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Sexting: The Grownup's Little Book of Sex Tips for Getting Dirty Digitally
Times have changed, and so have the rules. Modern grownups need a sex-positive guide to communicating digitally with their lover, and sex guru Tina Horn is here to help you with you swipe right, sext like a pro, and take superb selfies.
How frequently should you text a friend with benefits? When is it okay to send someone a nude pic? Modern sex is full of confusing questions that Dear Abby never had to deal with. But don't lose hope if you're feeling confused about erotic the Sex Rules series is here to answer all the little questions about how to handle sexual situations--even the ones you didn't know you had.
Sexting covers all types of digital flirting. Sexy texts require timing and style, while erotic pictures and steamy selfies may reqiure caution about the cloud. White-hot videos can take you from FaceTime to Oh-FaceTime if you know what you're doing.
Learn the dos and don's for when, how, and what to include in a great sexting session and turn your phone into a hot sexting machine!
"Tina Horn transmutes experiences most people have never had into tasty brain candy and challenging, informative walks on the wild side. I'd trust this writer to take me pretty much anywhere." - Carol Queen, PhD, Author, Real Live Nude Girl and The Leather Daddy and the Femme
"Tina Horn is a compelling public speaker and ingenious educator. Her writing on BDSM and sex worker rights explores some of the most important social issues of our time. In her writing and on her podcast, she manages to make complex issues accessible without dumbing anything down. Having worked with her at several sexuality conferences, I can attest that she is as professional as she is original. " - Tristan Taormino, author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Womenand Opening Up, host of Sex Out Loud on The VoiceAmerica Talk Radio Network, founder and producer of The Feminist Porn Conference
"Tina Horn reverently unearths the details of the lives of the sex workers she profiles, revealing fetishes, passions, kinks and quirks from an insider perspective. She showcases the artistry inherent in their jobs, lives and sexuality, and by doing so, opens up these underground worlds to curious readers." - Rachel Kramer Bussel, author of Sex & Cupcakes, editor of The Big Book of Orgasms
How frequently should you text a friend with benefits? When is it okay to send someone a nude pic? Modern sex is full of confusing questions that Dear Abby never had to deal with. But don't lose hope if you're feeling confused about erotic the Sex Rules series is here to answer all the little questions about how to handle sexual situations--even the ones you didn't know you had.
Sexting covers all types of digital flirting. Sexy texts require timing and style, while erotic pictures and steamy selfies may reqiure caution about the cloud. White-hot videos can take you from FaceTime to Oh-FaceTime if you know what you're doing.
Learn the dos and don's for when, how, and what to include in a great sexting session and turn your phone into a hot sexting machine!
"Tina Horn transmutes experiences most people have never had into tasty brain candy and challenging, informative walks on the wild side. I'd trust this writer to take me pretty much anywhere." - Carol Queen, PhD, Author, Real Live Nude Girl and The Leather Daddy and the Femme
"Tina Horn is a compelling public speaker and ingenious educator. Her writing on BDSM and sex worker rights explores some of the most important social issues of our time. In her writing and on her podcast, she manages to make complex issues accessible without dumbing anything down. Having worked with her at several sexuality conferences, I can attest that she is as professional as she is original. " - Tristan Taormino, author of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Womenand Opening Up, host of Sex Out Loud on The VoiceAmerica Talk Radio Network, founder and producer of The Feminist Porn Conference
"Tina Horn reverently unearths the details of the lives of the sex workers she profiles, revealing fetishes, passions, kinks and quirks from an insider perspective. She showcases the artistry inherent in their jobs, lives and sexuality, and by doing so, opens up these underground worlds to curious readers." - Rachel Kramer Bussel, author of Sex & Cupcakes, editor of The Big Book of Orgasms
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128 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 1, 2016
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About the author
Tina Horn
26 books128 followersTina Horn is a writer, teacher, and media-maker. She produces and hosts the sexuality podcast Why Are People Into That?!. Her first book, Love Not Given Lightly, is a collection of nonfiction stories about sex workers; she has also been published in Vice, Nerve, Girl Sex 101, and Best Sex Writing 2015. Tina’s workshops on dirty talk, sex worker self care, and spanking have been featured at Good Vibrations, Armory Studios, Lesbian Sex Mafia, International Ms Leather, the New School, and the Feminist Porn Conference. She is a LAMBDA Literary Fellow, has won two Feminist Porn Awards, and holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction Writing from Sarah Lawrence. Born in Northern California, Tina now lives in Manhattan.
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June 27, 2018
DIRTY TALK FILL-IN-THE-BLANKS, a quiz
1. Hyperbolic Compliment:
That was the best ___ I’ve ever had!
Example: That was the best foot worship I’ve ever had!
2. Compliment:
I really love the way you ___ your ___all over my ___.
3. Asking for what you want:
Please ___ my ___ like you did last night.
4. Guidance:
If you keep ___ like that, I’m gonna ___ so ___.
5. Identity:
Yeah you like it when I ___ you, don’t you, you little ___?
6. Order:
I want you to come over and ___ your ___, ___ ___ on my ___.
7. Praise:
You look so ___ tonight, it makes me wanna ___ you all over.
Example: You look so delicious tonight, it makes me wanna bite you all over.
8. Seduction:
I’m going to ___ you and ___ you until you ___.
9. Domination and Submission:
Please may I have permission to ___ your ___, honorarium?
Example: Please may I have permission to lick your boots, Ma’am?
10. Arousal:
It makes me ___ to watch you ___.
What I liked about the book - it was well written and very short and somewhat amusing.
What I didn't like about the book - it was rubbish which is why I liked it being very short.
It might have been a good guide for someone very young just starting to sext but what are the very young and ignorant doing sexting anyway? The rest of us might have problems of being too inhibited to write extremely rude stuff, but we would know what to write!
A tip. If you are going to sext and there is even the slightest chance of someone picking up your phone and seeing it, or you don't 100% trust your partner, get Telegram. It's the same as Whatsapp but you can make messages and pics disappear when you want (1 second to 1 year) and it also stops screen shots.
1. Hyperbolic Compliment:
That was the best ___ I’ve ever had!
Example: That was the best foot worship I’ve ever had!
2. Compliment:
I really love the way you ___ your ___all over my ___.
3. Asking for what you want:
Please ___ my ___ like you did last night.
4. Guidance:
If you keep ___ like that, I’m gonna ___ so ___.
5. Identity:
Yeah you like it when I ___ you, don’t you, you little ___?
6. Order:
I want you to come over and ___ your ___, ___ ___ on my ___.
7. Praise:
You look so ___ tonight, it makes me wanna ___ you all over.
Example: You look so delicious tonight, it makes me wanna bite you all over.
8. Seduction:
I’m going to ___ you and ___ you until you ___.
9. Domination and Submission:
Please may I have permission to ___ your ___, honorarium?
Example: Please may I have permission to lick your boots, Ma’am?
10. Arousal:
It makes me ___ to watch you ___.
What I liked about the book - it was well written and very short and somewhat amusing.
What I didn't like about the book - it was rubbish which is why I liked it being very short.
It might have been a good guide for someone very young just starting to sext but what are the very young and ignorant doing sexting anyway? The rest of us might have problems of being too inhibited to write extremely rude stuff, but we would know what to write!
A tip. If you are going to sext and there is even the slightest chance of someone picking up your phone and seeing it, or you don't 100% trust your partner, get Telegram. It's the same as Whatsapp but you can make messages and pics disappear when you want (1 second to 1 year) and it also stops screen shots.
February 8, 2024
Me gusta el abordaje con perspectiva de género, además de analizar los temas desde la diversidad. Erotiza el consentimiento y promueve claves para el cuidado de los vínculos.
July 16, 2023
She captures the subject in a sensitive and naughty way. The subject is far from being as easy as it first appears. Especially if you really want to give useful advice.
She draws attention to pitfalls, but also inspires and tempts you to sin.
July 21, 2018
Look. You are going to send those risky texts anyway. Might as well craft them to be near irresistible no?
February 12, 2025
Saw this on suggested reading section of Georgie Wolf's book. It was a good fun read. Could be a little detailed on the chat stuff but still, a fun read.
June 20, 2025
sigo sin follar
September 16, 2025
First chapters good. Everything else is incredibly tone deaf
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