‎ أسرار قوانين الجاذبية: ‎أيسر طريقة لبناء العلاقة التي تتمناها

by Talane Miedaner

إذا لم تكن بحاجة اليه، فأنت أقرب الي جذب انتباهه اذا لم نشبع احتياجاتنا العاطفية فاننا نقاوم ما نرغب فيه بشدة عندما نلبي احتياجاتنا الحقيقية بأنفسنا مثل الحاجة الي التدليل والحاجة الي من يسمعنا والحاجة الي الانسجام فاننا نصبح جذابين بطبيعة الحال بالنسبة لقصص الحب المحتملة. فالطيور على أشكالها تقع فعندما نعيش حياتنا ونحن نجسد القيم الراسخة بداخلنا فاننا نجذب الاخرين الذين يشاركونا نفس القيم بسهولة.

Genres: Self Help, Ebooks, Relationships

234 pages, Unknown Binding

First published December 6, 2008

Reviews

[Tujan · Rating 4 out of 5]

During my long loooong search for love , I read so many books. This one I remember. I appreciated the sincerity of the author. Although the tips she gives can be hard to apply, the message of the book is sound and clear ; get over your neediness for something and it comes your way.
I particularly loved the tips at the end of the book: let the world come to you,,, keep a gratitude list,,, etc. and still TRY to live by them everyday. Try, I do...not always I succeed.
overall a good read.
I would like to read her ' coach yourself to success'

[Megan · Rating 4 out of 5]

I don't necessarily believe in the law of attraction, but I like a lot of the tests and methods used to help identify your core needs and values. There's some good info to help understand yourself better and your partner and their needs as well. One of the stories were wrapped into too perfect all wrapped in a bow, but the overall message was good. Easy read. Useful. More like 3 1/2 stars.

[Mai · Rating 4 out of 5]

Every human being has needs that should be met on daily basis to reach his full potential and be his best self ,it reminded me much of the book “ the five languages of love” and when i took the emotional needs quiz i find out that it’s the same result of a previous test i took which was my language of love so we also should fulfill those needs to feel loved .


According to the law of attraction,Likes attracts like so if you want to attract your soulmate you should be living your life to the fullest and living by your core values and meeting your needs through others and by yourself and when you do this ,you attract your soulmate in no time ,it takes a lot of work but it’s totally worth it .
if you are needy or desperate to have a relationship ,you are repelling what you want to attract ,that’s why you should get your needs met first so you are free and don’t need your partner to fulfill them
To sum it up, you should “Be” what you want to attract becoz Like attracts like and when you don’t need it ,you are most likely to attract it .I recommend this book for Everyone :)

[Beverly Ho · Rating 5 out of 5]

"I don't need this" was the first time that came to my mind when I saw this cover in the self-help section of Barnes and Noble. Just out of curiosity, I started flipping through the book to see what was it all about. Guess what? I couldn't stop reading! I, like the author, who's in her mid-thirtyish, looking to restore balance in life. The book helped me realize who I really am. I was shocked about the result of my top needs. People say most of us are acting and living someone else's life. I had to admit that I was doing that all my life until I came across this book. I bet you will find this book interesting as well! The book also provided some tools for you to fulfill your needs and be the best of yourself, so that you can attract the Mr./Mrs. Right. It can also help you restore harmony and balance with ones self, mate, family, and friends. I highly recommend it!

[Lubna Ghaznawi · Rating 4 out of 5]

I don't believe in law of attraction but I believe in what this book said. The book started with an introduction about the author, 37 years old single female who I can easily relate to then it started with deep exercises that helps you to analyze yourself and what you want. Because it was deep and I wasn't ready for it, I stopped reading it for a year. Then I decided to face myself and answer the exercises. When I did, I realized a lot and I believed in what she said about the importance of self fulfilling and not becoming a needy person. I may not agree with her recommended ways to fulfill your needs but still it helped me to gain perspective. One of my favorite parts was "true love feels like an old shoe" and it's not the relation that will sweep you off your feet.

[Anna S. · Rating 4 out of 5]

It actually differ from the secret. It's not like 'when you want something the universe will help you' stuff but somehow the other way around so that you actually attract something that you don't actually need because you already have it. It's like a mirroring process to ourselves to understand what emotional factors we lack of, so that we don't throw it to the relationship to fix. Something kind like that. I don't totally agree with her approach but. The online quiz is worth taking. It's in emotionalindex.com , just so as you know. The quiz is interesting.

" If you believe everything you read you better not read" ~Japanese proverb

[Susan · Rating 4 out of 5]

There's a lot of good things in this book. . . The main thing I learned was about boundaries, and how I haven't enforced them the way that I should. It's a pretty good read, and you learn quite a bit about yourself. . .

[Hanadi AlMarzouq · Rating 5 out of 5]

Excellent on understanding yourself more and knowing what exactly you want and need in relationships. Recommend it to anyone before any commitment or even afterwards, never too late to knowing yourself better.

[Herry · Rating 5 out of 5]

Very good guidance on what human wants for their happiness. Help us take a deeper look at the things behind what we wants, which is what we actually need.

[Tamika · Rating 5 out of 5]

A real eye opener. The assessment were the key points for me. The keys points, I always had under wants were actually needs, and this book helped me realize that.

[Fatma Magdy · Rating 5 out of 5]

معظم الناس بتوع التنميه البشرية بيقولوا ضع حدود مع الآخرين.. ماتخليش حد يخترق دايرة خصوصيتك وما شابه من الكلام ده بس وبعدين.. ايه هي بقي الحدود دي تحديدا.. مفيش.. بس احنا لازم نحط حدود.. ايه المسموح وايه اللي مش مسموح كله مش واضح.. الكتاب ده بقي بصراحه اول حاجه اقراها بتقولي الحدود اهي واحد اتنين تلاته.. ازاي كمان اطبقها.... غير طبعا قائمة الاحتياجات وأنه يفنط احتياجاتك ويخليها واضحه قدامك ويقولك ازاي تشبعها.. الكتاب عملي جدا وواضح وبيحط قوانين وقواعد مافيهاش لف ودوران

[KAREEM · Rating 2 out of 5]

في هذا الكتاب تؤكد الكاتبة على أهمية تلبية إحتياجاتنا و التمسك بقيمنا و أن نعيش الحياة التي نريد٫ بعيدًا عن المفهوم الخاطئ بإنتظار شخص يلبي كل إحتياجاتنا و رغباتنا بل الصحيح أن تلبي إحتياجاتك ورغباتك ثم ستجذب الأشخاص التي تريدهم. و تقول أن إحتياجاتنا تظهر للآخرين دون أن ننطق بها - مع أنني أود أتأكد من هذا الأمر-.

[Kelly · Rating 4 out of 5]

My therapist recommended this one for the emotional needs concepts (not necessarily the relationship attraction promise). I think the emotional needs test was really helpful and thought provoking. This book isn’t just for the hopeless relationship-seeker, but I suppose it helps with that too.

[Jaime Berryman · Rating 5 out of 5]

Fantastic book! One that is applicable to all of us, and the needs section is not only a way to identify our own needs, but also a way to identify that the needs are of other people in your life. Highly recommend!

[ايمان · Rating 4 out of 5]

كتاب مضمونه جميل يحدد لك الاربع حاجات الخاصة بك التي تحتاج أن تسدها لتصل للجاذبية التي قد تجذب لك شريك الحياة وبالنسبة للجميع قد لايكون الهدف هذا لكن جميل ان يتعرف الشخص على حاجاته النفسية الاربع ليستمتع بحياته ويعلم اين مواطن الضعف

[˗ˋˏ nikki ˎˊ˗ · Rating 4 out of 5]

RTC aka I read through it to process the content, and now actually need to do the 8-week steps. Will report back!

[Anson Tam · Rating 3 out of 5]

Top 4 needs: need for balance, accomplish, love, control

[Mayar Monged · Rating 5 out of 5]

من اعظم الكتب اللي قرأتها تقريبا
اكتر حاجة عجبتني فيه انه مش بس بيسرد المعلومة بطريقة مبسطة ويسيرة للقارئ لا دا بيدي امثلة لتجارب حقيقية حصلت مع اشخاص ويساعدك بطرق عملية تشبع احتياجك الخاص
بالإضافة انك بتعرف وتقدر ذاتك اكتر

[Thomas Victor · Rating 3 out of 5]

عندما تعيش طبقا لقيمك فانك تستمتع بوقتك ولا تشعر بالحاجه الى علاقه توفر لك السعاده والبهجه فانت بالفعل تعيش حياتك بسوره راءعه هذا ما ينص عليه مبدا الجاذبيه فعندما لا تكون بحاجه الى علاقه تجذبها

[Amirah M · Rating 2 out of 5]

عادة لا أميل لهذه النوعية من الكتب لكنها كانت توصيه لابأس بها

[Amna · Rating 4 out of 5]

Recommended book for knowing yourself and satisfying your needs then you can build your dream relationship based on your values that you have recognized within yourself.

[Alaa · Rating 4 out of 5]

very usefull