When Victims Marry

by Don Frank, Jan Frank

Book by Frank, Don, Frank, Jan

207 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 1990

Reviews

[Anthony Carfagno]

This was a Spiritually & emotionally EYE opening read.

If it’s NOT TO LATE, & BOTH PARTIES are STILL WILLING, to WORK THINGS (HURTS) OUT???

I HIGHLY RECOMMEND this READ!

Also NOTE: It is imperative that you have a RELATIONSHIP with Christ for these “suggestions” to work.

[Rachelklara of YHVH]

Repairing the foundation~
Step 1: Face the Problem
Step 2: Recount the Incident
Step 3: Experience the Feelings~ Feelings do not age.
Step 4: Establish Responsibility
Step 5: Trace Behavioral Difficulties/Symptoms~ Face, trace & erase & REPLACE
Step 6: Observe Others/Educate Yourself
Step 7: Confront the Aggressor
Step 8: Acknowledge Forgiveness
Step 9: Rebuild Self-Image & Relationships
Step 10: Express Concern/Empathize with Others~ "It is the work that God does through us that counts, not what we do for Him" Oswald Chambers. Isaiah 58:12.
Tearing Down the Walls of Division~
Step 1: Recognize
Sep 2: Communicate
Step 3: Determine the Source~ Ezekiel 13:14
Dwelling in Unity~
Understanding:
Nourishing: "In a healthy relationship, each person is bonded by desire & not out of neediness. Therefore, each is in the process of becoming more or less whole. Two whole people who guard each others wholeness come together & grow because of the guardianship of the other." John Bradshaw
Environment of encouragement & enthusiasm.
Intercession:
Trust: Truth. Credibility. Sensitivity.
Yourself:

[Julia Cooper]

Easy read, but very similar to The Door of Hope.