Repairing the foundation~ Step 1: Face the Problem Step 2: Recount the Incident Step 3: Experience the Feelings~ Feelings do not age. Step 4: Establish Responsibility Step 5: Trace Behavioral Difficulties/Symptoms~ Face, trace & erase & REPLACE Step 6: Observe Others/Educate Yourself Step 7: Confront the Aggressor Step 8: Acknowledge Forgiveness Step 9: Rebuild Self-Image & Relationships Step 10: Express Concern/Empathize with Others~ "It is the work that God does through us that counts, not what we do for Him" Oswald Chambers. Isaiah 58:12. Tearing Down the Walls of Division~ Step 1: Recognize Sep 2: Communicate Step 3: Determine the Source~ Ezekiel 13:14 Dwelling in Unity~ Understanding: Nourishing: "In a healthy relationship, each person is bonded by desire & not out of neediness. Therefore, each is in the process of becoming more or less whole. Two whole people who guard each others wholeness come together & grow because of the guardianship of the other." John Bradshaw Environment of encouragement & enthusiasm. Intercession: Trust: Truth. Credibility. Sensitivity. Yourself: