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Come With Me: Discovering the Beauty of Following Where He Leads
Proverbs 31 Author Calls Women to a Revolutionary Faith
What if there was a real-life invitation to a lifetime of unexpected destinations and adventure? What if your faith was the key?
In her warm, conversational way, Proverbs 31 author Suzie Eller shows how your faith is just that. How when you take a step away from the uncertainty, the to-do list, the busy life, the worries and excuses, you take a step toward the One who promises to delight and surprise. Who brings you deeper than you ever thought possible.
Two thousand years ago, 12 men answered the call to follow a man they hardly knew--and they were changed in ways they never imagined. Today that same invitation echoes across history, beckoning you to an adventure that will spill into every aspect of your faith and life. Come with Me . Will you say yes?
What if there was a real-life invitation to a lifetime of unexpected destinations and adventure? What if your faith was the key?
In her warm, conversational way, Proverbs 31 author Suzie Eller shows how your faith is just that. How when you take a step away from the uncertainty, the to-do list, the busy life, the worries and excuses, you take a step toward the One who promises to delight and surprise. Who brings you deeper than you ever thought possible.
Two thousand years ago, 12 men answered the call to follow a man they hardly knew--and they were changed in ways they never imagined. Today that same invitation echoes across history, beckoning you to an adventure that will spill into every aspect of your faith and life. Come with Me . Will you say yes?
224 pages, Paperback
Published May 3, 2016
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June 20, 2016
This book was a slow start, but I did really like it! My heart kinda got hit with this writing though. I needed this book exactly when it came into my life! Suzanne has a way with words that’s just personal and non-judgemental, just a friend to friend conversation.
One aspect of this that I really liked was that you followed the life of the 12 disciples, in a way I had never known them before.
This book also made God seem so much more real to me, and it also gave me the intense desire to study Scripture and meditate/memorize more habitually. I loved the layout of her writing too. She would transition back and forth with her own stories and the Bible, not just one of the other.
Honestly, while this book WAS really good, and made SUCH vaild points and I want tp apply these new principles to my life, I was just not drawn in AS QUICKLY as I thought I was going to. It was dragging, in my opinion, for the first few chapters or so.
I particularly LOVED the last few chapters, and I guess you could say the book finished with a bang and left you with quite a bit to think and pray about. I will be reading Suzanne Eller’s other books in the future!
~Halee
*I received this book for free in exchange for an honest review. Thank so much Bethany House!!!!
One aspect of this that I really liked was that you followed the life of the 12 disciples, in a way I had never known them before.
This book also made God seem so much more real to me, and it also gave me the intense desire to study Scripture and meditate/memorize more habitually. I loved the layout of her writing too. She would transition back and forth with her own stories and the Bible, not just one of the other.
Honestly, while this book WAS really good, and made SUCH vaild points and I want tp apply these new principles to my life, I was just not drawn in AS QUICKLY as I thought I was going to. It was dragging, in my opinion, for the first few chapters or so.
I particularly LOVED the last few chapters, and I guess you could say the book finished with a bang and left you with quite a bit to think and pray about. I will be reading Suzanne Eller’s other books in the future!
~Halee
*I received this book for free in exchange for an honest review. Thank so much Bethany House!!!!
June 5, 2016
I have this book underlined in so many places ...
And have notes on many pages ...
Suzie Eller makes you think as a '13th disciple' ...
Seeing life though the some of the lives of those who lived with Him ...
There are soooo many things that will stick with you ...
Tidbit quotes that you will think about when you least expect ...
With some others stories intertwined ...
This book has been a 'goodread' :)
And have notes on many pages ...
Suzie Eller makes you think as a '13th disciple' ...
Seeing life though the some of the lives of those who lived with Him ...
There are soooo many things that will stick with you ...
Tidbit quotes that you will think about when you least expect ...
With some others stories intertwined ...
This book has been a 'goodread' :)
June 3, 2016
"Come With Me" is a Christian spiritual growth book. The author read through the gospels as if she was the 13th disciple and she didn't know how everything was going to turn out. As if Jesus had asked her to "Come with me. Wherever I lead. Whatever the price." As, of course, he still does.
She talked about growing in various aspects of following Jesus and going deeper in our relationship with Him. In each chapter, she looked at one of the 12 disciples. She talked about something she learned from their life and how this same thing works out in her and some of her friends' lives. For example, doing what Jesus asks because "if you say so" or when you don't feel able or worthy. To love the unlovable, give our "not enough" to God, do unnoticed service, find gratitude, live the good news, seek Jesus, and live as if everything we have is his.
The writing style was casual and encouraging. Overall, I'd highly recommend this book.
I received an ebook review copy of this book from the publisher through NetGalley.
She talked about growing in various aspects of following Jesus and going deeper in our relationship with Him. In each chapter, she looked at one of the 12 disciples. She talked about something she learned from their life and how this same thing works out in her and some of her friends' lives. For example, doing what Jesus asks because "if you say so" or when you don't feel able or worthy. To love the unlovable, give our "not enough" to God, do unnoticed service, find gratitude, live the good news, seek Jesus, and live as if everything we have is his.
The writing style was casual and encouraging. Overall, I'd highly recommend this book.
I received an ebook review copy of this book from the publisher through NetGalley.
May 4, 2016
I'm only a few chapters into Come With Me, but I already know my life will be changed by Suzie's God-given message. Imagining what it's like to be the 13th disciple? Yes please! I am SOOOO ready to put Jesus first in my life and follow wherever He leads! I LOVE that Suzie followed God's lead herself and then put her journey into the words of this book to inspire us all to do the same! "Come With Me, will you say yes?" YES!!!!
August 20, 2022
Wonderfully written , very encouraging.
May 2, 2016
Suzie Eller's Come With Me is one of the most powerful and challenging books I've ever had my hands on. Every single page is highlighted, earmarked, and tabbed. Suzie's gentle & encouraging approach is easy to receive and yet extremely powerful and challenging. To be truthful, it's more appropriate to refer to Come With Me as a journey, rather than a book. Suzie's words are anointed, and beg us to go deeper. This is a journey which will no doubt create a movement that will change the way Christians follow Jesus, which will in turn bring many to answer "Yes" to His call.
Each chapter touches on real life circumstances, even those that are considered taboo to many in the Christian community, and allows the reader to walk though those as Jesus would. The perspective of walking through life as the "13th disciple" is fresh and compelling.
Suzie creates a parallel between us and the 12 disciples whom Jesus chose to follow him thousands of years ago. We are reminded that they are real men, with real issues, real problems, who dropped everything they knew to follow Jesus. They doubted, they hesitated, they questioned, they messed up, much like we do today. As the reader learns about each of the disciples, they also learn why Jesus chose each of them. The reader is not only taught and challenged, but also encouraged to move forward with solidarity and courage.
The reflection section at the end of each chapter lured me far out of my comfort zone (in a good way), and forced me to own up to my choices and beliefs. These areas were often difficult for me; it was as though writing down my answers to the author's questions made my answers more real and undeniable. I seriously cannot remember a time that I was so challenged in my life, where following Jesus is concerned. This is a journey I will not soon forget.
Come With Me has asked me to not only follow Jesus regardless of what hurdles are placed in my path, but also to love others as He would (and teaches me how to do just that), to trust in His timing, to focus on the daily miracles that come with simply following Him, and so very much more.
Yes Lord, I will come! I will follow! I will go!
"The miracle of having belief is that we know where to go when we're in need..... Whatever big thing you are facing, God not only sees it, but he is waiting for you. Step toward him with your hands raised high, no holds-barred, bringing him every uncertainty, every hope, all your fears, all your strength, every aspect of your situation. The 'big' is birthed inside of you as you believe that he can do something with the little that you do have. Whether it leads to... healing... provision... courage... your faith becomes an anchor as you find what you need in those hard places through him."
-Suzie Eller, Come With Me
Each chapter touches on real life circumstances, even those that are considered taboo to many in the Christian community, and allows the reader to walk though those as Jesus would. The perspective of walking through life as the "13th disciple" is fresh and compelling.
Suzie creates a parallel between us and the 12 disciples whom Jesus chose to follow him thousands of years ago. We are reminded that they are real men, with real issues, real problems, who dropped everything they knew to follow Jesus. They doubted, they hesitated, they questioned, they messed up, much like we do today. As the reader learns about each of the disciples, they also learn why Jesus chose each of them. The reader is not only taught and challenged, but also encouraged to move forward with solidarity and courage.
The reflection section at the end of each chapter lured me far out of my comfort zone (in a good way), and forced me to own up to my choices and beliefs. These areas were often difficult for me; it was as though writing down my answers to the author's questions made my answers more real and undeniable. I seriously cannot remember a time that I was so challenged in my life, where following Jesus is concerned. This is a journey I will not soon forget.
Come With Me has asked me to not only follow Jesus regardless of what hurdles are placed in my path, but also to love others as He would (and teaches me how to do just that), to trust in His timing, to focus on the daily miracles that come with simply following Him, and so very much more.
Yes Lord, I will come! I will follow! I will go!
"The miracle of having belief is that we know where to go when we're in need..... Whatever big thing you are facing, God not only sees it, but he is waiting for you. Step toward him with your hands raised high, no holds-barred, bringing him every uncertainty, every hope, all your fears, all your strength, every aspect of your situation. The 'big' is birthed inside of you as you believe that he can do something with the little that you do have. Whether it leads to... healing... provision... courage... your faith becomes an anchor as you find what you need in those hard places through him."
-Suzie Eller, Come With Me
May 4, 2016
This book asks a tough questions right from the start. Will you follow me??
This book will move you from a comfortable faith to an energized type of faith. I discovered it during a time when life was not easy. Things have been happening at my job that are difficult to understand and even more difficult to walk through. I have questioned God. I have felt alone and in the dark. This book was tough to read during this time, because I go into a work situation everyday where I do not know what will happen. My situation has not changed. However, I have rediscovered joy. When my joy doesn’t come I tell it too. And that makes all the difference.
Each chapter touches on real life circumstances, through the perspective of walking through life as the "13th disciple" is fresh and compelling. You are encouraged to be the 13th disciple during the times when Jesus was on the earth. At the end of the chapter, there is a reflection to process the chapter.
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I thoroughly enjoyed reading the book! Great Job!
Disclaimer: I received an advance copy from the author in return for an honest review.
This book will move you from a comfortable faith to an energized type of faith. I discovered it during a time when life was not easy. Things have been happening at my job that are difficult to understand and even more difficult to walk through. I have questioned God. I have felt alone and in the dark. This book was tough to read during this time, because I go into a work situation everyday where I do not know what will happen. My situation has not changed. However, I have rediscovered joy. When my joy doesn’t come I tell it too. And that makes all the difference.
Each chapter touches on real life circumstances, through the perspective of walking through life as the "13th disciple" is fresh and compelling. You are encouraged to be the 13th disciple during the times when Jesus was on the earth. At the end of the chapter, there is a reflection to process the chapter.
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I thoroughly enjoyed reading the book! Great Job!
Disclaimer: I received an advance copy from the author in return for an honest review.
May 4, 2016
WOW! WOW! WOW! Suzie Eller has changed my life and brought my faith to a whole new level! From the first page to the last, this book is filled with inspirational quotes, wisdom, and Biblical truths that will keep you coming back for more! My book is full of highlights, underlines, and notes. I have read and re-read this book, and I can't get enough!
Suzie takes us on a journey as the 13th disciple. When Jesus calls, "Follow Me" will we leave it all behind to follow Him? Not only will you learn more about Jesus and His 12 disciples, but you will learn more about His calling on your life. You will want to go deeper.
I have already shared this book with people I love, and I purchased 2 more copies today for women to share at my Church.
I highly recommend this book to all women who want to go deeper in their walk with Jesus. He is calling, will you follow? #ComeWithMe #ItsAMovement
Suzie takes us on a journey as the 13th disciple. When Jesus calls, "Follow Me" will we leave it all behind to follow Him? Not only will you learn more about Jesus and His 12 disciples, but you will learn more about His calling on your life. You will want to go deeper.
I have already shared this book with people I love, and I purchased 2 more copies today for women to share at my Church.
I highly recommend this book to all women who want to go deeper in their walk with Jesus. He is calling, will you follow? #ComeWithMe #ItsAMovement
May 3, 2016
I loved the first chapter. Then I read the second and loved it. The third chapter came along and I thought it just can't get any better than this. But then I read the fourth and fifth chapters and that's when I knew that this entire book was written just for me.
This book will take you on a journey into the lives of the twelve disciples. You will personally meet each one and learn how their lives were changed by accepting a personal invitation from Jesus to follow him.
"Following Jesus isn't a charmed life; it's a changed life." - Suzie Eller
This book will challenge you as Suzie shows you how to live life as the thirteenth disciple.
Jesus has an invitation for you. Are you ready to follow?
This book will take you on a journey into the lives of the twelve disciples. You will personally meet each one and learn how their lives were changed by accepting a personal invitation from Jesus to follow him.
"Following Jesus isn't a charmed life; it's a changed life." - Suzie Eller
This book will challenge you as Suzie shows you how to live life as the thirteenth disciple.
Jesus has an invitation for you. Are you ready to follow?
May 15, 2017
An in depth look at each of the disciples and where we might find ourselves in or relate to each of them. She says we should approach life as the 13th disciple, looking to follow Yeshua where he leads us. "Come with me."
Simon Peter- Listen for God's voice and obeying even when it doesn't make sense in that moment. We should trust and not argue. "He settles into our anxiousness when we've been waiting for longer than we hoped...It's okay to acknowledge your doubts...you're honest when you're not sure how its all going to work out. But this is where change takes place." She says to take one small step and celebrate your new journey of faith.
Matthew- We are all works in progress. We do not have to get cleaned up before we follow Jesus. "Matthew was in need of rescue from his badness, but the religious leaders were in desperate need of rescue from their own goodness." She encourages us to find our common ground and realize that we are all better together as a community of believers.
James the Elder-finding the heart of God for others, serving rather than looking for favor. She asks hard questions regarding our desire for a comfortable life and our expectation of favor because we are followers of God.
Simon the Zealot-loving those would are difficult to love, loving those who disagree with us. Get to know someone outside your "circle". knowing what battles are important and what to fight for-flexible/vulnerable strength. Combine conviction with compassion.
John-faith that grows and roots deeper in time, relational faith
Thomas-how quickly we can forget but how gently God reminds us. faith grows in our weakness. Invite his presence into whatever area needs a miracle.
Judas-being intentionally grateful and fighting discontent, not giving into temptation. "Dreaming is worthwhile unless it makes you unhappy with where you are or who you're with, or it creates resentment with God's timing versus your own."
Andrew-doing all that we do for God and not for recognition, being okay with going unnoticed in our service to God, handling disappointment by changing our definition of success and not just focusing on outcome.
Judas (not Iscariot)-Storms come but we are anchored by God's Word, his presence, his peace that passes all understanding. The importance of memorizing the Word and getting it deep inside us for when storms happen.
Philip-Yeshua sought him out. He was intentional about relationship. Mark 6:37 "Is Philip's assignment to feed every single person in that crowd? It isn't. It is to find a few loaves and fishes, and ask Jesus to multiply it however he wishes." We participate in miracles and answered prayers. Seeing everyday opportunities as a way to minister to others.
James the Lesser- prayer has the power to change us, when we spend time with Jesus we really get what he was teaching. Reading John 17 and Yeshua's prayer for his disciples and believers gives us such a picture of God's heart for us.
Bartholomew-being generous, holding loosely to what we have, realizing it all belongs to God and we are stewards. "Leave room in your plans for heavenly redirection."
I enjoyed the going deeper questions to work through. I liked the prayers and short summary sentences under living as a disciple. Those gave me something to hang on to, ponder, and remind me of what I had read.
Simon Peter- Listen for God's voice and obeying even when it doesn't make sense in that moment. We should trust and not argue. "He settles into our anxiousness when we've been waiting for longer than we hoped...It's okay to acknowledge your doubts...you're honest when you're not sure how its all going to work out. But this is where change takes place." She says to take one small step and celebrate your new journey of faith.
Matthew- We are all works in progress. We do not have to get cleaned up before we follow Jesus. "Matthew was in need of rescue from his badness, but the religious leaders were in desperate need of rescue from their own goodness." She encourages us to find our common ground and realize that we are all better together as a community of believers.
James the Elder-finding the heart of God for others, serving rather than looking for favor. She asks hard questions regarding our desire for a comfortable life and our expectation of favor because we are followers of God.
Simon the Zealot-loving those would are difficult to love, loving those who disagree with us. Get to know someone outside your "circle". knowing what battles are important and what to fight for-flexible/vulnerable strength. Combine conviction with compassion.
John-faith that grows and roots deeper in time, relational faith
Thomas-how quickly we can forget but how gently God reminds us. faith grows in our weakness. Invite his presence into whatever area needs a miracle.
Judas-being intentionally grateful and fighting discontent, not giving into temptation. "Dreaming is worthwhile unless it makes you unhappy with where you are or who you're with, or it creates resentment with God's timing versus your own."
Andrew-doing all that we do for God and not for recognition, being okay with going unnoticed in our service to God, handling disappointment by changing our definition of success and not just focusing on outcome.
Judas (not Iscariot)-Storms come but we are anchored by God's Word, his presence, his peace that passes all understanding. The importance of memorizing the Word and getting it deep inside us for when storms happen.
Philip-Yeshua sought him out. He was intentional about relationship. Mark 6:37 "Is Philip's assignment to feed every single person in that crowd? It isn't. It is to find a few loaves and fishes, and ask Jesus to multiply it however he wishes." We participate in miracles and answered prayers. Seeing everyday opportunities as a way to minister to others.
James the Lesser- prayer has the power to change us, when we spend time with Jesus we really get what he was teaching. Reading John 17 and Yeshua's prayer for his disciples and believers gives us such a picture of God's heart for us.
Bartholomew-being generous, holding loosely to what we have, realizing it all belongs to God and we are stewards. "Leave room in your plans for heavenly redirection."
I enjoyed the going deeper questions to work through. I liked the prayers and short summary sentences under living as a disciple. Those gave me something to hang on to, ponder, and remind me of what I had read.
November 23, 2016
I love Proverbs 31 Ministries, and I love their authors as well. Suzanne Eller writes with such fervency that you begin the Introduction with a faith challenge, and one very deserving of attention: "What would you say if Jesus walked up to you today and said these words, 'Come with me. Wherever I lead. Whatever the price'?"
She lays out her chapters by beginning with Simon Peter and going through an intimate account of his genuine encounter with Jesus. Interwoven into each chapter are personal accounts of her own encounters with trusting Jesus and the outcomes of some of her life lessons. They are deep and moving, but real and transparent. In the last chapter, she invites us to be the 13th disciple, and begs us to examine our hearts and motives for following Him.
The devotion questions are quite deep, but so is the level that the Lord wants to take our personal relationship with Him. Comfort is not one afforded to those who follow Jesus, and to be challenged in faith is something the Holy Spirit desires for growth. I loved reading this, and the way she made my faith deepen and my longing to hear Jesus more clearly. I invite you to read the invitation firsthand, and then determine your next step.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Bethany House Publishers. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 (http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/wa... “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
She lays out her chapters by beginning with Simon Peter and going through an intimate account of his genuine encounter with Jesus. Interwoven into each chapter are personal accounts of her own encounters with trusting Jesus and the outcomes of some of her life lessons. They are deep and moving, but real and transparent. In the last chapter, she invites us to be the 13th disciple, and begs us to examine our hearts and motives for following Him.
The devotion questions are quite deep, but so is the level that the Lord wants to take our personal relationship with Him. Comfort is not one afforded to those who follow Jesus, and to be challenged in faith is something the Holy Spirit desires for growth. I loved reading this, and the way she made my faith deepen and my longing to hear Jesus more clearly. I invite you to read the invitation firsthand, and then determine your next step.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Bethany House Publishers. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 (http://www.access.gpo.gov/nara/cfr/wa... “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
July 18, 2018
If Jesus asked you to follow him would you say yes? No matter the cost? In her book, Suzanne encourages us to boldly follow Jesus wherever he leads. Her words invite us to dig in and learn more about our heavenly father. And her stories challenge us to seek a deeper faith.
I really enjoyed reading this book. Suzanne’s warm and friendly writing style made me feel like I was listening to a friend share her story with me over coffee. Her passion for sharing Jesus with others is contagious!
So who should read this book? Anyone seeking to have a more meaningful relationship with Jesus. It would also be an excellent book for a ladies bible study. There is a section at the end of each chapter that includes questions to take it deeper, a scripture to remember, a prayer, and key points to help you live as a disciple.
I really enjoyed reading this book. Suzanne’s warm and friendly writing style made me feel like I was listening to a friend share her story with me over coffee. Her passion for sharing Jesus with others is contagious!
So who should read this book? Anyone seeking to have a more meaningful relationship with Jesus. It would also be an excellent book for a ladies bible study. There is a section at the end of each chapter that includes questions to take it deeper, a scripture to remember, a prayer, and key points to help you live as a disciple.
August 19, 2017
Suzanne Eller takes you through her study of each of the 12 disciples and points out different life lessons we could learn from them all. Although interesting, I found myself nodding my head and thinking, "good reminder" a lot rather than learning anything. I also found this book to be a very typical Christian read. Is that a bad thing? Maybe not. I guess I just wanted something a little deeper. Sadly, I would not recommend this book to my friends.
October 27, 2017
One of my favorite authors, Suzie Eller, has written this insightful book about the disciples' journeys. Jesus' "come with me" invitation to each of them was life-changing, and it is the same for me. I enjoyed the new insights into lesser-known facts about the disciples and the powerful personal stories Suzie shared to enhance the book. Lots of practical takeaways in this study!
May 20, 2018
I totally enjoyed this WONDERFUL book. Great teaching done in an easy conversational style. Would make a great book for a bible study group or reading club. Fair warning though, it is very thought provoking and may leave you with more questions than answers concerning yourself as the "13th" disciple! (But also contemplating new and exciting possibilities!)
July 4, 2019
Thoroughly enjoyed this book. Come with me is a call for each of us to walk in the shoes of the disciples as they walked with Jesus on the earth, to see things from their perspective; then for us to answer the call to be Jesus follower even now. The author vulnerably shares her heart in this book. Highly recommend for all Christians.
January 11, 2020
Suzanne does a great in showing us how important it is to just "let go" and follow where Jesus leads us with abandon. She shows us what it means to be "the 13th" disciple and introduces us to facts about the other 12 that I have never known. I really enjoyed learning some of these little known facts. This one of those books I will come beck to again and again.
October 2, 2017
THIS BOOK WAS AMAZING! I read this book super fast, and I ate it up. It spoke to everything I needed at the time, and really helped my faith as I struggled in an aspect of my relationship with God. This book was exactly what I need when I needed it. Thank you so much, Suzie!!
May 18, 2017
Excellent book.
November 4, 2017
A great book that takes us through the lives of the disciples and shows us that we, too, are His disciples. Great words of wisdom are nestled within these pages. Its a pleasure to read.
October 15, 2018
Amazing! That is all I have to say.
October 18, 2019
Great insight and practical application created on the 12 disciples.
June 3, 2016
Sometimes I hunger for deeper faith and I feel like it’s never deep enough and like I can never do enough. It’s kind of my crazy cycle. I know that I am saved by grace, and yet, I find myself wanting to work my way to prove that I’m “good enough.” That’s when I’m drawn to books like Suzanne Eller’s Come With Me: Discovering the Beauty of Following Where He Leads.
Eller admits in her book that she wrote the book in a time when she was also longing and struggling with the desire/need for a deeper faith and feeling like she wasn’t enough. She was drawn to Luke and to the stories of the disciples. They came alive for her like never before and she found herself realizing that these stories can seem kind of humdrum to us, and we can be insulting of the disciples and of the way that Jesus calls them out for their lack of faith. We always say we would have more faith than those disciples. However, we know the end of the story and they didn’t.
Then, Eller reminds us that we’re really the thirteenth disciple. In each of the twelve chapters of the book, Eller uses a disciple as a model for her topic, and she examines many topics related to loving others, storms in our lives, having gratitude, feeling unnoticed by God, prayer, comparison and so many other things. There’s a multitude of subjects covered and all are paired with Biblical wisdom and with stories from Eller’s life.
I found myself not enjoying the book as much as I thought I would. I loved the charming segments from Eller’s life and the applications that she found for them. There are many good incidents and there are many great illustrations of God’s love and of our ability to follow him. I found some very useful, and I loved the feeling of authenticity from the author and the vulnerability that she had in sharing both her successes and failures. I also could relate to her feeling of following what God had told her and yet still feeling like she should be doing and being more than what God had called her to be.
However, there are many books similar in premise and execution to this one, and I don’t think that this one is a standout, must read in comparison to some of the others that I have read in this genre. Read it for the stories, for the Biblical application. You may find something that is helpful with your faith. I certainly did. However, you may not find much new here and you may not find it more than just another book in the”genre” of “following God’s call” whatever it might be.
Disclaimer: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
Eller admits in her book that she wrote the book in a time when she was also longing and struggling with the desire/need for a deeper faith and feeling like she wasn’t enough. She was drawn to Luke and to the stories of the disciples. They came alive for her like never before and she found herself realizing that these stories can seem kind of humdrum to us, and we can be insulting of the disciples and of the way that Jesus calls them out for their lack of faith. We always say we would have more faith than those disciples. However, we know the end of the story and they didn’t.
Then, Eller reminds us that we’re really the thirteenth disciple. In each of the twelve chapters of the book, Eller uses a disciple as a model for her topic, and she examines many topics related to loving others, storms in our lives, having gratitude, feeling unnoticed by God, prayer, comparison and so many other things. There’s a multitude of subjects covered and all are paired with Biblical wisdom and with stories from Eller’s life.
I found myself not enjoying the book as much as I thought I would. I loved the charming segments from Eller’s life and the applications that she found for them. There are many good incidents and there are many great illustrations of God’s love and of our ability to follow him. I found some very useful, and I loved the feeling of authenticity from the author and the vulnerability that she had in sharing both her successes and failures. I also could relate to her feeling of following what God had told her and yet still feeling like she should be doing and being more than what God had called her to be.
However, there are many books similar in premise and execution to this one, and I don’t think that this one is a standout, must read in comparison to some of the others that I have read in this genre. Read it for the stories, for the Biblical application. You may find something that is helpful with your faith. I certainly did. However, you may not find much new here and you may not find it more than just another book in the”genre” of “following God’s call” whatever it might be.
Disclaimer: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
June 16, 2016
Come With Me: Discovering the Beauty of Following Where He Leads by Suzanne Eller is a look at the lives of Jesus’s disciples and how we can apply what they learned to our modern day problems. Suzanne asks us to take a journey back in time to when these men gave up everything to follow their Savior, and asks us whether or not we would do the same.
I love this book, because it’s like the author is sitting next to you, sharing a cup of coffee and just talking with you. Her life stories are so well applied to each situation it’s more like a conversation than reading a traditional Bible Study- don’t get me wrong, I love every Bible Study, but this one was more like a chat with an old friend.
Suzanne Eller touches on tough subjects, but does so with such grace and eloquence. One of her chapters, “Loving People You Don’t Want to Love,” completely wrecked my life. Especially in a world where so many people think that Christians dislike everyone that doesn’t share in their beliefs, it’s a reminder that Jesus called us to love: to love people who are difficult, people who are different from you, because people are watching our lives and asking if Jesus is worth following. She reminds us that loving others was what Jesus was all about,
Another chapter that really spoke to me was, funnily enough, the chapter focusing on Judas Iscariot. We think of him as a bad guy, which he definitely ended up being, but he didn’t start out that way. He was one of the chosen few asked to follow and teach others about Jesus. He was loved by the other disciples, something just happened to him that caused him to do evil things. Suzanne points out how this can happen to any of us because of discontent. “Temptation begins in the small things and burrows in to create discontent.”
Unhappiness causes small temptations to lead to bigger ones, and before you know it you’re over your head in the deep end. “Discontentment sneaks in, we hold it close and feed it, and it spreads like cancer.” But, Suzanne also gives us the tools to battle this discontent- by living a life of thank-you.
“He [Satan] dares to stir up discontentment in our deepest relationships, and we find the good in the heart of that person. He tries to stir up discontentment in our ministry, and we find solutions for the problem instead. He tries to stir up discontentment in our faith, and we point to a bloodied cross and an open tomb.”
I don’t want to give away too much of the book, because you need to grab a copy for yourself and dig in. It’s truly a book that has changed my life and some of my ways of thinking. I am thankful I had the chance to read it.
I love this book, because it’s like the author is sitting next to you, sharing a cup of coffee and just talking with you. Her life stories are so well applied to each situation it’s more like a conversation than reading a traditional Bible Study- don’t get me wrong, I love every Bible Study, but this one was more like a chat with an old friend.
Suzanne Eller touches on tough subjects, but does so with such grace and eloquence. One of her chapters, “Loving People You Don’t Want to Love,” completely wrecked my life. Especially in a world where so many people think that Christians dislike everyone that doesn’t share in their beliefs, it’s a reminder that Jesus called us to love: to love people who are difficult, people who are different from you, because people are watching our lives and asking if Jesus is worth following. She reminds us that loving others was what Jesus was all about,
Another chapter that really spoke to me was, funnily enough, the chapter focusing on Judas Iscariot. We think of him as a bad guy, which he definitely ended up being, but he didn’t start out that way. He was one of the chosen few asked to follow and teach others about Jesus. He was loved by the other disciples, something just happened to him that caused him to do evil things. Suzanne points out how this can happen to any of us because of discontent. “Temptation begins in the small things and burrows in to create discontent.”
Unhappiness causes small temptations to lead to bigger ones, and before you know it you’re over your head in the deep end. “Discontentment sneaks in, we hold it close and feed it, and it spreads like cancer.” But, Suzanne also gives us the tools to battle this discontent- by living a life of thank-you.
“He [Satan] dares to stir up discontentment in our deepest relationships, and we find the good in the heart of that person. He tries to stir up discontentment in our ministry, and we find solutions for the problem instead. He tries to stir up discontentment in our faith, and we point to a bloodied cross and an open tomb.”
I don’t want to give away too much of the book, because you need to grab a copy for yourself and dig in. It’s truly a book that has changed my life and some of my ways of thinking. I am thankful I had the chance to read it.
May 3, 2016
What does it mean to follow Jesus? What does it mean to go deeper with Him?
Longing to go deeper in her walk with God, Author and Speaker Suzanne Eller spent months walking with the 12 disciples through the gospel of Luke (with excursions to the other three gospels), exploring what that might look like. In this journey, she came to realize that each of us "are called to walk as the thirteenth disciple."
In her new book, Come With Me: Discovering the Beauty of Following Where He Leads, Suzie explains, "When we answer the [Jesus'] call of 'Come with me,' something changes.... It's no longer about church, though we love our church family. It's no longer about being moral just for morality's sake. It's discovering what it means for faith to infiltrate every detail of your life." Just like the 12 disciples did.
Come With Me is a spiritually transforming book. Filled with captivating stories, challenging thoughts and poignant scripture passages, it leads the reader to explore her faith and calls her to take it to a deeper, more intimate level.
The author provides a catalyst for challenging our comfortable faith and issues an invitation to follow Jesus wherever He calls. She explores what that looks like in the context of real-life issues, like loving difficult people, facing hard circumstances, and feeling unworthy and unappreciated.
She gives guidance at the end of each chapter for exploring what following Jesus uniquely looks like in each of our lives. She gently but powerfully encourages the reader through probing questions, a Scripture passage and prayer, and, my favorite section, Living As a Disciple, which includes practical tips to begin that deeper faith walk.
It would be difficult to read this engaging book without coming away desiring a closer walk with Jesus. Thankfully, the author provides the practical application to help the reader do just that as she whispers yes to Jesus and begins to experience the unexpected beauty of following wherever He leads.
Read Come With Me if you long to go deeper with the Lord and experience a life-changing adventure of following Him!
*This honest review is in exchange for a advanced reader’s copy of the book from Bethany House Publishers.
Longing to go deeper in her walk with God, Author and Speaker Suzanne Eller spent months walking with the 12 disciples through the gospel of Luke (with excursions to the other three gospels), exploring what that might look like. In this journey, she came to realize that each of us "are called to walk as the thirteenth disciple."
In her new book, Come With Me: Discovering the Beauty of Following Where He Leads, Suzie explains, "When we answer the [Jesus'] call of 'Come with me,' something changes.... It's no longer about church, though we love our church family. It's no longer about being moral just for morality's sake. It's discovering what it means for faith to infiltrate every detail of your life." Just like the 12 disciples did.
Come With Me is a spiritually transforming book. Filled with captivating stories, challenging thoughts and poignant scripture passages, it leads the reader to explore her faith and calls her to take it to a deeper, more intimate level.
The author provides a catalyst for challenging our comfortable faith and issues an invitation to follow Jesus wherever He calls. She explores what that looks like in the context of real-life issues, like loving difficult people, facing hard circumstances, and feeling unworthy and unappreciated.
She gives guidance at the end of each chapter for exploring what following Jesus uniquely looks like in each of our lives. She gently but powerfully encourages the reader through probing questions, a Scripture passage and prayer, and, my favorite section, Living As a Disciple, which includes practical tips to begin that deeper faith walk.
It would be difficult to read this engaging book without coming away desiring a closer walk with Jesus. Thankfully, the author provides the practical application to help the reader do just that as she whispers yes to Jesus and begins to experience the unexpected beauty of following wherever He leads.
Read Come With Me if you long to go deeper with the Lord and experience a life-changing adventure of following Him!
*This honest review is in exchange for a advanced reader’s copy of the book from Bethany House Publishers.
May 24, 2016
About the Book:
Proverbs 31 Author Calls Women to a Revolutionary Faith
What if there was a real-life invitation to a lifetime of unexpected destinations and adventure? What if your faith was the key?
In her warm, conversational way, Proverbs 31 author Suzie Eller shows how your faith is just that. How when you take a step away from the uncertainty, the to-do list, the busy life, the worries and excuses, you take a step toward the One who promises to delight and surprise. Who brings you deeper than you ever thought possible.
Two thousand years ago, 12 men answered the call to follow a man they hardly knew--and they were changed in ways they never imagined. Today that same invitation echoes across history, beckoning you to an adventure that will spill into every aspect of your faith and life. "Come with Me." Will you say yes?
My Review:
When an individual finally gets the nerve up to tell Jesus, send me--I will follow you wherever you lead--my life is in your hands. This is a huge undertaking and it takes A LOT of faith to stick with it and not run in the opposite direction especially when things get tough and they almost always do. Our intentions are always good but God wants to see if we really mean what we say.
To experience God on an even deeper level we have to grow in faith like never before and there will be many times that it takes will, unbelievably strong will to even stay in those trenches. God is still there but for some strange reason we feel He is no where to be seen. He is a mighty force that sometimes comes in with a whisper instead of a mighty rushing wind.
Suzanne Eller takes what she has learned by following Jesus and put it into book form. A Bible study among all Bible studies that teaches you to allow God the opportunity to grow your faith into something much deeper than you ever expected or dreamed. We have to want this for ourselves and for our relationship with Him. The last chapter, We are the Thirteenth Disciple was really good! A great study to help us all!
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from the author.
Proverbs 31 Author Calls Women to a Revolutionary Faith
What if there was a real-life invitation to a lifetime of unexpected destinations and adventure? What if your faith was the key?
In her warm, conversational way, Proverbs 31 author Suzie Eller shows how your faith is just that. How when you take a step away from the uncertainty, the to-do list, the busy life, the worries and excuses, you take a step toward the One who promises to delight and surprise. Who brings you deeper than you ever thought possible.
Two thousand years ago, 12 men answered the call to follow a man they hardly knew--and they were changed in ways they never imagined. Today that same invitation echoes across history, beckoning you to an adventure that will spill into every aspect of your faith and life. "Come with Me." Will you say yes?
My Review:
When an individual finally gets the nerve up to tell Jesus, send me--I will follow you wherever you lead--my life is in your hands. This is a huge undertaking and it takes A LOT of faith to stick with it and not run in the opposite direction especially when things get tough and they almost always do. Our intentions are always good but God wants to see if we really mean what we say.
To experience God on an even deeper level we have to grow in faith like never before and there will be many times that it takes will, unbelievably strong will to even stay in those trenches. God is still there but for some strange reason we feel He is no where to be seen. He is a mighty force that sometimes comes in with a whisper instead of a mighty rushing wind.
Suzanne Eller takes what she has learned by following Jesus and put it into book form. A Bible study among all Bible studies that teaches you to allow God the opportunity to grow your faith into something much deeper than you ever expected or dreamed. We have to want this for ourselves and for our relationship with Him. The last chapter, We are the Thirteenth Disciple was really good! A great study to help us all!
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from the author.
May 23, 2016
I love the way the material was presented in Come with Me. Each chapter was displayed in sections that made the book relatable and easy to follow. Sometimes understanding how Bible stories apply to us personally can be difficult. From the very start, Suzie presented these stories in a way that I could apply to my own life. I enjoyed reading her trials, difficulties and triumphs. They gave me hope and peace in knowing that I am not alone in this walk. Suzie, along with tons of other people have the same struggles as I do. But not all hope is lost! This was a wonderful reminder about the importance of following Jesus. He will always guide and direct our paths.
The chapters were all outlined as follows. Again, I loved this layout. It allowed time for thought, prayer, study and application.
Main text - Suzie not only shared the Bible stories, but stories about herself and others that showed real life application. This was the meat of the chapters.
Taking it Deeper - this section provided verses to study and thought provoking questions. I find its always good to rethink about what I've just read. Just another way to keep what I've learned inside.
Scripture - an applicable Bible verse
Prayer - Suzie offers advice in how we should pray about the topics presented
Living As a Disciple - how we can apply this chapter to our daily lives
I recommend this to anyone, whether you think you are following Christ, or you need help in that direction. We can all use growth in our Christian walk, and this is a wonderful tool to help us. If you are particular about your Bible version, I recommend having it on hand (I prefer KJV) so that you can compare the verses that are provided. Thank you Suzie for sharing your story!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from Bethany House in exchange for an honest review which I have given.
The chapters were all outlined as follows. Again, I loved this layout. It allowed time for thought, prayer, study and application.
Main text - Suzie not only shared the Bible stories, but stories about herself and others that showed real life application. This was the meat of the chapters.
Taking it Deeper - this section provided verses to study and thought provoking questions. I find its always good to rethink about what I've just read. Just another way to keep what I've learned inside.
Scripture - an applicable Bible verse
Prayer - Suzie offers advice in how we should pray about the topics presented
Living As a Disciple - how we can apply this chapter to our daily lives
I recommend this to anyone, whether you think you are following Christ, or you need help in that direction. We can all use growth in our Christian walk, and this is a wonderful tool to help us. If you are particular about your Bible version, I recommend having it on hand (I prefer KJV) so that you can compare the verses that are provided. Thank you Suzie for sharing your story!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from Bethany House in exchange for an honest review which I have given.
June 2, 2016
Eller was hungry for a deeper faith. She was hungry for a relationship with God that would change how she viewed the world. She was hungry for a presence of God that would show up in every aspect of her life.
She shares her adventure using the examples of the disciples. From Simon we learn what it means to respond to the call to follow, and to obey the command to fish one more time. He'd been at it all night with no success but obeyed the command to go to deeper waters. There are good lessons from each of the disciples as they followed Jesus out of their comfort zones. She even includes Judas Iscariot, from whom we learn intentional gratitude.
Eller reminds us there is no blueprint for the journey as we venture into deep water. She helps us understand what we may have to leave behind. She gives encouragement for when we hear the call of God and it doesn't turn out the way we thought – for months or even years. She assures us God's strength will reveal itself in our weaknesses.
Eller shares stories from her own life and the lives of others. She includes insights she has gleaned from other authors. She has provided thought provoking questions at the end of each chapter, as well as a prayer, Scripture, and prompts for living out discipleship. This book would be a good one for a small group study among trusted friends or for individual use.
Eller suggests we are the “thirteenth disciple.” She encourages us to obey the command to follow. “We get to participate in miracles and answered prayers.” If you desire to go deeper, this book will encourage you on your journey.
I received a complimentary egalley of this book from the publisher for the purpose of an independent and honest review.
She shares her adventure using the examples of the disciples. From Simon we learn what it means to respond to the call to follow, and to obey the command to fish one more time. He'd been at it all night with no success but obeyed the command to go to deeper waters. There are good lessons from each of the disciples as they followed Jesus out of their comfort zones. She even includes Judas Iscariot, from whom we learn intentional gratitude.
Eller reminds us there is no blueprint for the journey as we venture into deep water. She helps us understand what we may have to leave behind. She gives encouragement for when we hear the call of God and it doesn't turn out the way we thought – for months or even years. She assures us God's strength will reveal itself in our weaknesses.
Eller shares stories from her own life and the lives of others. She includes insights she has gleaned from other authors. She has provided thought provoking questions at the end of each chapter, as well as a prayer, Scripture, and prompts for living out discipleship. This book would be a good one for a small group study among trusted friends or for individual use.
Eller suggests we are the “thirteenth disciple.” She encourages us to obey the command to follow. “We get to participate in miracles and answered prayers.” If you desire to go deeper, this book will encourage you on your journey.
I received a complimentary egalley of this book from the publisher for the purpose of an independent and honest review.
July 1, 2017
I have really enjoyed going through this new devotional! In Susanne Eller’s “Come With Me” she focuses us into the disciples and to see who they really are, what they did, and how we can learn from them- and Jesus! Each chapter is dedicated to a single disciple and walks you through what we know, or maybe don’t know about each of them and draws out a lot of truth that took me time to digest.
The format of each chapter is laid out really nicely and has special quotes to jump out at you from the text, and header sections that break up the reading if you wanted to read a chapter over more than one day. The end of each chapter has a list of discussion questions that would be great not just for personal use, but for a small group meeting! There is also a memory Scripture, prayer, and a section that gives you a few ideas on putting things into practice in your life.
Something that I really appreciated from the author was her transparency in writing. She shares many personal stories throughout but while sometimes those can bog down a devo book I didn’t feel there here. Rather, I felt like I was in the company of a good friend who was taking time to mentor and disciple me with things she had learned. I highlighted a great deal in this book so I could make sure I could go back and find all of my favorite parts easily!
In the final chapter of the book Eller turns the focus back to you and I as “The Thirteenth Disciple” wrapping up and challenging us to put into practice what we learned and how we will walk with Jesus in our lives.
Final Rating: 4.5
I have been given a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review and opinion of the product.
The format of each chapter is laid out really nicely and has special quotes to jump out at you from the text, and header sections that break up the reading if you wanted to read a chapter over more than one day. The end of each chapter has a list of discussion questions that would be great not just for personal use, but for a small group meeting! There is also a memory Scripture, prayer, and a section that gives you a few ideas on putting things into practice in your life.
Something that I really appreciated from the author was her transparency in writing. She shares many personal stories throughout but while sometimes those can bog down a devo book I didn’t feel there here. Rather, I felt like I was in the company of a good friend who was taking time to mentor and disciple me with things she had learned. I highlighted a great deal in this book so I could make sure I could go back and find all of my favorite parts easily!
In the final chapter of the book Eller turns the focus back to you and I as “The Thirteenth Disciple” wrapping up and challenging us to put into practice what we learned and how we will walk with Jesus in our lives.
Final Rating: 4.5
I have been given a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review and opinion of the product.
August 19, 2016
What a wonderful perspective Suzie shares in her latest book, to walk as the thirteenth disciple with Jesus! I picked this one up because I loved the Mended Heart and once again, I was changed by the journey.
Suzie outlines the hard issues and then digs in deep. She's real and her honesty shines light into my life. Some of my favourite challenges include:
"Do I reflect on what might bring God joy? Do I seek to understand the deep longings of my Heavenly Father? Do I ask him how I can connect with those longings?"
My word of the year is joy and this changed how I see my actions and my choices, what a filter to see the world through.
I love her prayers too, short and simple but powerful and expectant
"Jesus, I offer you my tiny seed of faith. Use this not enough in great measure. Help me to believe big in you."
And the one I can really relate to at the moment, it felt like she read my mind this week is about fear.
"Sometimes our greatest fear is that our faith will be shipwrecked in the midst of sickness or financial battles or when loves ones are thrust into chaos"
She reassures us in response to that with Luke 8:15 saying:
"He's in you. You are good soil. He rebuked the winds and storms for you, but his assurance is that there's something on the other side of the storm. Renewed faith. Hope. Strength gained from grabbing his hand in the storm"
For me, that summed up the book, the disciples learnt in every situation, good, bad and confusing to grab the hand of Jesus and Suzie walks us through how.
I loved this book and highly recommend it!
Suzie outlines the hard issues and then digs in deep. She's real and her honesty shines light into my life. Some of my favourite challenges include:
"Do I reflect on what might bring God joy? Do I seek to understand the deep longings of my Heavenly Father? Do I ask him how I can connect with those longings?"
My word of the year is joy and this changed how I see my actions and my choices, what a filter to see the world through.
I love her prayers too, short and simple but powerful and expectant
"Jesus, I offer you my tiny seed of faith. Use this not enough in great measure. Help me to believe big in you."
And the one I can really relate to at the moment, it felt like she read my mind this week is about fear.
"Sometimes our greatest fear is that our faith will be shipwrecked in the midst of sickness or financial battles or when loves ones are thrust into chaos"
She reassures us in response to that with Luke 8:15 saying:
"He's in you. You are good soil. He rebuked the winds and storms for you, but his assurance is that there's something on the other side of the storm. Renewed faith. Hope. Strength gained from grabbing his hand in the storm"
For me, that summed up the book, the disciples learnt in every situation, good, bad and confusing to grab the hand of Jesus and Suzie walks us through how.
I loved this book and highly recommend it!
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