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Escape: How to Beat the Narcissist
Learn from the narcissist the ways you can escape him or her. From achieving a total escape to key methods of countering his or her manipulative machinations, all delivered from a master practitioner of the dark arts. Understand how these techniques affect the narcissist, realise why they are so effective and gain an insight into what you must and must not do in order to achieve your escape. This book considers the mind set and controlling techniques the narcissist uses against you and then reveals what you can do about it. Invaluable knowledge from the dark mind of the narcissist.
- GenresPsychologySelf Help
162 pages, Kindle Edition
First published October 14, 2015
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February 22, 2016
Unreal!
Sick and twisted bastards that leave your life in shambles ( esp. your self esteem & self worth)!!! Because they only think of themselves & their fuel supply. Lonely, sad people in the end!
Sick and twisted bastards that leave your life in shambles ( esp. your self esteem & self worth)!!! Because they only think of themselves & their fuel supply. Lonely, sad people in the end!
February 9, 2016
Great book!
I purchased this book for my daughter who has been in a relationship with a psychopathic narcissist. My only problem is, how will I be able to have her read it without him knowing??!!
I purchased this book for my daughter who has been in a relationship with a psychopathic narcissist. My only problem is, how will I be able to have her read it without him knowing??!!
November 8, 2015
Good info and great insight into the mind of a true narcissist.
This was a very good and easy read. Very straight forward from the mind of a narcissist himself. Helpful information!
This was a very good and easy read. Very straight forward from the mind of a narcissist himself. Helpful information!
August 11, 2016
This provides answers with reason, not available in many books on this topic
For those in recovery this answers many outstanding g questions and provides answers to give strength for dealing with a narcissist.
For those in recovery this answers many outstanding g questions and provides answers to give strength for dealing with a narcissist.
September 22, 2018
Nothing will help victims of this abuse as much as these books by an abuser himself
This is the 5th HG Tudor book I've read in less than two weeks. I just finished it and will now start on the 6th. I have read 16 other books on this topic, by other authors, in the last month. NONE of them have helped me learn and apply the lessons as much as HG's books have. I highly recommend them to anyone who finds themselves ensnared by a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath because none of your friends, family, and possibly even your therapist will fully comprehend the horror endured in a relationship with these people. I finally get it now. Thank you Mr. Tudor. I don't know why you're helping us, it seems to go against everything your kind does, but I am grateful and intend to read every one of your books as well as your blog.
This is the 5th HG Tudor book I've read in less than two weeks. I just finished it and will now start on the 6th. I have read 16 other books on this topic, by other authors, in the last month. NONE of them have helped me learn and apply the lessons as much as HG's books have. I highly recommend them to anyone who finds themselves ensnared by a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath because none of your friends, family, and possibly even your therapist will fully comprehend the horror endured in a relationship with these people. I finally get it now. Thank you Mr. Tudor. I don't know why you're helping us, it seems to go against everything your kind does, but I am grateful and intend to read every one of your books as well as your blog.
October 28, 2017
Pretty good escape advice from the narc himself
I liked the book. Interesting point of view from the narcissist. He gives solid advice . if you are in a relationship with a narc, you need to read this book before planning your escape. Get a new cellphone, scan your residence for bugs, debug your laptop and have a professional detective look at your car, check for GPS monitors etc. Some narcs are ruthless and the author gives you an insight into the mind of the evil narc.
I didn't like the spelling errors "focussed" instead of " focused" "b" instead of "be" "you" instead of "your". The author should invest in an editor. But then, he is a narc, he is perfect. Haha. If I am spending my money to purchase a book, I expect it to be edited and free of spelling errors.
I liked the book. Interesting point of view from the narcissist. He gives solid advice . if you are in a relationship with a narc, you need to read this book before planning your escape. Get a new cellphone, scan your residence for bugs, debug your laptop and have a professional detective look at your car, check for GPS monitors etc. Some narcs are ruthless and the author gives you an insight into the mind of the evil narc.
I didn't like the spelling errors "focussed" instead of " focused" "b" instead of "be" "you" instead of "your". The author should invest in an editor. But then, he is a narc, he is perfect. Haha. If I am spending my money to purchase a book, I expect it to be edited and free of spelling errors.
November 21, 2019
Excellent insight into the mind of an 'Elite' Narcissist. Tudor's book provide a wealth of heretofore unknown insights and knowldedge that is vital for anyone dealing with Narcissists and narcissistic abuse and recovery. As a therapist working with victims of such abuse, I've found his books fascinating, enlightening and well worth reading, with the caveat that they make for brutal, painful reading for people in the early stages of their healing journey.
Maria McMahon
Clinical NLP/Hypnotherapist & Author
Maria McMahon
Clinical NLP/Hypnotherapist & Author
August 19, 2018
Awesome
It’s good to get tips from a narcissist. Everything mentioned in this book has worked in “toning down” and helping me escape the narcissist in my life. What’s weird is that I applied all the tactics in this book without knowing my significant other was a narcissist. I will be reading more by HG forsure!
It’s good to get tips from a narcissist. Everything mentioned in this book has worked in “toning down” and helping me escape the narcissist in my life. What’s weird is that I applied all the tactics in this book without knowing my significant other was a narcissist. I will be reading more by HG forsure!
December 27, 2020
A must read for those suffering from narcissistic abuse
May 22, 2020
Everything you need to know to escape the narcissist!
A comprehensive look at how the narcissist's mind works, how to free yourself from his toxic world, and ways to keep yourself from becoming ensnared once more.
A comprehensive look at how the narcissist's mind works, how to free yourself from his toxic world, and ways to keep yourself from becoming ensnared once more.
September 6, 2021
How to Beat the Narcissist
I’m grateful for this book and I recommend it to anyone dealing with these kinds of people, I wish I’d of known this information 2 years ago,highly highly recommended
I’m grateful for this book and I recommend it to anyone dealing with these kinds of people, I wish I’d of known this information 2 years ago,highly highly recommended
July 18, 2020
Amazing book!!
An absolute must read!!! Right on point about everything little thing about a narcissist and then some. The best read Ever!!
An absolute must read!!! Right on point about everything little thing about a narcissist and then some. The best read Ever!!
March 28, 2026
A Survival Manual from the Predator Himself.
If you are bleeding out in a toxic relationship and are tired of reading soft, fluffy narcissist Lite therapy books that tell you to make "I feel" statements while a predator sets your life on fire, read H.G. Tudor.
Escape isn't a warm hug; it’s a tactical extraction manual.
Tudor’s central premise is that you must escape, and the "Golden Rule" is No Contact.
But unlike most abuse coaches who assume you can just pack a bag and walk away from a toxic boss, a sociopathic co-parent, or a financial hostage situation, Tudor actually gives you counter-insurgency tactics for when you are stuck behind enemy lines.
Part 1 forces you to accept reality.
Tudor lays out the brutal truth: the "Golden Period" was a con.
It’s never coming back.
The narcissist cannot be fixed, and they are here to destroy you.
He correctly notes that narcissists don’t deal in logic; they deal in energy (fuel).
My only critique? He misses that sometimes their "fuel" is just straight-up stealing your money.
Part 2 is where the book becomes priceless. Tudor breaks down specific manipulation techniques from the inside out and gives you the exact moves to counter them.
This is the stuff that actually keeps you alive in a war zone, unlike the useless "I feel" statements peddled by the wellness industry.
Part 3 is a masterclass in executing No Contact.
This book is essential reading for any victim, especially those who are financially or logistically trapped and cannot leave immediately.
It is one of the very few books written for the actual reality of abuse, rather than the sterilized, clinical version.
For those in constrained, high-risk situations, this is one of the few books that treats escape as a strategy rather than a slogan.
Highly recommended. Add it to your survival kit immediately.
If you are bleeding out in a toxic relationship and are tired of reading soft, fluffy narcissist Lite therapy books that tell you to make "I feel" statements while a predator sets your life on fire, read H.G. Tudor.
Escape isn't a warm hug; it’s a tactical extraction manual.
Tudor’s central premise is that you must escape, and the "Golden Rule" is No Contact.
But unlike most abuse coaches who assume you can just pack a bag and walk away from a toxic boss, a sociopathic co-parent, or a financial hostage situation, Tudor actually gives you counter-insurgency tactics for when you are stuck behind enemy lines.
Part 1 forces you to accept reality.
Tudor lays out the brutal truth: the "Golden Period" was a con.
It’s never coming back.
The narcissist cannot be fixed, and they are here to destroy you.
He correctly notes that narcissists don’t deal in logic; they deal in energy (fuel).
My only critique? He misses that sometimes their "fuel" is just straight-up stealing your money.
Part 2 is where the book becomes priceless. Tudor breaks down specific manipulation techniques from the inside out and gives you the exact moves to counter them.
This is the stuff that actually keeps you alive in a war zone, unlike the useless "I feel" statements peddled by the wellness industry.
Part 3 is a masterclass in executing No Contact.
This book is essential reading for any victim, especially those who are financially or logistically trapped and cannot leave immediately.
It is one of the very few books written for the actual reality of abuse, rather than the sterilized, clinical version.
For those in constrained, high-risk situations, this is one of the few books that treats escape as a strategy rather than a slogan.
Highly recommended. Add it to your survival kit immediately.
July 11, 2025
5 Stars! HG Tudor is the best author who writes books about Narcissistic personality disorder. A narcissist himself, he explains everything that narcissists do while in a relationship with you. This is the best book about narcissism I´ve ever read in five years reading about narcissism. HG Tudor also has a Youtube channel in which he teaches everything about narcissism and psychopathy for free!
October 5, 2017
Reading this just made me sick.
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