This book is FULL of timeless ideas about women worth consideration, despite having been written in the 1930s.
A couple of quotes that strike a chord, for me at least, that I think many women need to hear:
-“it is vital here that she does not lose herself in association with her husband, but, on the contrary, cultivate her own gifts and power.“
-“We should mention the importance of the influence of an adolescent literature created by women who were themselves of the romantic type, as well as the ideal of women held by romantic men.” Um, Twilight, anyone? And all this Romantasy literature of late?
Also considerations for husbands too, in this book:
“It even seems to be a contradiction of the divine order when the professional activities of the husband escalate to a degree which cuts him off completely from the family life.” (More quotes I could include but that’s just a taster.)
Most importantly, things for me to meditate on:
-The wife is “the heart of the family and soul of the home”
-“If her life is anchored completely in Jesus, then, also, she is best protected against the dangerous loss of moderation. This could happen by her being overly wrapped up in those around her; or, on the contrary, it could happen by her being wrapped up only in herself and will cut the ground from under her feet, the ground from which she must stand if she is able to help and support others. Her professional activity counterbalances the risk of submerging herself all too intimately in another’s life and thereby sacrificing her own; however, an exclusive preoccupation with her professional activity would bring the opposite danger of infidelity towards the feminine vocation”
-There must be two people for love to exist and her reference to St Gregory the Great homily on the mission of disciples who were dispatched two by two. Brilliant connection. Never thought of that or heard that connection before.
-She discusses the value of the wife being interested in her husband‘s professional life, and assisting in someway with it – this has been validated in my life and marriage for sure! May add this idea into dating class at church.
Why four stars? Well one because I think it could be a bit more approachable, though that could just be the language barrier. Two, she references many times an idea that men are more objective and women more personal, though she recognizes there are exceptions. There are too many exceptions for this to be a meaningful observation. Three, her mariology at times made me wonder if she went too far, per Vatican II, though she gave these talks before VII.
There are many other ideas I will be thinking about, that are perhaps more controversial that I won’t include in a public review, but if anyone else reads this book, let’s discuss her ideas around women and the professional life, when to stay at home, homeschooling(?), and tangential topics therein.