Ruby and the Rubbish Bin: A Story for Children with Low Self-Esteem

by Margot Sunderland, Nicky Armstrong (Illustrator)

Ruby hates herself so much that she often feels more like a piece of rubbish than a little girl. Children at school bully her. Sometimes Ruby feels so miserable that she wants to sleep and sleep and never wake up again. Then one day, Ruby meets Dot the lunchtime lady, When Ruby feels Dot's kindness and understanding, something warm happens in Ruby's tummy. Over time, Dot helps Ruby to move from self-hate to self-respect. In fact Dot's smile makes Ruby feel like a princess. After a very important dream, and help from Dot, Ruby decides enough is enough. She finds her voice and her anger, and stands up to the bullies. She makes new friends and knows what it's like to feel happy for the first time in her life.

32 pages, Paperback

First published October 3, 2003

Reviews

[Emkoshka · Rating 2 out of 5]

I read this as part of a training session on working with children who have been affected by family violence. A cheap-looking book which can be used as a teaching tool for children with low self-esteem who have internalised negative messages about themselves. In this case, Ruby benefits from the friendship and support of a kindly lunchlady who helps her assert herself against those who have victimised her.