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Being a Brain-Wise Therapist: A Practical Guide to Interpersonal Neurobiology

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This book, part of the acclaimed Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology, brings interpersonal neurobiology into the counseling room, weaving the concepts of neurobiology into the ever-changing flow of therapy. Neuroscientific discoveries have begun to illuminate the workings of the active brain in intricate detail. In fact, sometimes it seems that in order to be a cutting-edge therapist, not only do you need knowledge of traditional psychotherapeutic models, but a solid understanding of the role the brain plays as well. But theory is never enough. You also need to know how to apply the theories to work with actual clients during sessions.

In easy-to-understand prose, Being a Brain-Wise Therapist reviews the basic principles about brain structure, function, and development, and explains the neurobiological correlates of some familiar diagnostic categories. You will learn how to make theory come to life in the midst of clinical work, so that the principles of interpersonal neurobiology can be applied to a range of patients and issues, such as couples, teens, and children, and those dealing with depression, anxiety, and other disorders. Liberal use of exercises and case histories enliven the material and make this an essential guide for seamlessly integrating the latest neuroscientific research into your therapeutic practice.

384 pages, Paperback

First published July 17, 2008

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Bonnie Badenoch

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PhD LMFT

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39 reviews2 followers
February 2, 2020
I trained with Bonnie for the past year so that brought the book to life even more. I love her attention to the therapist's intrapersonal process and how that impacts and supports the interpersonal process with our clients. I think it's a must-read for any clinician who believes in a relational approach to psychotherapy. A great combination of science and heart.
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March 25, 2021
Must read for every therapist. Especially if you are attachment oriented. The ending can be boring if you are not interested in art therapy.
13 reviews2 followers
June 4, 2024
Read this for developmental counseling and WOW our brains are wiiiiiiild and therapy is COOL
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March 13, 2022
One of the best books in regard to my work as a therapist that I've read. Utilizing the brain model takes the healing journey of my clients to a new level. I am not an expert in Neurobiology, but using what I feel comfortable with helps greatly. Just knowing that there is an interpersonal firing that is taking place in the therapy room is fascinating. As a Play Therapist, I'm grateful for the chapters on Play Therapy, Sandtray, and the specific chapters on children and adolescents. A book that I will keep close by and refer to often.
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60 reviews
November 17, 2017
Hard for me to understand in places, but otherwise wonderful. Changed the way I understand emotions and gave me hope for people who have experienced trauma, among other things.
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April 20, 2019
Excellant description of processes of attachment, wounding and healing. Clearly presented for either therapists or lay folk interested in their own internal process. Full of hope and love.
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13 reviews2 followers
May 16, 2019
excellent book on interpersonal neurobiology and its therapeutic importance in helping people resolve problems by better understanding how their brain functions. full of hope for life after trauma
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88 reviews4 followers
March 3, 2024
The author writes in an accessible manner and attempts to provide the reader with an integration of neuroscience, attachment theory and psychotherapy. However the attempt is stymied by a lack of visual presentation of the areas of the brain she describes (there are a total of 3 diagrams in the whole book). There is absolutely no point in naming areas of the brain if one doesn't know where they are and some idea of what they look like in relation to other areas, the author might as well as just stated 'a piece of the brain does this'. In the end I stopped reading at the fourth chapter when I came across the author's explanation of free will using a mystifying analogy of quantum theory somehow in connection with fluctuations in calcium brain ions. I can't say anymore only that her explanation was so pathetic that I couldn't take her book seriously. I do believe in free will and am aware of better explanations by people like the sociocultural founder of neuropsychology Alexander Luria who bases his explanation on semiotic verbal self regulation. No doubt if I read further I may have found more believable arguments regarding attachment etc. and then again maybe more of the same level of deteriorated mystifying and baffling argument with the quantum mechanics and calcium ions. Life is too short to waste reading nonsensical explanations.
I'm somewhat baffled by finding that with few exceptions there seems to be a reluctance by authors writing in this area to provide readers with sufficient visual representations of the areas of the brain and nervous system they are writing about. Had I known that the book lacked adequate visual guides and the level of the author's absurdity of explanation for free will I wouldn't have purchased it. I'm disappointed though I admit I've read worse. Thankfully I was able to return the book to Amazon from my Kindle.
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33 reviews2 followers
September 6, 2020
I think every therapist should own a copy of this book, but it was a bit dry. Took some real effort to get through this one.
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90 reviews
May 15, 2025
Very IFS, really good thoughts and science on attachment!! A weeee bit heady
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160 reviews14 followers
September 6, 2025
Starting a therapist's book to process this one!
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December 19, 2025
A beautiful, robust, compassionate, and hope-inducing introduction to working with the mind-brain-body in therapy.
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12 reviews13 followers
November 5, 2013
Great book. But the major premise of neuropsychology still remains dodgy to me. I get the concept that our brains can be rewired through therapy, but really?
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August 21, 2015
Very helpful resource for clinicians. An encouraging reminder of the brain's ability to change and adapt. Nothing must be set in stone; always room for growth.
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560 reviews3 followers
August 14, 2017
Meh. I found the science pretty shoddy, but maybe it's better than nothing.
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171 reviews11 followers
April 23, 2015
i liked the simplicity of it. Good resource for interpersonal therapists
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