(I was given a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review)
This is a sweet, warmhearted and thoroughly satisfying story about love, friendship, family, the way life gets in the way of your plans, and losing the things you dreamed of only to get what you didn't know you needed. It shows that things don't have to turn out just the way you wanted them to to turn out really well, and that you can find people you love and things you're passionate about just about anywhere if you're prepared to look.
I loved Sam's character. She's kind, funny, brilliant, oblivious and utterly adorkable. Her strengths and weaknesses were two sides of the same coin (she's very smart, a talented medical researcher, a high achiever and proud of it, and willing to sacrifice for those she loves, and at the same time a bit of an intellectual snob, prone to overanalysing everything and she tends to make herself miserable over those she cares for). I related to her a lot, and her complicated feelings for Natalie, Maria, and her mother really resonated. Towards the start of the book, there was a moment where I went "Seriously? Who actually talks like this?", before realising "... I do. I talk like this, with the odd formality and advanced vocabulary that comes out when I'm feeling awkward or especially uninhibited".
If I had one complaint, it's that this book has the very common problem where nobody says the 'b' word. Natalie has always known she likes boys, then discovers she likes girls too, but the word bisexual is never even mentioned (while the words 'lesbian' and 'gay' appear many times throughout the book). And I think it's a bit unfortunate that Natalie - change-her-major-a-million-times, ever-shifting-fashion-sense, probably-never-going-to-settle-down Natalie - was the only character to demonstrate attraction to more than one gender, considering the stereotype of bisexuals as indecisive and unsuited for commitment. I don't want to sound more negative than I really feel, though. I truly appreciated the lack of biphobia, in that Sam was never confused about how Natalie could be genuinely attracted to people of more than one gender or upset with Natalie for dating boys, she was only ever upset that Natalie wasn't dating her.
Overall, I loved it.