TAKE AWAY
1. Getting the best from life is about digging down to the core of who you are, what makes you truly happy, that make you smile, your heart sing, the dreams that linger unfulfilled, the adventures that have yet set off, then make the change necessary to focus on THOSE THINGS. Just stop doing what's not important and start prioritising what is.
2. Identify the ONE thing you can do today that will make the biggest difference. Filling every moment of the day with tasks and activities is not the same as being productive. Truly value your time, then will have the space to identify exciting new opportunities, rather than being weighed down by all those commitments you've agreed to take on.
3. FITLER: Identify what and who is important
PRUNE: Let go of what isn't important
PRIORITIZE: Bring what matters in your life to the front of the queue
FOCUS: Do waht you love and do it really well
4. The things we want the most have more risks associated with them, because we care more about the outcome, our mind will come up with every excuse to avoid us from focusing on it right now. The justification we make are just our fears in disguise. To beat the voice telling you that you are not ready, you need to listen to the instinctive voice that says, this is the right thing to do. Start DOING it and take small step anyways.
5. Fixed Mindset vs Grow Mindset: Praise a kid for their effort of trying instead of getting the answer or thing right! The former will develop a growth mindset that the possible failure will not be immediate trigger to abandon ship, it's just an indicator you need to learn from the situation or try a new approach, one would enjoy the process of finding out how to make something work as much as the end result. While for the latter, they will start back out on themselves as we approach a challenge, things get tough, and get to a all or nothing mentality and give up immediately then do something else.
6. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it.
7. List out the things you enjoy doing and other list of your favourite peoples, which of those things do they like to do? Now pick up the phone and get scheduling!!
8. Act as if you already are. Want a promotion at work? Step up to the responsibility right now, show that you have what it takes. Starting acting as if you were already doing the job.
9. Life hardly ever goes exactly according to the plan: The point of plan is really to get us started, to move us from thinking or talking into active doing mode, to turn our big, vague dream into specific tasks that we can achieve by fixed deadline. Don't wait for perfect condition to start, start now!
10. We tend to believe that we must be highly motivated before we can do or start anything, But psychologically we actually become motivated by the doing, rather than the other way around. Just by going through the motions, the brain starts to kick in, catches up and things start to flow.