I picked up this book from eb Rosebank because I was attracted to the cover. The woman looked very lonely and appeared to have a long way to go.
Basically, the book is about Annamari's concealment of her baby's father at age 17 and how that decision impacted on her life and her family's for 35 years.
Anni came from a boerefamilie who were were generational farmers. When her one time with Alan Silverman resulted in a pregnancy at age 17, she panicked and told her parents that the baby was Thys's, her high school sweetheart. Thys did the right thing and married her. A few years later they had 2 more sons and she settled into domestic bliss.
When her parents are killed on the farm and they move back to the farm, their perfectly crafted life unravels. Arno, their oldest son, grows very attached to Beauty, the coloured niece of Petrus, the farm worker. Anni realises early on that Beauty's father is Arno's father. She can't share her fears with anyone, least of all her husband Thys and she determines to break them up. She succeeds but 20 years later, Arno brings a girl home and lo and behold, Aviva is Alan Silverman's daughter.
Nou is sy in groot mooilikheid. She can't bring the race card again, they are both white. Nor can she play the "you are closer than siblings. It will not work" tune. After much anguish, she dejectedly tells her husband the truth and double whammy...he's known for 20 years. Thys has always loved her. Loved her more than life itself. Love's her still. Together they tell Arno and Aviva. Arno falls apart. Aviva falls apart. Together they elope into the sunset and live happily ever after.
In the meantime, back at the farm, Thys and Anni decide not to tell their 2 youngest boys, Dr Wet and Steyn. Beauty slaps them with a land claim. After deciding not to fight it this time, they decide to relocate and start their senior lives elsewhere.
Outside of this bubble, significant political developments unravelled in the South African political milieu. Marylin's book spans over 3 decades. Notable highlights include the referendum, the establishment of the government of national unity, the 1st democratic elections and redressing past imbalances.
Having lived through all these events and experienced the insecurities that came with them, it was thought provoking seeing the same effects on a white South African. During the transitional period, which was a good few years before the 1994 democratic vote, I was in high school and I remember the day of the referendum. The mood was loaded with tension at my school and the teachers were fraught with anxiety.
I remember standing in the queue for hours to cast my 1st vote. Battling to secure my 1st job. Battling. Battling. Battling for so much in the new South Africa. Was I black enough for BEE?? I guess whites had the same fears. Will they be allowed to stay? Will they be chased back to Europe? Turbulent times. We came out alright.
There's still a lot to be done but great strides have been made. So proud to be South African and live on this great land of ours.
"When time fails" is a well written literary piece which draws on historically significant political developments.
Highly recommended.