this is an important text on both an academic's love of foucault and foucault's articulation of 'friendship as a way of life' and what i would say, following foucault, a queer aesthetics-as-ethics of existence, as a way of stitching together a 'queer life,' which is also an artful, aesthetic life. this is not just a text on an important thinker (both foucault and halprin), but also an important text on the importance of thinking, writing, living, learning, and being-with/for others, other-wise.
i decided to re-read this text while reading halprin's new text: How to Be Gay -- which is how one may variously become (which does not end) queer. indeed, being gay (or, better, queer) is NOT isomorphic with having same-sex eroticisms, desires, or performing acts.
haprin is an important figure in the thinking of sexuality and gender -- for over 20+ years now.