Be a Better You

by Inte, Chiara Alfonso

Life is an adventure. In order to live it to the fullest, we must embrace the power of love, honour and respect. For ourselves, and the world around us. It doesn’t require radical action or global outreach. It only requires a simple change in outlook, a new set of choices, and the willingness to empower ourselves to make a difference.By awakening the power within ourselves, we learn how to affect positive change and make the world a better place. Be a Better You is a collection of stories, observations, poems and illustrations that explores the beauty of life and the simple pleasures of happy living. It encourages self-exploration that leads to self-improvement. And it offers a new perspective into the path to a brighter and better tomorrow.

Genres: Nonfiction

Kindle Edition

Published November 30, 2015

About the author

Inte lives and works both in London and Amsterdam. He commutes frequently between the two locations and runs a business based in Amsterdam. Inte has 4 daughters who live in London. Inte has a strong passion and desire for making the world around him a better place to live in. Creativeness, innovation and determination are his drivers for getting things done. Inte has a “dry and sophisticated” humour that his daughters don’t quite understand yet, but they still laugh with him.

Reviews

[Anne · Rating 4 out of 5]

I am a great fan of self help books and having received this book from Goodreads I was really pleased. However it was not the step by step improvement book I had been expecting and at first I was disappointed especially as I didn't really appreciate the drawings on every other page. (What a misery I sound)
As I read on though I could almost feel the love that this father and daughter team had poured into this book and I came to recognise it for what it is.
This is the ideal book to keep on the bedside table and dip into each morning or evening to encourage you to face the world with optimism, positivity and gratitude-perfect!

[Laura · Rating 3 out of 5]

I got this book from goodreads giveaway.

I'm not a big fan of self help books but this one is completely different from what I've read before. It's compelling, beautifully written and inspiring. Illustrations are beautiful and really adds to the whole experience.

Overall, I would recommend this book to anyone that is looking for something to help with being more positive and grateful.

[Abby Lewis · Rating 3 out of 5]

Goodreads Giveaway Win.

Not normally one for self help books personally. But I'm glad I entered and won- a brilliant little book!

[Permittivité du Vide · Rating 2 out of 5]

Be a Better You is a collection of observations and stories, accompanied by beautiful illustrations.

While I appreciate the great thought and work that clearly went into this lovely book, I found there was nothing new for me personally to be learned here. (For example, tips like “stop. Think. Breathe” are not new to me.)

It’s an enjoyable read, different from self help books that cover similar subjects; and it has some very beautiful illustrations throughout the book.

I received this book through Goodreads giveaway

[Jim George · Rating 4 out of 5]

I loved this little book of thoughtful wisdom. Refreshing with its heartfelt honesty & simplicity.

[Kaila · Rating 3 out of 5]

Little bite-sized bits of wisdom. I like the illustrations a lot.

[Pam Mooney · Rating 4 out of 5]

A wonderful, thought provoking book. I loved the stories and topics that, as intended, allowed me to relate to each topic. A book that will be easy for me to re-read to reinforce my favorite topics. Great size for a take a long to read wherever you are taking a break. Inspiring, beautifully illustrated, and a good read.

[Mary · Rating 5 out of 5]

Kept my interest throughout

[Susan · Rating 5 out of 5]

I thought that this book was very inspirational and that the writer was able to convey the positive message without any doubt at all. I have actually read this 3 times and each time something different is happening in my life and I have come away feeling better about myself as well as getting a new message each time. I cannot say that I have ever read a book like this one before. I certainly recommend it to anyone who feels the need to improve on themselves even just a little.

[Monique · Rating 5 out of 5]

Life is for living.

I received a signed copy of 'Be a Better You' from Goodreads a few years ago. Inevitably; it was put on my shelf and not picked up until today. I don't normally read self help books because I tend to find them a bit dense and kinda boring. That's why I love this one. It's short and it's easy to read. I read 'Be a Better You' in less than an hour and I'll probably read it again. The messages conveyed are clear and beautiful. Thankyou, Inte. I'm glad you took your daughter's advice and wrote a book!

[iamnotabookworm · Rating 4 out of 5]

I give this book 3.5 paper cranes.

Be a Better You is a book I won in Goodreads. It 's a self-help book in finding yourself, being a better version of yourself and how to be just better in whatever aspect of your life. The things written here are not new. I'm sure, you've heard and read them already but what's different is it's given in small and very practical doses. No lengthy explanations or examples, plus really really cool artworks for each nugget of wisdom.

I think the most important nugget of wisdom that I want to share from the book is about loving one's self. I know I don't think I love myself enough. I have to remind myself that putting myself first is not wrong and loving myself is not being selfish. I think the author also agrees that this is the most important thing because he put it in the very first part of the book. It's first and foremost and above all else, because if you love yourself, then you are secure and confident in everything you do. You're sure of yourself that you don't have to feel jealous or envious of other's success or fortune. You'll feel happy for them instead. I say that I don't love myself enough because I have self-esteem issues. I grew up so shy and so unsure of myself. Being bullied didn't help too. I felt like I was an easy target for ridicule and insults. I don't know why. I mostly keep to myself. I have friends but only later in life did I really get to understand what real friends are. Real friends make you feel better about yourself. They help you be better and accept you no matter who you are. There are no conditions. They love you for all the good and the faults and through the happy days and the difficult ones. That's why, I don't exactly spend much on material things but rather on experiences. I wanted to be enriched by traveling and meeting new people. Reading helps a lot too. Clothes and jewelry does not make a person but kindness, humility, integrity and respect for others do. So, here is the quote:


Therefore the most important thing about love is that you love yourself. Why is it important to love yourself, because once you love yourself you know what love is and then you know how to love others.



To love yourself is to learn to be happy with yourself and let the inner energy within yourself shine and radiate out.

Like the above quote says, if you are happy, you mostly likely want people around you to be happy. Misery loves company. If you are miserable, almost often, you would want people around you to be miserable as well. Most of the time, more miserable than you are. That's why some people would try so hard to pull people down with them because they are so unhappy. Seeing people happy is an eyesore to them.

Be a Better You is a very concise and easy to read book. It's very handy and very practical. It doesn't talk of very technical concepts. It is a very good guide to living everyday life and how to be a better person each day. Lastly, I do agree with what the author says about having things to live by, mainly principles to follow. This is very basic and as you try to follow each principle everyday, it will be so ingrained in you that it would be second-nature.

So, with that said, I give this book 3.5 paper cranes. Why paper cranes? Because the cover is that of an origami crane. I know of a story wherein if you make a thousand paper cranes, whatever you wish for will come true. I think this story also symbolizes what this book stands for. That if you practice to be better everyday, then nothing is going to stop you from achieving your goals, reaching your dreams and be the best of what you can be. No one becomes a champion overnight. Constant practice is the key. Practice makes perfect. Everything good and fulfilling comes with hard work.

Thanks again, Inte and Chiara Alfonso and Goodreads for the book.

[Nhan le · Rating 5 out of 5]

It's an interesting book that I have read so far. The writting style is enjoyable and easy to read. The illustrations come with the book is also good. I have not finished the book but I'm lucky to have it.

[Evelyn · Rating 5 out of 5]

I was very excited to receive this book through Goodreads Giveaways.
Be a Better You is an uplifting and thought provoking book filled with short stories with beautiful illustrations. I thoroughly enjoyed reading them and admiring the drawings that went with each story. They really made me think and gave me advice which will be very useful to becoming a better me. I'm very happy to have this book in my collection as it will give me many years of inspiration and wisdom. Thank you very much to the authors for this incredible gift!

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I am a beginner. I would like to start reading a useful book to improve myself on the reading skill and get more life experience. Moreover, I had some problem with my brain. I want to read the book that make more encouragement to myself to become a strong people.

[Spencer · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wow, what a great read! I’m impressed by the amount of valuable information that is packed neatly into this little book. This book offers tips that if circulated to everyone, could make our world better and more enjoyable. Would highly recommend to others!

[Muhamaddy El yahya · Rating 2 out of 5]

I think this book will help me to understand my self better