Combining a controversial romantic philosophy with the practical wisdom and day-to-day psychological strategies that have always been Sills' trademark, Biting the Apple shows all women--married or single, searching for love or yearning to rediscover it--where they are going next and how to get there. (Self-help)
Media psychologist, keynoter and workplace consultant, Judith Sills, Ph.D, is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller, Excess Baggage: Getting Out of Your Own Way, a clear guide to your own personality pitfalls and a road map for steering around those of your staff and colleagues. She is author of five other popular psychology books which have been translated into 11 languages and is a widely cited expert and nationally recognized consultant in the business of relationships.
Dr. Sills is the contributing editor for the workplace at Psychology Today, where she writes a regular column, which has been quoted in both The Wall Street Journal and the NY Times. In addition, her work has been cited in, among others, US News and World Report, Time, and The Washington Post, as well as on CNN and MSNBC. Dr. Sills is also a regular contributor to the TODAY SHOW, as well as a frequent guest expert on other national radio and television platforms.
A three year National Science Foundation Fellow, Judith Sills received her Ph.D. from the Graduate Faculty of the New School for Social Research in personality and social psychology. She is licensed in Pennsylvania, where she maintains a private consultation practice. From her base in Philadelphia, Dr. Sills travels nationally to address groups across a wide range of industries, teaching a sophisticated skills set with one aim: to make your work less work.
This book is one of the best self-help books I've ever read. The advice is easy to follow and actually useful! I can honestly say that my feelings of frustration in nearly ALL my relationships have eased a great deal after reading this book. The premise is that since you can't change anyone but yourself, and nagging only destroys relationships that you have to learn new ways of dealing with issues in relationships. I've known for a long time that you really can't change anyone but yourself, but this book showed me how to change my thinking and behaviors so that I don't feel crazy! Although it's written for people in romantic relationships, I highly recommend it for anyone with a husband/boyfriend, a child, a friend or parents! I read this twice (once 12 years ago) and took this long for it to sink in. :)