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What The Flower Says of Death
Violet Holt has already met Death once.
After a failed suicide attempt, she finds herself dumped by her callous mother on the doorstep of her family’s desolate oceanside estate. With only the company of her estranged grandmother, comatose grandfather, and the monsters in her head, at least there was no one to interfere with her plans to try again on her eighteenth birthday.
No one, except maybe Jack: a skeleton of a boy who says he’s there to rake her grandmother’s leaves, yet seems more experienced at stalking than grounds-keeping. She knows he’s keeping a secret behind his gentle smiles and aloofness, but it’s difficult for Violet to be put off by his untimely thin-air appearances when figuring out the mystery of his true identity makes for such a good distraction.
Violet’s trauma is deeper than the wound on her wrist though, and it cannot be simply whisked away in a whirlwind of guessing games and pleasant gestures. She struggles to reconnect with her grandmother, find forgiveness for her mother, and closure with her grandfather’s dire condition, all while battling the strain of it all on her family. Even with a flicker of something hopeful blossoming within herself, Violet knows her birthday plans must be inevitable.
Death wouldn’t be there for her if it wasn’t.
After a failed suicide attempt, she finds herself dumped by her callous mother on the doorstep of her family’s desolate oceanside estate. With only the company of her estranged grandmother, comatose grandfather, and the monsters in her head, at least there was no one to interfere with her plans to try again on her eighteenth birthday.
No one, except maybe Jack: a skeleton of a boy who says he’s there to rake her grandmother’s leaves, yet seems more experienced at stalking than grounds-keeping. She knows he’s keeping a secret behind his gentle smiles and aloofness, but it’s difficult for Violet to be put off by his untimely thin-air appearances when figuring out the mystery of his true identity makes for such a good distraction.
Violet’s trauma is deeper than the wound on her wrist though, and it cannot be simply whisked away in a whirlwind of guessing games and pleasant gestures. She struggles to reconnect with her grandmother, find forgiveness for her mother, and closure with her grandfather’s dire condition, all while battling the strain of it all on her family. Even with a flicker of something hopeful blossoming within herself, Violet knows her birthday plans must be inevitable.
Death wouldn’t be there for her if it wasn’t.
330 pages, Paperback
First published September 25, 2018
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Danielle Koste
2 books46 followersDanielle Koste is a born and raised Canadian, but currently lives with her significant other in the equally snowy and cold Stockholm, Sweden. While working a day job and learning the language of the locals, she spends her free time honing the craft she's always had a passion for.
When procrastinating, Danielle likes to enjoy other forms of rich story-telling, besides the obvious abundance of novels filling up her apartment and Kindle. Movies, music, and video games are among her favorite time-wasters.
When procrastinating, Danielle likes to enjoy other forms of rich story-telling, besides the obvious abundance of novels filling up her apartment and Kindle. Movies, music, and video games are among her favorite time-wasters.
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September 8, 2018
Title: What The Flower Says Of Death
Author: Danielle Koste
This book was slightly nerve wracking to read. Right after the death of my grandfather, this book didn't seem like the best decision but there was something irresistible about the book.
Having read Danielle Koste's previous book Pulse (Review)before, which FYI left me slightly shocked hahaha, I was looking forward to reading this book. I can now say that this book, What The Flower Says Of Death is beautiful.
Now, I understand that some people would consider the theme of this book rather morbid as it touches many taboo topics such a suicide, death, mental health but surprisingly Danielle Koste was able to write this book in such a way that It gave a lingering flicker of hope even in times of darkness.
Jack and Violet's story is pure and beautiful. I admit, there were moments that were painful to read. But....Just like Death, there is something enticing and alluring about this book. And just like life, this book makes you want to fight for the living.
There is magic in Danielle Koste's words. Her words though simple, is poetic. Each word a footprint into an overwhelming crescendo that leaves you heartbroken yet hopeful.
Honestly speaking, this book is tragic. Tragically beautiful. And in the end, What The Flower Says Of Death will leave you with a pleasant, almost bitter sweet ending.
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January 15, 2025
What The Flower Says of Death delves into themes of love and loss in an absolutely magical way. The author was able to pack a punch and create a heartbreakingly real read while also being caring and considerate about the subjects she was broaching. The pacing was slow but I was never bored and I think it was because the book followed such a deeply emotional rooted plot.
It is a very character focussed story, so if that's something you don't enjoy you might not love this, but I honestly can't imagine anyone not taking something away from this book. The characters felt overwhelmingly realistic and that made the book even more thought provoking. Violet was so relatable.
'Every single star is significant, because it's each one that helps make the sky so overwhelmingly grand.'
I adored Danielle Koste's writing. Within the first couple of pages I had fell in love. It was eerily lyrical and so real. There are so many amazing sentences that I can't get out of my head. The words were chosen and put together so perfectly.
The only thing that irritated me a little, was the skipping over of some of the time. The instances where the protagonist talks about what happened instead of actually seeing those moments unfold, did make the relationship development feel slightly rushed. I would have specifically liked to see more build up concerning the romance. It was right on the tip of being incredible, there was just something holding me back from getting fully invested in it. I think the main reason was the fact that it felt too short and I just wanted more from these characters.
'I was playing a dangerous game with my dark thoughts, my dangerous lover.'
One of my favourite things was the way the book focussed so much on the familial relationships. The way it subtly followed three generations of women in Violet's family and how it portrayed the message of how you can't always judge a person by what actions they take. Sometimes it's hard to look past our own struggles and see the reasons for why someone feels or acts the way they do.
In addition the mental health representation is one of the most realistic I've read about before in any book, I absolutely love how well done it was. As someone who often deals with anxiety I understand how little worries can build up and become an overwhelming barrier that seems impossible to pass. I connected so much to story and it made me feel so many things. But the most important thing of all was that it didn't make me feel bad at all. Following Violet through her struggles was almost empowering.
It was such a powerfully emotional read, and I was so drained by the time I got to the end of this book. The plot, and characters, and atmosphere that Koste created was perfect. I was completely consumed by the story. I honestly can't believe how immersed I felt while reading it.
I've already pre-ordered a physical copy and can't wait to get a hold of it. I'll definitely be re-reading this book in the future! This is a story I would highly recommend!
Trigger warnings: This book frequently references suicide and death.
*I was sent an e-arc in exchange for an honest review.
It is a very character focussed story, so if that's something you don't enjoy you might not love this, but I honestly can't imagine anyone not taking something away from this book. The characters felt overwhelmingly realistic and that made the book even more thought provoking. Violet was so relatable.
'Every single star is significant, because it's each one that helps make the sky so overwhelmingly grand.'
I adored Danielle Koste's writing. Within the first couple of pages I had fell in love. It was eerily lyrical and so real. There are so many amazing sentences that I can't get out of my head. The words were chosen and put together so perfectly.
The only thing that irritated me a little, was the skipping over of some of the time. The instances where the protagonist talks about what happened instead of actually seeing those moments unfold, did make the relationship development feel slightly rushed. I would have specifically liked to see more build up concerning the romance. It was right on the tip of being incredible, there was just something holding me back from getting fully invested in it. I think the main reason was the fact that it felt too short and I just wanted more from these characters.
'I was playing a dangerous game with my dark thoughts, my dangerous lover.'
One of my favourite things was the way the book focussed so much on the familial relationships. The way it subtly followed three generations of women in Violet's family and how it portrayed the message of how you can't always judge a person by what actions they take. Sometimes it's hard to look past our own struggles and see the reasons for why someone feels or acts the way they do.
In addition the mental health representation is one of the most realistic I've read about before in any book, I absolutely love how well done it was. As someone who often deals with anxiety I understand how little worries can build up and become an overwhelming barrier that seems impossible to pass. I connected so much to story and it made me feel so many things. But the most important thing of all was that it didn't make me feel bad at all. Following Violet through her struggles was almost empowering.
It was such a powerfully emotional read, and I was so drained by the time I got to the end of this book. The plot, and characters, and atmosphere that Koste created was perfect. I was completely consumed by the story. I honestly can't believe how immersed I felt while reading it.
I've already pre-ordered a physical copy and can't wait to get a hold of it. I'll definitely be re-reading this book in the future! This is a story I would highly recommend!
Trigger warnings: This book frequently references suicide and death.
*I was sent an e-arc in exchange for an honest review.
September 1, 2018
I’m done! I will now forever and perpetually read only this one book and nothing else. OK, I am being dramatic but just prepare yourself for another round of Liz does crazy in love with a book! There was lots and lots of crying in my soul and through my eyes.
!TW!: Theme of suicide, death, depression… If these are your triggers, then take care because you will witness death, there’s no two ways about it.
There are books that gradually grow on us and there are books that sate your soul into oblivion from the first page. What The Flower Says of Death is one of those latter kind for me… I knew from the very first few pages that this was going to knock my socks off and me into an incoherently mumbling mess… This book will take your emotions and rip them into teeny-tiny little pieces. Not in an entirely morbid kind of way, because there’s hope and love and forgiving and letting go and moving on. But in a way that just leaves you… in bits and maybe even a bit healed, but still maybe a bit frustrated, yet satisfied. Yeah, all of it! Ha!
I love how the setting in this book is quite nature-centred. Raking leaves, walks in the forest, in the snow, looking for flowers- simply adore it! I love that it’s not set in the jungle of a high-school where girls have pissing contests around who’s prettiest, I love that this book is not set in a healthcare setting. Violet’s grandmother’s house and the aura surrounding it amplified the story tenfold!
As is typical of well-written, multi-layered stories, there isn’t much by way of plot I can really tell you that you didn’t already gather from the blurb. But there are a few things I can tell you about…
Without giving away any surprise moments, otherwise known as spoilers, I want to take my hat off to Danielle for tackling this serious and heavy topic of rejection, depression, suicide and death in a way that she has. There is no glamorizing, there is only the steady and persistent yet not an overbearing method of showing the beauty of life. Simple as that. Yes, there is love in this book, but it’s innocent and pure, supportive and engaging. So, as such, love does not heal as if by magic. It can only be with the support of love that there is a potential for a soul in pain to focus on other than only suffering, to see past the distractions to the root of the darkness. Danielle explored this specific dynamic beautifully.
The writing style. Lordy, lordy, lord! That prose! I knew I was going to love reading this book only a couple of pages in. The way all these words – from dialogue and people to places – were set in order, was like inky, precious gold to a bookworm’s delight. Well, for me anyway. I loved every word- I especially and truly enjoyed the descriptions of places and how emotions (sad and joyful) were put across. My Kindle copy of the book has about million highlights where I have notes the words ‘gasp’ or ‘ahh, my heart!’, or ‘beautiful!’… There were so many moments Danielle described in perfection which were breath-taking.
And then, there are the characters… Violet, her mother and grandmother, Violet’s grandfather, and Jack.
We get to know Violet- a 17 year old young woman who has been weighted down by years of selfish neglect by her petty mother. I instantly liked her. Even with her sadness, she felt strong to me. Yes, in a way, she had given up, but at the same time she showed me that she wasn’t completely blind to the things that matter in life and I loved Violet for it. Even with her intent to die clear, she still had spark in her! Her inner battle, for multiple reasons, became a constant, unwaivering undercurrent to this book but it was all the more powerful for it.
And then there’s Jack! The one that will make you want to grab the nearest person and hug them. Jack, who wears only black and looks like a tree branch with his skinny limbs and shaggy hair. Jack, who just injects so much light into the dark. Jack, a solid constant as he continues to surprise Violet with his special brand of encouragement and zero judgement. Jack, with a fantastic sense of humour… Jack who always offered insight in the most quintessential manner- never cheesy, never cringey. What a classy guy!
So, together Violet and Jack stand, against time… You’ll meet death like you’ve never imagined death to be.
A few final things of note….
Even though there is a considerable amount of toe-curling, cute love and intimate closeness in this book, there is NO sex! This made me happy, happy, happy!
The secondary story arc involving Violet, her mother and her grandmother was a very, very good character study with all 3 women are involved by an invisible string through generations. A very important aspect involving Violet’s journey here. She has a LOT to process in an already ‘filled up to the brim’ daily quota of revelations and truths and emotions.
There were some very important messages I picked up whilst reading this book… One: When already feeling down, it is easy to feed Depression with worries, anixeties even though we have no control over those thoughts. And before we notice it, we’re at the very bottom of the Pit of Misery. It is these times that a friend can help, to help pull us back up, to shoe that perhaps there is another angle… Two: Life will always be about sacrifices where beauty and pain alternate, where there is never the perfect scenario for everyone involved. It’s about making the best decision for our very selves sometimes, it is our right to be happy after all!
Reading this book made me thaw… After I witnessed all the pain, I was offered a dose of bittersweet-pretty in this book. And some light-hearted banter. And tons and tons of love! And a few kisses. It helped me reflect on the things that are beautiful in life, reminded me that I need to slow down and allow myself to feel just that extra bit more to grasp life to its fullest. Because even though there will always be pain, there will also always be joy.
!TW!: Theme of suicide, death, depression… If these are your triggers, then take care because you will witness death, there’s no two ways about it.
I was playing a dangerous game with my dark thoughts, my dangerous lover.
There are books that gradually grow on us and there are books that sate your soul into oblivion from the first page. What The Flower Says of Death is one of those latter kind for me… I knew from the very first few pages that this was going to knock my socks off and me into an incoherently mumbling mess… This book will take your emotions and rip them into teeny-tiny little pieces. Not in an entirely morbid kind of way, because there’s hope and love and forgiving and letting go and moving on. But in a way that just leaves you… in bits and maybe even a bit healed, but still maybe a bit frustrated, yet satisfied. Yeah, all of it! Ha!
Being in nature always helped me calm down. In the city, the brick walls seemed to close in on me like a cell. Sometimes all the noise helped; it drowned some things out, but more often than note, it just made the bad things even louder.
I love how the setting in this book is quite nature-centred. Raking leaves, walks in the forest, in the snow, looking for flowers- simply adore it! I love that it’s not set in the jungle of a high-school where girls have pissing contests around who’s prettiest, I love that this book is not set in a healthcare setting. Violet’s grandmother’s house and the aura surrounding it amplified the story tenfold!
As is typical of well-written, multi-layered stories, there isn’t much by way of plot I can really tell you that you didn’t already gather from the blurb. But there are a few things I can tell you about…
Every single star is significant, because it’s each one that helps make the sky so overwhelmingly grand.
Without giving away any surprise moments, otherwise known as spoilers, I want to take my hat off to Danielle for tackling this serious and heavy topic of rejection, depression, suicide and death in a way that she has. There is no glamorizing, there is only the steady and persistent yet not an overbearing method of showing the beauty of life. Simple as that. Yes, there is love in this book, but it’s innocent and pure, supportive and engaging. So, as such, love does not heal as if by magic. It can only be with the support of love that there is a potential for a soul in pain to focus on other than only suffering, to see past the distractions to the root of the darkness. Danielle explored this specific dynamic beautifully.
The writing style. Lordy, lordy, lord! That prose! I knew I was going to love reading this book only a couple of pages in. The way all these words – from dialogue and people to places – were set in order, was like inky, precious gold to a bookworm’s delight. Well, for me anyway. I loved every word- I especially and truly enjoyed the descriptions of places and how emotions (sad and joyful) were put across. My Kindle copy of the book has about million highlights where I have notes the words ‘gasp’ or ‘ahh, my heart!’, or ‘beautiful!’… There were so many moments Danielle described in perfection which were breath-taking.
I stepped closed to the egde, leaning over to watch the dark waves crash against the rocks, violent lovers battering each other in their passion, the way my heart always pounded aganst my ribs until they were both bruised.
And then, there are the characters… Violet, her mother and grandmother, Violet’s grandfather, and Jack.
We get to know Violet- a 17 year old young woman who has been weighted down by years of selfish neglect by her petty mother. I instantly liked her. Even with her sadness, she felt strong to me. Yes, in a way, she had given up, but at the same time she showed me that she wasn’t completely blind to the things that matter in life and I loved Violet for it. Even with her intent to die clear, she still had spark in her! Her inner battle, for multiple reasons, became a constant, unwaivering undercurrent to this book but it was all the more powerful for it.
And then there’s Jack! The one that will make you want to grab the nearest person and hug them. Jack, who wears only black and looks like a tree branch with his skinny limbs and shaggy hair. Jack, who just injects so much light into the dark. Jack, a solid constant as he continues to surprise Violet with his special brand of encouragement and zero judgement. Jack, with a fantastic sense of humour… Jack who always offered insight in the most quintessential manner- never cheesy, never cringey. What a classy guy!
So, together Violet and Jack stand, against time… You’ll meet death like you’ve never imagined death to be.
To know how fleeting this moment is, it hurts in the most beautiful way.
A few final things of note….
Even though there is a considerable amount of toe-curling, cute love and intimate closeness in this book, there is NO sex! This made me happy, happy, happy!
The secondary story arc involving Violet, her mother and her grandmother was a very, very good character study with all 3 women are involved by an invisible string through generations. A very important aspect involving Violet’s journey here. She has a LOT to process in an already ‘filled up to the brim’ daily quota of revelations and truths and emotions.
There were some very important messages I picked up whilst reading this book… One: When already feeling down, it is easy to feed Depression with worries, anixeties even though we have no control over those thoughts. And before we notice it, we’re at the very bottom of the Pit of Misery. It is these times that a friend can help, to help pull us back up, to shoe that perhaps there is another angle… Two: Life will always be about sacrifices where beauty and pain alternate, where there is never the perfect scenario for everyone involved. It’s about making the best decision for our very selves sometimes, it is our right to be happy after all!
Reading this book made me thaw… After I witnessed all the pain, I was offered a dose of bittersweet-pretty in this book. And some light-hearted banter. And tons and tons of love! And a few kisses. It helped me reflect on the things that are beautiful in life, reminded me that I need to slow down and allow myself to feel just that extra bit more to grasp life to its fullest. Because even though there will always be pain, there will also always be joy.
August 29, 2018
I received an e-ARC from the author in exchange for an honest review. Review and blog tour can be found on *Milky Way of Books*
Violet is sent away by her mother to her grandparents' estate after her failed suicide attempt. With her grandfather sick and he relationship with both her mother and grandmother estranged, Violet feels that everything is hopeless...until Jack.
Mysterious Jack who mostly prefers to stalk her and seems to know more about her than Violet thinks. And while she thinks more and more about the abyss, there is also a hope for more. The book is quite dark and deals with depression. Yet, there is a beauty in the dark writing and the thoughts of Violet who just wants understanding and feels lonely.
There are some things I didn't expect to read and surprised me, so I won't spoil for you. But Jack gave me vibes like Brad Pitt in the movie "Meet Joe Black". And honestly, I cried very much.
Violet is sent away by her mother to her grandparents' estate after her failed suicide attempt. With her grandfather sick and he relationship with both her mother and grandmother estranged, Violet feels that everything is hopeless...until Jack.
Mysterious Jack who mostly prefers to stalk her and seems to know more about her than Violet thinks. And while she thinks more and more about the abyss, there is also a hope for more. The book is quite dark and deals with depression. Yet, there is a beauty in the dark writing and the thoughts of Violet who just wants understanding and feels lonely.
There are some things I didn't expect to read and surprised me, so I won't spoil for you. But Jack gave me vibes like Brad Pitt in the movie "Meet Joe Black". And honestly, I cried very much.
September 25, 2018
Mental health, family drama and suicide were the strong themes in this book. Violet survived after a failed suicide attempt but still wants to try again and do it right this time. She created a bucket list and once everything's ticked off, she'll make another attempt to end her life.
While she's recovering at her grandmother's house, she met a mysterious boy named Jack. They slowly became friends and later became lovers. But she knew that there was something different about Jack and she does her best to find out what he's trying to hide.
This book was beautifully written. I loved how Danielle Koste gave an almost poetic style in this book. She took such heavy themes and made it easy to connect with the characters. The ending was bittersweet and I just wish that there's a sequel for this book!! A painfully beautiful read!
Thanks to the author for providing me an e-arc of this in exchange for an honest review.
"You wouldn't notice if a handful disappeared, or if hundreds or thousands disappeared, but suddenly the constellations are no longer complete, and there are blank spaces, and the masterpiece slowly becomes as dull as a light polluted city sky. Every single star is significant, because it's each one that helps make the sky so overwhelmingly grand."
"If I can't change your mind, I'd at least like to know your last days, however many you have left, are all as beautiful as they deserve to be."
"I was prepared for pain; I was always prepared for pain. It was happiness I never expected, and it was happiness that hurt the most sometimes."
Soundtrack: Please Stay by Francois Klark
While she's recovering at her grandmother's house, she met a mysterious boy named Jack. They slowly became friends and later became lovers. But she knew that there was something different about Jack and she does her best to find out what he's trying to hide.
This book was beautifully written. I loved how Danielle Koste gave an almost poetic style in this book. She took such heavy themes and made it easy to connect with the characters. The ending was bittersweet and I just wish that there's a sequel for this book!! A painfully beautiful read!
Thanks to the author for providing me an e-arc of this in exchange for an honest review.
"You wouldn't notice if a handful disappeared, or if hundreds or thousands disappeared, but suddenly the constellations are no longer complete, and there are blank spaces, and the masterpiece slowly becomes as dull as a light polluted city sky. Every single star is significant, because it's each one that helps make the sky so overwhelmingly grand."
"If I can't change your mind, I'd at least like to know your last days, however many you have left, are all as beautiful as they deserve to be."
"I was prepared for pain; I was always prepared for pain. It was happiness I never expected, and it was happiness that hurt the most sometimes."
Soundtrack: Please Stay by Francois Klark
August 31, 2018
I wrote a much longer and in depth review of this on my blog - Random Melon Reads!
I received a copy of this from the author, Danielle Koste. My thanks to the Danielle for this opportunity. These are my honest thoughts of the book.
This is a wonderful story that explores themes of love, loss, and forgiveness. It has an excellent mental health rep focussed on depression, anxiety and suicide. The main characters are very real and relatable. I fell in love with Jack, and I think most people will. The supporting characters play their role very well. Koste doesn’t fall into the trap of adding people in a story for the sake of it. Each character plays a part and is there to progress the story forward.
There is a lovely comfy feel to this, but with moments of heartbreaking sharpness. The contrast and dynamics of the story play out really well. The story is slow and settled where it needs to be, and then builds tension where necessary in order to stop the reader getting bored or too comfortable.
Overall, I absolutely loved this. The story deals with deep, real, ugly situations without ever becoming trivial and offensive. If you want to read an easy heartwarming coming of age story of love and loss, then this can fill that need. But if you are looking for something a little more; a story of human nature, love, anger, forgiveness and life, with important and thought provoking themes, then this can also do that. It’s a story that gives back the more you put in to it. This was definitely one of my favourite reads of the year. An author to watch. Even greater things are coming from Danielle, mark my words. Also, that ending… well, let’s not spoil anything, but I am an emotional mess right now! I cried so much! It’s great!
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I received a copy of this from the author, Danielle Koste. My thanks to the Danielle for this opportunity. These are my honest thoughts of the book.
This is a wonderful story that explores themes of love, loss, and forgiveness. It has an excellent mental health rep focussed on depression, anxiety and suicide. The main characters are very real and relatable. I fell in love with Jack, and I think most people will. The supporting characters play their role very well. Koste doesn’t fall into the trap of adding people in a story for the sake of it. Each character plays a part and is there to progress the story forward.
There is a lovely comfy feel to this, but with moments of heartbreaking sharpness. The contrast and dynamics of the story play out really well. The story is slow and settled where it needs to be, and then builds tension where necessary in order to stop the reader getting bored or too comfortable.
Overall, I absolutely loved this. The story deals with deep, real, ugly situations without ever becoming trivial and offensive. If you want to read an easy heartwarming coming of age story of love and loss, then this can fill that need. But if you are looking for something a little more; a story of human nature, love, anger, forgiveness and life, with important and thought provoking themes, then this can also do that. It’s a story that gives back the more you put in to it. This was definitely one of my favourite reads of the year. An author to watch. Even greater things are coming from Danielle, mark my words. Also, that ending… well, let’s not spoil anything, but I am an emotional mess right now! I cried so much! It’s great!
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October 9, 2018
4.5 stars
I first had the privilege of reading "What the Flower Says of Death" a few years ago via Wattpad. Since then, I've been eagerly awaiting the day that Miss Koste would release it into the publishing world.
Having the opportunity to read this book again after all this time was like revisiting old friends; that's how much of a mark Violet and Jack left on me. Though I didn't remember everything, I found a lot of things coming back to me as I read, and I had the joy of experiencing those remembered scenes in a sort of dual sense: one, by being revisited by the exact feelings I had the first time around, and two, by seeing everything--the characters, their individual struggles and flaws, etc.--with new, more experienced eyes. For example, I found myself less angry with Violet's mom this time around than last time, though I still held a certain measure of irritation toward her earlier attitude in the story; something of a, "I don't condemn, but nor do I condone" feeling.
WtFSoD is very much a character-driven story. Not only because Violet narrates it, but because every character was layered and had issues both inside and outside of the plot--and the supporting characters didn't feel like they existed to orbit Violet. They all felt very real, but of course, the main characters are the ones I found most interesting, especially given the amount of growth Violet experiences throughout the story.
I feel WtFSoD touched on suicide and depression very tastefully, not romanticizing it in the least. The story was very raw, very open and honest about the complex feelings and events that can lead to thoughts of suicide, and how people deal with the subject--both with Violet and the aftermath of her failed attempt, and how it impacted her, and of course, how it impacted her mother and grandmother.
I especially liked the progression of the story, in how Jack helps Violet come to terms with so many of her issues, both personal and familial, and how Violet becomes stronger, thanks to his kindness, but also because she has so much untapped potential within her.
I don't want to delve too much deeper, for fear of spoilers. All I will say is, I really, truly loved this story the first time, and I find it every bit as beautiful and bittersweet this time around, too. A wonderful read, and one I hope to revisit many times in the future.
I first had the privilege of reading "What the Flower Says of Death" a few years ago via Wattpad. Since then, I've been eagerly awaiting the day that Miss Koste would release it into the publishing world.
Having the opportunity to read this book again after all this time was like revisiting old friends; that's how much of a mark Violet and Jack left on me. Though I didn't remember everything, I found a lot of things coming back to me as I read, and I had the joy of experiencing those remembered scenes in a sort of dual sense: one, by being revisited by the exact feelings I had the first time around, and two, by seeing everything--the characters, their individual struggles and flaws, etc.--with new, more experienced eyes. For example, I found myself less angry with Violet's mom this time around than last time, though I still held a certain measure of irritation toward her earlier attitude in the story; something of a, "I don't condemn, but nor do I condone" feeling.
WtFSoD is very much a character-driven story. Not only because Violet narrates it, but because every character was layered and had issues both inside and outside of the plot--and the supporting characters didn't feel like they existed to orbit Violet. They all felt very real, but of course, the main characters are the ones I found most interesting, especially given the amount of growth Violet experiences throughout the story.
I feel WtFSoD touched on suicide and depression very tastefully, not romanticizing it in the least. The story was very raw, very open and honest about the complex feelings and events that can lead to thoughts of suicide, and how people deal with the subject--both with Violet and the aftermath of her failed attempt, and how it impacted her, and of course, how it impacted her mother and grandmother.
I especially liked the progression of the story, in how Jack helps Violet come to terms with so many of her issues, both personal and familial, and how Violet becomes stronger, thanks to his kindness, but also because she has so much untapped potential within her.
I don't want to delve too much deeper, for fear of spoilers. All I will say is, I really, truly loved this story the first time, and I find it every bit as beautiful and bittersweet this time around, too. A wonderful read, and one I hope to revisit many times in the future.
November 29, 2018
This book hit home. Seriously. I think many people can relate to Violet and her hardships with depression, anxiety and family. It got kinda intense at times, and I cried. A lot. This is certainly a sobering book with all of the real world problems. The characters I liked. Violet's mother reminds me a lot of my dad in which he suffocates me, and hardly ever listens, so I related to her in that case. And her grandmother. Wow. She I love. She is so strong and she deals with things without taking harassment about her husband from her daughter. And there's Jack. He is everything Violet deserves. He and I both see her worth and he makes Violet see. At times though, I feel like Violet went Bella (Twilight) on Jack. I get thats what she sees love at, but at times it became too much.
Overall, this is a beautifully written novel. In the end, it made me appreciate life a little more, and to love my family, and definitely not take anything for granted.
Overall, this is a beautifully written novel. In the end, it made me appreciate life a little more, and to love my family, and definitely not take anything for granted.
January 5, 2019
This is easily one of my favorite books (top 5) it's so different than others I have read and it was hard not to love the characters.
Semi spoiler so dont read ahead if you dont want that
The ending...I normally hate sad endings but it couldnt end any other way so I still cant say enough about how much I loved this
Semi spoiler so dont read ahead if you dont want that
The ending...I normally hate sad endings but it couldnt end any other way so I still cant say enough about how much I loved this
February 10, 2020
*This book was sent to me for review purposes by the author. All thoughts are my own.
I went into What the Flower Says of Death totally blind to this author’s writing style. This can be a dangerous or wonderful thing. There’s always the risk of hating the story or how the author writes but thankfully, that was not the case here. I am in love with What the Flower Says of Death.
I read this book in one day and had tears dripping down my face for the majority of it; I mean that in the best possible way. It does need to be noted that this book deals with some very heavy topics like suicide, death of a loved one and intense anxiety. This might not be the best read for those in a fragile state of mind. I loved so much about this book that I need a bullet list to organize it all so here we go:
This book does have a romance in it (like most YA) but it is honestly the most unique and refreshing romantic relationship I’ve read about. It is so pure and not your typical basic girl meets basic boy and they fall in love kind of story.
All of the characters are relatable and have flaws they need to work on.
The portrayal of anxiety and suicidal thoughts in this book are done respectfully and with grace.
I loved the setting and atmosphere. Violet’s home in New York is mentioned occasionally but the story takes place at her grandparent’s home and in the surrounding woods/ocean coastline. It’s a very small world, as the surrounding area is never really mentioned, but the world building is excellent and detailed.
Like with the setting, our cast of characters is also small. You really get to know and feel for every one of them because there’s not multiple characters vying for attention.
The ending was bittersweet and not necessarily what I wanted but it left a lasting impression.
I love books that make me feel something and this one definitely left me with an aching heart. It’s not forgettable in the slightest and I see myself reading it again in the future. If you like stories written with a darker tone, romance and the supernatural you NEED to read this book.
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I went into What the Flower Says of Death totally blind to this author’s writing style. This can be a dangerous or wonderful thing. There’s always the risk of hating the story or how the author writes but thankfully, that was not the case here. I am in love with What the Flower Says of Death.
I read this book in one day and had tears dripping down my face for the majority of it; I mean that in the best possible way. It does need to be noted that this book deals with some very heavy topics like suicide, death of a loved one and intense anxiety. This might not be the best read for those in a fragile state of mind. I loved so much about this book that I need a bullet list to organize it all so here we go:
This book does have a romance in it (like most YA) but it is honestly the most unique and refreshing romantic relationship I’ve read about. It is so pure and not your typical basic girl meets basic boy and they fall in love kind of story.
All of the characters are relatable and have flaws they need to work on.
The portrayal of anxiety and suicidal thoughts in this book are done respectfully and with grace.
I loved the setting and atmosphere. Violet’s home in New York is mentioned occasionally but the story takes place at her grandparent’s home and in the surrounding woods/ocean coastline. It’s a very small world, as the surrounding area is never really mentioned, but the world building is excellent and detailed.
Like with the setting, our cast of characters is also small. You really get to know and feel for every one of them because there’s not multiple characters vying for attention.
The ending was bittersweet and not necessarily what I wanted but it left a lasting impression.
I love books that make me feel something and this one definitely left me with an aching heart. It’s not forgettable in the slightest and I see myself reading it again in the future. If you like stories written with a darker tone, romance and the supernatural you NEED to read this book.
For other reviews, go to https://thebookandbeautyblog.com/
September 25, 2018
Disclaimer: I received a copy from Danielle Koste for an honest review. This doesn't affect my criticism of the book in any way. Everything I say are mine and mine alone.
You'd think that suicide plot-lines are too cliché already, but this book gave it a very special twist. Although it is extremely predictable – and let me tell you that what I predicted was on-point – I still love the book.
Character wise, they all have a very distinct aspect to them that gave them so much life. Especially Violet and her family. I love how she is easily understandable. How her struggles have an all too surreal deal to it.
Overall, I loved the book despite some of the very bland events. BUT, I do think that without them, the whole story won't progress into what it is now. I'm giving Koste a slow and standing clap. It was an awesome first read from your work.
You'd think that suicide plot-lines are too cliché already, but this book gave it a very special twist. Although it is extremely predictable – and let me tell you that what I predicted was on-point – I still love the book.
Character wise, they all have a very distinct aspect to them that gave them so much life. Especially Violet and her family. I love how she is easily understandable. How her struggles have an all too surreal deal to it.
Overall, I loved the book despite some of the very bland events. BUT, I do think that without them, the whole story won't progress into what it is now. I'm giving Koste a slow and standing clap. It was an awesome first read from your work.
August 12, 2019
An unusual, emotional novel that wasn't quite for me but will probably connect better with those who can relate better to the characters. There are complicated family relationships a la Gilmour Girls, a challenging end-of-life situation with a grandparent, a strong suicidal ideation plot (trigger warning) with (spoiler) healing and subsequent re-engagement in life, and a paranormal love interest. The main character is a teen, but the tone or viewpoint does put a bit of distance into the narration, making it more clear why this isn't classified as YA.
It kind of plays with the "young girl in love with death" trope in a unique (ahem, literal) way, but I don't feel qualified to comment on how well it dealt with its subject matter. Interesting blend of paranormal romance and literary fantasy, or maybe more of a magical realist plot?
It kind of plays with the "young girl in love with death" trope in a unique (ahem, literal) way, but I don't feel qualified to comment on how well it dealt with its subject matter. Interesting blend of paranormal romance and literary fantasy, or maybe more of a magical realist plot?
September 3, 2018
I really liked it, the storytelling and the way it was written, really sucks you in from the very first page. All the relationships, between Violet and her grandmother, Violet and her mother, just felt so real.
It did feel a little predictable in some places, I figured the twist pretty early on. But the Author wasn’t trying to hide it, hints were left here and there. Neither of those things took away from the story though.
(Disclaimer: I received a free copy from the Author. Does not affect my review)
It did feel a little predictable in some places, I figured the twist pretty early on. But the Author wasn’t trying to hide it, hints were left here and there. Neither of those things took away from the story though.
(Disclaimer: I received a free copy from the Author. Does not affect my review)
October 3, 2018
I actually thought that this is just an ordinary story but I'm wrong! The concept was so greatly thought about. I haven't read something like this before and this is not just some comment that I copied anywhere but it is seriously what I want to say.
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May 29, 2021
This was by far one of the best books I have ever read. I’ve never read a book that conveyed the inner struggles of depression and anxiety so perfectly. Although in the book Violet and Jack are romantically together, Danielle Koste does a wonderful job of portraying how simply you can just be there for someone as a friend during a panic attack or depressive state.
August 23, 2018
I'M CRYING.
FULL REVIEW UP SOON!
FULL REVIEW UP SOON!
January 11, 2019
Very good and sad at the same time. It makes you think a lot of life and people around you. In a good way!
January 9, 2019
This was a gorgeous, beautiful, emotional read.
REVIEW:
This review was originally posted on That Book Gal.
I had to really push to read this one at first. It opens right after Violet almost dies by suicide. Thus that drives the story, and she’s still grappling with the darkness and planning another attempt. It is very dark in the beginning.
However, while this book is very dark at times, it’s filled with so much light and hope. It’s honestly jaw droppingly stunning, in the way it’s written, the story it tells, and the characters that shine of the pages like stars.
I think that’s the most beautiful part of it, the overarching theme of hope and life and the beauty of everything around us. There’s such positivity and light in the story, despite the darker themes. I think I was at just the right part in my mental health journey to read this. Sooner, and I wouldn’t have been able to get through it. Later and I think it wouldn’t have affected me so deeply. This book is an amazing light in a dark world, inspiring and lovely, like a violet in the snow.
I really loved Jack’s character, the amount of depth and softness there, the respect for Violet and her family, and the grace and love he constantly showed to Violet. He was patient and understanding, which is so underrated. Such a soft boy! Ah! We honestly need more like him in YA.
While this book was almost triggering to me, that was only because I related so much to what Violet was feeling and thinking, and her anxiety attacks. There’s so many different sorts of anxiety and depression—it’s different for everyone. But I think that Violet’s was one of the most similar to mine that I’ve read. It was raw and vulnerable and honest.
As this book nearly triggered some anxiety and depression and I needed to take small breaks while reading to breathe, I think it’s important to include trigger warnings in this review. You can find the at the end in bold and red.
I truly loved Violet and Jack as a pair. They fit so well, and pushed each other, and ultimately were just an amazing OTP.
The writing in this story, and just the premise of the story reminds me so much of THE BOOK THIEF. Both THE BOOK THIEF and WHAT THE FLOWER SAYS OF DEATH are gorgeously written, with lush settings, some death, and characters that absolutely make the book. They both feature beautiful, sad, and bittersweet endings.
This book also takes on tense mother daughter relationships. It deals with forgiveness and hurt and shows that it truly is never too late to make things right.
While the ending is something that is alluded to and mentioned in the book, something you know is coming, I cannot explain how hard it hits. It’s crushing, and so sad. It’s bittersweet, in a way. I’m still reeling, and I cried for a little bit before I could even bring myself to write a review.
Overall, this beautiful, bittersweet story truly affected me with gorgeous writing, amazing characters, and a story that breathes hope and life and beauty.
REVIEW:
This review was originally posted on That Book Gal.
I had to really push to read this one at first. It opens right after Violet almost dies by suicide. Thus that drives the story, and she’s still grappling with the darkness and planning another attempt. It is very dark in the beginning.
However, while this book is very dark at times, it’s filled with so much light and hope. It’s honestly jaw droppingly stunning, in the way it’s written, the story it tells, and the characters that shine of the pages like stars.
I think that’s the most beautiful part of it, the overarching theme of hope and life and the beauty of everything around us. There’s such positivity and light in the story, despite the darker themes. I think I was at just the right part in my mental health journey to read this. Sooner, and I wouldn’t have been able to get through it. Later and I think it wouldn’t have affected me so deeply. This book is an amazing light in a dark world, inspiring and lovely, like a violet in the snow.
I really loved Jack’s character, the amount of depth and softness there, the respect for Violet and her family, and the grace and love he constantly showed to Violet. He was patient and understanding, which is so underrated. Such a soft boy! Ah! We honestly need more like him in YA.
While this book was almost triggering to me, that was only because I related so much to what Violet was feeling and thinking, and her anxiety attacks. There’s so many different sorts of anxiety and depression—it’s different for everyone. But I think that Violet’s was one of the most similar to mine that I’ve read. It was raw and vulnerable and honest.
As this book nearly triggered some anxiety and depression and I needed to take small breaks while reading to breathe, I think it’s important to include trigger warnings in this review. You can find the at the end in bold and red.
I truly loved Violet and Jack as a pair. They fit so well, and pushed each other, and ultimately were just an amazing OTP.
The writing in this story, and just the premise of the story reminds me so much of THE BOOK THIEF. Both THE BOOK THIEF and WHAT THE FLOWER SAYS OF DEATH are gorgeously written, with lush settings, some death, and characters that absolutely make the book. They both feature beautiful, sad, and bittersweet endings.
This book also takes on tense mother daughter relationships. It deals with forgiveness and hurt and shows that it truly is never too late to make things right.
While the ending is something that is alluded to and mentioned in the book, something you know is coming, I cannot explain how hard it hits. It’s crushing, and so sad. It’s bittersweet, in a way. I’m still reeling, and I cried for a little bit before I could even bring myself to write a review.
Overall, this beautiful, bittersweet story truly affected me with gorgeous writing, amazing characters, and a story that breathes hope and life and beauty.
September 25, 2019
Original review
This book was provided by the author in exchange for an honest review. Thank you Danielle Koste!
What The Flower Says of Death tells the story of Violet attempted suicide, but failed to do so. She’s struggling with her inner darkness and is being sent to her grandmother so her mother doesn’t need to deal with her anymore. Violet is still planning her next suicide in her journal, but then a boy called Jack is trying to change her mind. Will he be able to get rid of Violet’s darkness?
I knew it was morbid. I knew it was sick. I knew it was dirty and wrong and dangerous, and that’s why the journal was secret.
What The Flower Says of Death was such a dark yet beautiful book. When I started reading the first chapter, I knew that this book was going to be hard for me. This book deals with anxiety, depression, and suicide. I don’t mind reading about those things, but they do mean something to me. I think that this book is important because we need to talk about these things and get rid of the taboo!
I wished I was like the ivy, with the instinctual need to dig my roots into everything; clinging to life, solid and stable. Instead, I was more like the leaves, alone and ready to fall away at any moment.
When I finished What The Flower Says of Death I was so speechless. It was such a beautiful book and I couldn’t stop reading. I had to know what was going to happen to Violet and who Jack really was. I think that Danielle Koste did an amazing job because she made me fall in love with her story and her characters.
"If I can’t change your mind, I’d at least like to know your last days, however many you have left, are all as beautiful as they deserve to be."
I would love to read a short story about Violet and Jack, perhaps of them meeting again or perhaps of them when Jack was human and how they met. I fell in love with these characters so it’s really hard to say goodbye to them.
What The Flower Says of Death was so good and I cannot wait to read other books written by Danielle Koste!
This book was provided by the author in exchange for an honest review. Thank you Danielle Koste!
What The Flower Says of Death tells the story of Violet attempted suicide, but failed to do so. She’s struggling with her inner darkness and is being sent to her grandmother so her mother doesn’t need to deal with her anymore. Violet is still planning her next suicide in her journal, but then a boy called Jack is trying to change her mind. Will he be able to get rid of Violet’s darkness?
I knew it was morbid. I knew it was sick. I knew it was dirty and wrong and dangerous, and that’s why the journal was secret.
What The Flower Says of Death was such a dark yet beautiful book. When I started reading the first chapter, I knew that this book was going to be hard for me. This book deals with anxiety, depression, and suicide. I don’t mind reading about those things, but they do mean something to me. I think that this book is important because we need to talk about these things and get rid of the taboo!
I wished I was like the ivy, with the instinctual need to dig my roots into everything; clinging to life, solid and stable. Instead, I was more like the leaves, alone and ready to fall away at any moment.
When I finished What The Flower Says of Death I was so speechless. It was such a beautiful book and I couldn’t stop reading. I had to know what was going to happen to Violet and who Jack really was. I think that Danielle Koste did an amazing job because she made me fall in love with her story and her characters.
"If I can’t change your mind, I’d at least like to know your last days, however many you have left, are all as beautiful as they deserve to be."
I would love to read a short story about Violet and Jack, perhaps of them meeting again or perhaps of them when Jack was human and how they met. I fell in love with these characters so it’s really hard to say goodbye to them.
What The Flower Says of Death was so good and I cannot wait to read other books written by Danielle Koste!
October 9, 2019
What the Flower Says of Death doesn’t tug at your heartstrings. It forever binds them to Violet as she faces death in more ways than one. The author, Danielle Koste, masterfully intertwines pain, death, and forgiveness with hope, acceptance, and love. Violet must learn to let go of those she loves in order to really live. Past resentment and pain shackle her to an evolving plan to commit suicide on her eighteenth birthday. The breadth of letting go, overcoming family secrets, and accepting the inevitable provides healing beyond the capacity of a therapist. Jack, instrumental to Violet’s earthly existence, comforts and guides her along her journey. As her bucket list receives its checkmarks, glimmers of life seep once again into her broken soul; death puts a new perspective on dying. But choosing life will demand a price she is not ready to pay.
This is one of the most emotionally moving novels I have read in quite a while. It is an absolute page turner but not in the way one might expect. There are no secret agents devising plans. Or super-heroes saving the world. No. This novel goes beyond the surface. It reaches deep into your heart and pulls you with an incessant need to know Violet’s outcome.
A disclaimer for all future readers: TISSUES REQUIRED…MULTIPLE!!
This is one of the most emotionally moving novels I have read in quite a while. It is an absolute page turner but not in the way one might expect. There are no secret agents devising plans. Or super-heroes saving the world. No. This novel goes beyond the surface. It reaches deep into your heart and pulls you with an incessant need to know Violet’s outcome.
A disclaimer for all future readers: TISSUES REQUIRED…MULTIPLE!!
December 24, 2018
**I received a free copy from the author in exchange for an honest review
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Overall, What the Flower Says of Death by Danielle Koste is a beautiful, emotional, whirlwind story. While this book touches a very difficult topic, the writing and the story are truly exquisite. Even though this might not touch people in the same way, it can be related to everyone. The characters are engaging and are genuinely made for each other. I would like to warn people who are sensitive to the topic that the beginning is a little rough to get through but the ending is very rewarding. I highly recommend this book to all, but make sure you have a box of tissues with you!
See full review here:https://wordpress.com/posts/booksinth...
Overall, What the Flower Says of Death by Danielle Koste is a beautiful, emotional, whirlwind story. While this book touches a very difficult topic, the writing and the story are truly exquisite. Even though this might not touch people in the same way, it can be related to everyone. The characters are engaging and are genuinely made for each other. I would like to warn people who are sensitive to the topic that the beginning is a little rough to get through but the ending is very rewarding. I highly recommend this book to all, but make sure you have a box of tissues with you!
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