1/What is Zen? When you notice your world exactly as it is – free from judgement and with detachment from anticipated outcomes – that is Zen.
2/Zen Practice: Disneyland Zen – so in the moment that its over before we know it. Flow - a state of being in which you are so totally engaged by an experience that everything else melts away. The archer ceases to be conscious of himself. Surfer Zen. Teacher Zen is being completely focused on your students or captivated by the lesson you’re presenting. Being open to what may happen, without sticking to the rigid, anticipated outcomes. There is no goal. There is no finish line. It’s the doing – the routines, rituals, and techniques that rewards you.
3/Beginner’s Mind: practice of approaching a situation with an open mind, a vulnerable heart, and a willingness to learn. They spent our conversations espousing their opinions, white-knuckling their preconceived notions, and insisting on the rightness of their position. Enjoy the adventure of exploration and discovery that comes with learning.
4/The Living Dead: The unpardonable sin is the sin of inadvertence, or not being alert, not quite awake. To be a zombie in this world is to waste the gift we’ve been given, to disrespect and devalue our lives to neglect the beauty around us for a machine. Waking up means wanting less stuff, tolerating less noise, and engaging in fewer obligations. You’ll be aware of the student who is struggling, academic or personally.
5/Intention: It is by logic that we prove, but by intuition that we discover. Intuition will tell the thinking mind where to look (Jonas Salk). Intuition is emotion and intellect joining together. It’s more difficult to recognize intuition when you’re doing a million things at once.
6/Non-judgement: To set up what you like against what you dislike – this is the disease of the mind. By refusing to make judgements, we can endure challenges more effectively, and we can learn to persevere. Let’s trade all of our judgement for appreciating. Notice when you are judging and learn more about the situation, think of alternatives, forgive yourself.
7/Lovingkindness: Lovingkindness means approaching the world with a sense of tenderness, compassion, love, gentility that increases our inner peace and serenity. My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness (Dalai Lama). The difference between misery and happiness depends on what we do with our attention (Sharon Salzberg). You will need lovingkindness the most when you feel overwhelmed with the busyness of teaching and the insanity of the profession starts to wear on you.
8/Compassion: As teachers we have ample opportunity to show compassion in every hour of every class of every day (to students, colleagues, and ourselves). Who is in need? How can I help?
9/Gratitude: You have to be grateful whenever you get to someplace safe and okay, even if it turns out it wasn’t quite where you were heading. Whom can I thank? Gratitude journal is a list of reasons to be grateful that I can review at any time. Use a gratitude sentence when you feel stressed. Remember to express gratitude about yourself to yourself.
10/Detachment: comes from separating yourself from a desire that if unmet will leave you depressed or disappointed. All things will work out as they are supposed to. By disengaging from an ‘expected’ or anticipated’ outcome, we can create a more authentic learning experience because we haven’t invested our mental and emotional energy into an outcome that is ‘supposed’ to happen. You don’t give up the intention, and you don’t give up the desire. You give up your attachment to the result. If that happens, great. But if it doesn’t happen, that’s okay too.
11/Acceptance: We all hope that moments in our lives will turn out a certain way (expectations). But even when things go well, they rarely, if ever, go exactly as planned. Wow, I didn’t expect that, But I can still make do. Primary types of acceptance: acceptance of ourself (I accept my weight and love myself as I am), acceptance of others (complex & contradictory), acceptance of Events (welcome for what it is).
12/Quiet Mind: To a mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders (Lao Tzu). Quiet mind = time to be still and silent. Quiet mind is a state of non-doing.
13/Meditation: The purpose of meditation practice is not enlightenment; it is to pay attention even at unextraordinary times, to be present, nothing-but-the-present, to bear this mindfulness of now into each event of ordinary life. The practice of attempting to focus on one thing at a time so we can see it accurately and with intention. Types of meditation: gazing (using a focal point), mantra (May I be free of suffering), walking (focus on body, breathing, or surroundings).
14/Mindfulness: You can’t stop moments from happening, but you can learn how to handle them so they will be easier to endure. We hardly ever structure our lives to focus on a single moment. We are distracted, fragmented, and unfocused. We rarely ask ourselves what is happening around us, and we never stop to ask if this is how we want to spend our finite time on this earth. Zen teacher: why am I doing this worksheet, this lesson, this book? You can never step twice into the same stream (Catherine Ryan Hyde). Learning to view the places where you spend your life as places of awe, wonder, and infinite possibility. Paying deep, genuine attention is not something our culture rewards. Paying close attention to something can take energy, some moments of our lives may seem boring, average, or bland and unworthy of recognition. That’s probably because we just are not looking hard enough at the beauty, possibility, and potential before us. Pay attention to the details and you’ll find the moment. Everyday mindfulness: showering, eating breakfast, driving to work. Be Here Now. Intention: What happens in my classroom is by and large up to me. Rituals: create balance and help us focus our attention on the moment. Friday fun prep can include eating popcorn, sitting outside, walk to the park, read something for pleasure (classroom sabbath).
15/Space: When every box in our calendar is filled in, every moment accounted for, every room has clutter, and our lives are hyper organized, unscheduled obstacles cause great conflict because we do not have the wiggle room we need. If we give ourselves permission to create physical and mental space, to give ourselves some breathing room, it suddenly becomes easier to navigate the bumpy parts of our journey and adjust to life’s surprises. Space is a choice, and the choice is up to you. Subtraction: the more junk and clutter we have in our lives, the worse we teach. Subtracting what you don’t need, mentally and physically, can create peace, focus, and simplicity in your classroom – and your mind. Decluttering: start now, think small, 15 min a day, choose a single surface (desk), save/give away/throw away piles, handle everything once, give everything a home, something in/something out.
16/Stillness: Learning how to be still, to really be still and let life happen-that stillness becomes a radiance (Morgan Freeman). Most people I know tell me that they never have time to slow down (let alone stop), never have time to take a moment, never have time to reflect or enjoy or appreciate their lives. You might not have a full day to devote to what you want, but everyone can find 5 minutes for an activity that means something to them. Silence: When there is no sound, our mind calms down. True silence rests the mind and is to the spirit what sleep is to the body, nourishment and refreshment (William Penn). Serenity: he goes to the beach, looks at the water, sits on a certain bench and watches people. Put down your sword: it is easy to get caught up in the heat of the moment. You know yourself best, and you will have to determine when it is in your best interest to fight the battle and when it is better to let things go. A warrior in constant battle is a tired warrior. Yield and overcome: a flexible branch bends to let the snow slide off. If the branch is stiff and unbending, it will eventually break. It actually requires strength to bend, to be so flexible that you can allow burdens to glide right off you (Tao Te Ching). Choose your battles (you don’t have to engage in every conflict), You don’t always have to be right (energy is best spent elsewhere), walk away (drama isn’t worth time, energy, emotions). Non-doing requires making a conscious decision to resist always being on the go and always being active. Work at allowing more things to unfold in your life without forcing them to happen and without rejecting the ones that don’t fit your idea of what ‘should’ be happening (Jon Kabat-Zinn). If you ask me what I am doing and I say, ‘Nothing’ that doesn’t mean I’m free. That means I’m doing nothing. With practice, non-doing can relax us, renew us, and re-focus us. It can reduce our stress, tension, and anxiety. Where’s the fire: I realized that I was tired of hurrying, tired of rushing through activities because there was always something else that needed to happen in the next few minutes. The key to slowing down is structuring your schedule so that, no matter what obligations you have, you have margin – pockets of time without anything scheduled – surrounding a task so you can focus on it without feeling like you have to hurry up and be done because you have somewhere to be or something else to do. Learning – real learning, happens in the gaps where students think, reflect, and take their time. If you present even one concept to your students as if it’s the only thing of real importance in that moment, you radically increase the chance for deeper, more meaningful learning that will linger in both of your memories much longer than a rushed lesson ever could. Idleness: Over scheduled children are kept so busy that they don’t know how to entertain themselves. As they grow older, the continual and urgent need to ‘do’ will become an impediment damaging their spirit and crippling their productivity. Busyness serves as a kind of existential reassurance, a hedge against emptiness; obviously your life cannot possibly be silly or trivial or meaningless if you are so busy, completely booked, in demand every hour of the day (Tim Krieder). We use the crutch of keeping busy to increase our self-esteem and sense of security to justify our existence, to stave off loneliness and the possible ‘nightmare’ of finding ourselves alone with nothing to do, no goal, no anticipated outcome. Everything about our culture tells us that we must keep moving, we must keep going, we must keep trying. Stopping, on the other hand, is for laggards, loafers, and do-nothings. Doing absolutely nothing at all gives us the opportunity for reflection, insight, and skill-building that will benefit us the rest of our lives.
17/Self-Care: Love yourself first, and everything else falls in line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world (Lucille Ball). We don’t keep driving our cars when the ‘check engine’ light comes on, but we have this uncanny ability to ignore the signals that our bodies send us. If you ignore the signs and signals that your body is giving right now, you run the risk of greater health issues down the road. Just say no: our habits and behaviors are deeply ingrained and must be fought. Say no to extra possessions, activities, or responsibilities can improve the quality of our lives because it gives us the opportunity to pursue the life enriching behaviors, we previously didn’t have time for. Saying no shows people that you value your personal time and energy and that you respect requests and honor commitments. Just because someone throws you a ball doesn’t mean you have to catch it. Pace yourself. The extra energy, time, and space you create can be spent on your children. Saying no makes you a rebel with the courage to follow your own personal vision. Taking Care of you: on an airplane, parents are supposed to put on their oxygen mask first. Stopping to refuel and give yourself a little TLC would allow you to produce more, help more, and provide greater quality work. Radical self-care (Anne Lamont). The world is a roller coaster, and only you are in charge of the brakes. Be your own best advocate and guard your own health and sanity by taking care of yourself. Caring for my self is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation.
Conclusion: It is not about the destination, but the journey.