her soulmate and the one Cathyanne pushes her towards.
Cathyanne her totes awesome best friend who helps her see how precious life is and that you need to live it on your own terms.
Each character is a support system for Finley on her road to becoming whole after her divorce. On her journey to letting go and just living without guilt and regrets. On accepting love from your best friend.
You will laugh and cry in this artfully crafted and poignant journey of Finley as she finds her way to love, acceptance, forgiveness and hersel
September 4, 2015
Romance, clean although some mild swearing, and innuendo (I review clean reads mainly, so fair warning), faith expressed and discussed.
I was given a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Finley was a great character. She had so many things she was juggling, so many things she was trying to support and how did that leave time for herself and finding her heart again after a divorce? Trying to figure out where she fit in this Southern town, in her home, her farm, her future, all the while juggling her
Loved that her ex Roy came into the picture, the remains of their marriage was still something important that had to be discussed and figured out along with her the other possibilities that are in her life.
I loved the way that she learns to see others through different eyes. Seeing her girlfriend through her sorrow, and realizing that she took things for granted, seeing herself through her first boyfriend's eyes, seeing her neighbor Quinton differently as she navigates their friendship and the complications from that.
It is poignant that as she is alone, after she figures out where she stands with her past, without anyone, including her best friend, that she finally figures out what she wants for herself, to figure out what would really make her happy. Her journey including the non-profit to benefit others, and figuring out what her future holds, while not perfect was still a wonderful journey. Her journey in the Porshe at the end, the car, what it stood for, was a fun touch, figuring out that the simple pleasures in life are something we all need to take time for in whatever forms (the car, the beauties of nature, all of it!). Her peace came not as she was with someone, but in being confident and secure with who she was and where she was heading. Trying to write this without giving things away!
Enjoyed the story, it was a fun read. Discussed some great issues with family, love, and emotional healing. Very sweet sentiments with the romance, but definitely more Finley's journey of discovery of who she was, how she needed to heal, and where she wanted to be going, not just the romance.
I was given a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Finley was a great character. She had so many things she was juggling, so many things she was trying to support and how did that leave time for herself and finding her heart again after a divorce? Trying to figure out where she fit in this Southern town, in her home, her farm, her future, all the while juggling her
Loved that her ex Roy came into the picture, the remains of their marriage was still something important that had to be discussed and figured out along with her the other possibilities that are in her life.
I loved the way that she learns to see others through different eyes. Seeing her girlfriend through her sorrow, and realizing that she took things for granted, seeing herself through her first boyfriend's eyes, seeing her neighbor Quinton differently as she navigates their friendship and the complications from that.
It is poignant that as she is alone, after she figures out where she stands with her past, without anyone, including her best friend, that she finally figures out what she wants for herself, to figure out what would really make her happy. Her journey including the non-profit to benefit others, and figuring out what her future holds, while not perfect was still a wonderful journey. Her journey in the Porshe at the end, the car, what it stood for, was a fun touch, figuring out that the simple pleasures in life are something we all need to take time for in whatever forms (the car, the beauties of nature, all of it!). Her peace came not as she was with someone, but in being confident and secure with who she was and where she was heading. Trying to write this without giving things away!
Enjoyed the story, it was a fun read. Discussed some great issues with family, love, and emotional healing. Very sweet sentiments with the romance, but definitely more Finley's journey of discovery of who she was, how she needed to heal, and where she wanted to be going, not just the romance.
August 7, 2015
This was a good Christian read. I really liked that there was no sexual content and that the author used the bible for reasons to remain morally clean before marriage and faithful during marriage. Had a couple heated scenes. There were a handful of swear words. Some of the explanations of things were crude. I really liked the premise of the book that you can make mistakes, make restitution, and move on. I liked the reminder that we can be anyone we want to be and get rid of the guilt. I liked Josh's character even though I didn't really think they made a good match. He had such an impact on Finley, her recovery, and finding herself and gaining courage in herself. He was faithful and devoted. He was hard working and selfless; quick to forgive. God puts people in our paths when we need them. I didn't like how everything always seemed to be Finleys fault. I was glad her mom finally took credit for some of the situations. Made me angry that she thought Finley should have stayed with her ex. I believe in forgiveness, but I don't think people should stay in relationships where the sin is repeated multiple times with no remorse and isn't going to get better. It reaches a point. Her ex was a piece of work. His explanation/excuse for why he cheated on her repeatedly was lame at best. It's interesting how there can be so many points of view and opinions for one situation. There was some humor. Love the Southernisms. I give this one a 3.5 instead of a 5 because it was a little too slow moving and laid back for my taste (in addition to the swearing and crude conversations and explanations of situations and scenes). I really liked the cover. It attracted me to the book in the first place. I received this book in exchange for an honest review.
August 15, 2015
I received this book in return for an honest review.
Finley’s life is in chaos. She is finally divorced from her cheating loveless husband, her fellow members of her garden club are not speaking to her, her parents are barely speaking to her, and her best friend, Cathyanne, has cancer. Her second best friend, Quinton, is a hot country singer that lives next door. She is absolutely certain she has no romantic feelings towards him. However, her hot workout trainer is another story. But she would never go for him because she is so much older than him.
Finley has spent her life doing everything for everyone else. She is the go to person when you need something. Cathyanne has decided to change that for Finley. She decides that it is time for Finley to think of herself, not everyone else. Cathyanne sets up a date with Josh at Quinton’s concert. Finley realizes that Josh has feelings for her too, but can she overcome the age difference & what people will think. Quinton has a lot of animosity about Finley dating Josh. Finley thinks it’s because of the age difference.
Finley starts a non-profit to help women in need and has a fundraiser. Her ex-husband donates a car for the silent auction. While he is there delivering the car, Finley begins to think that she still has feelings for Roy. Finley becomes so involved in her own life & problems that she doesn’t notice Cathyanne’s absence. What will Finley do with the interest of three men? What about the absence of her friend, Cathyanne? It is an excellent read. I would recommend this to anyone.
Finley’s life is in chaos. She is finally divorced from her cheating loveless husband, her fellow members of her garden club are not speaking to her, her parents are barely speaking to her, and her best friend, Cathyanne, has cancer. Her second best friend, Quinton, is a hot country singer that lives next door. She is absolutely certain she has no romantic feelings towards him. However, her hot workout trainer is another story. But she would never go for him because she is so much older than him.
Finley has spent her life doing everything for everyone else. She is the go to person when you need something. Cathyanne has decided to change that for Finley. She decides that it is time for Finley to think of herself, not everyone else. Cathyanne sets up a date with Josh at Quinton’s concert. Finley realizes that Josh has feelings for her too, but can she overcome the age difference & what people will think. Quinton has a lot of animosity about Finley dating Josh. Finley thinks it’s because of the age difference.
Finley starts a non-profit to help women in need and has a fundraiser. Her ex-husband donates a car for the silent auction. While he is there delivering the car, Finley begins to think that she still has feelings for Roy. Finley becomes so involved in her own life & problems that she doesn’t notice Cathyanne’s absence. What will Finley do with the interest of three men? What about the absence of her friend, Cathyanne? It is an excellent read. I would recommend this to anyone.
July 7, 2015
Julie N. Ford, is a new to me author, I enjoyed this book. This book is about one woman's self discovery after twenty odd years of marriage. Finley has always been the dutiful wife, saying and doing the right things, that is until she makes an uncharacteristic scene at the monthly garden club meeting. Finley realizes her life hasn't really felt familiar, or sure of what she wants anymore. Finley's friend, Cathyanne, tries to help Finley find true love, but soon realizes it may be harder than she things when two men have Finley in their sights. With the help of some unlikely people, Finley, embarks on a journey of self discovery and finding her whole heart.
I liked this book quite a bit. I enjoyed reading about Finley's self discovery and the journey she took along the way. It was so nice to see her grow and make positive changes throughout the book. I liked the author chose a slightly older female as the main character, a lot of books portray younger women, so this was a nice refreshing change. I enjoyed the other characters in the book as well, flaws and all. I liked that not everyone was "perfect". Ms. Ford writes with such vivid imagery, I felt the emotions as Finley did. There were a few things that were predictable but you wanted to keep reading to see how things played out. Overall, this is a book well worth reading.
I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
I liked this book quite a bit. I enjoyed reading about Finley's self discovery and the journey she took along the way. It was so nice to see her grow and make positive changes throughout the book. I liked the author chose a slightly older female as the main character, a lot of books portray younger women, so this was a nice refreshing change. I enjoyed the other characters in the book as well, flaws and all. I liked that not everyone was "perfect". Ms. Ford writes with such vivid imagery, I felt the emotions as Finley did. There were a few things that were predictable but you wanted to keep reading to see how things played out. Overall, this is a book well worth reading.
I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
July 29, 2015
The beginning of this book was rough for me. Finnie is a newly divorced, 40-ish year old woman with 2 grown children. She is at her first group therapy session. Her emotional dam breaks and she spills all the sordid details of a garden club meeting where she recently called out all her “so called friends” that slept with her cheating husband, including the woman she found him naked with on her couch. She doesn’t stop there, she continues pointing out all the bad things she knows about each of the proper Southern ladies at the club. Honestly, I was ready to stop reading after the first chapter. However, I received a free copy of the book in return for an honest review so I pressed on. I’m very glad I did. Finley is highly attracted to her 30-ish personal trainer, Josh. She wonders if she has made a mistake by divorcing her ex-husband, Rex, even though he was cheating on her for years. She has an older rock star living next door, Quinton that seems to know Finley better than she knows herself. Her best friend Cathyanne steps in to make sure Finnie chooses the right man this time around. There were a few swear words and some roughly descriptive scenes but the author did a wonderful job painting the picture of the pains of divorce and the emotional roller-coaster of starting life a second time with no regrets.
October 22, 2015
I enjoy Julie's storytelling. My favorite novel of hers was Countdown to Love. Then I read Replacing Gentry, and I enjoyed that story as well. This one didn't resonate with me like the other two stories, but I still liked it. I think the thing that bothered me was how she kept changing her mind about who she loved and who she should be with in the end. Rather than making it intriguing, the love triangle annoyed me. The same with her best friend and how she didn't try very hard to get in touch. She was pretty self-absorbed like many people are these days.
What I found rather interesting was that she was so self-centered and yet she didn't see that trait in herself. But then again, most narcissists are ignorant of their own narcissism, which I find a bit ironic. So that part intrigued me but it also made her less likable as the main character. That said, I still finished the story, which isn't typical of me these days, so that was good. It takes a lot to hold my attention. The message is good and matches the story's theme, like the title. But the main character seemed to have a lot of regrets despite the story-telling of the author - unless the author did that on purpose. You'll have to read the story for yourself if you want to come to your own conclusion in that regard.
I received a free e-copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
What I found rather interesting was that she was so self-centered and yet she didn't see that trait in herself. But then again, most narcissists are ignorant of their own narcissism, which I find a bit ironic. So that part intrigued me but it also made her less likable as the main character. That said, I still finished the story, which isn't typical of me these days, so that was good. It takes a lot to hold my attention. The message is good and matches the story's theme, like the title. But the main character seemed to have a lot of regrets despite the story-telling of the author - unless the author did that on purpose. You'll have to read the story for yourself if you want to come to your own conclusion in that regard.
I received a free e-copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
August 30, 2015
Finnie, a true Southern girl, has just recently become an empty nester and a divorcee. Her mother is an old-fashioned lady, who believes Finnie should overlook her husband's indiscretions and should take him back. Finnie is not of the same mindset. She has been married since the age of nineteen, and she has been a mother for almost as long. At the age of 40, she plans on using her new situation to figure out who she is and what she wants to do with her life. This is a book about self-discovery.
Three romantic prospects play a part in Finnie's journey... her young trainer at the gym, her country music star/neighbor, and her ex-husband. Finnie tries to juggle all three men and her best friend Cathyanne. Finnie wants to live a life with no regrets. In the process, things almost blow up in her face.
Ford's characters are realistic and believable. There is something in each of them that almost any reader can relate to at some level.
This is a fun read. It is interesting and entertaining. It starts out a little slow, but that soon changes. While it is considered a romance, it almost reads like a coming of age novel. If you are looking for a quick read with a nice story, then this is the book.
Three romantic prospects play a part in Finnie's journey... her young trainer at the gym, her country music star/neighbor, and her ex-husband. Finnie tries to juggle all three men and her best friend Cathyanne. Finnie wants to live a life with no regrets. In the process, things almost blow up in her face.
Ford's characters are realistic and believable. There is something in each of them that almost any reader can relate to at some level.
This is a fun read. It is interesting and entertaining. It starts out a little slow, but that soon changes. While it is considered a romance, it almost reads like a coming of age novel. If you are looking for a quick read with a nice story, then this is the book.
October 17, 2015
This is really, really good. It whisked me right along and didn't disappoint. I loved Finley. It starts off with this Southern woman in group therapy, completely out of her element and surrounded by quirky, strong personalities. The story she shares right off the bat is hilarious.
Finley is trying to make sense of her life after a divorce (long overdue) and two grown children. She's not keeping it together like usual. But it turns out, maybe it's the start of something better. She just has to figure out what and how. So with her meddling best friend, longtime neighbor the country singer, a new friend her trainer, and those painful visits with the therapy group, Finley figures her life out a few steps at a time.
This is beautifully written. Strong Southern culture, snappy dialogue, characters fully formed and contrasting with Finley being a sentinel of walking the straight line, and prose that sometimes reads like poetry. This is a delight.
PG13: passionate kissing, talk of hook ups, catching unfaithful husband, knowing every friend's past mistakes
Drugs/alcohol: recovery of addict mentioned in positive terms, alcohol consumption, bar
Language: mild
Violence: none
Religious: mild
Finley is trying to make sense of her life after a divorce (long overdue) and two grown children. She's not keeping it together like usual. But it turns out, maybe it's the start of something better. She just has to figure out what and how. So with her meddling best friend, longtime neighbor the country singer, a new friend her trainer, and those painful visits with the therapy group, Finley figures her life out a few steps at a time.
This is beautifully written. Strong Southern culture, snappy dialogue, characters fully formed and contrasting with Finley being a sentinel of walking the straight line, and prose that sometimes reads like poetry. This is a delight.
PG13: passionate kissing, talk of hook ups, catching unfaithful husband, knowing every friend's past mistakes
Drugs/alcohol: recovery of addict mentioned in positive terms, alcohol consumption, bar
Language: mild
Violence: none
Religious: mild
July 11, 2015
Finley is the picture perfect wife and mother until she has had enough of her husbands philandering ways and leaves him. Her outburst at the Garden Club was one of my favorite parts of the book because I could absolutely picture it in my head and it made me laugh. I didn't care for the relationship she had with her trainer Josh, it just felt disconnected to me. I didn't ever connect with him, therefore I never wanted to root for him, and his relationship with Finley. I did, however, love Quinton, the singer/song writer neighbor. Everyone should have a friend that cares as much as Cathyanne does, though I didn't love that she kept her health problems a secret from her best friend. I did love her advice and care for her friend. I loved watching Finley overcome her idea that she needed to be what society thought she should be, not what she actually wanted to be. I really liked watching her take chances and try to do what she thought was best for herself, not what others thought was best for her. Overall, this book was a good read, though a little slow at times.
I was given a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
I was given a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
August 2, 2015
This book was interesting to say the least.
Finley was not the typical character I become interested in, and yet Ford created enough to draw me in.
I just had to know what happens between Finley, Josh, Quinton and Roy.
I'm sure that the audience for this book did not originally include me, as Finley is a recently divorced mother of grown children, living in super rich Tennessee. She has all the money she could ever want, and yet her life has never been satisfying. She knew her husband was cheating on her for years, but only just divorced him after twenty years because she actually caught him in the act... or at least that is what she told everyone.
Her best friend Cathyanne, makes the book. The scenes early on with Cathyanne have more ease and draw as Cathyanne is the kind of person I would like in real life. She just lives her life, she wants to have fun... sometimes that comes across rude to the genteel circle she runs in with Finley, but still.
If you would like to read more on my thoughts for this book, stop by my blog...
Finley was not the typical character I become interested in, and yet Ford created enough to draw me in.
I just had to know what happens between Finley, Josh, Quinton and Roy.
I'm sure that the audience for this book did not originally include me, as Finley is a recently divorced mother of grown children, living in super rich Tennessee. She has all the money she could ever want, and yet her life has never been satisfying. She knew her husband was cheating on her for years, but only just divorced him after twenty years because she actually caught him in the act... or at least that is what she told everyone.
Her best friend Cathyanne, makes the book. The scenes early on with Cathyanne have more ease and draw as Cathyanne is the kind of person I would like in real life. She just lives her life, she wants to have fun... sometimes that comes across rude to the genteel circle she runs in with Finley, but still.
If you would like to read more on my thoughts for this book, stop by my blog...
June 3, 2016
I liked it!
After 20 years of marriage, Finley kicks her cheating husband to the curb when she catches him in the act, with her "friend," in her home on her BRAND NEW SOFA! Alone (kids grown) and angry, this proper Southern woman self-destructs in a VERY public way. Finley rebuilds her life and her sense of identity with the help of a support group, a best girl-friend, a "hot" (but smart, sweet and YOUNGER) trainer, and a country music singing neighbor who is also Finley's best guy-friend. Part "finding yourself" novel, part clean (but with some heat) romance, I found the story to be funny, a little irreverent, and compelling. I laughed and cried as Finley fights against her proper Southern Baptist upbringing and her improper, ignore propriety and throw-caution to the wind best friend to find who she is and where she belongs. I loved the Southern dialogue. It was accurately portrayed (some authors try but fail) which makes me believe Julie Ford has a strong Southern connection.
After 20 years of marriage, Finley kicks her cheating husband to the curb when she catches him in the act, with her "friend," in her home on her BRAND NEW SOFA! Alone (kids grown) and angry, this proper Southern woman self-destructs in a VERY public way. Finley rebuilds her life and her sense of identity with the help of a support group, a best girl-friend, a "hot" (but smart, sweet and YOUNGER) trainer, and a country music singing neighbor who is also Finley's best guy-friend. Part "finding yourself" novel, part clean (but with some heat) romance, I found the story to be funny, a little irreverent, and compelling. I laughed and cried as Finley fights against her proper Southern Baptist upbringing and her improper, ignore propriety and throw-caution to the wind best friend to find who she is and where she belongs. I loved the Southern dialogue. It was accurately portrayed (some authors try but fail) which makes me believe Julie Ford has a strong Southern connection.
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