If you've been listening to Larry's podcast, you've likely heard most of this already. But, it's great to have it in one concise location. The are a lot of great takeaways in this book.
1. Fatherhood is work! It requires you to stay "checked-in" when you get home, be intentional in the time you spend with your kids and your spouse, and take part in their lives.
2. Lead by example, not by words alone. Trust me on this one, your kids pick up more of what you do than what you say. I started out fatherhood trying to make my kids listen, and that usually fails. If you want them to behave in a certain way, then YOU behave in that way, too.
3. It's all about perspective. You can choose to live like a victim - like the world owes you something, or you've been dealt this massively unfair situation and that's why you fail, or you can flip it, use it to grow, and teach your kids about being resilient and overcoming challenges. It's your choice.
I listened to the audiobook version of the book and there is a great interview between Larry and the narrator/producer. This book is pretty short and the audiobook runs about 4 hours. Or one day of an LA commute.
There's a TON of great stuff in here that I wish I had found in the beginning of my fatherhood journey. But, it's never too late to apply some of these strategies to improve yourself and your relationship with your kids.