Finished reading Leaders Don’t Command—and it quietly reshaped how I think about leadership.
One line sums it up perfectly:
👉 Leaders don’t force action. They create the conditions for commitment.
What stood out to me is how much leadership is really about emotion. People don’t follow titles—they follow trust. They don’t resist change—they resist fear, uncertainty, and being excluded from meaning.
Some takeaways that hit close to home:
Authority can make people act, but only trust makes them care
Leadership starts with regulating yourself before trying to influence others
Vision isn’t what you say—it’s what people feel when they work with you
The fastest way to break a system is to lead with ego instead of purpose
This book mirrors what I’ve seen across teams and transformations: when leaders stop commanding and start listening, alignment replaces resistance.
If you’re leading people through uncertainty (or change), this is a worthwhile read.