From the million-copy bestseller Amanda Prowse, the queen of heartbreak fiction. Amanda Prowse is the author of The Coordinates Of Loss and the no.1 bestsellers Perfect Daughter, My Husband's Wife and What Have I Done? In the early years, she was happy. Romilly loved her stunning house, her kind husband and gorgeous daughter. Sure, life was sometimes exhausting – but nothing that a large glass of wine at the end of the day couldn't fix. But then a glass of wine became a bottle; one bottle became two. Once, Romilly's family were everything to her. Now, after years of hiding the drinking, she must finally admit that she has found another love...Reviews for Amanda Prowse: 'Prowse handles her explosive subject with delicate skill... Deeply moving and inspiring' DAILY MAIL. 'Powerful and emotional family drama that packs a real punch' HEAT. 'A gut wrenching and absolutely brilliant read' IRISH SUN. 'Captivating, heartbreaking, superbly written' CLOSER. 'Very uplifting and positive, but you may still need a box (or two) of tissues' HELLO. 'An emotional, unputdownable read' RED. 'Prowse writes gritty, contemporary stories but always with an uplifting message of hope' SUNDAY INDEPENDENT.
Previous Book: 'Swimming to Lundy', published th August 2024'.
Latest Book: 'This One Life', published 7th January 2025.
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Amanda Prowse is an International Bestselling author whose thirty-two novels, two non-fiction titles and ten novellas have been published in dozens of languages around the world. Published by Lake Union, Amanda is the most prolific writer of bestselling contemporary fiction in the UK today; her titles also consistently score the highest online review approval ratings across several genres. Her books, including the chart topping No.1 titles 'What Have I Done?', 'Perfect Daughter', 'My Husband's Wife', 'The Girl in the Corner' and ‘The Things I Know’ have sold millions of copies across the globe.
A popular TV and radio personality, Amanda has appeared on numerous shows where her views on family and social issues strike a chord with viewers. She also makes countless guest appearances on BBC national and independent Radio stations including LBC, Times Radio and Talk FM, where she is well known for her insightful observations and her infectious humour. Described by the Daily Mail as ‘The queen of family drama’ Amanda’s novel, 'A Mother's Story' won the coveted Sainsbury's eBook of the year Award and she has had two books selected as World Book Night titles, 'Perfect Daughter' in 2016 and 'The Boy Between' in 2022.
Amanda is a huge supporter of libraries and having become a proud ambassador for The Reading Agency, works tirelessly to promote reading, especially in disadvantaged areas. Amanda's ambition is to create stories that keep people from turning the bedside lamp off at night, great characters that ensure you take every step with them and tales that fill your head so you can't possibly read another book until the memory fades...
Praise for Amanda Prowse:
'A powerful and emotional work of fiction' - Piers Morgan
'Deeply moving and emotional, Amanda Prowse handles her explosive subjects with delicate skill' - Daily Mail
'Uplifting and positive, but you will still need a box of tissues' - Hello!
'A gut-wrenching and absolutely brilliant read' - The Irish Sun
'You'll fall in love with this...' - Cosmopolitan
'Deeply moving and eye opening. Powerful and emotional drama that packs a real punch.' - Heat
Amanda Prowse [to me] always seems to deliver a read that takes your eyes to to the pages of her writing, seeps into your heartstrings, twangs them, and even sometimes breaks them. Someone who is not afraid to tackle subjects that go on within some peoples day to day lives who like to either ignore or 'sweep them under the carpet'. She meets it head on. And you have no choice but to meet things head on too and learn, and understand and open your mind and heart to what she is writing about.
If you have had or known or been close to someone who tackled alcohol addiction you can either not read this book, bury your head in the sand, ignore it and it might go away [but it doesn't.....ever] or you can actually read this, yes its a novel, but its written in a way that everyone would understand the emotional side of why someone drinks. NO excuse whatsoever for someone doing this, but the first thing we need to do is to understand it. It can happen to anyone of us and this author really doesn't hold back on hitting where it might hurt.
I am a king of person that likes to take on problems head on, I don't want to run, I want to face it, I find its the only way to deal with a problem [no matter what it is].
I do understand that this subject matter will bring back unhappy memories for many.
My Moms father was a drinker, he beat his wife, they moved into my Grandmas house and continued living there and let him 'get on with it'. Those were many many years ago. Now alcohol is and addiction, even treated like an illness. Whatever your thoughts are on that, this will evoke many different dimensions to it. It did for me.
You will need tissues to read some of these parts. You may not.
You may say "its self inflicted" You may say "let them rot"
Whatever your views are on the subject, this book will give an insight to how fast the decline can be to an addiction, and why.
Remember too, whilst reading this, some of us are emotionally stronger than others, some of us have family around us but not supportive or close, some of us have a life that has gone to plan, some of us have a life that we planned but was diverted by unforeseen circumstances.
Keep an open mind.
As with any author who has the courage to write such a emotive subject [its like Politics] we all have our views, keep an open mind and you may be surprised.
I loved this book and I am so glad I got an advanced copy from Head of Zeus Via Net Galley for my review. I love this authors books as she never holds back. Her writing is superb and your details are defined.
This is the story of Rom, a woman who has it all, the house, the career, the gorgeous man. However Rom will literally do anything and lose everything for a glass of wine. I was crying and I wasn’t even a quarter of the way into this book. I found this really difficult to read and I would advise anyone who is triggered by alcohol abuse to check the content warnings before diving in.
This book begins gently, gradually building to its climax.
We meet Romilly, a bright student who meets David, whom she initially feels is out of her league. They develop a slow relationship and eventually get married. Their mantra for their relationship was to say their love was “proper love.” As she becomes an entomologist and David an accountant, all seems well.
However, Romilly has two sides to her. When she socialises, she needs to drink to get going, but she becomes insulting and hurtful. They have a daughter, and everything appears to be going well until she spirals.
Things come to a head when she agrees to go into treatment. Initially, she believes it’s just a blip and that she’s not like everyone else there. The sad truth is, in order to get herself straight, she needed to admit that she needed help.
In her wake is her husband and daughter, who have limits. What Romilly didn’t realise is the impact she was having on her family.
We witness all of her lying and the drama that follows. For me, the most heartbreaking part is how her daughter is affected. She’s frightened to speak at times and doesn’t know what version of her mother she’ll see each day.
Sadly, we see the selfishness that comes with the disease and the hiding of alcohol. What happens when she gets involved with a bitter woman of similar age? Romilly spirals further.
Will she ever admit to her problem? How much will David take when she takes a step too far? Does she have the strength to get her life back on track when she continues to sink further?
This heartbreaking story has the potential to affect any one of us.
Wow, this was a surprisingly emotional read which even brought tears to my eyes.
Another Love is about a woman and her relationship with alcohol. I went into this thinking I probably wouldn’t get very emotionally involved, but I could not have been more wrong.
Firstly, reading a character being described as a “bookish ginger-haired, spectacle-wearing girl” (I’m sure I know one of those) helped to get me onside.
With regards to the alcoholism, it was the gradual increase that helped me connect. In fact, I very much saw myself in Romilly, as I’m sure many others will. I was an exceptionally shy teenager with very low self-esteem, and without a doubt used alcohol to give me confidence. As I got older, I also used alcohol to deal with stress. There are times in my life when my alcohol consumption may have been viewed as out of control. The good news is that I sorted myself out, and actually hardly ever drink now, and certainly don’t feel I need a drink to get through the day or certain situations.
I have felt frustrated by characters in books before, but it has been a while since I’ve been this frustrated. Romilly’s uncontrollable drinking and self-destructive side drove me crazy at times. I wanted to shake sense into her and throw away the bottle of booze she got her hands on. This book really did fill me with an overwhelming frustration, and I even had to rant about Romilly to my husband, as if she was a real person I was trying to help.
My initial intention was to give this book 4 stars, but having realised how emotional I feel just writing this review, it definitely deserves 5 stars from me.
I would like to thank the publisher, Head of Zeus for allowing me a copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Over the past year I have become a big fan of Amanda Prowse's work, she is never afraid to tackle hard hitting, relevant issues to our world today. Other authors in her genre shy away from writing about themes which they fear may alienate their readers who coming looking for light, fluffy reads. Not so with Amanda she really gets to the heart of the matter through her incredible story telling ability. Her way with words is amazing and has you deeply invested in the story-lines and characters. In fact she does this in such a way that has the most profound effect on you as a reader. Your eyes are opened to topics that you may have given scant thought to previously and when you have finished reading the book you want to make everyone aware of the issue that Amanda had brought to your attention. Amanda's books are very powerful and emotive. One minute you may have a smile on your face as you read a warm comforting scene the next you reach for the tissues as a torrent of emotional upheaval is unleashed that eaves you a sobbing mess. That's the strength and depth in Amanda's writing. All her characters and story-lines are raw, strong, honest and have earned so many fans always eager for the next release myself included.
This new release Another Love (part of the No Greater Courage series - all written as standalone books) comes not long after the truly gorgeous book that was The Christmas Café. That's what I like about Amanda's writing her ability to change things up never staying with the same predictable plot line rehashed in slightly different ways over several books. Her Christmas book was a nice easy read with a lovely message at its heart but here she tackles the increasingly controversial subject of middle class women's alcoholism. Quite frankly the facts at the end of the press release are really frightening. Described as gritty and emotional Another Love proved to be all that and another stunning, deep, remarkable and impressive read that deserves to be read by many. Once again Amanda Prowse has truly proven what a confident, exceptionally important author she really is. The title Another Love really connects to the main theme of the book and I love this, too often I am left thinking what in god's name had that title anything to do with what happened in the book. Here Romilly has found another love not that of her family but that of alcohol. Is this love taking over her life in such a way that her old life is irretrievable? I was more than keen to discover the answer.
The prologue to Another Love opens with Romilly, our main protagonist, writing a letter to her daughter Celeste who is now grown up. Right from the first paragraph you are sucked into the magnificent writing as Amanda excels in getting inside the heart and mind of an alcoholic who has reached as low as she can go. 'I had it all. People often say that, don't they? But I really did, and I guess that's the hardest thing for me to fathom, how I unpicked my existence strand by strand until everything I held dear lay in a pile like a fine knitted garment reduced to knotty wool'. From here on the book is interspersed with Celeste writing diary entries as encouraged to do so by her psychiatrist. It was vital this was included in the novel as we get both the child and adult version of how Celeste views what happened specifically to her mother and ultimately the family unit. The rest of the chapters are from Romilly's viewpoint. She admits herself that she has two personalities. On one hand she is shy, nice, loving and happy in her relationship and marriage with David Wells. She met David at university and they have been inseparable since. On the other hand once a drop of alcohol passes her lips she becomes cruel, heartless, mean, destructive and angry. I really could go on as her bad side made itself known for the majority of the book. Alcoholism is an invisible illness where people think it is a choice where really it is not as Romilly herself says would I really choose this if given a choice? 'This other love is so strong that she will do anything, anything if it means they can slope off together and snatch some illicit moments of pure pure joy'. You may think Romilly is talking about David but sadly not it's her love of drink.
Alcohol made Romilly somebody else and not necessarily a better person. Behind this bravado, this falseness is an insecurity a fear that she is not good enough and no matter how hard she tries she never will be. She feels second best and that she doesn't deserve David or Celeste in her life. I really thought where did this all stem from? Was it her childhood? Or is it just the disease talking? David was more than a father/husband, he was Romilly's friend and soulmate, another piece of her as she was of him. Part of him was broken, hurting and resentful at what was unfolding before his very eyes as Romilly's life both professional and family disintegrated. But David was a stalwart and a rock and couldn't give up on his 'bug' his forever love. No way could he take Celeste and run and abandon the woman he promised to spend the rest of his life with through sickness and in health. His love for Romilly shone through where I would have been tempted to run. 'Only ever you.It's only ever you Romilly, despite what you think and despite what you worried about' .Several times I was shouting at the book just go David, just go think of Celeste. No little girl should have to witness her mother carrying on the way Romilly was. The further I read the more angry I became and I kept rapidly turning the pages to discover the conclusion to this brilliant book. Would I get the ending I wanted?
Sara - Romilly's neighbour and so called friend to me can be compared to the devil - always there tempting and teasing encouraging Romilly to do the wrong thing. Leading her in the total opposite direction she should be going in. Taking negative steps further backwards instead of positive steps towards her future and sobriety. Just as Romilly is attempting to establish herself on the straight and narrow there comes that little voice in the form of Sara inside her head or tapping her on her shoulder urging Romilly on to do the most destructive things possible. The one thing that might bring you relief for a short while but in the long term will cause only utter devastation and heartbreak - to drink even more. Sara was that person that devil, your bad conscience and could certainly not be classed as a good neighbour. Her arrival into the cul-de-sac where Romilly and David lived spelled nothing but trouble from the beginning. She made me wonder had Romilly not encountered her would her fall to the very very bottom have even occurred in the first place? Or was it Romilly's addictive nature the cause? Or maybe it really is an illness that once it takes hold it is extremely difficult to relinquish its grip?
The more we read the more Romilly continues to spiral out of control and plummets to the lowest of lows. A lot of the things that she does in my mind were unforgivable. The scene where she meets David in the café for the first time was devastating and heartbreaking in equal measure and showed just how powerful alcohol really is. It also made me very very angry with Romilly, just when you begin to think surely Romilly cannot venture any further into the depths of depravity she plummets and my god Amanda threw everything at her main character here and was blatantly honest in her vivid,realistic, horrific descriptions.In fact so much so Romilly really repulsed me and more than once I was left open mouthed with shock and disgust. Throughout the book I can't say I really liked Romilly. In fact was I really meant to? When she was sober and trying she seemed nice enough but really the portrayal of her character was written so well I just couldn't like her or what she was putting her family through. Yes, of course I did feel sympathy for her and can totally understand how this disease is like fighting an endless war that is determined not to be won. But at what point should we say enough is enough?
Another Love was a difficult, challenging read and must have been equally as hard for Amanda to write. She doesn't shy away from the brutal realities of what alcohol can do to you or the twisted lies and secrets an alcoholic is forced into. She really lets loose with the descriptions of Romilly's binges and the fall out for each family member is clearly shown. Amanda builds a phenomenal picture of a woman torn apart by her love for something that comes in a bottle. That will create in you a bigger love for it than that of the love you once believed you held for your family. All of this left me loathing and caring for Romilly in equal measure. Although even after finishing this read I'm beginning to wonder is Romilly one of the first characters I have read for a very long time and not fully liked by the end despite everything I have read? I feel Romilly and her actions will divide readers and provide endless discussion.
Another Love is the perfect book for a book club. There would be endless discussion, of opinions and arguments. It would be brilliant if this book was picked for a future Richard and Judy Book Club. I feel like I say this about each of the books I have reviewed by Amanda But Another Love really is her best book. It's so accomplished and well written. I was drained after completing it but it also proved such an eye opener on so many levels. How on earth can she top this? It's only January and it was the first book I read this year but my god I have a strong feeling this will be featuring in my top books of the year come the end of 2016.
Romilly and David have it all, a beautiful home, great jobs and a sweet little girl named Celeste. Romilly is working as a scientist and she and David are very much in love. His wife and daughter are David's whole world and he does everything he can to be there for them. Unfortunately something manages to come between them. Romilly likes drinking and slowly alcohol is becoming more and more important in her life. The result is that the dream life she holds so dear starts falling apart...
Another Love is a beautiful novel about a woman who has an alcohol problem and her daughter who has to grow up in an unstable home. Amanda Prowse tells the story from two different points of view. There are short chapters about Celeste and longer ones about Romilly. I think that was a very good choice, it makes the story intense, it feels real and it moved me in more ways than I can express. It was very emotional to read the same story from two different sides. The writing is so vivid that I could feel every struggle, every mistake and every battle. Amanda Prowse writes about alcohol addiction with empathy, in an amazing sensitive way.
Another Love made me cry a few times. I shed tears for both Celeste and Romilly, for the sweet little girl who doesn't feel safe at home and for her mother who is messed up in many ways. I think Amanda Prowse has written a brilliant novel, one that left me speechless, because it's so impressive. The story is emotional, it's honest and it's absolutely heartbreaking, but there's also hope. I think Another Love is really, really good, it's a story that will stay with me for a very long time.
*Copy provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review*
'Another Love' is a brilliant, memorable, unputdownable emotional rollercoaster of a story, one I devoured in a single sitting and was so sad when it was over. It tells the story of Romilly, a victim of her own choices, a mother and a wife torn between the love for her husband and daughter and the other kind of love, the destructive one which has closed her in not allowing her to breathe.
Told from two point of views, Romilly and her daughter's (Celeste) we learn about the history of these two women, the devastation and destruction alcohol made them experience, the highs and lows in their family, the many crises and cries for help. When I started reading this book, I thought it would be about Celeste and her relationship with her estranged mother. Partially it was about that, about all the reasons these two drifted apart, about a broken family and many broken hearts.
However, I didn't expect this book to be so... heavy? Not sure if I got the right word, but each page did feel like a stone crushing my heart. The story is authentic, heart breaking, layered and beautifully written, you'll be hooked from the very first line. It speaks honestly about some very sensitive topics and there's no way Ms Prowse's words won't touch even the coldest heart. Even if you're not a mother and even if you've never met someone with an addiction, the story will have a deep impact on you, drawing you into this dark world full of struggle, making you root for the characters, wanting them to change their life for the better, feeling disappointed each time they give in to temptation. And if you're anything like me, you'll probably finish reading with heavy tears falling down your face, sad the journey's come to the end and feeling blessed for everything you have in your life.
It's a difficult book to review, because as much as the story is important, it's the characters and human nature which are more important. Their flaws, their history, their dreams and sacrifices, the way people through their own choices can experiences the greatest highs and the deepest, darkest falls. I don't remember I've been so invested in a book in a long time. Ms Prowse's writing and descriptions of the states Romilly goes through, are simply perfect and there's no way you won't be immersed in the story.
If I'm correct, this is Mrs Prowse's 10th book and definitely one not to miss out! If you're new to her books, I strongly suggest starting with this then works your way through her backlog. Trust me, she's an author who deserves all the praise and certainly an author who pours every atom of her imagination, experience, knowledge and, most importantly, amazing talent to each new book. This book certainly set the bar high for the following ones, but I'm absolutely sure Mrs Prowse will never disappoint me or her huge army of fans. Also, it's only January but this book is definitely going on my list of Best Books of 2016 and is already on my list of all time faves.
Yes, I LOVED 'Another Love'! Utterly brilliant, fascinating, heart breaking story you must not miss out on! Simply put, Mrs Prowse is an author who speaks to my heart.
When I was offered the opportunity to read an advance copy of Another Love, having looked at its description, I knew I would be a fool to turn it down. In the past year that I have discovered Amanda Prowse's brilliance, I have been continually impressed by her writing, her empathy while dealing with serious subjects, and the treatment that Romilly and Celeste's story has been given in Another Love is no different.
Another Love is told in alternating chapters, from Celeste's point of view and Romilly. With Romilly we are treated to her life from when she meets husband, all the way through her love affair with alcohol. And from Celeste, its her looking back on how it was to grow up with Romilly as a mother, and just what it can be like living with someone who has an additional love.
We see snapshots of Romilly's childhood, and how she felt at key points growing up, that formed the base of her adult psyche, and could explain some of her reasons for liking to drink perhaps a bit more than necessary at times.
The whole story is told in a very compassionate way, and I really did feel sorry for Celeste, and also found myself caring deeply for Romilly and wishing that she had the inner strength to react to situations differently.
This book does not glamourise alcoholism, and I have to assume took a lot of research to write about so clearly, as with some scenes, it feels as though there is a great level of insight being exhibited by Amanda Prowse, and this comes through clearly.
Another Love is one woman's struggle with her love of a tipple, or two, or three, and how it affects everyone around her, from her immediate family, friends, and anyone who tries to help her. Some of the book would have been quite funny, if it wasn't for the deep rooted problems that Romilly has.
I hesitate to say that I enjoyed reading this, as I don't normally take pleasure from others suffering, however I did find this was a gripping story that I kept going back to as I didn't want to leave it alone for very long at all.
It is a magnificent piece of writing from Amanda Prowse, and amazingly this is only her first release of what I believe to be is a very busy year for the author. If this is the start, I can't wait to see what else is released.
Thank you so much to Netgalley, Head of Zeus and Simeon Prowse for this review copy. This was my honest opinion.
I started "Another Love" completely clueless of its plot. The cover indicated women's fiction, so I went for it.
Romilly had it all; a beautiful and caring husband, a gorgeous daughter, Celeste, a great house and a fantastic job. She loved all of the above, but her other love, the alcohol, became her greatest love, a love so powerful, so addictive, it threatened to take everything away from her.
"Another Love" is the story of a middle class, educated, high achiever woman who struggles with alcoholism.
Amanda Prowse wrote a very compelling, at times, heartbreaking, novel. The novel is written mostly from Romilly's point of view, intertwined with Celeste's recollection of her mother's misadventures.
Alcoholism is present in all the layers of society. There's an increasing number of women joining the ranks. I'm all for equality, but not when it comes to this.
This novel showcases how easy it is to become an alcoholic in the modern world, where drinking and getting drunk are seen as cool.
I thought Prowse showcased very well Romilly's struggles with alcoholism and how that affected her life and of those who love her.
At times I found myself being judgemental and asking Romilly why the hell wasn't she giving alcohol up, I guess a typical reaction of someone who never struggled with addiction. But I realise/know that we're all different, and some people are more prone to vice, addiction than others. And it's possible to be perfectly adjusted, functional, determined in many aspects of your life, but you could still have something that could be your Achilles' heel.
"Another Love" is a well written cautionary tale.
Highly recommended.
I've received this novel via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. Many thanks to the publishers, Head of Zeus, for the opportunity to read and review.
An amazing book that I was unable to put down until I had it finished. Such a gripping story,told from Romilly who is an alcoholic trying to function as a normal adult,wife and mother and how she struggles over the years. I hated and loathed this woman who put her desire for alcohol above everything she ever had,the way she treated her daughter,how could any mother behave like that. Also told from her daughter Celeste's view as she grew up with an alcoholic for a mother,a woman who scared her and left her feeling insecure and uncertain when she should have been feeling love and comfort.
This story is Romilly's battles with alcoholism and the destruction it causes for her loved ones. It was heartbreaking and heartfelt and yes it is an illness but it is also to a point a choice.
For me personally, I lived with an alcoholic for 3 years, 3 yrs of hell and uncertainty of what each day would bring and the hope that each day would be different. But until an alcoholic realises that they actually have a problem,that they need to stop and change their life, then there will never be a happy,certain day.
Dit is geen leuk boek, gezien het onderwerp. En het heeft ook trieste kanten. Toch boeide dit boek mij enorm. Ik werd echt het verhaal ingezogen en had dan ook moeite om te stoppen met lezen. Daardoor heb ik dit boek zo snel uitgelezen. Het gaat over Romilly, die een alcoholverslaving heeft. Net als je denkt dat ze niet dieper kan zakken, komt ze in een situatie terecht die ze zelf nooit voor mogelijk had gehouden. Elk hoofdstuk is eerst vanuit het perspectief van Romilly geschreven en daarna komt haar dochter Celeste aan het woord. Ik vond deze manier van vertellen goed gekozen, omdat dezelfde gebeurtenissen nu van twee kanten worden belicht. Daardoor krijg je echt een totaalplaatje. Ik vind dat Amanda Prowse het onderwerp echt goed beschreven heeft. Dit boek kun je momenteel gratis lezen via de app van de Vakantiebieb en ik raad iedereen aan om dat te doen.
I’ve been a big fan of Amanda Prowse’s novels for a while now, and love what they represent. I’m pretty sure Amanda’s emotional writing has contributed to about half the tears I have ever cried thanks to her incredibly moving stories. But the thing I always love the most about Amanda’s books is how genuine and true-to-life they are. She doesn’t spare any harsh realities or home truths for the sake of an obvious happy ending. Instead, each character and each plot is taken in a completely believable direction, bringing the reader along with them through every bit of joy, sadness and fulfilment. Being able to picture the novels actually playing out in real life makes reading them all the more touching because you can buy into every one of the author’s words and this is exactly how I felt reading Another Love.
The first thing that really hit me with Another Love is how much I absolutely cared for the family of David, Romilly and Celeste. The love between David and Romilly was so real and so very beautiful, meaning that I immediately connected with the story because I was willing to root for their characters from the beginning. The thought of what was to come, what you already know is going to force its way between them, already had me torn and sad because on paper they could be living this perfect, happy life but as time passes, that’s no longer the case. The family work their way into your thoughts and even during the moments I wasn’t reading the book (though there were few of them), I still couldn’t stop thinking about and wondering how that ending was going to turn out for them all. All I can say on that point is that it was emotional! But then you expect nothing less from an Amanda Prowse novel and this one is truly her best so far.
Romilly likes a drink of wine and is found drinking something alcoholic on a daily basis. She doesn’t see that she has a problem – she’s not addicted. But her colleagues and her family beg to differ. They’re always able to smell the booze on her, they see that she finds it impossible to be social without a drink first, and her daughter’s own life is suffering, with her mum regularly forgetting to pick her up from school or getting into embarrassing situations as she does so. When Romilly is forced to really consider the influence of alcohol on her life, she knows she lies about the amount she’s really drinking and she knows some form of alcohol is always there in her many hiding places. Alcohol is a choice she makes, maybe not one she can control, but it is still always her choice. But would she choose it over her own family?
Ahh, the emotional twists in this book turned me into a complete wreck. I felt for David and Celeste, how they were fighting a seemingly impossible battle to have Romilly in their lives, without alcohol. But at the same time I felt for Romilly too. Sure, she made disappointing choices I really desperately didn’t want her to. She kept on spending time with her neighbour, a manipulative piece of work who personally I couldn’t stand. She kept on telling lies and hurting her family. She kept on drinking. But this was a story of raw addiction, and I couldn’t dislike Romilly because of her addiction. Amanda wrote the whole theme of alcoholism realistically and incredibly. As the reader, we get to feel every struggle, all the frustrations from repeatedly seeing someone turn to alcohol, try and stop turning to alcohol and once again, ending up bladdered. To me it looks difficult to balance the repetition of Romilly’s drinking with a story that does actually move forward, too, but Amanda managed to do that just perfectly.
The format of this story worked so cleverly. I liked how the majority of the book is told in third person about Romilly’s ‘other love’, with each chapter being broken up with smaller bits from her daughter Celeste’s perspective. That much more focus was brought to Romilly’s struggles (though Celeste was never forgotten) felt to me, reminiscent of how alcoholism takes over and consumes a person, how alcohol worked its way into Romilly’s everyday life to the extent that it took over more and more, becoming a crueller but at the same time, more difficult to resist substitute to that happy place Romilly should have been in with her daughter and husband. We get to learn about Celeste as she grows up, but the alcohol addiction is still always on our mind.
Amanda has written a very honest and insightful novel with Another Love. Few authors break down a theme like this author does, unafraid to deliver all the gritty, uncomfortable things that come along with the lure of alcohol. The story is very engaging and one I’d suggest it is impossible not to be moved by. It’s unmissable.
I was lucky enough to win a copy of this book and have to say that it is beautifully written. From the details it was clearly a book about alcoholism and I had expected it might be a difficult read and indeed it was in parts. It had me shouting at the main character and also almost in tears. I'm generally a crime/thriller reader but I really did enjoy reading this. I can imagine that it will have a greater impact on readers with a personal experience of alcoholism but I defy any reader to be unmoved by it.
Another Love by Amanda Prowse was phenomenal. The first time I read one of Amanda's novels was when I read The Christmas Cafe just before Christmas, and I adored it. It was a beautifully told tale, with love and history weaved in and out of the chapters. I couldn't put it down. I'd like to say that Another Love caught me in exactly the same way, only I'd be lying if I did. Because Another Love caught me in a completely different way, and boy was it breathtaking. Before I go any further, I'd like to say a huge thank you to Amanda's publishers Head of Zeus, Amanda herself and Simeon, for providing me with a review copy of Another Love. I really am so grateful for the opportunity to read and review such a book.
In Another Love, Amanda introduces her readers to Romilly, Celeste and David. Rather than keeping to one narrative, Amanda chooses to split it between mother and daughter, Romilly and Celeste. I adored that Amanda chose to tell Romilly and Celeste's story in this way. Not only was it effective, sending all of my emotions tumbling, but it allowed me to see this heartbreaking story from both sides which is always something that I find interesting, and enjoyable when reading. As Amanda opens the novel, it becomes clear that Romilly really does have the most perfect life. It's everything she's ever wanted, and then some. She has the most adorable little girl, she has doting, handsome husband, and their home is beautiful. The fact that Romilly's life was so damn perfect only intensified the shattering of my heart later on in the novel when things began to get completely out of hand. It shocked to me see how Romilly's life changed so suddenly, and again, Amanda ensured Celeste's narrative crept in and out of the novel, allowing me to see everything from both sides. It was amazing, the story had my heart bending at it's will, and it's one that I truly won't be forgetting in a hurry, that I can promise you.
Focusing on alcoholism, Romilly's story was a harsh one, but one which I think needed to be told. Amanda's descriptions of the places Romilly managed to find herself in once she'd lost her way completely floored me, so stark and raw were they, and at times it became almost unbearable for me to read. The contrasts of Romilly's life before and after were painful, even more so because it happens every single day. Amanda really put my emotions through the shredder with this one. I was constantly hoping, no, praying, that finally, things were going to start looking up for Romilly, that she'd go home to her family and they'd work things out, but as Amanda quickly showed me, it really just wasn't that simple. The author did not hold back, but I felt this was necessary for me to really become invested in her characters, and I was. From the very beginning, I was right behind Romilly. I cheered her on, and even when she fell back down, I was certain she'd get back up. Not only was the focus on alcoholism, but Amanda shone the spotlight on Romilly's marriage and relationship with her daughter too. Again, this only intensified how strongly I felt towards these characters that Amanda had handed over to me. I knew them inside out. I was told of how Romilly and David had met, how she'd thought he was beautiful. I knew the intimacies between them, their shared inside jokes and names for each other. They really were in love, making it all the more painful when the novel took a turn for the worse much later on. Watching Romilly make her choices and decisions was a tough one for me, but it became clear much later on that those choices were made by a much stronger presence that she'd had no control over whatsoever.
This is only the second book by Amanda Prowse that I've read, and already I can feel myself becoming attuned to the author's voice and style. I adore it, and can't wait to go back and catch up with her previous releases. It was powerful, shocking, sob-inducing and all of the things in-between. It's a book that changes how you feel and look at things, how you perceive certain people in society. It's one woman's downfall that will tear your heart completely in two.
Becca's Books is awarding Another Love by Amanda Prowse with five gorgeous cupcakes. Amanda is a phenomenal author whose stories linger on within you long after you've finished reading. The women Prowse creates are the type you'd love to sit with and hear about their life. They're incredibly strong and have been through things you can't even comprehend. Amanda Prowse, please don't stop what you're doing. I could read your books for the rest of my life and find something new to marvel about.
Another Love is a hard hitting, deeply emotional read. It tackles subject that many people might find uncomfortable to read about but I feel it was done in a very sympathetic, authentic way. The book is written so well. The characters are complex. Their stories are presented with harsh honesty but also with great understanding and feeling. Difficult yet beautiful book. It will stay with me for a long time.
I don’t think I can give this book an honest review as I simply have too much personal baggage in terms of alcoholism in my family history. The fact is there is no way I would have ever read this on my own choice but my book club picked this and so I decided to play along. But my father was one of the worst kind of alcoholics- a raging, dangerous one - and I really resented this book trying to give a softer side to an alcoholic. I feel like this book was trying to get me to understand why someone who was smart and successful and has a great family would turn to the bottle and the problem is that I don’t actually care. I have no interest in being told I should feel sympathy for these people. I don’t. I never will. And telling me that it’s a disease doesn’t change my feelings either.
So. The book.
It was written satisfactorily. The characters are fleshed out and the alternating perspectives between daughter and mother was fine.
I still hated the story. I actually felt traumatized by it and have spent a good part of these past few days reliving horrible memories that I would rather have done without.
If you have a history with an alcoholic parent then I suggest you avoid this book. It won’t lead you anywhere nice. If you are blissfully unaware of the horror of living with an alcoholic and want to try and feel sympathy for a drunk mother then go for it.
I am so heartbroken and emotional after reading this novel. I sadly have a loved one that has ‘another love’ and for whom this other love takes over everything and everyone in its path. I’ve never read such a heartbreaking novel that totally gets what it’s like to live through this raw and brutal world and I can only thank Amanda for being so brave to expose and explore it. It’s a world I knew nothing about but which family members and loved ones are forced into and I felt their pain as acutely as my own.
Amanda Prowse writes from the heart in each and every single word. The pages were damp with tears as I read this very very moving book and I became so invested with the characters, their flaws and their world at large. Amanda has moved me in the past with her emotional insights but never quite like this.
This hit every single nerve in my body but I now feel some comfort and relief that I’ve read this, a kind of therapy if you like. I’m not alone and this happens and I cringe when people laugh at binge drinking as I think 'if only they knew'. I envy their free spirit and agonising ignorance about drink and I wish everyone would read this book, and then decide if it’s still worth it.
Firstly, I have to say this is the best book I've read this year. It is the story of Romilly, a mother who is an alcoholic, her husband David and their daughter Celeste. The book alternates between Romilly and Celeste and I love that it was written from the perspective of the alcoholic and her daily struggle with not giving in and the experiences her daughter had to go through having an alcoholic as a Mom.
Anyone with an alcoholic in the family needs to read this to get a better understanding of exactly how hard it is living with an addiction. There were funny moments, sad moments, cringing moments and times when I wanted to bite my nails knowing what was coming and wanted to shield her husband and daughter from seeing Romilly give in to temptation once more.
Amanda's stories are written in such a way that you feel you actually know the characters and I didn't want to put the book down. I love the way it ended and the book felt complete.
Thank you so much for allowing me to read this book in exchange for my honest review. All i can say is WOW - this is my first ever read by Amanda Prowse - and what a talented author she is. I could not read this book quick enough - it was raw, heartbreaking, tender and full of love. This book tells the story of Romilly and her husband and their daughter Celeste. The book is broken into chapters told by both Celeste and Romilly. It tells the heartbreaking story of a woman who is an alcoholic that is out of control. I almost felt that this was a true story and could and does happen to people. I felt desperately sorry for this loving family - the suffering that they all go through in different ways. It is a terribly sad read but one that i was addicted to reading! Thank you so much for a fab read - the best of 2016 so far!
I've had this book quite a few months and I now know I should have read it sooner as this was a fantastic read.
Romilly has a problem with alcohol. We see the pain that it causes her husband and her daughter Celeste. I like that the story is told through two point of view- Romilly and Celeste.
Amanda sure knows how to write an emotional read. She takes problems that people face daily and writes a raw story about it. We all know someone that has or is struggling with the demon drink problem.
Looking forward to reading more from this author. I certainly recommend you read it.
This is a stunning, emotionally intense story of a woman's struggle with alcohol and the effect it has on her relationships with those who love her most. Told from the perspectives of Romilly and her daughter Celeste, it's raw, gritty and heartbreaking. Whatever you do, don't miss this book!
Another Love is a story that alternates between Celeste and her mother Romilly. Through Celeste we get to see what it is like from a child’s point of view, living with a mother who is an alcoholic.
The chapters to do with Romilly, we get to see a young woman with everything going for her who then becomes reliant on alcohol and her world spiralling downwards.
I have to admit that I felt most for David in this story. Romilly’s long suffering husband. There is no doubt how much he loves his wife and seeing his constant battle with trying to steer his wife in the right direction and do the best for their daughter. It was awful to see the people closest suffering as much as the one who is an addict. As someone who isn’t reliant on alcohol or drugs, it is hard sometimes to understand what the appeal is as well as the pull towards it and the struggle that someone would have in giving it up.
Another Love is a look into the life of an alcoholic and how it not only affects them, but the people around them. It feels like a really raw read, with no airs or graces. The author doesn’t paint a pretty picture and at times I felt embarrassed on Romilly’s behalf as well as uncomfortable at the choices she made. I was totally engrossed in Romilly and her families story though and I felt like I was going through all the highs and lows with them. A compelling must read.
I stayed up into the night reading this. Amanda Prowse has a great talent for writing about serious issues. I totally believed in Romilly as a character and had a great deal of compassion for her. Such a sad story but very absorbing!
Although I have heard many people talking about and praising Amanda Prowse's books, this is the first I have read. It will not be the last. Amanda certainly knows how to write a story which packs an emotional punch. This book looks at the effects of alcoholism on Romilly and her family. It is a subject we hear about a lot in the news these days and unfortunately I am all too aware of just what an impact someone with alcohol problems can have, not just on themselves but on their wider family and friends. It is not until you come across this issue personally that you realise how many other families are affected by the same problems. Amanda has written a very accurate portrayal of the devastating effects of alcoholism.
Romilly seems to have it all. She's a bright, articulate, high-flying scientist with a responsible job. Married to David, they have a beautiful house in a sought after area of Bristol. They have a much loved daughter Celeste and life is good. However much Romilly loves her family though, she has another love: alcohol. What started as a drink or two to relax or boost her confidence has turned into a serious addiction that she seems powerless to resist. Watching Romilly making the wrong decisions time and time again was very difficult to read. Like many people with alcohol problems, she is in denial. She's not like the alcoholics drinking in the streets and parks, dirty, smelly and abusive to people walking by. The typical pattern of an alcoholic starts to emerge, the lying, the deceit, hiding alcohol in the house and hiding the evidence afterwards. As I read and got to know Romilly, I felt I wanted to step into the book and help. But someone like Romilly needs to want to help herself and for all the periods of sobriety that she manages, you just know that she is going to slip spectacularly again.
Amanda Prowse has portrayed so well the devastating effects of Romilly's drinking on David and Celeste. David loved Romilly so much and covered for her again and again. I think this is very common as people find it very difficult to talk about alcoholism. It is seen very much as a choice and people don't sympathise as they might with a more recognisable medical condition. It is only when Celeste begins become frightened of her mother and aware that something is very wrong, that David in despair gives up on Romilly, realising when he gives her a stark choice that he cannot compete with her other love.
Most of the story tells Romilly's journey from a young student through the early years of her marriage and motherhood and follows her descent into alcoholism. Interspersed with this story are chapters written by Celeste when she is older, looking back. Each chapter by Celeste gives an insight into how as a child she perceived each incident with her mother and were heartbreaking to read. How could Romilly - or anyone - do this to her child?
This book gives an honest and revealing insight into life with and as an alcoholic. It is very moving and a compelling read despite the difficult subject matter and there are uplifting moments. It may just make you think twice about having that glass of wine after work or in front of the television. It shows clearly how anyone could easily slip into the habits that lead to alcohol dependency. Perhaps after reading this book, readers will be more aware of the devastating effects alcoholism can have and may be more conscious of the warning signs in themselves or others.
(I would like express to my huge thanks to Simeon and Amanda Prowse for offering me a copy of this book to review.)
Amanda's statement 'I write stories for women about women.' was what first drew me to her books. I am yet to be disappointed in reading one of her novels because that statement could not be more true. Whenever a new Amanda Prowse book comes out I can not wait to find out what thread the story is going to weave around, but one thing is always guaranteed; it is going to be emotional. Another Love is no different.
Focusing on the world of Romilly, her husband David and daughter Celeste I immediately loved this family. Amanda has created a family we all know, they are in love, they work hard in their professional careers to provide a beautiful home and a stable life to their much loved child, daughter Celeste. But, as with most relationships, you never know what really goes on behind closed doors.
Romilly has an addiction, one that waggles itself underneath the noses of so many on a daily basis but that they control. But for Romilly that addiction slowly turns itself into an illness, it snakes inside of her and takes hold so tightly she gives herself up to it - Romilly is an alcoholic.
This novel takes us through the torrent of emotions of being an alcoholic, via Romilly's narration and also on the flip side through what it is like for those who find themselves living in a home with someone who has an addiction - in this case via daughter Celeste. I loved the chapters being written from the two viewpoints, even though sometimes it did leave me quite emotionally drained.
It was quite alarming, how Romilly's addiction grew from simple and to be honest quite, run of the mill, random binge drink sessions in University (I think the majority of drinkers have all done that in the past), to the glass of wine looked forward to at the end of the work day with dinner. How quickly the glass turned to half a bottle and then a bottle. How the drink with dinner turned into a little afternoon tipple. I felt sad at those people in Romilly's life who thought it was all fun and games to encourage her to drink, really for their own amusement - whether they realised or not they were pushing her further into alcoholism I am not sure.
I didn't know how far into this illness Romilly would find herself, but Amanda has not held back and we are taken as far as we can go, I am sure all screaming for her to stop in our head, but knowing and understanding that she will not. I like that Amanda did not do it by halves, it made it feel all the more real, which is one of this authors real talents as a writer, she is not afraid, she does not hold back. The characters are flawed and those flaws are the basis for her brilliant novels.
I liked that the alcoholic in this novel was Romilly and not David. It would have been easy to have made the female the one left picking up the pieces, fighting to keep the family together, to keep her daughter shielded. It was - I think - a fresh take, a more unique story this way. Another Love is a perfect title for this novel.
As a big fan of Amanda Prowse and her work I am always a little tentative when starting a new novel, hoping it will be as good as previous. There was no disappointment with this book.
(This review was first published on my book blog The Very Pink Notebook)
When Romilly meets David she can’t believe that he is actually interested in her, but he is. A pair of loved up student their days are filled with parties, drinking and hangovers. Married life is time for them both to grow up, but Romilly finds it hard to leave her drinking habits behind. All wives and mothers drink every day don’t they?
Celeste’s childhood memories are tainted by her mother’s behaviour. There were good times but unfortunately they were few and far between. At the time Celeste did not understand why her mother’s moods were so up and down, but understands only too well. No child should ever be afraid to come home from school should they?
Romilly loves her husband and daughter but her love of drink begins to poison family life.
Amanda Prowse’s books always start the same way in that after only a couple of chapters you instantly forget that you are reading fiction and instead feel fully immersed in real life drama. When we first meet Romilly she is trying desperately to step out her beautiful twin sisters’ shadows and meeting David is just the boost she needs. However his love alone is not enough and Romilly finds her self confidence in the bottom of a wine glass. As the chapters progress so do the years and David is able to leave his student drinking behind, however Romilly sees nothing wrong with a daily drink. Sweet Romilly turns sour right before our eyes.
Following Romilly day to day is truly absorbing but then it is daughter Celeste’s account of living with an alcoholic mum that it is so eye opening. Mothers all hope that their children are not aware of their mistakes and more often than not this is the case, but in this instance Romilly’s drinking becomes too hard to hide. Both accounts side by side perfectly highlight the obvious difference in memory recollections. Husband David’s point of view may not be documented but his reactions to his wife’s actions are, and again this is where Prowse excels as she is fantastic at writing loving husbands. Mr Prowse’s love and support is undoubtedly excellent inspiration as in each book the protagonist’s husband is always the perfect support but not in a clichéd way. David is no exception and my heart bled for him as he constantly tried to see the best in his wife in the most difficult of circumstances.
Amanda Prowse’s writing bursts the bubble of the reader’s life as she makes us aware of pain and despair that we may not experience otherwise. Every time I close one of her books I instantly feel grateful for the life I have.