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Curious: The Unexpected Power of a Question-Led Life
Did you know that of the 183 questions Jesus was asked, he answered only four of them directly? The other 179 he answered with questions (or sometimes a story). Questions are not the enemy of faith; they are the way Jesus most often helped people not just say the right things, but live the right ways. The joy, creativity, and the adventure we were created to live begin with asking the right questions and then living into the answers with God’s help.
If you are wondering how to draw closer to Jesus and live your unique adventure with him, Curious will help you, question by question, step into the future God has for you. If you are a leader who wonders how to lead well without burning out, Curious will show you how, by asking the right questions, you can help empower those you influence to greater motivation and creativity as they live out their answers to these questions with God’s help. As Jesus demonstrated, asking the right questions at the right time, and communicating them in the right spirit, can transform hearts and change the world.
Let Tom Hughes thread together stories that will lead you into a new sense of confidence, not in yourself but in the God who loves you and calls you according to his good purpose.
If you are wondering how to draw closer to Jesus and live your unique adventure with him, Curious will help you, question by question, step into the future God has for you. If you are a leader who wonders how to lead well without burning out, Curious will show you how, by asking the right questions, you can help empower those you influence to greater motivation and creativity as they live out their answers to these questions with God’s help. As Jesus demonstrated, asking the right questions at the right time, and communicating them in the right spirit, can transform hearts and change the world.
Let Tom Hughes thread together stories that will lead you into a new sense of confidence, not in yourself but in the God who loves you and calls you according to his good purpose.
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First published September 17, 2015
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December 20, 2024
Excellent questions to ask in your life and ministry. I love the whole premise of being a humble learner before God and other people. The questions are great for journaling or group discussion.
January 2, 2017
Jesus often answers a question with a question. How do you like that if you ask your teacher a question and he or she answers you back with more questions? Jesus was interested in provoking critical thinking in the minds of those who asked Him questions. That’s why as we read in the Bible that Jesus did not hold many Q and A sessions but he had many Q and Q (questions and questions) sessions. In the four gospels, Jesus was asked up to 183 questions. Out of these, He only gave direct answers in four of these questions. In another 179 questions, He answered either with another questions, in parables, or cryptic remarks that make the questioners with even more questions than when they first asked Him. And if we consider the questions that He put in the mouths of the characters of His parables, Jesus asked a total of 307 questions. In other words, Jesus seems not too committed to upfront clarity as much as we would like Him to be. Rather Jesus seems to be more interested in ensuring that we are asking the right questions.
This book describes how, by asking the right questions, we can help empower those we influence to greater motivation and creativity as they live out their answers to these questions with God’s help. As Jesus demonstrated, asking the right questions at the right time, and communicating them in the right spirit, can transform hearts and change the world.
For example, in John 1:37, the two disciples of John the Baptist were following Jesus. Maybe they wanted to ensure they were following the right Master if they were to switch from following John the Baptist to following Jesus. And Jesus turned around that asked them this sharp, poignant question:
What are you seeking?
What do you seek? (NKJV)
What do you want? (NIV, NLT)
What are you after? (The Message)
What seek ye? (KJV)
The word “seek” is translated from the Greek word “ze-teo” (Gk 2212) which brings the meaning of even to demand, to crave or to strive hard for or even to worship as in Acts 17:27. In other words, it is our overarching passion and goal in life.
If we were together with Andrew and Peter in the crowd that day and were following Jesus from behind and Jesus turned around and asked each of us individually this question:
What is it that you seek?
What is it that you seek in life?
what is it that you seek from Me (Jesus)? What do you want from Jesus?
“What are you seeking” is a simple but very profound question. Many people go through life without asking this all-important question. Many people may even walk in and out of the church every week without considering the question that Jesus asked: “What is it that you are seeking?”
For Andrew and Peter, perhaps, Jesus was trying to point to them that if fame and popularity was what they were looking for, perhaps John the Baptist had a larger crowd. Or were they seeking a new set of teachings? New inspirational messages? A psychological technique to overcome life’s struggles? A new religious movement? What is it?
As David Platt, the founder of Church of Brook Hills and President of Southern Baptist Convention’s International Mission Board, said: “We don’t come to Jesus to get wealth, health and prosperity. We come to Jesus to get Jesus.”
Tom Hughes in this book, says:
“What are you looking for?” is a stunning question - brilliant in its simplicity, vexing in its answer. Jesus does not tell them what they are looking for, or even direct them toward what they should be looking for; he asks them and by asking them, he leads them (and us). We are all in search of something. We are all on a quest… This question helps us to pause and reflect whether what we are doing in our lives matches the deepest desires of our hearts.”
Another purpose of Jesus using question, as shown by Tom Hughes in chapter 2, is to unravel the dishonesty in man’s spiritual lives. Hughes gave the example in John 21:17 when Jesus used the word “agape” (unconditional love) when he asked Peter whether he loved Him or not. Prior to Peter’s denial, Peter would probably have answered back with an affirmative agape (for example see his response in Matt 26:33; John 13:37). But now he was not too sure. Rather, Peter used the word “phileo” - which is a love between close friends but different from agape. The second time Jesus asked Peter, again Jesus used the word “agape”. But the third time, Jesus used the word “phileo” that Peter used. It is as if Jesus was saying to Peter, “now that you know and are honest enough to admit that your love is not as strong as you claimed to be, that’s when I will come and meet you at the point where you are in your spiritual journey.”
Thirdly, Jesus used question to spark and sustain a momentum in people. An example of this would be in Matt 15:34. As the Creator of the universe who holds all things together (Col 1:16-17) and creates every fish in the earth, surely He does not need
But as Tom Hughes points out:
Jesus is not just interested in getting the job done; he’s interested in getting His community involved to get the job done. He’s not just interested in filling the crowd’s stomachs; he’s interested in transforming His disciples’ hearts. By asking “How much bread do you have?”, Jesus is moving His disciples from the sidelines to play their parts. He’s creating a community of people who become co-conspirators with Him to do something about the hunger of the world. They are invited to be involved, not simply watch from the sidelines...The disciples were central to all of this. Jesus is inviting them to be world-changers by the profound act of trusting Him with the resources they had. He is asking them to become part of something larger than their own stomachs. Jesus doesn’t ask the crowds how many loaves they have; He asked the disciples. That question would dredge up all sorts of fear of inadequacy, greed and entitlement. They’d probably think things like I don’t see howe my little loaf will make much of a difference in the face of overwhelming needs. Or, if I give Jesus my loaf, am I going to end up hungry?”
This story of feeding of the four thousand is a story of God providing for the people, but it’s also the story of a leader who could have done it all by Himself, but chose instead to ask question that invited others to be involved.
Just as the good Samaritan, we may not be able to do good for many people, but we can at least do good for one people.
This book describes how, by asking the right questions, we can help empower those we influence to greater motivation and creativity as they live out their answers to these questions with God’s help. As Jesus demonstrated, asking the right questions at the right time, and communicating them in the right spirit, can transform hearts and change the world.
For example, in John 1:37, the two disciples of John the Baptist were following Jesus. Maybe they wanted to ensure they were following the right Master if they were to switch from following John the Baptist to following Jesus. And Jesus turned around that asked them this sharp, poignant question:
What are you seeking?
What do you seek? (NKJV)
What do you want? (NIV, NLT)
What are you after? (The Message)
What seek ye? (KJV)
The word “seek” is translated from the Greek word “ze-teo” (Gk 2212) which brings the meaning of even to demand, to crave or to strive hard for or even to worship as in Acts 17:27. In other words, it is our overarching passion and goal in life.
If we were together with Andrew and Peter in the crowd that day and were following Jesus from behind and Jesus turned around and asked each of us individually this question:
What is it that you seek?
What is it that you seek in life?
what is it that you seek from Me (Jesus)? What do you want from Jesus?
“What are you seeking” is a simple but very profound question. Many people go through life without asking this all-important question. Many people may even walk in and out of the church every week without considering the question that Jesus asked: “What is it that you are seeking?”
For Andrew and Peter, perhaps, Jesus was trying to point to them that if fame and popularity was what they were looking for, perhaps John the Baptist had a larger crowd. Or were they seeking a new set of teachings? New inspirational messages? A psychological technique to overcome life’s struggles? A new religious movement? What is it?
As David Platt, the founder of Church of Brook Hills and President of Southern Baptist Convention’s International Mission Board, said: “We don’t come to Jesus to get wealth, health and prosperity. We come to Jesus to get Jesus.”
Tom Hughes in this book, says:
“What are you looking for?” is a stunning question - brilliant in its simplicity, vexing in its answer. Jesus does not tell them what they are looking for, or even direct them toward what they should be looking for; he asks them and by asking them, he leads them (and us). We are all in search of something. We are all on a quest… This question helps us to pause and reflect whether what we are doing in our lives matches the deepest desires of our hearts.”
Another purpose of Jesus using question, as shown by Tom Hughes in chapter 2, is to unravel the dishonesty in man’s spiritual lives. Hughes gave the example in John 21:17 when Jesus used the word “agape” (unconditional love) when he asked Peter whether he loved Him or not. Prior to Peter’s denial, Peter would probably have answered back with an affirmative agape (for example see his response in Matt 26:33; John 13:37). But now he was not too sure. Rather, Peter used the word “phileo” - which is a love between close friends but different from agape. The second time Jesus asked Peter, again Jesus used the word “agape”. But the third time, Jesus used the word “phileo” that Peter used. It is as if Jesus was saying to Peter, “now that you know and are honest enough to admit that your love is not as strong as you claimed to be, that’s when I will come and meet you at the point where you are in your spiritual journey.”
Thirdly, Jesus used question to spark and sustain a momentum in people. An example of this would be in Matt 15:34. As the Creator of the universe who holds all things together (Col 1:16-17) and creates every fish in the earth, surely He does not need
But as Tom Hughes points out:
Jesus is not just interested in getting the job done; he’s interested in getting His community involved to get the job done. He’s not just interested in filling the crowd’s stomachs; he’s interested in transforming His disciples’ hearts. By asking “How much bread do you have?”, Jesus is moving His disciples from the sidelines to play their parts. He’s creating a community of people who become co-conspirators with Him to do something about the hunger of the world. They are invited to be involved, not simply watch from the sidelines...The disciples were central to all of this. Jesus is inviting them to be world-changers by the profound act of trusting Him with the resources they had. He is asking them to become part of something larger than their own stomachs. Jesus doesn’t ask the crowds how many loaves they have; He asked the disciples. That question would dredge up all sorts of fear of inadequacy, greed and entitlement. They’d probably think things like I don’t see howe my little loaf will make much of a difference in the face of overwhelming needs. Or, if I give Jesus my loaf, am I going to end up hungry?”
This story of feeding of the four thousand is a story of God providing for the people, but it’s also the story of a leader who could have done it all by Himself, but chose instead to ask question that invited others to be involved.
Just as the good Samaritan, we may not be able to do good for many people, but we can at least do good for one people.
October 24, 2018
This is a first-class book on how to live your vocation as a Christian leader, church member - and first and foremost, the follower of Christ. The author leads you on your Christian way (mostly in community) through the question-led life according to the philosophy of "the right question shows you the answer, which is to be lived, then".
The author is wise, compassionate and humble man. His intention obviously is to go deeper, to be more mature in your faith - and he does not offer you the hard-to-understand theology here, but the much more practical theology of going deeper through answering the questions in your heart: how should I follow God better?
And I was inspired and touched much more than the most of the books I have read this year. The aithor really knows how to prone me to the really sensitive and important questions in my life!
I somehow feel the title is a bit misleading - for me, this book is about going deeper. To ask the truly important questions and to live the heart´s answer is a way of how to do it. I am writing that because I thought I am going to read quite different book! Don´t get me wrong, this book is wonderful and I am happy to report that I gained much more than I thought I would. This is just to say that the more correct title would do more good to spread the good word about this great book.
This book will be very beneficial to anyone in Christian ministry/leadership, but any Christian can gain much here. I did.
The author is wise, compassionate and humble man. His intention obviously is to go deeper, to be more mature in your faith - and he does not offer you the hard-to-understand theology here, but the much more practical theology of going deeper through answering the questions in your heart: how should I follow God better?
And I was inspired and touched much more than the most of the books I have read this year. The aithor really knows how to prone me to the really sensitive and important questions in my life!
I somehow feel the title is a bit misleading - for me, this book is about going deeper. To ask the truly important questions and to live the heart´s answer is a way of how to do it. I am writing that because I thought I am going to read quite different book! Don´t get me wrong, this book is wonderful and I am happy to report that I gained much more than I thought I would. This is just to say that the more correct title would do more good to spread the good word about this great book.
This book will be very beneficial to anyone in Christian ministry/leadership, but any Christian can gain much here. I did.
July 8, 2019
Whenever I look for bargain books, I rarely find non-Catholic Christian literature with much depth (of course, excepting the great Lord Williams of Oystermouth). I think this proves to be an exception, given that it is a book about strategically living out the Gospel in different situations. Very helpful in the ministry.
August 14, 2024
3.5 stars
This is a pretty solid book, although there are some chapters that kind of veer from the focus on questions.
This is a pretty solid book, although there are some chapters that kind of veer from the focus on questions.
February 16, 2021
In Curious, author Tom Hughes addresses two main audiences: those who want to know what it looks like to really follow Jesus and those who want to truly make a difference in the lives of others. For both of those groups, the heart of this message is that the questions we ask, rather than the answers, are what frame the direction we take and impact we make. While this book is a fantastic resource for anyone in a position of ministry leadership, I feel that this message would be just as beneficial to Christ-followers in any season of life.
Please see my full review here: http://ow.ly/Tpamj
(Disclsoure: I received a complimentary copy of this book from Tyndale House Publishers in exchange for my review.)
Please see my full review here: http://ow.ly/Tpamj
(Disclsoure: I received a complimentary copy of this book from Tyndale House Publishers in exchange for my review.)
August 7, 2016
I love pondering the questions Jesus asked. My lived Mormon experience has been focused on having the answers. This book inspires me to ask more questions and live my life without all the answers. "To ask is to act."
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