If I were to describe my feelings after finishing The Road Home in one word, it would be: empathy.
The reason I say empathy is because I believe that anyone who has ever lived away from home, worked hard in a foreign place, can see a part of themselves in Lev. The reasons for being away and the hardships endured may differ, but the bitterness and helplessness of starting anew in an unfamiliar land are universal experiences that only those who have gone through it can truly understand.
Spoiler Alert!
Lev is a farmer from a small Middle Eastern country, living in a peaceful small town for generations. In his middle age, his wife passes away due to illness, his factory closes, leaving him without a job, his mother is elderly, and his daughter is still young. With no other means to survive at home, he travels to London alone to make a living.
In his own country, speaking his language, a 42-year-old man, Lev, prepares as much as he can for his journey to the dream city of London. He enrolls in an English class to learn basic conversation skills, hears that the weekly cost of living in London is £20, and is advised by a travel agency clerk to tell any police officers he meets that he is a legal economic migrant, not seeking asylum.
As a traveler, when I first arrive at a destination, I am excited. I would go to a booked hostel, take a hot shower, chat with the receptionist about local delicacies, and then start my journey casually or adventurously. But Lev is different. He is a genuine foreigner, even a country bumpkin, with no skills, no extra money, no friends, no plans, virtually nothing. After a 5-day bus ride, he can only find a public bathroom to wash up and change clothes to look less disheveled and disgraceful. A man seeking a livelihood in a foreign land but also a dignified man and father, willing to come to this place for the sake of his loved ones, just to make their lives better. Fortunately, Lev meets a kind compatriot, Lydia, on the bus, so he is not entirely alone in London; he has a fellow countryman.
When someone wants to make a change, especially a significant change in their life trajectory, the beginning is undoubtedly difficult. Lev arrives in the bustling and radiant London, homeless and hungry, but he constantly encourages himself not to give up. In the most miserable and distressed times, he recalls the most beautiful moments in his life—his deceased wife Marina, his revered friend Rudi, their youthful and crazy days, his little daughter, and the village called Auror. However, the more beautiful the memories, the more unbearable the reality. Back to reality, the problem of survival remains unsolved, and warm memories can only be swallowed with bitter tears.
Lev is fortunate to find his first job; the boss is a good person who gives him a full meal and a job distributing flyers. The pay is low, of course, but Lev does his utmost. After the brief job ends, Lev musters the courage to seek help from his fellow traveler, Lydia. The kind Lydia helps Lev find a dishwashing job at an upscale restaurant, and Lev, of course, works very hard and treasures it. Thus, his struggling life officially begins.
With a stable job, Lev can send money home every week, make phone calls, and even become friends with his landlord, sharing drinks, smokes, and stories. He is a kind man, a loving father, a reliable friend, and a diligent worker. Such a man firmly establishes himself in London, able to support himself and his loved ones and help friends in need. This is a stark contrast to the helpless Lev who lost his job due to the factory closure. His conversations used to revolve around his admired friend Rudi, but now, in a new environment, after enduring hardships and efforts, Lev even begins a new romance. He has completely changed—no longer timid and confused but capable of helping those more helpless, becoming a responsible, accomplished, and charming man.
The most surprising change is that the old Lev has developed his own thoughts and dreams - to open a restaurant of his own and become the chef of the world's most delicious restaurant.
Sudden changes
After maintaining a stable state for a while, a new crisis arises. Due to his ambiguous relationship with a female colleague, that brief and fragile romance ends, and so does his job, leaving him with nothing once again. Fortunately, because he does not succumb to fate, he begins a new job, but this time, it is merely a setback, not a complete downfall. Following Lev's storyline, I feel as if I am existing with him, wondering what his next move should be.
A foreign land, after all, is a foreign land; is the hometown a distant place one cannot return to?
After a year away, although Lev has been financially supporting his family, his mother and daughter cannot understand or accept his efforts, only wanting him to come home quickly. His best friend is anxious after losing his job because the government plans to redevelop their village, forcing them to relocate and start over. Lev is in great pain at this moment, wanting to save more money for future plans while his family does not understand his sacrifices. He is deeply distressed about losing the village, and even his once-revered friend Rudi is now helpless, unable to assist, and blames him for abandoning them. Suddenly, all the pressure collapses on him. But this resilient man, striving for change, becomes a role model, leading everyone towards a new life, no matter how difficult. His soul has already been running...
A quote from the book: ”Sometimes he would go to the restaurant to check how the tables were set, how clean the glasses and tablecloths were. He always saw people looking through the glass door into the restaurant at dusk. Laura always called them 'dummies,' but most dummies eventually became their customers. Despite many new houses and businesses, the new Barn was still a small town. It didn't take long for everyone to know that the food at Podolsky Street 43 was good and fairly priced, like a forecast of continuous good weather. By the end of winter, reservations had to be made two or three weeks in advance."
The story ends without any thrilling or legendary elements. Lev finds his way home. He is just an ordinary person, once humble and lowly, but he succeeds. He is no longer a mediocre person; he has dreams and is kind, brave, and down-to-earth. He returns to his hometown, using his strength and spirit to lead and inspire others, eventually fulfilling his dreams. Many people may see themselves in Lev - the lost and desperate self on the road, the one with dreams but struggling between reality and dreams. But I believe that those who have dreams will eventually return to their life's path, pursuing their dreams with determination and courage.
Leaving is for a better return.
3.8 / 5 stars