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Nice Guys And Players: Becoming The Man Women Want
Are you a nice guy constantly passed over by women? Are you a player who can get every woman except the one you love? THIS BOOK IS FOR YOU!!! Learn the secret to attracting women. Find out why women pass over nice guys and go for players. Discover the physical and personality traits women find attractive. Learn the methods to generate sexual chemistry. FOR MEN LOOKING FOR FULFILLING RELATIONSHIPS AND THE WOMEN WHO LOVE THEM.
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86 pages, Kindle Edition
Published June 22, 2015
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December 11, 2019
"Nice Guys and Players" is a short but sweet look into what certain types of men are doing right and wrong in the dating realm. Its content is very strong and practical. Willis looks into several categories of men (such as the "nice guy," the "real man," and "Mr. Goodbar," and breaks down the strengths and shortcomings of each.
This strategy is effective because it helps any man realize where he stands in life / how he is seen in the eyes of women. Since the tips and insights that Willis provides for each category of man are pretty spot on, this strategy helps any man realize what he needs to improve upon in order to have better luck in the dating world.
I found all of Willis' advice to be not only pretty spot on, but also down to earth and practical. Everything he writes makes a good amount of sense and is hard to argue with. For example, he says that women have both physical and emotional needs, and each category of man satisfies or doesn't satisfy these needs in a specific fashion (based on the category).
Finding ways to improve one's personality and approach, then, is how each category of man can up his dating game and have better success with women. Willis spells out these possible improvements, specific to each category of man, in the book. I found it quite helpful.
I would give this one five stars, but I found that it was riddled with basic editing issues (lack of commas, wrong words used at times, spelling errors, etc). If the author were to correct these issues, I'd be happy to bump my rating up to five stars. Either way, I think you'll still enjoy reading this one.
-Brian Sachetta
Author of "Get Out of Your Head"
This strategy is effective because it helps any man realize where he stands in life / how he is seen in the eyes of women. Since the tips and insights that Willis provides for each category of man are pretty spot on, this strategy helps any man realize what he needs to improve upon in order to have better luck in the dating world.
I found all of Willis' advice to be not only pretty spot on, but also down to earth and practical. Everything he writes makes a good amount of sense and is hard to argue with. For example, he says that women have both physical and emotional needs, and each category of man satisfies or doesn't satisfy these needs in a specific fashion (based on the category).
Finding ways to improve one's personality and approach, then, is how each category of man can up his dating game and have better success with women. Willis spells out these possible improvements, specific to each category of man, in the book. I found it quite helpful.
I would give this one five stars, but I found that it was riddled with basic editing issues (lack of commas, wrong words used at times, spelling errors, etc). If the author were to correct these issues, I'd be happy to bump my rating up to five stars. Either way, I think you'll still enjoy reading this one.
-Brian Sachetta
Author of "Get Out of Your Head"
September 14, 2020
Great Book that every man should have in his library.
Nice Guys and Players is a deeply, compelling book that would require for each man to look deep within to find himself and his purpose on earth. It's not simply a book about getting woman but finding valuing in oneself to be able to bring about a difference within the world that we live in. Highly recommended book to be taught to the younger generation who are greatly influenced by hip hop culture, which has lead our young people astray from purpose and value of self.
Nice Guys and Players is a deeply, compelling book that would require for each man to look deep within to find himself and his purpose on earth. It's not simply a book about getting woman but finding valuing in oneself to be able to bring about a difference within the world that we live in. Highly recommended book to be taught to the younger generation who are greatly influenced by hip hop culture, which has lead our young people astray from purpose and value of self.
March 10, 2020
This book is one of the best I've ever read it is having a tremendous impack I will continue to read this book and apply lessons unit I become a real man thanks Rom I appreciate you peace and blessings.
5 stars because I learned how to be a real man and the ture nature of women though reading this book.
5 stars because I learned how to be a real man and the ture nature of women though reading this book.
June 3, 2020
A Game changer
Gave me a new perspective especially the ending pages.... although I will seek to find my own way. I will be taking page from page from this book Ian’s use my knowledge of the world to grow. This book is timeless. If you are thinking about getting it just do it. I don’t even like reading but I found myself finishing this book in a week. Your welcome
Gave me a new perspective especially the ending pages.... although I will seek to find my own way. I will be taking page from page from this book Ian’s use my knowledge of the world to grow. This book is timeless. If you are thinking about getting it just do it. I don’t even like reading but I found myself finishing this book in a week. Your welcome
February 4, 2021
Amazing book
I've been following Rom on YouTube for over a year and this was my first book 📖 that I've read. What I like is that he doesn't complain or bash women, he makes you look in the mirror and see your flaws and be a man and correct those flaws so you can get the woman that you want.
I've been following Rom on YouTube for over a year and this was my first book 📖 that I've read. What I like is that he doesn't complain or bash women, he makes you look in the mirror and see your flaws and be a man and correct those flaws so you can get the woman that you want.
March 29, 2021
Just another PUA...
He does not consider the absolute risks that men are dealing with today as far as feminism and the metoo movement are concerned. Men have either to be absolutely certain that they will succeed with women 100% or to simply go Mgtow monk and improve their lives that way.
He does not consider the absolute risks that men are dealing with today as far as feminism and the metoo movement are concerned. Men have either to be absolutely certain that they will succeed with women 100% or to simply go Mgtow monk and improve their lives that way.
May 11, 2017
Excellent read
Great for the man trying to better himself as relationship quality. Gives examples of the typical types of men and positive qualities they all exhibit.
Great for the man trying to better himself as relationship quality. Gives examples of the typical types of men and positive qualities they all exhibit.
June 7, 2019
Great book
It one for history books every man should read this 3xatleast i always get some knowledge on women and the game itself
It one for history books every man should read this 3xatleast i always get some knowledge on women and the game itself
October 21, 2019
True To The Core
Very inspirational going to read again, more men need to read this book including BLACK MEN. This will change your life
Very inspirational going to read again, more men need to read this book including BLACK MEN. This will change your life
January 2, 2020
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Very Good Book that is very informative to help someone develop into their natural essence as a man that they are destined to be.
Very Good Book that is very informative to help someone develop into their natural essence as a man that they are destined to be.
April 5, 2020
Great read. Very informative.
Great book with very good information. Definitely worth a second read. If you are a man looking to elevate this is the book for you.
Great book with very good information. Definitely worth a second read. If you are a man looking to elevate this is the book for you.
May 29, 2021
Coming from a Good Bar-Amazing!!!
Must read for every man. Even those of us who've had alot of women and still do. Rom is incredibltly valuable. Thank you!
Must read for every man. Even those of us who've had alot of women and still do. Rom is incredibltly valuable. Thank you!
May 3, 2022
interesting
I like reading these books for different perspectives. One thing I really like Rom mentioned men seem to forget women choose the men and a lot of men waste their time chasing women who are not interested in them.
I like reading these books for different perspectives. One thing I really like Rom mentioned men seem to forget women choose the men and a lot of men waste their time chasing women who are not interested in them.
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August 12, 2022Men should read this book.
May 17, 2023
A good, short read on a subject too important to ignore
February 10, 2017
Straight forward and no BS
I have read a some popular dating books from people like Coach Corey Wayne, Zan Perrion, "Models", and famous ones like that, but I could relate to any of those people for some reason. This book talks to me. It recommends no tricks whatsoever. It is nice and clear. I feel like a big part of my war is over.
I have read a some popular dating books from people like Coach Corey Wayne, Zan Perrion, "Models", and famous ones like that, but I could relate to any of those people for some reason. This book talks to me. It recommends no tricks whatsoever. It is nice and clear. I feel like a big part of my war is over.
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