Sara and Sue took a year and a half to save 20k and plan their trip abroad. They were 23 years old when they left Toronto, Canada on January 31st, 2010.
Sara is a nurse and Sue is a waitress and honestly the entire length of the book it just feels like Sue secretly hates her friend Sara for having her life together while she is going nowhere fast. It honestly made me wonder if the two are still friends?
Page 8:
“Finally, we settled on southern Africa, Nepal, Tibet, India and South East Asia, and allotted ourselves a year and $20,000 each.”
Page 113:
Sue’s thoughts after her fifth day at an ashram in India.
“We all live inside our heads. We have no clue what everyone else experiences. The notion of union with another is false; the idea that we can even begin to understand who someone else is - on a level so fundamental that it is indescribable - is a delusion. Our consciousness is just a pod, and aquarium from which we pier out at a world we can never truly touch. We are all utterly alone.”
Day 6 at the ashram:
“I couldn’t decide if it felt like I was on drugs, or coming off of drugs, or in need of drugs, or what.”
Page 144:
Robert the pirate: This is real life, mate. This is as real as it gets: not worrying about anything beyond the moment. Everything you do back home: the 9 to 5, the rat race, whatever- that’s just waiting for a real life to begin. And for some people, it never does.
The girls start their year off by shark diving in Gansbaai, South Africa before embarking on an African Safari with their friend Kendra. From Africa, they head over to the Himalayas where their father’s meet them to trek to Annapurna Base Camp in Nepal. From there, they head to Tibet and India and then spend the remainder of their year in SE Asia.
Some of the stories sound like awesome adventures but I feel like the writing style is underwhelming. Everything she says is either an analogy or a joke so the entire books feels very superficial. I feel like a stronger story would have emerged from a better writer.
The ending also just falls flat for me.
“Actually, looking back, my grand expectations of self realization seemed almost… stupid. I had left home with the idealistic notion of “finding myself” as if the person I was wasn’t adequate and I would find somebody better to be… where? Hidden beneath the orange sand on a Namibian dune? Buried beneath a stack of dusty books in a Tibetan monastery? It seemed so ridiculous now. I was still the same neurotic, paranoid person that I had been a year ago. What I had discovered on the road was that being afraid of sharks, monkeys, strenuous exercise, self-reliance, and India didn’t make me any less capable than Sara of rising to their challenges. I just did so with a little less grace and a little more complaining. And hey, who is comparing us, anyway?”
It’s almost like Sue is angry at every other backpacker who does come home enlightened and with a better sense of “self” or a better idea of who they want to be and where they want to go.