Oh, no, not this one too
Another cute story ruined by a sex how-to manual - pages of it - & speaking as a retired nurse, a very, VERY unrealistic sex manual, one that zmakes the Kama Sutra look easy.
The story starts out simply enough. A family where the husband & wife were also a singing act (her) & a manager (him). Then the wife gets pregnant & not only does she have what is medically known as hyoeremesis gravidarum (colloquially known as barfing your guts up almost nonstop throughout a pregnancy), which wreaks havoc with throats for singers, & is not at all appetizing to bar patrons should the nausea & barfing recur mid-act. No, she also ends up having to go on bedrest - all just as her career was picking up momentum. The momentum was never regained, which made the unresolved postpaetum depression a lot worse. Two more girls were born, each one at 2 year intervals, while the entire family moved around trying to help the mother make the big time in country music. But they always seemed to end up back in their father's home town for the school year, & their uncle did all he could to help their father let the girls be girls. Eventually, since the oldest one, the protagonist, Adele, hung around her mom more while her sisters were daddy's girls, she picked up a lot about music, songwriting, fixing songs to make them more likely to sell, & she became their general fixer-upper - from bike tires to sink clogs to leaky faucets to swing installations, & it only got nore pronounced with the advent of so many how-to videos on YouTube. The niddle girl was the one with the best voice, & the youngest was just as happy building sets as performing. They lost their mom to cancer when the eldest was 16. The book hints that in her memory, they started performing professionally rather than just at family get togethers or school functions. They becane famous & were finally touring on their own, not as warm ups for more famous groups or solo artists. Their dad had managed everything...then, the night of the first concert, he had dropped dead. The eldest felt that they should perform because their dad would have wanted that since he had arranged the tour. The others disagreed, because they were all grieving & in shock, but they finally capitulated...but the younger 2 couldn't go theough with it. The group broke up 11 years befire the events in the book. Their uncle, who owned the saloon, the hotel, a restaurant, & a to-go coffee stand, had waited for then to come home, but no one knew where Adele's 2 sisters were, & she had been off grid when her uncle died, & by the time she had gotten her messages, her uncle had been buried. His bartender wanted to buy the saloon, the only thing still left open as fire & storms had destroyed the hotel, & the coffee bar & the diner had too many things break & not enough income for repairs.
Nate, the bartender, grew up taking care of his alcoholic mother. He enjoys helping people, & despite a degree in social work, spends his time doing that through the saloon & his local contacts, such as will have him considering who his mom was. He has a deep connection to the place. What even Adele doesn't realize is, so does she. She goes from wanting to sell & get out of there to resume her career as a songwriter & as someone who polishes the songs others write. It tales her a while to realize she is home now. It also takes her & Nate forever to realize they're in love.
And I think the sex thing just complicates this. It is far too easy to confuse love & lust, or to feel they can't coexist, when you don't fall into the sack with each other. It's even harder to figure out when you cave to the lust before you have sorted out all your feelings. It ia patently untrue that sex clarifies compatibility & love when people are sorting out an abundance of new feelings at the same time. But of course, there is generalky no greater example of fantasy novels than an oversexed romance novel that puts physiologically impossible expectations on the male of the species, written out the same, almost word for word, in every romance novel I pick up where it seems like there is no warning that the novel contains very explicit (& explicitly impossible) sex scenes.
BTW, I read a book of 3 short stories based in the same locale, in which was included a link to this one. While sex before marriage was a theme in all 3 of the short stories in the book, not one of those authors seemed to feel it necessary to detail the sex act. They left it to our imaginations, noting in passing that their sex life was great, or the best of multiple encounters, bypassing the fantasy impossible sex. I falsely believed this book would be similar to the 3 short stories, but I was mistaken. Perhaps they were short only because those scenes were eliminated? Sex is not difficult to figure out. If it were, the idiots couldn't figure it out, they wouldn't be as likely to procreate, & I'd venture to say at least half of the accidents on the road wouldn't happen.