Interesting. I chose this book because I was bored and wanted something that was a tiny bit interesting but not too interesting because peace and stuff. I've also been struggling with culture and personality differences with my Dad, whom my mom believes had a very traditional Chinese way of parenting. I wanted to know what she meant.
The book didn't really go into traditional Chinese family stuff, but it was more on political strategies used in the past, which the author explains and also tries to use in his own 20th century business dealings with Chinese people.
It was interesting to know more about politics and the people in charge. I used to ignore this stuff because I felt like it was useless. It didn't really matter how they got into power and their fears because whatever they said I'd have to obey anyway. That's why my mom says I'm too honest and trusting. Anyway, seeing that these political people were actually people whos had insecurities, failures, humiliation, dreams, tries, selfishness, pride, ego, bravy, anger, spitefulness and altruism like people, made me realize that ok they're not 'God'. They're kinda fuck ups sometimes too. And even more so, because they take bigger risks than me so they're failures are worse. They also grow up as teens wanting to do more, some feeling out of place, work in jobs that didn't really make them feel fulfilled because society made them do it, and feeling powerless with little options to change their circumstances until other things happened and they're taking risks with their visions, with small and big victories, and small and big failures, hiding with their life at stake when it's really bad and maybe being humiliated is the worst of all :( anyway, interesting. In summary I guess author put history into more realistic perspective for me, which is a relief from my long fiction reading strike and my idealistic and demanding dad.
The actions of Cordelia in the book was really realistic to me. The indirect ways she was dishonest
Author put things into more realistic perspective for me.
I listened to the audiobook version and it was kinda funny but kinda awful that the narrator often pronounced Deng Xiaoping as "Dung" for short. The way the narrator passionately and almost angrily talks about "Dung" made it feel a bit offensive.