“A bride should not assume that her mate will be generous after the wedding because of how he treats her beforehand. Even the stingiest of men can be quite lavish when in pursuit of a goal such as a wife.”
Many will argue with her, saying, “But he’s so charming. He seems so nice and he does so much for the community!” They do not realize that a person can be charming and kind in public and uncommunicative or abusive at home.