Great book on finding your talents and why. Top takeaways:
My Unique Ability: To break down others struggles, help them create step by step systems to overcome, grow and thrive! SYSTEMS.
Look to create environments that inspire others to take some risks, learn, grow, and experience more joy!
The KEY is to go DEEP in ONE AREA! Most go wide and spread out!
KEY is to find the BEST IN THE FIELD and be PERSISTENT ENOUGH TO TAKE TO LUNCH AND PICK THEIR BRAIN!
4 Characteristics of Unique Ability:
Superior skill.
Passion.
Energizes you and others.
Never ending improvement.
When working on Unique Ability, you get more energy and lose track of time.
Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom. - Aristotle.
Even if you don't know what your unique ability is, you know what it IS NOT!
EXERCISE: RECORD ACTIVITIES OF YOUR DAY AND LOOK THROUGH YOUR UNIQUE ABILITY LENS. This shows you how you're spending your time.
Label as:
U-Unique (superior skill, passion, energy).
E-Excellent (superior skill, no passion, teamwork).
C-Competent (OK, anxiety, competition, repetition).
I-Incompetent (failure, conflict, stress).
FIVE WAYS TO FREE YOURSELF:
Stop doing it. Try dropping it and see if it's noticed and no consequences.
Delegate it. Use fiverr or others.
Swap it. Exchange with someone else for win/win.
Automate it.
Transform it. How can you batch it.
DISCOVERING YOUR UNIQUE ABILITY:
WHAT DO YOU LOVE, ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT, AND GAIN ENERGY WHEN ENGAGED?
BREAKING DOWN A PROBLEM, CREATING A FORMULAIC SYSTEM, AND IMPLEMENTING IT FOR GROWTH! I LOVE THE CREATIVE ASPECT! Must hand off continual training, measurement, and corrections to a manager.
In a study by Schiff, 97% of ultra rich said they know what they're exceptional at where only 54% of middle class knew. The ultra rich focus on 1-2 skills where middle class focuses on over 5.
Focus on what non unique ability you can delegate.
Strip away non unique ability activities like a sculptor chisels away marble, you are the sculptor of your life shaping your vision!
RESHAPE YOUR LIFE AROUND YOUR UNIQUE ABILITY!
FINDING YOUR UNIQUE ABILITY:
Collect input from others. Email 10 people who know you well (friends, family, colleagues, clients, mentors, etc.)
Sample: "I have a favor to ask. I am taking a course on a concept called unique ability and it's based on finding my unique talents, interests, and capabilities that are passionate about. I value your opinion and wondering if you would let me know what you see as my unique ability? This would be what you see as my strengths, abilities, what I'm good at, how I do things, what you count in me for and any other distinguishing features you see in me. It would really help me out if you could get back to me within the next 2 weeks. Thank you for helping me with this.
Once get it back, use the sheet to draw info to 1 place.
As a THANK YOU give them positive feedback in return.
Use Kolbe Index and Strengths Finder.
Then look for THEMES of your unique ability and list different words (such as Ambitious/Hard Worker and listed below are achiever, passionate, driven, strong, hungry, etc.) to provide the foundation for your TOP 10 HABITS!
TALENT: Problem Solving - The ability to solve problems with strategic solutions where others see confusion. Taking a 30k elevation perspective to achieve the best outcome.
TALENT: Educate others using a proven framework that is lost others to achieve the same goal.
TALENT: Bringing the future to the present in order to realize tangible results while foreseeing potential obstacles.
TALENT: Help others through challenging elevation in order to raise their standards for next level living.
This list of your 10 best habits keeps you guided in principles for everyday action.
UNIQUE ABILITY POWER STATEMENT: What you do and how you do it (talents) and why you do it (passion).
The effect you have on others is the most valuable currency you have!