Although extremely repetitive, this book is a friendly hug. It told me I was going to be okay through highlighting the importance of myself as the beacon of my true happiness. My inner wisdom, my 'Dharma body', is the true strength inside me. I can pull happiness from anywhere at anytime as I trust in the island within myself, and realising the beauty of the world and the fortune of my being. My resilience is able to battle uncomfortable feelings by simply being mindful of them and realising that insight can conquer.
Some things I did take with a pinch of salt and when I read them it grounded me. It reminded me not to take Thich Nhat Hanhs words as gospel. For example, the concept of getting rid of thought, and thinking as little as possible to truly exist in the present. I believe our thinking and imagination creates the world we live in. So to be present at all times, without the comfort of your great imagination, or to relish in the gift of daydreaming, seems harmful. For me at least my imagination is a great source of my happiness and I enjoy daydreaming about GOOD things. Do our thoughts (if positive, optimistic and unharmful) not give us a break from the present? Isn't that sometimes necessary?
Thich Nhat Hanh writes without judgement and makes you feel understood and I can't wait to read another of his books.
Some quotes that deeply resonated with me:
1. When we have more peace in ourselves, we begin to see things more clearly. Without peace, clarity isn't possible.
2. If you don't have enough compassion for yourself and others, you won't have the courage you need to cut off the afflictions that have been making you suffer.
3. Anyone who enjoys walking or sitting can feel satisfied. We have nothing else to look for, nothing more to long for.
4. We cultivate joy and happiness to nourish ourselves so we have the capacity and energy to take care of the painful feelings.
5. We don't always want to go directly to the painful feeling. It's better to nourish ourselves with feelings of joy and happiness first.
6. Breathing in, I observe the
impermanent nature of all things.
Breathing out, I contemplate the
impermanent nature of all things.
7. There are those among us who have the ability to appreciate the presence of the sun, who can get in touch with the trees, the fog, and all the wonders of life that are around us and inside us. But there are some people who don't have the ability to get in touch with these wonderful things.
8. Enjoy the time when you take your shower. Enjoy the time when you prepare your breakfast. Enjoy the time when you urinate or defecate. It can be very pleasant. ... This time is given to us to live.
9. Instead of panicking or giving ourselves up to despair, we can put our trust in the power of self-healing, self- understanding, and loving within us. We call this the island within ourselves in which we can take refuge. It is an island of peace, confidence, solidity, love and freedom. Be an island within yourself. You don't have to look for it elsewhere.
10. Breathing in, I go back to the island within myself.
There are beautiful trees within the island.
There are cool streams of water,
there are birds sunshine and fresh air.
Breathing out, I feel safe.
11. You are not only an emotion you are having, you are more than one emotion.
12. Why must we keep on locking ourselves away in the prison of the past? We need to return to the present moment, to be in contact with the miracles that are here in the present moment so that we can live. We shouldn't be tired down by the past.
13. You can see that your children and grandchildren are already there inside you, even if they haven't been born yet.