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Generational IQ: Christianity Isn't Dying, Millennials Aren't the Problem, and the Future Is Bright
Why is my daughter drifting from God? Why can’t I explain my life choices to my parents? When will my son get a real job?Within the last several decades, the world has shifted dramatically. The cracks of this fundamental shift appear in our economy, in our cultural debates, in our political landscape, and, most important, in our churches. The problem is we tend to overreact to these changes, fearing that Christianity is dying. We need better Generational IQ, so we can respond to the changes but not be terrified by them. We need a wise generational coach. Haydn Shaw is that generational expert, showing us the roots of this generational shift and how it affects every one of us. Each generation, whether it’s the aging Boomers or the young Millennials, approaches God with a different set of questions and needs based on the times in which they grew up. Haydn walks you through these generational differences and paints a vision of hope for the future.
303 pages, Kindle Edition
First published October 1, 2015
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Haydn Shaw
9 books8 followersHaydn Shaw is a leading expert on understanding generational differences and transforming negative work environments and employees. He is a full-time speaker and consultant for FranklinCovey specializing in leadership, execution, and personal productivity methodologies. Before that, he was a minister for nine years and has a seminary degree. Haydn has worked with more than 1,000 businesses, not-for-profit organizations, and governmental agencies. He speaks and consults in excess of 170 days each year for clients who consistently invite him back. Recently hailed as a “leadership guru” by the Washington Post, Haydn Shaw has delivered hundreds of convention keynote or intimate off-site addresses. Known for taking groups from hilarity to deep reflection, he combines rich content with modern teaching methods. Having worked with hundreds of organizations, Haydn employs practical and inspiring examples from the boardroom and from the front line of business. Haydn Shaw travels from Chicago, where he lives in a multigenerational household with his family.
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July 14, 2017
A definite must read!!
This is the first time in history that 5 generations have lived at one time and we have all likely experienced the conflict that comes with that. Haydn Shaw takes you though each generation, beginning with Traditionalists and ending with Millennials and does a fabulous job explaining how the culture and events in each era has shaped and molded each generation. I was astounded to see how accurate his general character description of my own personal generation was (Gen X), all because of uncontrollable events that have been secretly woven into my life.
It's important that we understand people...that we understand where they are coming from...and we can't do that unless we have more insight and understanding of the generation they grew up in. In our inter-generational relationships it is all to easy to become frustrated because they don't think and do as we do. We have all said or heard negative comments made of older or younger generations, judging them because they do and think differently. Take the time and understand where the different generations are coming from.
The second half of this book deals with specific questions within the church. It deals with issues all churches have or will encounter.
Investing in relationships are the most important thing we do on earth...and this book will help you make your investments that much richer. I loved this book so much, that i am going to turn around and reread it.
This is the first time in history that 5 generations have lived at one time and we have all likely experienced the conflict that comes with that. Haydn Shaw takes you though each generation, beginning with Traditionalists and ending with Millennials and does a fabulous job explaining how the culture and events in each era has shaped and molded each generation. I was astounded to see how accurate his general character description of my own personal generation was (Gen X), all because of uncontrollable events that have been secretly woven into my life.
It's important that we understand people...that we understand where they are coming from...and we can't do that unless we have more insight and understanding of the generation they grew up in. In our inter-generational relationships it is all to easy to become frustrated because they don't think and do as we do. We have all said or heard negative comments made of older or younger generations, judging them because they do and think differently. Take the time and understand where the different generations are coming from.
The second half of this book deals with specific questions within the church. It deals with issues all churches have or will encounter.
Investing in relationships are the most important thing we do on earth...and this book will help you make your investments that much richer. I loved this book so much, that i am going to turn around and reread it.
June 30, 2021
If youre in what seems like a old or dying church or a church that doesnt seem to listen , give this a read. A really good understanding on cultural context for each generation and how to listen/ work better with old people and young people.
August 23, 2016
I wasn’t feeling very well Sunday, so I spent most of the day reading in bed. It’s been a while since I read an entire nonfiction book in one sitting, as I have many of them scattered around the house, and I often pick one up and read a chapter or two before setting it back down. However, Generational IQ, written by Haydn Shaw, kept my attention, and I enjoyed the information. I learned quite a bit.
This book is about the four living generations: the Traditionalists, Baby Boomers, Generation X, and Millennials. For the first time in recorded history, we have five generations living together (fifth is too young to name and have much information on). Each generation was raised with different influences, and they’re completely different in their own way.
It’s clear Haydn has done a lot of research and knows his stuff, and his writing held my attention. Void of opinions and repetition, this book contained a lot of statistical data and historical information. It’s not a self-help book (which I often lose interest in quickly due to basic information I already know).
If you enjoy learning new things or reading books about personalities and temperaments (why people act the way they do), you’ll love this one. I highly enjoyed learning about the Baby Boomers and Millennials, and I often found myself nodding and whispering, “Oh, that is so true.” Last night, while listening to my niece (a Millennial) talk about her plans for the future, I couldn’t help but laugh at how accurately the book described her generation. She hates being put in a box and labeled, yet Haydn completely described her and her peers. However, he also went into detail as to why they, and the other generations, act the way they do.
The author does a lot of consulting for businesses about this topic, to help them understand the vast differences that often causes problems in the workplace. (There are major differences in Traditionalists and Millennials, along with a lack of understanding of each other.) His other book, Sticking Points, was written for companies, and after reading the first chapter, I highly recommend it if you’re in the workplace.
He decided to write Generational IQ to help churches in the same way he has helped the corporate world, so this book doesn’t go into detail about the different generations in an office setting. Instead, it holds a lot of statistical and historical data on Christianity in America and the changing beliefs. He not only does consulting for corporations, he also does consulting for churches, and this book has a lot of great information for church staff, as well as curious people like me. I found it helpful and extremely valuable in helping me understand my daughter’s generation, along with my niece. They are very different from the other generations, and this book would greatly benefit parents of Millennials. I give it five stars and highly recommend!
This book is about the four living generations: the Traditionalists, Baby Boomers, Generation X, and Millennials. For the first time in recorded history, we have five generations living together (fifth is too young to name and have much information on). Each generation was raised with different influences, and they’re completely different in their own way.
It’s clear Haydn has done a lot of research and knows his stuff, and his writing held my attention. Void of opinions and repetition, this book contained a lot of statistical data and historical information. It’s not a self-help book (which I often lose interest in quickly due to basic information I already know).
If you enjoy learning new things or reading books about personalities and temperaments (why people act the way they do), you’ll love this one. I highly enjoyed learning about the Baby Boomers and Millennials, and I often found myself nodding and whispering, “Oh, that is so true.” Last night, while listening to my niece (a Millennial) talk about her plans for the future, I couldn’t help but laugh at how accurately the book described her generation. She hates being put in a box and labeled, yet Haydn completely described her and her peers. However, he also went into detail as to why they, and the other generations, act the way they do.
The author does a lot of consulting for businesses about this topic, to help them understand the vast differences that often causes problems in the workplace. (There are major differences in Traditionalists and Millennials, along with a lack of understanding of each other.) His other book, Sticking Points, was written for companies, and after reading the first chapter, I highly recommend it if you’re in the workplace.
He decided to write Generational IQ to help churches in the same way he has helped the corporate world, so this book doesn’t go into detail about the different generations in an office setting. Instead, it holds a lot of statistical and historical data on Christianity in America and the changing beliefs. He not only does consulting for corporations, he also does consulting for churches, and this book has a lot of great information for church staff, as well as curious people like me. I found it helpful and extremely valuable in helping me understand my daughter’s generation, along with my niece. They are very different from the other generations, and this book would greatly benefit parents of Millennials. I give it five stars and highly recommend!
July 10, 2016
Every person involved in Christian ministry needs to read Generational IQ. For the first time in history, we are trying to minister to five generations at the same time. There are bound to be struggles. Haydn Shaw, author of Sticking Points, teaches sincerely concerned readers how to navigate through them with understanding and grace.
Just as he did in Sticking Points, Shaw begins by defining each of the four older generations. This time, though, he explains how the generation we are born into affects our relationship with God. As he moves from the traditionalists to the millenials, he helps readers grasp subtle shifts in thinking that have taken place through the years resulting in dramatically different world views for each generation.
Next he answers questions about relating and reaching out to family and friends in other generations. In the first few of these chapters, he’s writing mostly to parents and grandparents about the younger generations, then he addresses the church, helping ministers and members see how they can more effectively tell unchurched people of all generations about our amazing and faithful God.
His most important advice: listen, love, be patient, answer questions honestly, trust God. His insights into each generation’s mindset show readers how to do this well.
I enjoyed Shaw’s first book, Sticking Points, but wasn’t sure what he could add to my understanding of generations in Generational IQ. This new book adds a lot, though. In fact, I think, in the long run, I’ll find the understanding I gained from the new book to be even more valuable. If you live with or minister to people of different generations, you’ll appreciate Shaw’s hopeful outlook and deep insights. I recommend this book.
Just as he did in Sticking Points, Shaw begins by defining each of the four older generations. This time, though, he explains how the generation we are born into affects our relationship with God. As he moves from the traditionalists to the millenials, he helps readers grasp subtle shifts in thinking that have taken place through the years resulting in dramatically different world views for each generation.
Next he answers questions about relating and reaching out to family and friends in other generations. In the first few of these chapters, he’s writing mostly to parents and grandparents about the younger generations, then he addresses the church, helping ministers and members see how they can more effectively tell unchurched people of all generations about our amazing and faithful God.
His most important advice: listen, love, be patient, answer questions honestly, trust God. His insights into each generation’s mindset show readers how to do this well.
I enjoyed Shaw’s first book, Sticking Points, but wasn’t sure what he could add to my understanding of generations in Generational IQ. This new book adds a lot, though. In fact, I think, in the long run, I’ll find the understanding I gained from the new book to be even more valuable. If you live with or minister to people of different generations, you’ll appreciate Shaw’s hopeful outlook and deep insights. I recommend this book.
April 11, 2016
The book is well researched and thought out. Gives a different perspective on challenges and opportunities for the 21st Century church. A few of items that I found helpful were:
1) Millennials aren't acting any different than previous generations in regard to church. They are coming back after starting a family, but they are starting their families later.
2) This is the first time in history that there have been five generations in the church. This creates new possibilities and challenges. One challenge is what to do with those who have retired from significant work roles? Are we going to suggest they help fold bulletins when they may have led multi-million dollar organizations? How can we utilize their talents and experience?
3) How is our generation (whatever that generation might be) going to be open to ministry to other generations?
A strong book that I recommend.
1) Millennials aren't acting any different than previous generations in regard to church. They are coming back after starting a family, but they are starting their families later.
2) This is the first time in history that there have been five generations in the church. This creates new possibilities and challenges. One challenge is what to do with those who have retired from significant work roles? Are we going to suggest they help fold bulletins when they may have led multi-million dollar organizations? How can we utilize their talents and experience?
3) How is our generation (whatever that generation might be) going to be open to ministry to other generations?
A strong book that I recommend.
March 7, 2019
While this book certainly does show a broad spectrum stereotype at generational differences, it was very helpful in gaining new perspective to other ways of looking at the same issues.
December 9, 2018
If ever there were a book besides the Bible that every churchgoer should read for today's challenges-it would be this one. I do not say that lightly. After attending a conference last year at which the speaker referenced this book I decided it sounded like a helpful read.
I gained so much clarity about myself (a millennial) and about each generation. Every chance I get, I am sharing what I've learned with others and suggesting they read this book. My husband who is a pastor is now reading it as well. A few months ago I was able to use principles from this book to form a new ministry at my church. I'm so thankful for the author taking the time to share his research, findings and knowledge on the subject of generational divides in order to further the cause of the church.
I gained so much clarity about myself (a millennial) and about each generation. Every chance I get, I am sharing what I've learned with others and suggesting they read this book. My husband who is a pastor is now reading it as well. A few months ago I was able to use principles from this book to form a new ministry at my church. I'm so thankful for the author taking the time to share his research, findings and knowledge on the subject of generational divides in order to further the cause of the church.
November 7, 2015
Pastor, read this book. Church leader, read this book. Church member, read this book. This book brings together in one place a lot of great research and sociological history to help us understand the generational challenges that exist in all churches.
This information will set you free from stereotypes of each generation and give a starting place to connect generation to generation within the body of the church. If you have ever had young people complaining about older people in your church or vice versa then READ THIS BOOK!
This information will set you free from stereotypes of each generation and give a starting place to connect generation to generation within the body of the church. If you have ever had young people complaining about older people in your church or vice versa then READ THIS BOOK!
January 29, 2016
The perfect primer for church leaders and church attenders
Generational IQ is the perfect primer for church leaders, and attenders, who are concerned by the constant tension that arises between 'old' and 'young'. If you miss the organ and hate the noise, this book is for you. If you love flip flops but hate the looks you get when you wear them in the sanctuary, Shaw provides necessary perspective. This book should be required reading for the people of God who are committed to maintaining the peace and unity of Christ, together, by any means necessary.
Generational IQ is the perfect primer for church leaders, and attenders, who are concerned by the constant tension that arises between 'old' and 'young'. If you miss the organ and hate the noise, this book is for you. If you love flip flops but hate the looks you get when you wear them in the sanctuary, Shaw provides necessary perspective. This book should be required reading for the people of God who are committed to maintaining the peace and unity of Christ, together, by any means necessary.
October 18, 2016
The concept of multiple generations living and working together is not new. It started sometime after Cain and Abel were born, and generations have been rolling their eyes at each other ever since. Shaw builds on the concepts I first read in Sticking Points, where he looks generational differences in the workplace. Generational IQ extends the conversation to various generations in the church. Thought provoking and helpful. Spoiler alert: there is not a best or worst generation; each generation contributes both strengths and weaknesses.
February 16, 2016
This book was clear and concise in showing us how each generation relates to church, God, and faith differently. Not only that it gives you some practical steps towards bridging the gaps between the generations and how to reach out to generations you may currently be missing. Great read, would definitely recommend
August 1, 2017
Very important to know
I think churches need to read this and similar books on how much impact the generational gaps have in churches. My biggest takeaway was if an issue with others is a generational issue (small issue) or an actual issue (immority or unbiblical). Knowing the difference could help allot with church unity (eph. 4). This is good book
I think churches need to read this and similar books on how much impact the generational gaps have in churches. My biggest takeaway was if an issue with others is a generational issue (small issue) or an actual issue (immority or unbiblical). Knowing the difference could help allot with church unity (eph. 4). This is good book
June 29, 2018
Easily the best book I've read this year!
In the 20th century humans have gone from three generations living together to five. This book explores the ramifications of this especially within the church. If you are dumbfounded by young people this book will bring you hope. if you are dumbfounded by old people this book will bring you hope.
In the 20th century humans have gone from three generations living together to five. This book explores the ramifications of this especially within the church. If you are dumbfounded by young people this book will bring you hope. if you are dumbfounded by old people this book will bring you hope.
November 17, 2015
Some solid insights!
Okay, I was skeptical about reading another book on generational issues. This was very insightful, and the specific conversation examples or chapters on how to approach issues multiplied the value of the book.
Okay, I was skeptical about reading another book on generational issues. This was very insightful, and the specific conversation examples or chapters on how to approach issues multiplied the value of the book.
December 5, 2018
This book was really quite enlightening, and I have recommended it to several friends, including the other members of my church staff. As a pastor in a deliberately multi-generational church, this book is a gold mine of helpful information.
March 15, 2016
Interesting, but could have been condensed considerably.
October 27, 2016
I understood our children's generation better after reading this book--worth reading for that alone. A thought provoking and hopeful book.
May 3, 2022
The message in this book is one that I haven’t really heard being discussed anywhere else but one I believe is vital to the health of our churches. Haydn clearly articulates the factors that shaped each generation, the strengths and weaknesses that come with that shaping, and what we as the church can do to better understand and love people from every generation. This is a powerful book that has the potential to save so many churches from a slow and painful death and I believe it should be required reading for every single pastor out there!
Favorite Quote: “The movies, the music, the television shows, and even the schools we attend all pump images and ideas into our heads that shape our generation and are at the crux of our complaints about other generations. Another generation’s behavior makes no sense to us because we don’t understand the images and ideas that shape their minds.”
Favorite Quote: “The movies, the music, the television shows, and even the schools we attend all pump images and ideas into our heads that shape our generation and are at the crux of our complaints about other generations. Another generation’s behavior makes no sense to us because we don’t understand the images and ideas that shape their minds.”
December 31, 2020
Christianity among generations
An informative look at Christianity among generational differences. Haydn Shaw presents 5 generations how they developed, their views and then asks the hard questions of how Christianity can exist and reach all 5 generations. A necessary read for anyone involved in ministry with their church.
An informative look at Christianity among generational differences. Haydn Shaw presents 5 generations how they developed, their views and then asks the hard questions of how Christianity can exist and reach all 5 generations. A necessary read for anyone involved in ministry with their church.
March 10, 2021
I really enjoyed this book. Each chapter was spot on in the generation descriptions and just brought so much clarity on why we act or respond the ways we do sometimes.
April 5, 2017
Incredibly insightful book for both clergy and laypersons who have any hope of understanding the differences in generations and how to respond to them. I would highly recommend this resource to anyone who works in or attends a church that is struggling to draw people from the younger generations.
April 24, 2017
Every church leader should read this book. It is very helpful and will safe many churches a lot of pain!
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