This book is frustrating in that Foster poses great points about structural inequalities that hamper women's economic progress but demonizes Sandberg for focusing on "women's self-defeatism." Foster covers some topics well: "pink collar" jobs that require undervalued emotional work; "zero-hours" service-industry contracts, in which a worker's hours can be reduced to zero but not qualify for unemployment; why "trickle-down feminism" doesn't work (minority leaders are less likely to hire other minorities and are perceived as weaker when they do). But frustratingly, the title, first several chapters, and the conclusion read like a personal attack on Sandberg for writing about women's attitudes in the workplace but not solving problems of reproductive rights, housing access, childcare, and economic inequality. (As if Sandberg were oblivious to these issues, when in reality she's outspoken about them.) Foster writes, "Sheryl Sandberg has worked for companies that are entrenching and worsening equality, but is able to cast herself as a feminist prophet because she has the money, power, and platform to do so, all the while refusing to engage with the structural and external forces perpetuating women's inequality, instead urging women to look inward." Framing Sandberg as oblivious and a corporate oppressor makes a good prop for selling books, but this book would have been stronger if it had simply focused on the structural issues and data behind them. And used fewer gerunds.