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ダーリンは外国人 [Dārin wa gaikokujin]

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159 pages, Paperback

First published December 28, 2002

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Saori Oguri

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1 review1 follower
March 5, 2015
Stories about the author, Saori and her American husband Tony. Stories are basically stand alone but all work together for a humorous, enjoyable read. cute illustrations that don't distract too much from the text, so it works nicely for a visual reference without pausing too long from reading. Lots of neat information such as comparisons/contrasts of Japanese and American culture. If you've lived as a foreigner in Japan, you'll be able to relate with some of Tony's experiences and get a good laugh out of it.

Kanji does not have furigana, and some stories are a little hard to follow if you're not competent in Japanese; so it might be a tough read for beginners. Writing style is also pretty casual/conversational so it may take a bit to get used to, but it's good practice for conversational speech styles.
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2 reviews14 followers
April 9, 2013
It's a very funny book, easy to read.
1 review
October 23, 2014
A humorous look at an interracial relationship from a Japanese perspective. It's a pretty easy read for the most part.
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2,840 reviews90 followers
March 29, 2021
懐かしい。
初めて読んだ時からほぼ20年経ってるだけあって、ここで描かれる「外国人」やそれに反応する「日本人」はちょっと使い古された感がある。
いや、もしかしたらこれを読んだ20年前に比べ、私が「外国」によく触れるようになったからかもしれない。
(考えてみれば、中学高校は私の人生で一番「日本一色」な時期だった)

兎に角、気づいたことを列挙する;

・謙遜の云々や、お店の人との交渉、ユーモアの感覚は、いまの日本ならここまで「違う!」とはならない気がする。まぁこれも、私の、大学以降の友人達の「日本的」じゃないあり方が私にとって普通になってる故かもしれない。
・日本語に関する箇所は相変わらず興味深い。「ぶん殴る」の「ぶん」って何、「やれああしろこうしろ」の「やれ」って何等。
・けれど、「踏切」という言葉に到達するまでの過程「踏む」「踏み込む」と似た単語を頭の中で考え混乱する、というのはまさに私が日頃からやってる混乱と同じ。これはバイリンガルゆえの混乱なんだよ今ならわかる。(なので、日本人の友人は確かにこの著者のように私の混乱っぷりを面白がってる)
・蕎麦をすするときの音に対する感覚は、昔と同じくトニーと同じ。でもこれも、昔ほどとやかく言われない(「そっか外国育ちだからなんだねー」)のは、昔からの友人は私のあり方に慣れ、最近の友人はそもそも「純日本的」じゃないからかも
・「他人と一緒に暮らすということ」に関するところは、相手が「外国人」だろうとなかろうと同じだなと思う。これを読んだ時はまだ誰かと暮らすとか結婚するとか非現実的だったが、今ならわかる。…というか、自分のテリトリーに入ってきた人は、たて親だろうと、「外国人」だな。

…というわけで、図書館で偶然見つけたので久々に読んでみたが、懐かしくも「何でこれ超面白いって思ったんだっけ」と思った。
「外国人ネタのコミックエッセイ」の先駆け的漫画なのかな。「日本人の知らない日本語」とか「北欧女子オーサが見つけた日本の不思議」とかの。
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633 reviews11 followers
November 9, 2017
This is an autobiographical manga about a Japanese woman married to an American guy. The introduction starts off with her saying she thinks it's not so much an issue of cultures as it is individual personalities, but that she sometimes finds herself thinking, "Wow, so this is the difference not being raised on tamagoyaki and The Drifters can make." Indeed, while there are some issues in her anecdotes that arise due to cultural differences, many are just personality-based (and she acknowledges that). It's not a manual on how to live with a foreigner, nor is it full of the typical stereotypes Japanese tend to have about foreigners (Americans especially). The art style is cute and even when it's not outright funny (which it often is), it's always interesting.
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February 25, 2015
It tells of the daily lives and humorous miscommunications and cultural differences between the author Saori, and her husband Tony. It's done in manga format so you never start to feel overwhelmed with text, and it can easily be read in small chunks as it contains many bite-size stories. Kanji lack furigana and sometimes they appear handwritten, so for non-natives this book is probably more suitable for 3rd to 4th year students and up.

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May 14, 2012
Neat (and highly subjective) Book about a relationship of a Japanese to her American Husband in Japan.
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