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The Upside of Being an Introvert
By some estimates, 30% of all people fall on the introvert end of the temperament spectrum. From classrooms built around group learning to open-plan offices that encourage endless meetings, it sometimes seems that the 21st century is designed for the extroverted.
This TIME Spotlight Story explores the Upside of Being an Introvert.
This TIME Spotlight Story explores the Upside of Being an Introvert.
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18 pages, Kindle Edition
Published December 23, 2015
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June 4, 2016
Being an introvert
This article is very informative to help you understand the fundamental differences between an introvert and an extrovert. It explains the reasons for an introvert's typical behavior and their tendencies. It also helps people understand such traits are not flaws, rather they are strengths. These traits are viewed as flaws because we live in a society that enthrones the extrovert and looks down on the introvert, failing to recognize their many contributions. If you are an introvert, read it so you can understand yourself better and value who you are more accurately.
This article is very informative to help you understand the fundamental differences between an introvert and an extrovert. It explains the reasons for an introvert's typical behavior and their tendencies. It also helps people understand such traits are not flaws, rather they are strengths. These traits are viewed as flaws because we live in a society that enthrones the extrovert and looks down on the introvert, failing to recognize their many contributions. If you are an introvert, read it so you can understand yourself better and value who you are more accurately.
January 4, 2016
Interesting Read
This was a very interesting story!! Full of great statistics and numbers. Being an introvert myself, it was comforting reading that there are other people like me. I hate feeling like a weirdo when I need to recuperate after certain social situations. It was also inspiring to know that there are people who work around their introversion & that it's possible to do so myself. Fantastic read!!
This was a very interesting story!! Full of great statistics and numbers. Being an introvert myself, it was comforting reading that there are other people like me. I hate feeling like a weirdo when I need to recuperate after certain social situations. It was also inspiring to know that there are people who work around their introversion & that it's possible to do so myself. Fantastic read!!
June 29, 2016
"Introverts live in an extrovert's world, and there are days when we'd prefer to do nothing more than stay at home. But while our temperaments may defines us, that doesn't mean we're controlled by them--if we can find something or someone that motivates us to push beyond the boundaries of our nerves. I'm happy to be an introvert, but that's not all I am."
February 7, 2016
"But while our temperaments may define us, that doesn't mean that we're controlled by then- if we can find something or someone that motivates us to push beyond the boundaries of our nerves. I'm happy to be an introvert, but that's not all I am"
Hope to be like him.
Hope to be like him.
March 29, 2016
Interesting Article
Very informative article on introverts. Characteristics well noted as I could relate to many of them. Surprised to learn of the various people that fall under this category. Good quick read.
Very informative article on introverts. Characteristics well noted as I could relate to many of them. Surprised to learn of the various people that fall under this category. Good quick read.
May 29, 2017
Very powerful eye opener and by giving benchmarks. It helps charting a comfortable life in turbulent extraverts world
It provided a strong validation to the way I managed my life of 83 years
I believe it will turn out to be useful for many others
It provided a strong validation to the way I managed my life of 83 years
I believe it will turn out to be useful for many others
August 8, 2016
LOOKING IN THE REARVIEW MIRROR
Reading this short work I experienced an erie feeling that I was reading the history of my own life as an introvert.
Unable to speak until eight years old, I learned to listen and observe. Obviously keen on communications and art I became an art director and creative group head in an a large successful advertising agency.
Resourceful and innovative brought me many unsung successes. I was too shy to present my work to clients and relied on account executives to present my concepts. But I didn't receive the recognition for my innovative thinking.
Stalled in my chosen career I closely studied my peers, those who gained the accolades and recognition for what was mostly pedestrian work. They were in general garrulous and forceful in their interactions with their peers and in client presentations. I knew I had to change, and selected a humorous, quick talking, glib young guy, who on a dime could instantly zing out one-liners and off the cuff remarks without the slightest hesitation. He became my role model.
I forced myself to adopt his mannerisms and delivery and incorporated against my nature as my own. As fate would have it, that to all outward appearances is the persona I became.
Under this charade I operated successfully for a life time of success. Fortunately, in my old age I was able to return to the genuine original introverted me.
Reading this short work I experienced an erie feeling that I was reading the history of my own life as an introvert.
Unable to speak until eight years old, I learned to listen and observe. Obviously keen on communications and art I became an art director and creative group head in an a large successful advertising agency.
Resourceful and innovative brought me many unsung successes. I was too shy to present my work to clients and relied on account executives to present my concepts. But I didn't receive the recognition for my innovative thinking.
Stalled in my chosen career I closely studied my peers, those who gained the accolades and recognition for what was mostly pedestrian work. They were in general garrulous and forceful in their interactions with their peers and in client presentations. I knew I had to change, and selected a humorous, quick talking, glib young guy, who on a dime could instantly zing out one-liners and off the cuff remarks without the slightest hesitation. He became my role model.
I forced myself to adopt his mannerisms and delivery and incorporated against my nature as my own. As fate would have it, that to all outward appearances is the persona I became.
Under this charade I operated successfully for a life time of success. Fortunately, in my old age I was able to return to the genuine original introverted me.
February 7, 2016
Quick read
Wonderful quick read on the importance of the introvert personality in this world, and how some of our great influencers and leaders of the world are introverts. Children should not be force into an extroverted personality, the author shows us that this trait in in born and tradition.all American schools do not account for this . I am an introvert and remember several times my mother being told by teachers that my introversion is a problem to be addressed. Luckily my parents didn't agree and did not see it as a problem. I do have to fake it to make it, as mentioned in the article. Very interesting that a lot of us can turn it on to get what we want. Thank you for the article!
Wonderful quick read on the importance of the introvert personality in this world, and how some of our great influencers and leaders of the world are introverts. Children should not be force into an extroverted personality, the author shows us that this trait in in born and tradition.all American schools do not account for this . I am an introvert and remember several times my mother being told by teachers that my introversion is a problem to be addressed. Luckily my parents didn't agree and did not see it as a problem. I do have to fake it to make it, as mentioned in the article. Very interesting that a lot of us can turn it on to get what we want. Thank you for the article!
March 4, 2016
Thoughts provoking
Great explanation for introverts and extroverts, out temperament may be inherited and hard to change. In this loud-speaking society, the importance of listening and being more observing before leaping could be neglected.
Good read for thinking about which part of the spectrum you fell in, and how are you going to leverage the advantage as well as finding a balance between your inherited temperament and your ideogenic identity!
Great explanation for introverts and extroverts, out temperament may be inherited and hard to change. In this loud-speaking society, the importance of listening and being more observing before leaping could be neglected.
Good read for thinking about which part of the spectrum you fell in, and how are you going to leverage the advantage as well as finding a balance between your inherited temperament and your ideogenic identity!
March 28, 2016
This is an interesting introduction to introversion if you're new to the topic, but it just scratches the surface. Having already read Susan Cain's fantastic book, Quiet, nothing in this article was new to me, nor was it particularly deep. However, I think it is a very good read for those unfamiliar with Cain's book or with the social research behind personality types. For more information, though, I definitely suggest reading a book like Quiet.
March 25, 2016
Interesting
Consider myself an introvert and yes it seems I mainly socialize at work only because its part of good customer service. Sometimes people try and make me feel bad for being a homebody but as I get older others opinions don't matter so much or at all. Good read for those would want insight on themselves,coworkers or friends
Consider myself an introvert and yes it seems I mainly socialize at work only because its part of good customer service. Sometimes people try and make me feel bad for being a homebody but as I get older others opinions don't matter so much or at all. Good read for those would want insight on themselves,coworkers or friends
May 5, 2016
A well written article from the perspective of an introvert.
This article really does introverts justice through the use of personal stories and research findings. It is a good, quick read for those who'd like some insight on introverts or would like to be praised instead of rejected because of their introverted tendencies.
This article really does introverts justice through the use of personal stories and research findings. It is a good, quick read for those who'd like some insight on introverts or would like to be praised instead of rejected because of their introverted tendencies.
May 10, 2016
Introverts Make Powerful Leaders
Not everyone has a clear understanding of the gifts associated with being an introvert. As leaders the introvert is more able and actually prefers to empower and foster independence in those they lead. This article made this important point so perfectly.
Not everyone has a clear understanding of the gifts associated with being an introvert. As leaders the introvert is more able and actually prefers to empower and foster independence in those they lead. This article made this important point so perfectly.
August 23, 2016
Meh...
Maybe it's just me, but there's much more downside of being an introvert. Maybe this should have been titled "what extroverts wouldn't guess about introverts." Yes we are sometimes good at stuff usually thought of as domain of extroverts. But where's the upside of being marginalized, ostracized, estranged, or ignored for being introverted?
Maybe it's just me, but there's much more downside of being an introvert. Maybe this should have been titled "what extroverts wouldn't guess about introverts." Yes we are sometimes good at stuff usually thought of as domain of extroverts. But where's the upside of being marginalized, ostracized, estranged, or ignored for being introverted?
January 12, 2016
A good quick read
I would recommend this book to people who want a further understanding as to how and why introverts lean more towards being alone and how it can actually be a good thing. I didn't like how it dragged on about president Obama though..
I would recommend this book to people who want a further understanding as to how and why introverts lean more towards being alone and how it can actually be a good thing. I didn't like how it dragged on about president Obama though..
January 29, 2016
Being an introvert
Being an introvert myself, this article gives good insight on the benefits of being introverted. It discusses the pros and cons of our nature and how we fit into society.
Being an introvert myself, this article gives good insight on the benefits of being introverted. It discusses the pros and cons of our nature and how we fit into society.
February 1, 2016
It,s me!
Thank you for such verification. As an ex librarian and indeed a bathroom inhabitant I do have a high intellect and enjoy limited numbers of associates who are also of the same ilk. People who indulge in gales of senseless laughter really depress me.
Thank you for such verification. As an ex librarian and indeed a bathroom inhabitant I do have a high intellect and enjoy limited numbers of associates who are also of the same ilk. People who indulge in gales of senseless laughter really depress me.
February 25, 2016
Something to think about
I agree with this. I am/was a shy introvert. My children are introverts with strong personalities. Cautious in large gatherings ( myself would avoid). Having children made me less timid. Not wanting them to be anxious.
I agree with this. I am/was a shy introvert. My children are introverts with strong personalities. Cautious in large gatherings ( myself would avoid). Having children made me less timid. Not wanting them to be anxious.
February 29, 2016
Well written but lacking new information
The article is well written and flows from point to point. However, there was not much new information that has not been pointed out in previous years.
The article is well written and flows from point to point. However, there was not much new information that has not been pointed out in previous years.
March 4, 2016
Short and wonderfully written. It covers most of the common traits and feelings
Short and wonderfully written. It covers most of the common traits and feelings. I found this a very enjoyable read.
Short and wonderfully written. It covers most of the common traits and feelings. I found this a very enjoyable read.
March 24, 2016
Not just for introverts
Written and concluded from the POV of an introvert, this is a short and concise piece on differences between varying personalities. It's a work commute's length of a read to understand yourself and the people around you
Written and concluded from the POV of an introvert, this is a short and concise piece on differences between varying personalities. It's a work commute's length of a read to understand yourself and the people around you
April 24, 2016
Interesting
Interesting short read. Wish it was a little longer. Looking at the good side of being a introvert. I've always thought I was a Extrovert, but I realize I am a introvert.
Interesting short read. Wish it was a little longer. Looking at the good side of being a introvert. I've always thought I was a Extrovert, but I realize I am a introvert.
May 7, 2016
Makes you think
I think the article and the referenced research have it right about innovation needing introverts to consider risks as well as rewards. Inspires further research on this topic.
I think the article and the referenced research have it right about innovation needing introverts to consider risks as well as rewards. Inspires further research on this topic.
July 24, 2016
Decent. Kind of.
Sweeping generalizations fed from common misconceptions about introverts run rampant in this article. Wouldn't recommend reading this unless you're looking for a reason to dislike introverts.
Sweeping generalizations fed from common misconceptions about introverts run rampant in this article. Wouldn't recommend reading this unless you're looking for a reason to dislike introverts.
October 2, 2016
Very good wrap-up of what being an introvert is like
The author has a very good understanding about the differences between being shy and being introvert. I like very much the Cain's references and examples.
The author has a very good understanding about the differences between being shy and being introvert. I like very much the Cain's references and examples.
October 17, 2016
I really enjoyed this work. It can be daunting to live in a society constantly trying to change you. This book aids in helping the introvert to feel relieved and proud of their introversion. It's a feel good and informative read.
January 5, 2016
KU read
It was a good perspective on being an introvert. Sometimes you need a moment of silence in a world that is constantly screaming.
It was a good perspective on being an introvert. Sometimes you need a moment of silence in a world that is constantly screaming.
January 10, 2016
Good basic synopsis
Not much new information to this article, but it is a good description of introverts in general. Well written and concise.
Not much new information to this article, but it is a good description of introverts in general. Well written and concise.
January 10, 2016
Interesting insight
Piece really resonated with me. Good examples to help explain the concepts. Have me lots to think about while making me more aware of my own predilections.
Piece really resonated with me. Good examples to help explain the concepts. Have me lots to think about while making me more aware of my own predilections.
January 18, 2016
Interesting
This barely scratches the surface in introversion. However it makes several good poo points and is well worth the 15 minutes it takes to read
This barely scratches the surface in introversion. However it makes several good poo points and is well worth the 15 minutes it takes to read
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