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224 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2002
“...it is estimated that more than a million bushels of human and inhuman bones were imported…[from the battlefields of Europe and used as fertilizer]...They have been shipped to the port of Hull and thence forwarded to Yorkshire bone grinders who have erected steam engines and powerful machinery for the purposes of reducing them to a granulary state…”.
“...They are manufactured wars, born out of the collapse of civil societies, perpetrated by fear, greed and paranoia, and they are run by gangsters, who rise up from the bottom of their own societies and terrorize all, including those they purport to protect…”
“...there were heated debates over the origin of gingerbread hearts...The Croats insisted that the cookies were Croatian. The Serbs angrily countered that the cookies were Serbian . The suggestion to one ethnic group that gingerbread hearts were invented by the other ethnic group could start a fight…”
“..Those who seek meaning in patriotism do not want to hear the truth of war, wary of bursting the bubble…”
“...Those voices within the ethnic group or the nation that question the state’s lust and need for war are targeted. These dissidents are the most dangerous. They give us an alternative language...one that recognises the humanity of the enemy…”.
“....We wanted them all to come back to life...so we could kill them again…”
“The military histories - which tell little of war’s reality- crowd out the wrenching tales by the emotionally maimed. Each generation again responds to war as innocents. Each generation discovers its own disillusionment - often after a terrible price…”
War makes the world understandable, a black and white tableau of them and us. It suspends thought, especially self-critical thought. All bow before the supreme effort. We are one. Most of us accept war as long as we can fold it into a belief system that paints the ensuing suffering as necessary for a higher good, for human beings seek not only happiness but also meaning. And tragically war is sometimes the most powerful way in human society to achieve meaning.
I have seen children shot in other conflicts I have covered – death squads gunned them down in El Salvador and Guatemala, mothers and infants were lined up and massacred in Algeria, and Serb snipers put children in their sights and watched them crumple onto the pavement in Sarajevo – but I had never watched soldiers entice children like mice into a trap and murder them for sport.
The conflicts between the Israelis and the Palestinians has left each side embracing death. They each believe that they are the only real victims. There is a celebration of the suicidal martyrdom and justification of the tit-for-tat killing of noncombatants.
Sigmund Freud divided the forces in human nature between the Eros instinct, the impulse within us that propels us to become close to others, to preserve and conserve, and the Thanatos, or death instinct, the impulse that works towards the annihilation of all living things, including ourselves. For Freud these forces are in eternal conflict. He was pessimistic about ever eradicating war. All human history, he argued, is a tug-of-war between these two instincts.
But my greatest thanks go to Thomas and Noelle, who remind me every day that my chief role, and the one I value most, is as a father. I hope they never do what I did.
The only antidote to ward off self-destruction and the indiscriminate use of force is humility and, ultimately, compassion. Reinhold Niebuhr aptly reminded us that we must all act and then ask for forgiveness.